Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Johnson County, IA

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Susan Lynn Totten
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
Iowa City, IA 52245
The therapeutic relationship can be a very important one and, like any other healthy relationship, it is based on mutual respect, trust and commitment. I approach our work together with a nonjudgmental stance. I will meet you wherever you are in your life's journey and honor your unique strengths. I support clients in creating their most fulfilling lives, in line with their values and goals. I incorporate mindfulness into a collaborative and client-centered process and employ an honest, direct communication.
The therapeutic relationship can be a very important one and, like any other healthy relationship, it is based on mutual respect, trust and commitment. I approach our work together with a nonjudgmental stance. I will meet you wherever you are in your life's journey and honor your unique strengths. I support clients in creating their most fulfilling lives, in line with their values and goals. I incorporate mindfulness into a collaborative and client-centered process and employ an honest, direct communication.
(319) 774-3358 View (319) 774-3358
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James Neubauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PhD
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I am a geek-aware therapist, kink-aware and sex-positive therapist who maintains an open-minded approach.
I consider you the expert on what is going on with you, including your feelings, worries, and concerns. In a collaborative and shared space, we can find new meaning in the problems you experience. As we go through life, roadblocks and barriers to success are inevitable. My goal is to provide an open and accepting space where all people feel heard and accepted throughout the therapeutic experience. I offer a brave space for adults, teens, couples, and families from all backgrounds and populations seeking therapy, and I am committed to acceptance and mutual respect.
I am a geek-aware therapist, kink-aware and sex-positive therapist who maintains an open-minded approach.
I consider you the expert on what is going on with you, including your feelings, worries, and concerns. In a collaborative and shared space, we can find new meaning in the problems you experience. As we go through life, roadblocks and barriers to success are inevitable. My goal is to provide an open and accepting space where all people feel heard and accepted throughout the therapeutic experience. I offer a brave space for adults, teens, couples, and families from all backgrounds and populations seeking therapy, and I am committed to acceptance and mutual respect.
(319) 878-6056 View (319) 878-6056
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Cora Holland
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I'm currently a masters student at the University of Iowa working towards my degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I am an intern at North Star Psychological Center. I have worked with clients who face challenges with anxiety, depression, trauma and LGBTQIA+ issues. I enjoy working with individuals from all backgrounds, especially folks from LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities.
I'm currently a masters student at the University of Iowa working towards my degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I am an intern at North Star Psychological Center. I have worked with clients who face challenges with anxiety, depression, trauma and LGBTQIA+ issues. I enjoy working with individuals from all backgrounds, especially folks from LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities.
(319) 302-3267 View (319) 302-3267
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Anne K. Wiser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW, LISW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
With compassion and in a non-judging atmosphere, I partner with you to help you develop your personal wisdom and achieve the changes you aspire to. Prior to becoming a psychotherapist, I conducted brain research. My knowledge of how the brain functions guides my psychotherapy practice. I have 14 years experience helping people with a wide range of challenges, including depression, anxiety, unstable mood, low self-esteem, trauma & abuse including PTSD.
With compassion and in a non-judging atmosphere, I partner with you to help you develop your personal wisdom and achieve the changes you aspire to. Prior to becoming a psychotherapist, I conducted brain research. My knowledge of how the brain functions guides my psychotherapy practice. I have 14 years experience helping people with a wide range of challenges, including depression, anxiety, unstable mood, low self-esteem, trauma & abuse including PTSD.
(319) 313-2155 View (319) 313-2155
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Kelly McKay
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52245
Whatever you're currently struggling with: interpersonal issues, anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem, an existential or spiritual crisis, or simply work or school stress, I’m here to meet you where you’re at with compassion, patience, gentleness, and zero judgment as we collaborate on your therapeutic goals. My practice is primarily psychodynamic, while incorporating elements of cognitive and behavioral therapies as needed to assist in restructuring self-defeating patterns. An emphasis on the value of cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion is at the core of my philosophy.
Whatever you're currently struggling with: interpersonal issues, anxiety, depression, grief, low self-esteem, an existential or spiritual crisis, or simply work or school stress, I’m here to meet you where you’re at with compassion, patience, gentleness, and zero judgment as we collaborate on your therapeutic goals. My practice is primarily psychodynamic, while incorporating elements of cognitive and behavioral therapies as needed to assist in restructuring self-defeating patterns. An emphasis on the value of cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion is at the core of my philosophy.
(319) 800-5564 View (319) 800-5564
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Falon E. Hooks
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52240
Waitlist for new clients
Working with couples is my passion because I think a secure-functioning relationship can change an everything. We all get stuck in relationships, we get tired, overwhelmed and disconnected from ourselves and our partners. It is my goal to help you find your way back to each other.
Working with couples is my passion because I think a secure-functioning relationship can change an everything. We all get stuck in relationships, we get tired, overwhelmed and disconnected from ourselves and our partners. It is my goal to help you find your way back to each other.
(319) 237-7839 View (319) 237-7839
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Nicole Ito
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW
Verified Verified
North Liberty, IA 52317
The idea of therapy for many people can be scary in a lot of different ways. You may feel like it's an impossible step to take. Or maybe you feel a wall come up at the idea of possibly trusting a therapist. Whatever the case may be, I am here to respect and meet you where you are at. If you notice a mix of feelings or just feel ready to dive right in, that's welcome too; all parts of us are welcome here!
The idea of therapy for many people can be scary in a lot of different ways. You may feel like it's an impossible step to take. Or maybe you feel a wall come up at the idea of possibly trusting a therapist. Whatever the case may be, I am here to respect and meet you where you are at. If you notice a mix of feelings or just feel ready to dive right in, that's welcome too; all parts of us are welcome here!
(319) 528-5085 View (319) 528-5085
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Jacalyn McCarville
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NBCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I’m here to offer you a safe, supportive space to explore patterns in your thoughts and behaviors. Together, we’ll uncover your strengths and develop new skills—tools to help you face life’s challenges, navigate emotions, shift unhelpful thinking, and create lasting, meaningful change. My goal is to help you build emotional resilience so that, over time, you feel confident navigating life without therapy.
I’m here to offer you a safe, supportive space to explore patterns in your thoughts and behaviors. Together, we’ll uncover your strengths and develop new skills—tools to help you face life’s challenges, navigate emotions, shift unhelpful thinking, and create lasting, meaningful change. My goal is to help you build emotional resilience so that, over time, you feel confident navigating life without therapy.
(319) 595-4406 View (319) 595-4406
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Ece Akbay
Counselor, MEd , LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Whether you are feeling anxious, helpless, stuck or depressed, you do not have to overcome the challenges of life alone. I work collaboratively with my clients to help them identify ways to improve their quality of life. I believe that humans are resilient and have the resources to face obstacles in life. I appreciate each individual's unique personality and background. Contact me to learn more about my services and/or set up an initial appointment.
Whether you are feeling anxious, helpless, stuck or depressed, you do not have to overcome the challenges of life alone. I work collaboratively with my clients to help them identify ways to improve their quality of life. I believe that humans are resilient and have the resources to face obstacles in life. I appreciate each individual's unique personality and background. Contact me to learn more about my services and/or set up an initial appointment.
(319) 220-0747 View (319) 220-0747
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Emily Wilson
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
Verified Verified
Iowa City, IA 52245
Hello! I’m a Postdoctoral Fellow in Clinical Psychology. I have experience supporting adults and adolescents with concerns related to stigma and marginalization, sexuality and gender identity, body image and eating, perfectionism, grief, trauma, and relationships. I’m especially passionate about unpacking and resisting the effects of patriarchy, cisheterosexism, and other forms of marginalization on sexuality, gender identity, and relationships with others, ourselves, and our bodies.
Hello! I’m a Postdoctoral Fellow in Clinical Psychology. I have experience supporting adults and adolescents with concerns related to stigma and marginalization, sexuality and gender identity, body image and eating, perfectionism, grief, trauma, and relationships. I’m especially passionate about unpacking and resisting the effects of patriarchy, cisheterosexism, and other forms of marginalization on sexuality, gender identity, and relationships with others, ourselves, and our bodies.
(319) 220-6534 View (319) 220-6534
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Lexys Vaillancourt
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52245
Waitlist for new clients
I focus on supporting queer and neurodivergent people, couples, children, and families. My clients often face challenges in understanding their identities, navigating relationships, or belonging in their environments. They seek not only to address specific issues such as communication breakdowns, emotional dysregulation, or life transitions but also aim to achieve deeper self-understanding and acceptance. Utilizing systemic and humanistic therapies, I offer a compassionate space where clients can explore their needs and goals. Together, we will work to foster stronger connections, enhance self-esteem, and improve overall well-being.
I focus on supporting queer and neurodivergent people, couples, children, and families. My clients often face challenges in understanding their identities, navigating relationships, or belonging in their environments. They seek not only to address specific issues such as communication breakdowns, emotional dysregulation, or life transitions but also aim to achieve deeper self-understanding and acceptance. Utilizing systemic and humanistic therapies, I offer a compassionate space where clients can explore their needs and goals. Together, we will work to foster stronger connections, enhance self-esteem, and improve overall well-being.
(319) 988-2825 View (319) 988-2825
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Kayla Dick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coralville, IA 52241
My ideal client is a young adult navigating the complexities of identity, mental health, and life transitions. They may struggle with anxiety, depression, or trauma, and could be part of the LGBTQIA+ or neurodivergent community. Their goal is to better understand themselves, heal past wounds, and build resilience. They seek a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their emotions and relationships, aiming for personal growth and empowerment in their lives.
My ideal client is a young adult navigating the complexities of identity, mental health, and life transitions. They may struggle with anxiety, depression, or trauma, and could be part of the LGBTQIA+ or neurodivergent community. Their goal is to better understand themselves, heal past wounds, and build resilience. They seek a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their emotions and relationships, aiming for personal growth and empowerment in their lives.
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Jennifer Jorgensen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, tLMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52240
I believe that everyone deserves respect, dignity, and kindness. I create collaborative relationships with my clients to help them attain their therapeutic goals in an authentic way and I believe focusing on my clients strengths can create hope for the future. I work with individuals and couples to find solutions as I believe the client is the expert in their own life. I am dedicated to compassion and grace towards my clients and my intention is to support you on your journey moving towards healing and growth so you may feel connected to yourself and the world around you in a meaningful way.
I believe that everyone deserves respect, dignity, and kindness. I create collaborative relationships with my clients to help them attain their therapeutic goals in an authentic way and I believe focusing on my clients strengths can create hope for the future. I work with individuals and couples to find solutions as I believe the client is the expert in their own life. I am dedicated to compassion and grace towards my clients and my intention is to support you on your journey moving towards healing and growth so you may feel connected to yourself and the world around you in a meaningful way.
(319) 302-3599 View (319) 302-3599
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Daryl Byrd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
North Liberty, IA 52317
Children, adolescents, and adults who have faced challenging experiences in their lives or who are currently facing challenging experiences in their lives need and deserve to exist in spaces where they feel safe, can be heard and are accepted as they are. They often come to therapy because they believe they deserve to heal from their past experiences or cope with current experiences for themselves and those around them. Many of them also come to believe that they are inherently worthy of existing in a space that is safe and accepting of their authentic selves, which can be very freeing.
Children, adolescents, and adults who have faced challenging experiences in their lives or who are currently facing challenging experiences in their lives need and deserve to exist in spaces where they feel safe, can be heard and are accepted as they are. They often come to therapy because they believe they deserve to heal from their past experiences or cope with current experiences for themselves and those around them. Many of them also come to believe that they are inherently worthy of existing in a space that is safe and accepting of their authentic selves, which can be very freeing.
(319) 448-3296 View (319) 448-3296
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Lindsey Piper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LISW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52240
Waitlist for new clients
While I am on a waitlist for new clients, I have immediate openings for gender affirming care letters. I can offer this service free of charge for those who can't afford it. Poet Anne Sexton wrote, "That the worst of anyone Can be, finally, An accident of hope." If you're here, you probably feel at your worst. Maybe a traumatic event has left you feeling broken and lost. Perhaps what you've been doing to cope just isn't working anymore, or is doing more harm than good. Whatever your reasons, I'm glad you're thinking about therapy. This process can be scary and takes hard work, and I welcome anyone courageous enough to seek out hope.
While I am on a waitlist for new clients, I have immediate openings for gender affirming care letters. I can offer this service free of charge for those who can't afford it. Poet Anne Sexton wrote, "That the worst of anyone Can be, finally, An accident of hope." If you're here, you probably feel at your worst. Maybe a traumatic event has left you feeling broken and lost. Perhaps what you've been doing to cope just isn't working anymore, or is doing more harm than good. Whatever your reasons, I'm glad you're thinking about therapy. This process can be scary and takes hard work, and I welcome anyone courageous enough to seek out hope.
(319) 302-3304 View (319) 302-3304
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Amanda Goslin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Coralville, IA 52241
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Certified Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. I have specialized training in treating clients with sexual issues and concerns, and extensive training in sexuality education. My approach to therapy is to promote proper care of our bodies for optimal health & functioning. I work with individuals or relationships of all kinds to focus on a personalized therapy experience and approach to living life in a way that supports clients through all dimensions of wellness. I believe sexuality is at the core of the human experience & an inherent & essential dimension of being human.
I am a Certified Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. I have specialized training in treating clients with sexual issues and concerns, and extensive training in sexuality education. My approach to therapy is to promote proper care of our bodies for optimal health & functioning. I work with individuals or relationships of all kinds to focus on a personalized therapy experience and approach to living life in a way that supports clients through all dimensions of wellness. I believe sexuality is at the core of the human experience & an inherent & essential dimension of being human.
(319) 281-0335 View (319) 281-0335
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Luca Reid
Counselor, MEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
North Liberty, IA 52317
In the years that I have been working as a mental health provider, I have met with individuals from a broad range of backgrounds. My clients have a variety of mental health problems, relationship issues, life transitional periods, grief and loss, trauma, and similar hardships. Some clients know what they suffer from and are ready to make changes. Some of my clients have felt something has been "off" for some time but do not know where to start, so I help them to assess the problem areas and track their progress between sessions. Changes happen at different speeds to different people for different reasons.
In the years that I have been working as a mental health provider, I have met with individuals from a broad range of backgrounds. My clients have a variety of mental health problems, relationship issues, life transitional periods, grief and loss, trauma, and similar hardships. Some clients know what they suffer from and are ready to make changes. Some of my clients have felt something has been "off" for some time but do not know where to start, so I help them to assess the problem areas and track their progress between sessions. Changes happen at different speeds to different people for different reasons.
(319) 257-2726 View (319) 257-2726
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Natalie Benway-Correll
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52240
Waitlist for new clients
I have been working with adults and couples since 2006, providing an empathetic, collaborative, and client-centered approach. My goal is to offer a compassionate and attuned space where clients can explore their inner world. Drawing from a blend of traditional and holistic methods, we work together to develop a personalized treatment plan that supports healing and transformation.
I have been working with adults and couples since 2006, providing an empathetic, collaborative, and client-centered approach. My goal is to offer a compassionate and attuned space where clients can explore their inner world. Drawing from a blend of traditional and holistic methods, we work together to develop a personalized treatment plan that supports healing and transformation.
(319) 456-4669 View (319) 456-4669
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Omnia Yeater
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Iowa City, IA 52240
Waitlist for new clients
Omnia is a licensed social worker who is passionate about providing services to individuals experiencing grief, loss, trauma, opioid and substance use disorders, anxiety, depression, and life adjustments/transitions. Omnia provides individual therapy to clients ranging from 17 years old to adults. Omnia has worked in many different settings, including behavioral health clinics specializing in substance use disorders, crisis stabilization units, and supporting individuals and families experiencing the death of a loved one.
Omnia is a licensed social worker who is passionate about providing services to individuals experiencing grief, loss, trauma, opioid and substance use disorders, anxiety, depression, and life adjustments/transitions. Omnia provides individual therapy to clients ranging from 17 years old to adults. Omnia has worked in many different settings, including behavioral health clinics specializing in substance use disorders, crisis stabilization units, and supporting individuals and families experiencing the death of a loved one.
(319) 766-6025 View (319) 766-6025
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Julian and Associates Psychotherapy Services PC
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, ACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Iowa City, IA 52245
Dr. Julian has been in mental health practice since 2004 and is dedicated to the empowerment of her clients. She has specialty training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy from EMDRIA and Sex Therapy from the Florida Sex Therapy Institute.
Dr. Julian has been in mental health practice since 2004 and is dedicated to the empowerment of her clients. She has specialty training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy from EMDRIA and Sex Therapy from the Florida Sex Therapy Institute.
(319) 250-4836 View (319) 250-4836
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.