Therapists in Honolulu, HI
Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially when life feels disconnected, uncertain, or heavy. Many of my clients come in feeling stuck in patterns they can’t quite name—struggling with relationship conflict, emotional pain, or the aftermath of past experiences. Others are working through transitions or seeking clarity about who they are and what they want. Whether you’re an individual trying to understand yourself or a couple better hoping to feel close again, you deserve support that honors your story.
Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially when life feels disconnected, uncertain, or heavy. Many of my clients come in feeling stuck in patterns they can’t quite name—struggling with relationship conflict, emotional pain, or the aftermath of past experiences. Others are working through transitions or seeking clarity about who they are and what they want. Whether you’re an individual trying to understand yourself or a couple better hoping to feel close again, you deserve support that honors your story.
Stress, anxiety, relationship conflicts; the list of life's challenges goes on. I will walk with you to help identify the root of these difficulties and discover solutions and strategies to navigate the world in a healthy way.
Stress, anxiety, relationship conflicts; the list of life's challenges goes on. I will walk with you to help identify the root of these difficulties and discover solutions and strategies to navigate the world in a healthy way.
If you have a child with behavioral difficulties and need to decrease outbursts, if you cannot get your adolescent to listen, or don’t know what to do to support your teenager who is struggling with mood swings, I can help. Whether you are an individual or a parent who wants to improve your quality of life, a couple or a family that wants better cohesiveness, I have worked as an individual and family therapist on many of the Hawaiian islands with local families and families new to the islands on a plethora of issues.
If you have a child with behavioral difficulties and need to decrease outbursts, if you cannot get your adolescent to listen, or don’t know what to do to support your teenager who is struggling with mood swings, I can help. Whether you are an individual or a parent who wants to improve your quality of life, a couple or a family that wants better cohesiveness, I have worked as an individual and family therapist on many of the Hawaiian islands with local families and families new to the islands on a plethora of issues.
I became a psychologist because I’ve always been curious—about myself, others, and the deeper layers of what it means to be human. That curiosity has led me to live in different cities and work with people from a range of backgrounds and experiences. I have found therapy to be like walking through a museum of our lives—some rooms are beautiful, some are painful, but all are worth exploring with care and presence.
In session, I value showing up as my authentic self and building a real connection— I believe that’s where healing starts. Outside of session I'm usually gardening, walking my dog, making art, or with friends and family.
I became a psychologist because I’ve always been curious—about myself, others, and the deeper layers of what it means to be human. That curiosity has led me to live in different cities and work with people from a range of backgrounds and experiences. I have found therapy to be like walking through a museum of our lives—some rooms are beautiful, some are painful, but all are worth exploring with care and presence.
In session, I value showing up as my authentic self and building a real connection— I believe that’s where healing starts. Outside of session I'm usually gardening, walking my dog, making art, or with friends and family.
I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and Mental Health Counselor with over 20 years of experience working in the mental health field in Honolulu, Hawaii. I strive to help individuals, couples and families to make positive changes by improving their quality of life, creating and achieving their personal goals, ultimately achieving their fulfillments in life.
I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and Mental Health Counselor with over 20 years of experience working in the mental health field in Honolulu, Hawaii. I strive to help individuals, couples and families to make positive changes by improving their quality of life, creating and achieving their personal goals, ultimately achieving their fulfillments in life.
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
Being born and raised in Hawaii and going through the public school system made me aware of the challenges we all face at various stages in our lives. Whether it is anxiety from life transitions, low self-esteem that became depression, or behavioral issues that lead to diagnoses, I'd like to help you improve your quality of life and find your true self. We will look at where the current view of yourself and others came from and how this has impacted your ability to emotionally regulate in stressful situations. Together, we will figure out the goals that you want to achieve and a guide on how to get there.
Being born and raised in Hawaii and going through the public school system made me aware of the challenges we all face at various stages in our lives. Whether it is anxiety from life transitions, low self-esteem that became depression, or behavioral issues that lead to diagnoses, I'd like to help you improve your quality of life and find your true self. We will look at where the current view of yourself and others came from and how this has impacted your ability to emotionally regulate in stressful situations. Together, we will figure out the goals that you want to achieve and a guide on how to get there.
Seeking help? ...There had been a more persistent hope that you could do it on your own, that you wouldn’t need to seek help. But that feeling of being stuck just won’t go away. I know; I’ve been there too. You’ve tried many things: from ignoring and distracting yourself to perhaps making big external changes—all in an attempt to shake things up and shake things off. But you still can’t seem to get to that next goal in life or stage in your relationships. What you want may also be hard to define. It’s darn frustrating.
Seeking help? ...There had been a more persistent hope that you could do it on your own, that you wouldn’t need to seek help. But that feeling of being stuck just won’t go away. I know; I’ve been there too. You’ve tried many things: from ignoring and distracting yourself to perhaps making big external changes—all in an attempt to shake things up and shake things off. But you still can’t seem to get to that next goal in life or stage in your relationships. What you want may also be hard to define. It’s darn frustrating.
Feeling stuck and overwhelmed? Burned out? You’re doing your best to support others - your family, your friends, your kids, your work, your house, maybe even your pets. It can be physically and emotionally exhausting. You may be telling yourself if you were only smart enough, strong enough, just ENOUGH then somehow you could figure all of this out.
Feeling stuck and overwhelmed? Burned out? You’re doing your best to support others - your family, your friends, your kids, your work, your house, maybe even your pets. It can be physically and emotionally exhausting. You may be telling yourself if you were only smart enough, strong enough, just ENOUGH then somehow you could figure all of this out.
Sometimes life is rough. You may want to make changes in your life, but may be unsure about where to start. I assist individuals and couples in better understanding the struggles they have been facing through improving their awareness of cognitive and behavioral patterns that may have become maladaptive.
Sometimes life is rough. You may want to make changes in your life, but may be unsure about where to start. I assist individuals and couples in better understanding the struggles they have been facing through improving their awareness of cognitive and behavioral patterns that may have become maladaptive.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, or life’s many changes? If you’re struggling with workplace stress, caregiver stress, or adjusting to new circumstances-like supporting aging parents-you’re not alone. Starting therapy can feel intimidating, but I believe in the profound growth and healing it can bring.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, or life’s many changes? If you’re struggling with workplace stress, caregiver stress, or adjusting to new circumstances-like supporting aging parents-you’re not alone. Starting therapy can feel intimidating, but I believe in the profound growth and healing it can bring.
Hi! I'm Miriam. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker licensed in the state of Hawaii, as well as a Certified Anger Management Specialist II, through the National Anger Management Association, a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor and a supervisor for MSW's wanting to obtain licensure. I have been practicing social work for over fifteen years. I work with adults on developing skills to reduce stress, depression and anger, while focusing on relationships and life transitions.
Hi! I'm Miriam. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker licensed in the state of Hawaii, as well as a Certified Anger Management Specialist II, through the National Anger Management Association, a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor and a supervisor for MSW's wanting to obtain licensure. I have been practicing social work for over fifteen years. I work with adults on developing skills to reduce stress, depression and anger, while focusing on relationships and life transitions.
Life has challenges and therapy can help to progress with wisdom, strength, and healing to a healthy, effective, and enjoyable life. I will work with you to build marriages, family relationships, and personal growth. If your Christian faith is important to you, I enjoy including the principles of Christianity in therapy.
Life has challenges and therapy can help to progress with wisdom, strength, and healing to a healthy, effective, and enjoyable life. I will work with you to build marriages, family relationships, and personal growth. If your Christian faith is important to you, I enjoy including the principles of Christianity in therapy.
I am committed to providing compassionate, evidence-based support to individuals seeking to improve their mental and emotional well-being. I create a warm, empathetic environment where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to make lasting positive changes in their lives.
I am committed to providing compassionate, evidence-based support to individuals seeking to improve their mental and emotional well-being. I create a warm, empathetic environment where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to make lasting positive changes in their lives.
You’ve worked hard to get where you are, but lately it feels like your career is draining more than it’s giving. Boundaries are blurred. Motivation has slipped. You’re juggling deadlines, caregiving, and expectations with no time to breathe. Maybe you're questioning if this lifestyle is sustainable. You’re not broken—you’re burned out. And recovery is possible.
I’m a National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach and vocational rehabilitation counselor with 15+ years of experience helping IT professionals, healthcare workers, and military personnel navigate navigate chronic stress, role fatigue, and career transitions.
You’ve worked hard to get where you are, but lately it feels like your career is draining more than it’s giving. Boundaries are blurred. Motivation has slipped. You’re juggling deadlines, caregiving, and expectations with no time to breathe. Maybe you're questioning if this lifestyle is sustainable. You’re not broken—you’re burned out. And recovery is possible.
I’m a National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach and vocational rehabilitation counselor with 15+ years of experience helping IT professionals, healthcare workers, and military personnel navigate navigate chronic stress, role fatigue, and career transitions.
Are you a strong-independent woman who is struggling in her marriage? Are you feeling held-back by your husband’s unwillingness to change? Do you really want to work things out but feel like you've tried everything already? If you answered, “yes,” to any of these questions above, I would love to support you in your next steps and help you create the life you absolutely love living IN the relationship of your dreams! Here's what most therapist don't tell you: marriage counseling doesn't work if one party is unwilling to change! So I found an alternative to couples counseling... (that's right, this is coming from a marriage therapist)
Are you a strong-independent woman who is struggling in her marriage? Are you feeling held-back by your husband’s unwillingness to change? Do you really want to work things out but feel like you've tried everything already? If you answered, “yes,” to any of these questions above, I would love to support you in your next steps and help you create the life you absolutely love living IN the relationship of your dreams! Here's what most therapist don't tell you: marriage counseling doesn't work if one party is unwilling to change! So I found an alternative to couples counseling... (that's right, this is coming from a marriage therapist)
I provide services throughout the state of Hawai’i, all islands are welcomed! I know finding a therapist can be a daunting task. I hope this profile will help you take the first step in prioritizing your emotional wellbeing to live a more meaningful life. The most important aspect of therapy is the relationship between you and I. My approach to therapy is focused on the unique needs of the individual and/or the family from a person-centered/ humanistic lens. My therapeutic foundation is centered on my cultural background, and built upon the platform of Lōkahi.
I provide services throughout the state of Hawai’i, all islands are welcomed! I know finding a therapist can be a daunting task. I hope this profile will help you take the first step in prioritizing your emotional wellbeing to live a more meaningful life. The most important aspect of therapy is the relationship between you and I. My approach to therapy is focused on the unique needs of the individual and/or the family from a person-centered/ humanistic lens. My therapeutic foundation is centered on my cultural background, and built upon the platform of Lōkahi.
There are many changes in the ebbs and flows of life that can bring us to a place where we realize we’re stuck and don’t know how to move forward. Part of the reason I became a therapist was my own experience needing help to gain perspective and grow when I felt like I couldn’t see where else to go. Now I seek to connect with the clients I serve to help them feel seen and explore new paths together. I specialize in helping you recognize emotional patterns that you may be struggling with and providing inspiration to build new ones.
There are many changes in the ebbs and flows of life that can bring us to a place where we realize we’re stuck and don’t know how to move forward. Part of the reason I became a therapist was my own experience needing help to gain perspective and grow when I felt like I couldn’t see where else to go. Now I seek to connect with the clients I serve to help them feel seen and explore new paths together. I specialize in helping you recognize emotional patterns that you may be struggling with and providing inspiration to build new ones.
Our capacity to connect, both with ourselves (i.e. our passions, feelings, and body) and with others, is crucial to our feelings of well-being. When we connect, we generally feel a sense of aliveness in ourselves and the world. When we can't connect, we feel anxious, isolated, empty, or depressed. I feel my job is to help clients to more fully connect to the range of their experiences. I help adults, adolescents, and couples explore why they lose connection. I help them identify, understand, and overcome the deep root of their disconnection. I help them find well-being, which gives me great joy.
Our capacity to connect, both with ourselves (i.e. our passions, feelings, and body) and with others, is crucial to our feelings of well-being. When we connect, we generally feel a sense of aliveness in ourselves and the world. When we can't connect, we feel anxious, isolated, empty, or depressed. I feel my job is to help clients to more fully connect to the range of their experiences. I help adults, adolescents, and couples explore why they lose connection. I help them identify, understand, and overcome the deep root of their disconnection. I help them find well-being, which gives me great joy.
Welcome and thank you for viewing my profile. I am a Clinical Psychologist in private practice, working with adults ages 21 - 64. I provide individual psychotherapy for depression, anxiety, panic attacks, relationship problems, low self-esteem, grief/loss, women's issues including postpartum disorders and infertility, stress management, and adjustment issues/life transitions.
Welcome and thank you for viewing my profile. I am a Clinical Psychologist in private practice, working with adults ages 21 - 64. I provide individual psychotherapy for depression, anxiety, panic attacks, relationship problems, low self-esteem, grief/loss, women's issues including postpartum disorders and infertility, stress management, and adjustment issues/life transitions.
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Number of Therapists in Honolulu, HI
800+
Average cost per session
$150
Therapists in Honolulu, HI who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 83% | Depression |
| 78% | Relationship Issues |
| 75% | Self Esteem |
| 71% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 71% | Stress |
| 70% | Coping Skills |
Average years in practice
12 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 72% | Hawaii Medical Services Association |
| 52% | Hawaii Medical Assurance Association |
| 52% | University Health Alliance |
How Therapists in Honolulu, HI see their clients
| 56% | Online Only | |
| 44% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 77% | Female | |
| 22% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


