
Ian Esmay
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today
Durham, NC 27713
Let's Connect (919) 261-5078

Suffering is inevitable, and that really sucks. Sometimes you feel like nothing will ever get better, everything is your fault, and if you ever show your true self to the world, everyone will reject you. We wake up feeling like we can’t do this again, we’re completely unlovable, and everyone is always judging us. Deep down, you just want to be accepted for who you are. You are worthy of being seen and heard! Through therapy, you can stop numbing yourself and accept your true self.

I am an LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC affirmative counselor serving the states of NC and SC through online therapy. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space for anyone who wants to be their authentic self and connect with an authentic therapist. I strive to make help attainable to anyone who needs it by having evening hours and flexible payment options available.
Asking for help may be very scary, but it is a huge first step; I know what it is like to be on the other side of the couch (or screen). Text or call me for your free consultation to see if we would be a good fit: 980-484-3728. If you want to learn more about me, please check out my website: esmaycounseling.com or message me anytime.
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Ian Esmay
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
- Pay by American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa
Insurance
- Aetna
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Optum
- Oscar Health
- Oxford
- UMR
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- Out of Network
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (919) 261-5078

Ian Esmay
Licensed Professional Counselor,
LCMHC
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of North Carolina / 14111
- In Practice for 8 Years
- Attended Radford University, Masters in Counseling, Graduated 2012
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Anxiety
- Trauma and PTSD
- LGBTQ+
Expertise
- Codependency
- Depression
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Life Transitions
- Mood Disorders
- Peer Relationships
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Self-Harming
- Stress
- Suicidal Ideation
- Transgender
Client Focus
Age
Preteen
,
Teen
,
Adults
,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Gay Allied
,
Lesbian Allied
,
Non-Binary Allied
,
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
,
Queer Allied
,
Transgender Allied
Age
Preteen
,
Teen
,
Adults
,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Gay Allied
,
Lesbian Allied
,
Non-Binary Allied
,
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
,
Queer Allied
,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Emotionally Focused
- Existential
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
- Trauma Focused
Location
Nearby Areas
Counties
Neighborhoods
Call for a free consultation now - (919) 261-5078

Ian Esmay
Licensed Professional Counselor,
LCMHC
Last Modified: 8 Jul 2023