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Holly Tofanelli

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (she, her)

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Saint Paul, MN 55105
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Saint Paul, MN 55105
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You might be asking some version of the same thing: Why does this keep happening? Why am I still having the same fight, feeling the same disconnect, or ending up in the same place again? Sometimes it looks like conflict. Sometimes it looks like shutting down, frustration, loneliness, or feeling misunderstood in relationships that matter to you. Sometimes it’s parenting and realizing you’re reacting in ways you swore you wouldn’t. Sometimes it’s just the exhaustion of overthinking everything and not knowing why it still feels this hard.
It’s easy to get stuck trying to figure out if you’re the problem or everyone else is. Most of the time, that’s not the real answer. Usually, it’s the pattern. The dynamic. The thing underneath what keeps pulling you back into the same place.
That’s the part we work with. Not just insight, but what actually shifts things. Less second-guessing. Less reactivity. Less internal conflict. More clarity. More steadiness. More room to be who you actually are in your relationships.
Take the first step to help. Holly Tofanelli now

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Saint Paul, MN 55105

My website
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Anger Management 
$155 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Saint Paul, MN 55105

My website
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Anger Management 
$155 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $155
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
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Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Minnesota / 2396 Holly Tofanelli
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Minnesota School of Professional Psychology, Graduated 2009
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Ramsey Co. ART - Aggression Replacement / 2008
  • Certificate from Prepare/Enrich 2012
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience.
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Anger Management

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Brainspotting & EMDR
  • Child
  • Chronic Pain
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Dementia
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Geriatric and Seniors
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Oppositional Defiance (ODD)
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Therapy
  • Spirituality
  • Substance Use
  • Teen Violence
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Transgender
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs?
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs?


Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Single Parent

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Single Parent

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Art Therapy
  • Attachment-based
  • Brainspotting
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Group facilitator
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Interpersonal
  • Intervention
  • Jungian
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like.
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like.

Location

Primary Location

Saint Paul, MN 55105

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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
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Holly Tofanelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT