Infidelity Therapists in Depot Bench, Boise, ID

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Debra Marshall
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LAMFT, LMFT, CCTP
Verified Verified
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
I specialize in families/couples, and I am an Idaho-licensed LMFT and Arizona-licensed LAMFT. Often clients seek therapy because they have become stuck. Sometimes relationships begin great, but life/situations cause a change to happen. We all have personal challenges, have stressful periods, or go through traumatic times. The desire to seek help to explore and process these problems can open the door to positive growth. I believe in the healing power of relationships: no matter the wounds, if all parties are willing to heal, I will help.
I specialize in families/couples, and I am an Idaho-licensed LMFT and Arizona-licensed LAMFT. Often clients seek therapy because they have become stuck. Sometimes relationships begin great, but life/situations cause a change to happen. We all have personal challenges, have stressful periods, or go through traumatic times. The desire to seek help to explore and process these problems can open the door to positive growth. I believe in the healing power of relationships: no matter the wounds, if all parties are willing to heal, I will help.
(208) 216-1960 View (208) 216-1960
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Steven I Lanzet
Counselor, MEd, LMFT-S, LCPC-S, CSAT-S
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
People say my style is different from other counselors. "He's not the kind of counselor who just sits back and says uh-huh every few minutes." I am not shy about giving feedback and responding to my clients. Counseling is a relationship and I strive to create an engaging and healing dialogue from the beginning. Whatever your issue is, if it's not getting better with what you have been doing so far, now is the time to seek assistance. Call me to discuss your concerns and we can decide if I am the right resource for you.
People say my style is different from other counselors. "He's not the kind of counselor who just sits back and says uh-huh every few minutes." I am not shy about giving feedback and responding to my clients. Counseling is a relationship and I strive to create an engaging and healing dialogue from the beginning. Whatever your issue is, if it's not getting better with what you have been doing so far, now is the time to seek assistance. Call me to discuss your concerns and we can decide if I am the right resource for you.
(208) 269-9388 View (208) 269-9388
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Jewels (Julie) Meek
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Engaging in therapy is a brave choice. The right fit with your therapist is absolutely key. I will meet you exactly where you are and help you engage with and enjoy your life more. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with extensive experience helping adults, teens, and children achieve their goals, heal from their painful past experiences, build a more balanced and integrated brain and nervous system, and love and accept themselves more fully. Every individual's path is valid and worthy. If you feel we might be a good fit, it would be an honor to assist you on yours.
Engaging in therapy is a brave choice. The right fit with your therapist is absolutely key. I will meet you exactly where you are and help you engage with and enjoy your life more. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with extensive experience helping adults, teens, and children achieve their goals, heal from their painful past experiences, build a more balanced and integrated brain and nervous system, and love and accept themselves more fully. Every individual's path is valid and worthy. If you feel we might be a good fit, it would be an honor to assist you on yours.
(208) 963-8241 View (208) 963-8241
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Tolman Counseling
Counselor, CRC, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
Are you looking for a sex positive provider? Look no further, you found me. Humor is an important part of life and a powerful coping skill. I often utilize humor in therapy as a way to connect and process your experiences. I also like to follow and meet my client's needs, and adjust my approach accordingly. I have extensive experience working with LGBTQ+ people, trauma, polyamory, kink, desire discrepancy, and gender. I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and both a BSU and UI graduate. I also graduated from University of Michigan with a certificate sex therapy and sex education.
Are you looking for a sex positive provider? Look no further, you found me. Humor is an important part of life and a powerful coping skill. I often utilize humor in therapy as a way to connect and process your experiences. I also like to follow and meet my client's needs, and adjust my approach accordingly. I have extensive experience working with LGBTQ+ people, trauma, polyamory, kink, desire discrepancy, and gender. I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and both a BSU and UI graduate. I also graduated from University of Michigan with a certificate sex therapy and sex education.
(208) 314-3171 View (208) 314-3171
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Victor Durnil
Counselor, LCPC, CSAT, CMAT, MCoun
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
I am passionate about my work with my clients. I believe that no matter how challenging the immediate situation may be, there is a manageable path to feeling better. I enjoy working with diverse issues, but I particularly enjoy my work with men, sexual addiction issues, and helping people heal from past trauma. I also work with alcoholism and other substance abuse issues, codependency, and cross-addiction issues. I am trained in EMDR and other trauma treatment methods. I provide a safe and supportive environment for change.
I am passionate about my work with my clients. I believe that no matter how challenging the immediate situation may be, there is a manageable path to feeling better. I enjoy working with diverse issues, but I particularly enjoy my work with men, sexual addiction issues, and helping people heal from past trauma. I also work with alcoholism and other substance abuse issues, codependency, and cross-addiction issues. I am trained in EMDR and other trauma treatment methods. I provide a safe and supportive environment for change.
(208) 904-1089 View (208) 904-1089
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Alyson Witmer Root
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS , LPC
Verified Verified
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705  (Online Only)
Have you ever felt stuck or like you're not living an optimal version of your life? In therapy, I work with clients to gain a new perspective on what works and what doesn't. Relationships are the primary focus of my practice. I work with clients to get clarity on what they need and want. Together, we identify the action steps necessary for living a purpose-filled life. My practice addresses life transitions, optimizing relationships, personal growth, marriage and parenting, dysfunctional families, addiction, false beliefs, and goal setting. Let go of problematic patterns and lean into your extraordinary life ahead.
Have you ever felt stuck or like you're not living an optimal version of your life? In therapy, I work with clients to gain a new perspective on what works and what doesn't. Relationships are the primary focus of my practice. I work with clients to get clarity on what they need and want. Together, we identify the action steps necessary for living a purpose-filled life. My practice addresses life transitions, optimizing relationships, personal growth, marriage and parenting, dysfunctional families, addiction, false beliefs, and goal setting. Let go of problematic patterns and lean into your extraordinary life ahead.
(208) 471-5085 View (208) 471-5085
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Candace Cooper
Counselor, LCPC , NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83706
Hi! I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, and I am happy that you are considering my help for your mental health needs. I have a passion for people, families and couples. I want people to be confident with themselves and happy with who they place themselves around. You may be stuck and confused about areas of your life that work in some ways but in other areas, it is not working.
Hi! I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, and I am happy that you are considering my help for your mental health needs. I have a passion for people, families and couples. I want people to be confident with themselves and happy with who they place themselves around. You may be stuck and confused about areas of your life that work in some ways but in other areas, it is not working.
(208) 510-0432 View (208) 510-0432
Lifepath Counseling and Wellness
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LPC, FNP, LMSW, LCPC
Verified Verified
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
At Lifepath Counseling & Wellness we provide an array of quality mental health services to individuals, couples, families, adolescents and children. Our multidisciplinary staff provide quality treatment of anxiety disorders, grief and loss, mood disorders, PTSD, behavioral disorders, conduct problems in children and teens; LGBTQ populations, as well as stress management, addictions, and many other mental health issues. These services are provided in a positive, respectful and non-judgemental setting to people of all ages, lifestyles and backgrounds.
At Lifepath Counseling & Wellness we provide an array of quality mental health services to individuals, couples, families, adolescents and children. Our multidisciplinary staff provide quality treatment of anxiety disorders, grief and loss, mood disorders, PTSD, behavioral disorders, conduct problems in children and teens; LGBTQ populations, as well as stress management, addictions, and many other mental health issues. These services are provided in a positive, respectful and non-judgemental setting to people of all ages, lifestyles and backgrounds.
(208) 780-3900 View (208) 780-3900
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Wendi Story-McFarland
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MEd
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
I believe humans are built to survive - even the most grueling situations when hope feels lost or emptiness prevails. Perhaps we are forced to deal with things we cannot control or did not foresee. Sometimes surviving means we adapt in ways that don't serve us in the long run. This is when we need someone to journey into and out of the darkness with us. Whether it is your past that won’t get out of the way, current relationships that wane, a loss that bogs you down, depression and anxiety that run your life, or a trauma you can’t seem to shake, neurotherapy may be an option for you. Neurotherapy is Neurofeedback + Talk Therapy.
I believe humans are built to survive - even the most grueling situations when hope feels lost or emptiness prevails. Perhaps we are forced to deal with things we cannot control or did not foresee. Sometimes surviving means we adapt in ways that don't serve us in the long run. This is when we need someone to journey into and out of the darkness with us. Whether it is your past that won’t get out of the way, current relationships that wane, a loss that bogs you down, depression and anxiety that run your life, or a trauma you can’t seem to shake, neurotherapy may be an option for you. Neurotherapy is Neurofeedback + Talk Therapy.
(208) 647-0110 View (208) 647-0110
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Brian Smith
Counselor, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705  (Online Only)
I work with individuals, couples, and groups who believe personal change is possible and valuable in their lives. I use an emotion focused approach, as put forth in the work of Dr. Les Greenberg, and have received formal training in Dr. Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples. I believe that people are agents of their own positive change, and that many are unaware of how emotions relate to their thoughts and behavior. My clinical practice has taught me to respect the experience, worldview, and value system of each individual without imposing my own. I am an LGBTQ+ ally.
I work with individuals, couples, and groups who believe personal change is possible and valuable in their lives. I use an emotion focused approach, as put forth in the work of Dr. Les Greenberg, and have received formal training in Dr. Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples. I believe that people are agents of their own positive change, and that many are unaware of how emotions relate to their thoughts and behavior. My clinical practice has taught me to respect the experience, worldview, and value system of each individual without imposing my own. I am an LGBTQ+ ally.
(208) 914-6409 View (208) 914-6409
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Gregory M Deitchler
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
Waitlist for new clients
Gregory M. Deitchler has been motivating and inspiring large and small audiences for nearly three decades. He combines an extensive education with his remarkable survival from cancer to motivate, inspire and educate his audiences. Because Greg believes with great passion that life is a gift that must be made the most of, he inspires others to live fuller lives and achieve their dreams. Greg was named one of the State of Idaho's top motivators by the Idaho Statesman and was inducted into the Associated Students of Boise State University Hall of Fame for Community Service.
Gregory M. Deitchler has been motivating and inspiring large and small audiences for nearly three decades. He combines an extensive education with his remarkable survival from cancer to motivate, inspire and educate his audiences. Because Greg believes with great passion that life is a gift that must be made the most of, he inspires others to live fuller lives and achieve their dreams. Greg was named one of the State of Idaho's top motivators by the Idaho Statesman and was inducted into the Associated Students of Boise State University Hall of Fame for Community Service.
(208) 427-3146 View (208) 427-3146
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Anita A Collier
Counselor, MEd, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
My counseling philosophy involves allowing a client to be themselves and working to meet them "wherever they may be on their own self discovery journey". I have been in the counseling field for over 20 years and have tremendous experience working with several populations. I have learned that individuals have the innate capacity to grow and become their best selves, given an environment in which they can do so. Asking for help to do this can be very difficult. Regardless of the obstacles in your life, you have the capacity to move forward.
My counseling philosophy involves allowing a client to be themselves and working to meet them "wherever they may be on their own self discovery journey". I have been in the counseling field for over 20 years and have tremendous experience working with several populations. I have learned that individuals have the innate capacity to grow and become their best selves, given an environment in which they can do so. Asking for help to do this can be very difficult. Regardless of the obstacles in your life, you have the capacity to move forward.
(208) 584-5398 View (208) 584-5398
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Jen Weseman
Counselor, LCPC, NCC, EMDR-C, CCTP
Verified Verified
Depot Bench, Boise, ID 83705
Waitlist for new clients
I approach counseling with individuals from a personal holistic viewpoint in hopes of better understanding their world. I believe in promoting my clients’ right to autonomy, self-acceptance, and to feel genuine in their experiences and connections with others. My hope as a counselor is to meet my clients where they are at and provide support for their journey, knowing that every connection made has the power to affect each of us and brings us the opportunity to make meaning in our lives. I am part of and love working with the LGBTQIA+ and neurodiversity community. I am kink/polyam/lifestyle affirming
I approach counseling with individuals from a personal holistic viewpoint in hopes of better understanding their world. I believe in promoting my clients’ right to autonomy, self-acceptance, and to feel genuine in their experiences and connections with others. My hope as a counselor is to meet my clients where they are at and provide support for their journey, knowing that every connection made has the power to affect each of us and brings us the opportunity to make meaning in our lives. I am part of and love working with the LGBTQIA+ and neurodiversity community. I am kink/polyam/lifestyle affirming
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Online Therapists

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Lauren Yoder-Goeden
Counselor, LCPC-S, CST, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Boise, ID 83705
In my role as an AASECT certified sex therapist (and beyond), I focus my work on issues like infidelity, relationships/divorce, sexuality and sexual orientation, non-monogamy, kink, spirituality, life stage transitions, and child/adolescent issues.
The journey to knowing yourself can seem daunting, but taking the first step is both courageous and worthwhile. As a counselor, I believe that every person on this journey can benefit from some help and support along the way. I practice from a person-centered viewpoint and really believe that each of us is capable of making the choices we need to achieve the life we want. With a solution focused, strengths based approach, I seek to use past and present circumstances to carve a path forward that will result in greater self-awareness, self-acceptance, and overall wellbeing.
In my role as an AASECT certified sex therapist (and beyond), I focus my work on issues like infidelity, relationships/divorce, sexuality and sexual orientation, non-monogamy, kink, spirituality, life stage transitions, and child/adolescent issues.
The journey to knowing yourself can seem daunting, but taking the first step is both courageous and worthwhile. As a counselor, I believe that every person on this journey can benefit from some help and support along the way. I practice from a person-centered viewpoint and really believe that each of us is capable of making the choices we need to achieve the life we want. With a solution focused, strengths based approach, I seek to use past and present circumstances to carve a path forward that will result in greater self-awareness, self-acceptance, and overall wellbeing.
(208) 826-0049 View (208) 826-0049
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Chris Allen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
Boise, ID 83702  (Online Only)
New in recovery? just need a tuneup, or are looking for long-term recovery support? I can help you with the support you need. Trauma, PTSD, and betrayal trauma are huge contributors to addiction, depression, anxiety, and other mental health struggles. With training in EMDR, TFCBT, and as a CSAT and CPTT I'm here to help you navigate, heal, and recover from your past hurts and current triggers. Having a therapist who understands the pain and complexity of betrayal trauma can validate your struggle and help you to heal. I see a variety of clients of all ages with various needs. Let's do a free consultation to see if we are a good fit.
New in recovery? just need a tuneup, or are looking for long-term recovery support? I can help you with the support you need. Trauma, PTSD, and betrayal trauma are huge contributors to addiction, depression, anxiety, and other mental health struggles. With training in EMDR, TFCBT, and as a CSAT and CPTT I'm here to help you navigate, heal, and recover from your past hurts and current triggers. Having a therapist who understands the pain and complexity of betrayal trauma can validate your struggle and help you to heal. I see a variety of clients of all ages with various needs. Let's do a free consultation to see if we are a good fit.
(208) 944-1045 View (208) 944-1045
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Heidi Monuteaux
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LCPC, CSAT, AF-EMDR
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Boise, ID 83705  (Online Only)
One of my specialty areas is betrayal trauma and infidelity.
Have you experienced trauma? Feeling stuck and hopeless after infidelity? Looking for freedom from anxiety? I'm here to help you summon the courage to face your concerns, to provide a safe place where you can work through them at your own pace, and for you to experience the happiness, wholeness and healing that comes out of that process. I work with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression and grief, however my speciality is working with anything trauma related. I work with individuals, couples and groups. I would encourage you to visit my website for more information about me and my work.
One of my specialty areas is betrayal trauma and infidelity.
Have you experienced trauma? Feeling stuck and hopeless after infidelity? Looking for freedom from anxiety? I'm here to help you summon the courage to face your concerns, to provide a safe place where you can work through them at your own pace, and for you to experience the happiness, wholeness and healing that comes out of that process. I work with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression and grief, however my speciality is working with anything trauma related. I work with individuals, couples and groups. I would encourage you to visit my website for more information about me and my work.
(208) 203-7222 View (208) 203-7222
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Jaci Bazzle
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Boise, ID 83719  (Online Only)
Counseling is a pretty scary idea. Often, the clients that I work with have not experienced a safe relationship in a long time. The idea of sitting in a room and sharing your life story with someone seems like a recipe for betrayal and pain. At some point, though, the need for healing outweighs that risk and you choose to start working towards wellness. It is an uncomfortable, heavy, and ultimately extremely rewarding journey. I'm ready to get started with you.
Counseling is a pretty scary idea. Often, the clients that I work with have not experienced a safe relationship in a long time. The idea of sitting in a room and sharing your life story with someone seems like a recipe for betrayal and pain. At some point, though, the need for healing outweighs that risk and you choose to start working towards wellness. It is an uncomfortable, heavy, and ultimately extremely rewarding journey. I'm ready to get started with you.
(208) 277-9703 View (208) 277-9703
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Lisa Butterworth
Licenced Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Boise, ID 83713
Waitlist for new clients
I work with a broad range of sexual issues, including desire discrepancy, problematic sexual behaviors, trauma, infidelity, “sexless” marriages, orgasm concerns, ED/premature/delayed ejaculation, pain, polyamory, kink, pornography concerns, resolving conflict between spirituality and sexuality, or LGBTQ+ (orientation concerns, transitioning, or parenting).
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or anxious? Do you need better tools for communicating and connecting to people you love? Do you need support, education, or hope in creating sexual wholeness? I can teach you tools to feel good about who you are, feel comfortable in your body, live your desired sexual story, and connect to your authentic spirituality. I also work with couples to nurture good communication and emotional connection.
I work with a broad range of sexual issues, including desire discrepancy, problematic sexual behaviors, trauma, infidelity, “sexless” marriages, orgasm concerns, ED/premature/delayed ejaculation, pain, polyamory, kink, pornography concerns, resolving conflict between spirituality and sexuality, or LGBTQ+ (orientation concerns, transitioning, or parenting).
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or anxious? Do you need better tools for communicating and connecting to people you love? Do you need support, education, or hope in creating sexual wholeness? I can teach you tools to feel good about who you are, feel comfortable in your body, live your desired sexual story, and connect to your authentic spirituality. I also work with couples to nurture good communication and emotional connection.
(208) 225-5951 View (208) 225-5951
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Matthew D Geske
Counselor, LCPC, MA, MS
Verified Verified
Boise, ID 83709
Are you at a turning point, looking to reinvent yourself and clean up the mess you have created? Have you or your loved one been out of control with regards to destructive behaviors (pornography, excessive internet use, affairs etc.) or are you simply no longer satisfied with the direction your life is headed. I offer effective psychotherapy that gets to the heart of the matter. I specialize in working with men who are looking for a new beginning. I also work with women impacted negatively by men they care about. I have been helping clients for over twenty years and draw upon both science and the deepest Christian tradition.
Are you at a turning point, looking to reinvent yourself and clean up the mess you have created? Have you or your loved one been out of control with regards to destructive behaviors (pornography, excessive internet use, affairs etc.) or are you simply no longer satisfied with the direction your life is headed. I offer effective psychotherapy that gets to the heart of the matter. I specialize in working with men who are looking for a new beginning. I also work with women impacted negatively by men they care about. I have been helping clients for over twenty years and draw upon both science and the deepest Christian tradition.
(208) 547-5610 View (208) 547-5610
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Michael Wilson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSAT, CMAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Boise, ID 83709
Waitlist for new clients
My primary focus is pornography-, sex-, internet-, gambling-, food- other process addictions, and betrayal trauma.
Are you or your partner struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors? Sexual addiction, pornography addiction, or sexual compulsivity? Have these issues been part of your life for some time and you're seeking authentic change? Or, has there been a recent disclosure or discovery episode that has shaken your world (or, your partner's world) to its core? This is my specialization and I am here to partner with you on this journey.
My primary focus is pornography-, sex-, internet-, gambling-, food- other process addictions, and betrayal trauma.
Are you or your partner struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors? Sexual addiction, pornography addiction, or sexual compulsivity? Have these issues been part of your life for some time and you're seeking authentic change? Or, has there been a recent disclosure or discovery episode that has shaken your world (or, your partner's world) to its core? This is my specialization and I am here to partner with you on this journey.
(208) 357-9374 View (208) 357-9374

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.