Infidelity Therapists in Spencer, IA

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Emily Dicks
Mental Health Counselor, tLMHC
Spencer, IA 51301
If you’ve ever thought about starting therapy, now is a great time and I am ready to work with you wherever you are on your journey. My therapy sessions are provided in a warm and welcoming environment, where you will be accepted no matter what. I serve clients of all ages and I am able to meet you in person or through virtual therapy.
If you’ve ever thought about starting therapy, now is a great time and I am ready to work with you wherever you are on your journey. My therapy sessions are provided in a warm and welcoming environment, where you will be accepted no matter what. I serve clients of all ages and I am able to meet you in person or through virtual therapy.
(234) 409-4154 View (234) 409-4154
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Breaking Illusions Counseling, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC
Spencer, IA 51301
I provide a nonjudgmental safe space for those looking to lessen anxiety, get to the core of pressing difficulties, learning to love yourself, and connect to your inner being. My approach is not a "one size fits all" method and is client-led. My goal is to guide you on reconnecting to yourself and building your self-trust so that you can get unstuck and create your own happiness. My therapy approach is soul-centered, client-focused, human-focused and these benefit clients in that they feel heard, seen, connected, in the midst of chaos.
I provide a nonjudgmental safe space for those looking to lessen anxiety, get to the core of pressing difficulties, learning to love yourself, and connect to your inner being. My approach is not a "one size fits all" method and is client-led. My goal is to guide you on reconnecting to yourself and building your self-trust so that you can get unstuck and create your own happiness. My therapy approach is soul-centered, client-focused, human-focused and these benefit clients in that they feel heard, seen, connected, in the midst of chaos.
(712) 717-0297 View (712) 717-0297
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Ana Alonso
Pre-Licensed Professional, tLMHC
Spencer, IA 51301
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or emotionally drained, trying to manage anxiety, past experiences, relationship stress, or a major life transition while still showing up for school, work, or the people you care about. You want support that feels safe, genuine, and respectful, without pressure or judgment.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or emotionally drained, trying to manage anxiety, past experiences, relationship stress, or a major life transition while still showing up for school, work, or the people you care about. You want support that feels safe, genuine, and respectful, without pressure or judgment.
(712) 467-4932 View (712) 467-4932

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Susanna Luu
Psychologist, LCP
Online Only
Hi, my name is Susanna Luu, PhD. I'm a clinical psychologist specializing in a holistic approach to treating mental health concerns through a cognitive behavioral therapy lens. I am currently licensed in Iowa. My communication style in down to earth and genuine. I will not mask my unique "real" qualities and try to bring in humor as much as I can. This is model an example of healthy communication. Further, I am always client-centered. Although I love to see clients have growth, I will always ask if clients are ready to explore the next steps of processing and meet them where they are at.
Hi, my name is Susanna Luu, PhD. I'm a clinical psychologist specializing in a holistic approach to treating mental health concerns through a cognitive behavioral therapy lens. I am currently licensed in Iowa. My communication style in down to earth and genuine. I will not mask my unique "real" qualities and try to bring in humor as much as I can. This is model an example of healthy communication. Further, I am always client-centered. Although I love to see clients have growth, I will always ask if clients are ready to explore the next steps of processing and meet them where they are at.
(202) 517-2359 View (202) 517-2359
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Emili Lair
Counselor, LMHC, LPCC, MA, MEd
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Not accepting new clients
Emili has an interest providing couple’s counseling to partners wanting to improve communication, addressing ongoing conflict and/or betrayal in relationships, and experiencing new stages.
When you work with Emili, you will find that she utilizes an integrative approach to therapy that starts and ends with person-centered care. Influenced by Carl Rogers, Emili strives to utilize the person-centered approach by focusing on unconditional positive regard, congruence, and empathy.
Emili has an interest providing couple’s counseling to partners wanting to improve communication, addressing ongoing conflict and/or betrayal in relationships, and experiencing new stages.
When you work with Emili, you will find that she utilizes an integrative approach to therapy that starts and ends with person-centered care. Influenced by Carl Rogers, Emili strives to utilize the person-centered approach by focusing on unconditional positive regard, congruence, and empathy.
(712) 214-1187 View (712) 214-1187

Online Therapists

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Trudy M. Rouillard Soole
Counselor, MA, LMHC
2 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51102
It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help & when one does I honor that! Life is messy & people come in with a host of issues. As we work together I validate their life experiences & together we examine what works in their life & what doesn't. Together we explore themes & patterns that may have isolated them & kept them in a narrative that may perpetuate pain, heartache, grief, loss, anxiety, depression or an addiction. Together we create a plan to recalibrate their life.
It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help & when one does I honor that! Life is messy & people come in with a host of issues. As we work together I validate their life experiences & together we examine what works in their life & what doesn't. Together we explore themes & patterns that may have isolated them & kept them in a narrative that may perpetuate pain, heartache, grief, loss, anxiety, depression or an addiction. Together we create a plan to recalibrate their life.
(505) 604-9634 View (505) 604-9634
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Amy Lynn Koerselman
Counselor, LMHC, MA, NCC
Sioux City, IA 51101
Be empowered! I provide the tools to create wholeness and harmony in your life. Discover your best self (mind, body, and spirit). I tailor each session to fit the unique needs of each of my clients. I empower and inspire healing and growth- focusing on improving self-care, self-esteem, and self-compassion. I have a double masters treating dual diagnosis including mood disorders, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, trauma, adjustment disorders, personality, addictions, abuse, grief, and life issues. I provide a private fee schedule to fit your financial needs. I look forward to the opportunity to empower you to be your best!
Be empowered! I provide the tools to create wholeness and harmony in your life. Discover your best self (mind, body, and spirit). I tailor each session to fit the unique needs of each of my clients. I empower and inspire healing and growth- focusing on improving self-care, self-esteem, and self-compassion. I have a double masters treating dual diagnosis including mood disorders, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, trauma, adjustment disorders, personality, addictions, abuse, grief, and life issues. I provide a private fee schedule to fit your financial needs. I look forward to the opportunity to empower you to be your best!
(712) 274-3570 View (712) 274-3570
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Grady Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMHC, LMFT, LISW
1 Endorsed
Mason City, IA 50401
Grady Counseling Services offers trauma informed therapy. We use a wide variety of techniques including EMDR, IFS techniques, breath work, mindfulness, Solution Focused Therapy, CBT therapy, as well as a variety of other modalities to treat your trauma related mental illnesses.
Grady Counseling Services offers trauma informed therapy. We use a wide variety of techniques including EMDR, IFS techniques, breath work, mindfulness, Solution Focused Therapy, CBT therapy, as well as a variety of other modalities to treat your trauma related mental illnesses.
(641) 426-0650 View (641) 426-0650
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Kevin Reynolds
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Audubon, IA 50025
My passion is helping others heal and gain insight into the issues that they are experiencing. I practice a person centered approach as I believe that we tend to be our own best experts. I emphasize a collaborative style during session to help you progress towards you goals. Personal growth and healing does not have to be something that is an abstract concept, but rather can be a possibility. It helps to have someone who is unbiased and is present to help you navigate life’s challenges and traumas. I also feel passionate about working with adolescents as they navigate the complexities of the transition from youth to adulthood.
My passion is helping others heal and gain insight into the issues that they are experiencing. I practice a person centered approach as I believe that we tend to be our own best experts. I emphasize a collaborative style during session to help you progress towards you goals. Personal growth and healing does not have to be something that is an abstract concept, but rather can be a possibility. It helps to have someone who is unbiased and is present to help you navigate life’s challenges and traumas. I also feel passionate about working with adolescents as they navigate the complexities of the transition from youth to adulthood.
(712) 208-8058 View (712) 208-8058
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Amanda Ten Napel
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Sibley, IA 51249
I love working with individuals and couples who are ready to feel better about themselves and their relationship. No matter what my clients are dealing with, whether it be depression, anxiety, marital problems, etc., I want to help them grow in a way that they learn to love themselves, accept what they can accept, and move forward in their lives.
I love working with individuals and couples who are ready to feel better about themselves and their relationship. No matter what my clients are dealing with, whether it be depression, anxiety, marital problems, etc., I want to help them grow in a way that they learn to love themselves, accept what they can accept, and move forward in their lives.
(712) 225-7812 View (712) 225-7812
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Rebekah Jones
Verified Verified
Online Only
When you feel stuck in patterns you want to break—ashamed, overwhelmed, or not yourself, repeating behaviors you swore you'd change or feel like the “black sheep,” you end up feeling disconnected, hopeless and struggle to set boundaries and acknowledge your needs. You feel drained and tired. But you don't have to keep carrying this alone. Therapy can be a place where you begin to untangle those old patterns and rediscover who you really are. Together, we can work toward healing past hurts, building self-trust, strengthening your relationships, and helping you feel more confident and at peace in your own life.
When you feel stuck in patterns you want to break—ashamed, overwhelmed, or not yourself, repeating behaviors you swore you'd change or feel like the “black sheep,” you end up feeling disconnected, hopeless and struggle to set boundaries and acknowledge your needs. You feel drained and tired. But you don't have to keep carrying this alone. Therapy can be a place where you begin to untangle those old patterns and rediscover who you really are. Together, we can work toward healing past hurts, building self-trust, strengthening your relationships, and helping you feel more confident and at peace in your own life.
(712) 458-6573 View (712) 458-6573
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Lois Potthoff
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Audubon, IA 50025
I strive to help others heal and become empowered while rediscovering their true sense of self and reconnect with their life purpose. Relationship is the foundation to healing and I use a client centered and attuned approach while integrating an individualized treatment plan to meet your goals. My goal is to meet you or your child where they are and be your guide to healing. I have over 30 years of experience working in the field of mental illness and developmental disorders.
I strive to help others heal and become empowered while rediscovering their true sense of self and reconnect with their life purpose. Relationship is the foundation to healing and I use a client centered and attuned approach while integrating an individualized treatment plan to meet your goals. My goal is to meet you or your child where they are and be your guide to healing. I have over 30 years of experience working in the field of mental illness and developmental disorders.
(712) 350-9905 View (712) 350-9905
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Carmen Hoogers
Counselor, LMHC, NATC
1 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51104
Carmen is a compassionate therapist and a true people person. She works with individuals of all ages and backgrounds, applying evidence-based therapy. Her expertise includes treating Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Anxiety, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD, Couples Therapy, and various mood and behavior disorders. Carmen is also a certified counselor for Victims of Narcissism. Additionally, she incorporates parenting skills to involve the whole family.
Carmen is a compassionate therapist and a true people person. She works with individuals of all ages and backgrounds, applying evidence-based therapy. Her expertise includes treating Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Anxiety, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD, Couples Therapy, and various mood and behavior disorders. Carmen is also a certified counselor for Victims of Narcissism. Additionally, she incorporates parenting skills to involve the whole family.
(712) 217-3838 View (712) 217-3838
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Nikki Arthur
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
5 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you feeling overwhelmed, irritable or struggling with a negative mood or anxiety? Are your relationships suffering? Has work and/or family life become so stressful, you wonder how you'll manage? Are you looking for convenient care? If these resonate with you, you may benefit from online holistic therapeutic support. Together, we will address how you can feel better in your body, have balance in your thoughts, & wellness in your spirit. I will give you space to address what is important to you, and help you learn effective skills to cope so you can feel more empowered in your everyday life.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, irritable or struggling with a negative mood or anxiety? Are your relationships suffering? Has work and/or family life become so stressful, you wonder how you'll manage? Are you looking for convenient care? If these resonate with you, you may benefit from online holistic therapeutic support. Together, we will address how you can feel better in your body, have balance in your thoughts, & wellness in your spirit. I will give you space to address what is important to you, and help you learn effective skills to cope so you can feel more empowered in your everyday life.
(712) 481-9814 View (712) 481-9814
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Christopher Hager
Counselor, LMHC, IADC, MA
1 Endorsed
Mason City, IA 50401
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist (LMHC) and International Drug and Alcohol Counselor (IADC) that provides therapy suited to fit individual needs. I provide an environment that is non-judgmental and accepting of where each new person is while incorporating a light-hearted, yet serious, focus. My clinical experience and treatment history includes; life transition difficulties, anxiety, depression, relationship counseling, substance use, and dual diagnosis treatments.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist (LMHC) and International Drug and Alcohol Counselor (IADC) that provides therapy suited to fit individual needs. I provide an environment that is non-judgmental and accepting of where each new person is while incorporating a light-hearted, yet serious, focus. My clinical experience and treatment history includes; life transition difficulties, anxiety, depression, relationship counseling, substance use, and dual diagnosis treatments.
(641) 569-6306 View (641) 569-6306
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Debbie Landwehr
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFTt
Sioux City, IA 51104
I want to help couples and families reconnect. Through a strengths-based framework, our work together creates an environment for each individual to feel heard, in sync, and stronger on their own path. I specialize in working with families with challenging children and acting out adolescents. Building a solid connection in your family is possible, and I’d love to facilitate that journey with you. I have recently graduated from Northcentral University with my MA in Marriage and Family Therapy. My BA is from Kaplan University Psychology- Child Development.
I want to help couples and families reconnect. Through a strengths-based framework, our work together creates an environment for each individual to feel heard, in sync, and stronger on their own path. I specialize in working with families with challenging children and acting out adolescents. Building a solid connection in your family is possible, and I’d love to facilitate that journey with you. I have recently graduated from Northcentral University with my MA in Marriage and Family Therapy. My BA is from Kaplan University Psychology- Child Development.
(712) 435-1362 View (712) 435-1362
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Jameson Mayberry
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CADC, MAC, SAP
2 Endorsed
Mason City, IA 50401
I received my Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology and in Human Services from Buena Vista University in 2006. I completed graduate school at Argosy University of Psychology and Behavioral Sciences/Twin Cities in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2010. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in the state of Iowa. I am a clinical member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT). I am a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC), Substance Abuse Professional (SAP) and Master of Addiction Counselor (MAC).
I received my Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology and in Human Services from Buena Vista University in 2006. I completed graduate school at Argosy University of Psychology and Behavioral Sciences/Twin Cities in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2010. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in the state of Iowa. I am a clinical member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT). I am a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC), Substance Abuse Professional (SAP) and Master of Addiction Counselor (MAC).
(641) 569-6848 View (641) 569-6848
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Emily Ruppert
Counselor, MA, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51101
As a therapist, it is my goal to bring genuineness, acceptance, and empathy to the counseling environment. I am here to meet you exactly where you are in life, without judgment or shame. The work of the client can be challenging, and often begins with the daunting task of coming in the doors on that first day. Change is uncomfortable, and often avoided. I am here to facilitate that change, walk alongside you, and provide new insight and understanding.
As a therapist, it is my goal to bring genuineness, acceptance, and empathy to the counseling environment. I am here to meet you exactly where you are in life, without judgment or shame. The work of the client can be challenging, and often begins with the daunting task of coming in the doors on that first day. Change is uncomfortable, and often avoided. I am here to facilitate that change, walk alongside you, and provide new insight and understanding.
(712) 423-5975 View (712) 423-5975
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Anna Murphy
Counselor, LMHC
Online Only
I help clients' health through a blend of evidence-based counseling and creative expression. I specialize in supporting individuals navigating trauma, emotional regulation, and life transitions, offering a compassionate, grounded space where insight and creativity come together.
I help clients' health through a blend of evidence-based counseling and creative expression. I specialize in supporting individuals navigating trauma, emotional regulation, and life transitions, offering a compassionate, grounded space where insight and creativity come together.
(712) 882-7986 View (712) 882-7986
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Adrienne Morehead
Counselor, TLMHC
Le Mars, IA 51031
I believe in focusing on the whole person and taking in perspective all the parts that make you your individual self. I have strong values of trust, compassion, individuality, respect, and openness. I will make every effort to provide you with a comfortable space to work on your goals.
I believe in focusing on the whole person and taking in perspective all the parts that make you your individual self. I have strong values of trust, compassion, individuality, respect, and openness. I will make every effort to provide you with a comfortable space to work on your goals.
(712) 576-7444 View (712) 576-7444

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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.