Emotionally Focused Therapists in Spencer, IA

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Paige Selk
Counselor
Spencer, IA 51301
Waitlist for new clients
I am a temporary licensed Mental Health Counselor with experience supporting individuals across a range of emotional and behavioral challenges. I provide in person therapy for children, adolescents and adults in the Spencer and Storm Lake area. Offering telehealth counseling across Iowa with a focus on mindfulness, emotional regulation, and personal growth.
I am a temporary licensed Mental Health Counselor with experience supporting individuals across a range of emotional and behavioral challenges. I provide in person therapy for children, adolescents and adults in the Spencer and Storm Lake area. Offering telehealth counseling across Iowa with a focus on mindfulness, emotional regulation, and personal growth.
(712) 484-8664 View (712) 484-8664
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Emily Dicks
Mental Health Counselor, tLMHC
Spencer, IA 51301
If you’ve ever thought about starting therapy, now is a great time and I am ready to work with you wherever you are on your journey. My therapy sessions are provided in a warm and welcoming environment, where you will be accepted no matter what. I serve clients of all ages and I am able to meet you in person or through virtual therapy.
If you’ve ever thought about starting therapy, now is a great time and I am ready to work with you wherever you are on your journey. My therapy sessions are provided in a warm and welcoming environment, where you will be accepted no matter what. I serve clients of all ages and I am able to meet you in person or through virtual therapy.
(234) 409-4154 View (234) 409-4154
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Breaking Illusions Counseling, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC
Spencer, IA 51301
I provide a nonjudgmental safe space for those looking to lessen anxiety, get to the core of pressing difficulties, learning to love yourself, and connect to your inner being. My approach is not a "one size fits all" method and is client-led. My goal is to guide you on reconnecting to yourself and building your self-trust so that you can get unstuck and create your own happiness. My therapy approach is soul-centered, client-focused, human-focused and these benefit clients in that they feel heard, seen, connected, in the midst of chaos.
I provide a nonjudgmental safe space for those looking to lessen anxiety, get to the core of pressing difficulties, learning to love yourself, and connect to your inner being. My approach is not a "one size fits all" method and is client-led. My goal is to guide you on reconnecting to yourself and building your self-trust so that you can get unstuck and create your own happiness. My therapy approach is soul-centered, client-focused, human-focused and these benefit clients in that they feel heard, seen, connected, in the midst of chaos.
(712) 717-0297 View (712) 717-0297

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Anxiety Relief and Relationship Growth
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you struggling with anxiety, relationship, or addiction issues? I specialize in all three of those. With my 20 years of experience I can help you get the change and relief you are looking for. Most of my clients start to feel better within a couple of sessions. Therapy can be short or long term and I will work with you on a plan that works best for you and your needs. Some of my other experience includes, depression, mood disorders, couples/family issues, major life changes, grief, divorce, domestic violence, parenting, trauma, and adjustments to adult children.
Are you struggling with anxiety, relationship, or addiction issues? I specialize in all three of those. With my 20 years of experience I can help you get the change and relief you are looking for. Most of my clients start to feel better within a couple of sessions. Therapy can be short or long term and I will work with you on a plan that works best for you and your needs. Some of my other experience includes, depression, mood disorders, couples/family issues, major life changes, grief, divorce, domestic violence, parenting, trauma, and adjustments to adult children.
(385) 383-9968 View (385) 383-9968
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Bridget Richards
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Sioux Rapids, IA 50585
As a military veteran and Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Missouri, Iowa and Oklahoma. I understand the unique challenges that first responders, military personnel, and veterans face daily. The weight of trauma, high-pressure environments, and the toll on mental health can be overwhelming—but you don’t have to navigate it alone. I specialize in working with active-duty military, veterans, police officers, firefighters, EMS, and other first responders who experience PTSD, anxiety, depression, operational stress, and burnout.
As a military veteran and Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Missouri, Iowa and Oklahoma. I understand the unique challenges that first responders, military personnel, and veterans face daily. The weight of trauma, high-pressure environments, and the toll on mental health can be overwhelming—but you don’t have to navigate it alone. I specialize in working with active-duty military, veterans, police officers, firefighters, EMS, and other first responders who experience PTSD, anxiety, depression, operational stress, and burnout.
(417) 246-4808 View (417) 246-4808

Online Therapists

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Courtney Lynn Groat
Counselor, t-LMHC, NCC, MS
Webster City, IA 50595
Trained in psychotherapy and QEEG brain mapping and neurofeedback. I can treat a host of disorders using QEEG brain mapping, neurofeedback and neurostimulation such as depression, anxiety, ptsd, OCD, ODD, Adhd, autism, and many more. I am working towards my BCN (Board Certified Neurofeedback) currently through the BCIA. Neurostimulation and neuromodulation show the brain how to behave, which quickly alleviates symptoms of mental health disorders. Both online and in person appointments available.
Trained in psychotherapy and QEEG brain mapping and neurofeedback. I can treat a host of disorders using QEEG brain mapping, neurofeedback and neurostimulation such as depression, anxiety, ptsd, OCD, ODD, Adhd, autism, and many more. I am working towards my BCN (Board Certified Neurofeedback) currently through the BCIA. Neurostimulation and neuromodulation show the brain how to behave, which quickly alleviates symptoms of mental health disorders. Both online and in person appointments available.
(515) 627-6862 View (515) 627-6862
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Amanda Ten Napel
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Sibley, IA 51249
I specialize in marital therapy, often utilizing emotionally focused couples therapy as well as Gottman methods.
I love working with individuals and couples who are ready to feel better about themselves and their relationship. No matter what my clients are dealing with, whether it be depression, anxiety, marital problems, etc., I want to help them grow in a way that they learn to love themselves, accept what they can accept, and move forward in their lives.
I specialize in marital therapy, often utilizing emotionally focused couples therapy as well as Gottman methods.
I love working with individuals and couples who are ready to feel better about themselves and their relationship. No matter what my clients are dealing with, whether it be depression, anxiety, marital problems, etc., I want to help them grow in a way that they learn to love themselves, accept what they can accept, and move forward in their lives.
(712) 225-7812 View (712) 225-7812
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Emily Ruppert
Counselor, MA, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51101
As a therapist, it is my goal to bring genuineness, acceptance, and empathy to the counseling environment. I am here to meet you exactly where you are in life, without judgment or shame. The work of the client can be challenging, and often begins with the daunting task of coming in the doors on that first day. Change is uncomfortable, and often avoided. I am here to facilitate that change, walk alongside you, and provide new insight and understanding.
As a therapist, it is my goal to bring genuineness, acceptance, and empathy to the counseling environment. I am here to meet you exactly where you are in life, without judgment or shame. The work of the client can be challenging, and often begins with the daunting task of coming in the doors on that first day. Change is uncomfortable, and often avoided. I am here to facilitate that change, walk alongside you, and provide new insight and understanding.
(712) 423-5975 View (712) 423-5975
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Kelsi Macek
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I offer a systemic, compassionate approach to exploration and healing, rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems.
I work with individuals and couples who feel a pull toward deeper self-understanding and more connected relationships—those ready to explore the internal and external dynamics that shape how they feel, respond, and relate. Our work will center on understanding your experience with care and curiosity, honoring each part of you that has developed in response to your story.
I offer a systemic, compassionate approach to exploration and healing, rooted in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems.
I work with individuals and couples who feel a pull toward deeper self-understanding and more connected relationships—those ready to explore the internal and external dynamics that shape how they feel, respond, and relate. Our work will center on understanding your experience with care and curiosity, honoring each part of you that has developed in response to your story.
(515) 361-3543 View (515) 361-3543
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Carmen Hoogers
Counselor, LMHC, NATC
1 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51104
Carmen is a compassionate therapist and a true people person. She works with individuals of all ages and backgrounds, applying evidence-based therapy. Her expertise includes treating Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Anxiety, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD, Couples Therapy, and various mood and behavior disorders. Carmen is also a certified counselor for Victims of Narcissism. Additionally, she incorporates parenting skills to involve the whole family.
Carmen is a compassionate therapist and a true people person. She works with individuals of all ages and backgrounds, applying evidence-based therapy. Her expertise includes treating Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Anxiety, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD, Couples Therapy, and various mood and behavior disorders. Carmen is also a certified counselor for Victims of Narcissism. Additionally, she incorporates parenting skills to involve the whole family.
(712) 217-3838 View (712) 217-3838
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Kay Lynn Haubrich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW
Carroll, IA 51401
We all face difficult situations in our lives that can leave us feeling alone and overwhelmed. My goal is to help you find your true potential to lead a full and productive life. Together we can work to better understand and resolve the challenges that you face. By applying complimentary therapy approaches and techniques, we will identify negative perceptions or behavior patterns that may be keeping you from experiencing a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
We all face difficult situations in our lives that can leave us feeling alone and overwhelmed. My goal is to help you find your true potential to lead a full and productive life. Together we can work to better understand and resolve the challenges that you face. By applying complimentary therapy approaches and techniques, we will identify negative perceptions or behavior patterns that may be keeping you from experiencing a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
(712) 790-1842 View (712) 790-1842
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Addison Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW
Mason City, IA 50401
Waitlist for new clients
Seeing clients across Iowa via Telehealth! I have a tremendous understanding of the social, emotional, psychological, and societal impacts of Adverse Childhood Experiences, and am aware of the importance of identifying and addressing toxic stress in both children and adults. I am also well-versed on the numerous symptoms of trauma. I understand how these symptoms can perpetuate other secondary effects such as addiction, eating disorders, difficulties with learning and processing information, and building and sustaining relationships.
Seeing clients across Iowa via Telehealth! I have a tremendous understanding of the social, emotional, psychological, and societal impacts of Adverse Childhood Experiences, and am aware of the importance of identifying and addressing toxic stress in both children and adults. I am also well-versed on the numerous symptoms of trauma. I understand how these symptoms can perpetuate other secondary effects such as addiction, eating disorders, difficulties with learning and processing information, and building and sustaining relationships.
(563) 278-2024 View (563) 278-2024
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Sara Malcom
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
4 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51106
Welcome! I am a trauma-informed therapist with a Christian worldview. I specialize in working with teenagers, adults, veterans, and first responders. I also work with couples who are confronting the difficult challenges of infidelity and relationship issues. Issues I help clients navigate include: trauma, low self-esteem, anxiety, relationship challenges, codependency, men's issues, and social anxiety.
Welcome! I am a trauma-informed therapist with a Christian worldview. I specialize in working with teenagers, adults, veterans, and first responders. I also work with couples who are confronting the difficult challenges of infidelity and relationship issues. Issues I help clients navigate include: trauma, low self-esteem, anxiety, relationship challenges, codependency, men's issues, and social anxiety.
(480) 660-4501 View (480) 660-4501
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Janene Gorsett
Counselor, LMHC
Sioux City, IA 51101
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward? Life can be challenging, especially when navigating the complexities of autism, ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, or relationship struggles. My goal is to provide a safe, supportive space where you can explore your experiences, develop new coping strategies, and create meaningful change.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward? Life can be challenging, especially when navigating the complexities of autism, ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, or relationship struggles. My goal is to provide a safe, supportive space where you can explore your experiences, develop new coping strategies, and create meaningful change.
(712) 430-1850 View (712) 430-1850
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Rebecca Simoni-Ryan
Counselor, LMHC, IADC
1 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51108
Hello, I am the owner of Prairie River Counseling. At Prairie River Counseling I aim to take counseling beyond the office with the intent to reconnect with the natural systems around us. Providing ecotherapy with a variety of evidence-based methods to support and hold space for the client’s growth and goals. My name is Becky Simoni, and I am a licensed mental health counselor and certified substance abuse counselor (LMHC and IADC). I am currently licensed in the state of IA and NE. I am not just a traditional therapist but also an eco-therapist that practices from a holistic and evidence-based viewpoint of therapy.
Hello, I am the owner of Prairie River Counseling. At Prairie River Counseling I aim to take counseling beyond the office with the intent to reconnect with the natural systems around us. Providing ecotherapy with a variety of evidence-based methods to support and hold space for the client’s growth and goals. My name is Becky Simoni, and I am a licensed mental health counselor and certified substance abuse counselor (LMHC and IADC). I am currently licensed in the state of IA and NE. I am not just a traditional therapist but also an eco-therapist that practices from a holistic and evidence-based viewpoint of therapy.
(712) 218-3218 View (712) 218-3218
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Turner Therapy and Counseling, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW, LMHC, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51104
"There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds" Laurell K. Hamilton. I believe that everyone has within themselves the ability to heal. I find it a privilege to walk with individual's on their personal journey to healing and living a full life. I have seen the therapeutic process open doors for individual healing. Being a part of the healing processes is a privilege where the opportunity for individuals to let go a little at a time presents, opening the door to hope and wholeness.
"There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds" Laurell K. Hamilton. I believe that everyone has within themselves the ability to heal. I find it a privilege to walk with individual's on their personal journey to healing and living a full life. I have seen the therapeutic process open doors for individual healing. Being a part of the healing processes is a privilege where the opportunity for individuals to let go a little at a time presents, opening the door to hope and wholeness.
(712) 318-1683 View (712) 318-1683
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Dr. Robin M Capers
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LISW
Sioux City, IA 51101
Life can feel overwhelming at times, and seeking support is an important step toward healing. Whether you are looking for help for yourself, your child, your adolescent, or your family, therapy can provide a safe space to navigate challenges, build resilience, and create positive change. I work with children, adolescents, adults, and families facing a variety of concerns, including anxiety, trauma, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. I strive to create a warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment where clients feel heard, supported, and empowered.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, and seeking support is an important step toward healing. Whether you are looking for help for yourself, your child, your adolescent, or your family, therapy can provide a safe space to navigate challenges, build resilience, and create positive change. I work with children, adolescents, adults, and families facing a variety of concerns, including anxiety, trauma, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. I strive to create a warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental environment where clients feel heard, supported, and empowered.
(712) 522-5723 View (712) 522-5723
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Rebekah Jones
Verified Verified
Online Only
I use a blend of approaches tailored to your needs, including attachment-based therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT).
When you feel stuck in patterns you want to break—ashamed, overwhelmed, or not yourself, repeating behaviors you swore you'd change or feel like the “black sheep,” you end up feeling disconnected, hopeless and struggle to set boundaries and acknowledge your needs. You feel drained and tired. But you don't have to keep carrying this alone. Therapy can be a place where you begin to untangle those old patterns and rediscover who you really are. Together, we can work toward healing past hurts, building self-trust, strengthening your relationships, and helping you feel more confident and at peace in your own life.
I use a blend of approaches tailored to your needs, including attachment-based therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT).
When you feel stuck in patterns you want to break—ashamed, overwhelmed, or not yourself, repeating behaviors you swore you'd change or feel like the “black sheep,” you end up feeling disconnected, hopeless and struggle to set boundaries and acknowledge your needs. You feel drained and tired. But you don't have to keep carrying this alone. Therapy can be a place where you begin to untangle those old patterns and rediscover who you really are. Together, we can work toward healing past hurts, building self-trust, strengthening your relationships, and helping you feel more confident and at peace in your own life.
(712) 458-6573 View (712) 458-6573
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Cassandra Dickerson
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, LMHC
Sioux City, IA 51104
Waitlist for new clients
Life can feel overwhelming when you’ve lost touch with your own needs, intuition, or sense of direction. Whether you're processing trauma, navigating transitions, or asking deeper questions about who you are and what you want, therapy can offer a grounded place to slow down and come home to yourself. I offer holistic, relational therapy that supports you in untangling old patterns, building emotional resilience, and making space for more ease, trust, and self-understanding.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’ve lost touch with your own needs, intuition, or sense of direction. Whether you're processing trauma, navigating transitions, or asking deeper questions about who you are and what you want, therapy can offer a grounded place to slow down and come home to yourself. I offer holistic, relational therapy that supports you in untangling old patterns, building emotional resilience, and making space for more ease, trust, and self-understanding.
(712) 201-2372 View (712) 201-2372
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Molly F Pace
Counselor, LMHC, ATR
2 Endorsed
Sioux City, IA 51106
I love helping people heal and to be a part of that process with them. We are either healing or healed, lets get through this together. I offer a range of modalities such as EMDR and art therapy, which get the whole brain on board and are both evidence based practices. Connecting with your therapist is one thing and effective interventions is another. I like working with individuals, couples, and families to develop this relationship and address the concerns they present with. Treating symptoms of depression, anxiety, PTSD, and general life stressors are what I do best.
I love helping people heal and to be a part of that process with them. We are either healing or healed, lets get through this together. I offer a range of modalities such as EMDR and art therapy, which get the whole brain on board and are both evidence based practices. Connecting with your therapist is one thing and effective interventions is another. I like working with individuals, couples, and families to develop this relationship and address the concerns they present with. Treating symptoms of depression, anxiety, PTSD, and general life stressors are what I do best.
(712) 435-1338 View (712) 435-1338

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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.