Therapists in Honolulu, HI
Being born and raised in Hawaii and going through the public school system made me aware of the challenges we all face at various stages in our lives. Whether it is anxiety from life transitions, low self-esteem that became depression, or behavioral issues that lead to diagnoses, I'd like to help you improve your quality of life and find your true self. We will look at where the current view of yourself and others came from and how this has impacted your ability to emotionally regulate in stressful situations. Together, we will figure out the goals that you want to achieve and a guide on how to get there.
Being born and raised in Hawaii and going through the public school system made me aware of the challenges we all face at various stages in our lives. Whether it is anxiety from life transitions, low self-esteem that became depression, or behavioral issues that lead to diagnoses, I'd like to help you improve your quality of life and find your true self. We will look at where the current view of yourself and others came from and how this has impacted your ability to emotionally regulate in stressful situations. Together, we will figure out the goals that you want to achieve and a guide on how to get there.
Aloha. You may be exploring your gender or sexuality, questioning your identity, or figuring out what comes next. I support individuals through the coming out process and the life transitions that follow, including the impact on relationships and your connection with yourself and others.
Gender dysphoria and hormone replacement therapy can bring up a lot to sort through. I offer a grounded space to talk through your thoughts and emotions as they arise, and I also provide gender affirmation letters when needed.
Aloha. You may be exploring your gender or sexuality, questioning your identity, or figuring out what comes next. I support individuals through the coming out process and the life transitions that follow, including the impact on relationships and your connection with yourself and others.
Gender dysphoria and hormone replacement therapy can bring up a lot to sort through. I offer a grounded space to talk through your thoughts and emotions as they arise, and I also provide gender affirmation letters when needed.
Welina mai me ke aloha iā kākou (Hello and Welcome everyone)! It takes a lot of strength and bravery to seek support in navigating the challenges we encounter throughout different life stages. I provide supportive counseling to help you through these transitions, utilizing intentional, solution-focused therapy techniques to work with you toward creating a brighter future. I work as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Hawai'i, California, and Washington as well as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor in Hawai'i.
Welina mai me ke aloha iā kākou (Hello and Welcome everyone)! It takes a lot of strength and bravery to seek support in navigating the challenges we encounter throughout different life stages. I provide supportive counseling to help you through these transitions, utilizing intentional, solution-focused therapy techniques to work with you toward creating a brighter future. I work as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Hawai'i, California, and Washington as well as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor in Hawai'i.
The healing process is one that is infinite and the beauty of that rests in the fact that there are an abundance of healing methods and forms of healing. Sourcing the appropriate path is contingent upon our present state and what we need in that particular life moment. I believe that a holistic approach to psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues is the most effective way to reaching the source of our distress. Throughout treatment an individual or family is provided with various coping tools and skills to manage symptoms.
The healing process is one that is infinite and the beauty of that rests in the fact that there are an abundance of healing methods and forms of healing. Sourcing the appropriate path is contingent upon our present state and what we need in that particular life moment. I believe that a holistic approach to psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues is the most effective way to reaching the source of our distress. Throughout treatment an individual or family is provided with various coping tools and skills to manage symptoms.
I have deep local roots in Hawai’i with a love for its culture, history and people. I enjoy working with Hawaii’s families and children in fostering emotional growth and regulation.
I have deep local roots in Hawai’i with a love for its culture, history and people. I enjoy working with Hawaii’s families and children in fostering emotional growth and regulation.
I offer an eclectic mix of a strength-based, person-centered model, grounded in science and contemplative practice to work with difficult emotions, self-esteem/identity, relationships and life transitions. I work with both children and adults, and offer individual, couples and family sessions. I welcome the opportunity to explore what is present for you and work towards that place of well-being/health, basic goodness, authenticity and aliveness.
I offer an eclectic mix of a strength-based, person-centered model, grounded in science and contemplative practice to work with difficult emotions, self-esteem/identity, relationships and life transitions. I work with both children and adults, and offer individual, couples and family sessions. I welcome the opportunity to explore what is present for you and work towards that place of well-being/health, basic goodness, authenticity and aliveness.
Do you feel like you are having the same argument with your partner over and over again? Do you feel like your relationship with your partner needs a tune-up or even a rehaul? Are you looking for a safe and caring space where a therapist can help you both explore your relationship and reconnect? Have you experienced abuse in a close relationship, whether in childhood or more recently, and want a therapist who can help each partner safely explore their healing and learn to respond to their own and each other’s reactions in ways that support a thriving relationship?
Do you feel like you are having the same argument with your partner over and over again? Do you feel like your relationship with your partner needs a tune-up or even a rehaul? Are you looking for a safe and caring space where a therapist can help you both explore your relationship and reconnect? Have you experienced abuse in a close relationship, whether in childhood or more recently, and want a therapist who can help each partner safely explore their healing and learn to respond to their own and each other’s reactions in ways that support a thriving relationship?
I provide a non-judgmental space for curiosity and mindfulness to grow. The journey into existence and exploring who you are can be a challenging experience. Suffering is abundant, and so is pleasure and joy! My philosophy on psychotherapy is as follows: The space we co-create in therapy is designed to deepen your understanding of yourself, raise your baseline well-being, reduce suffering, and aid in your flourishing and flexibility. Let's work toward an authentic life attuned to your values while reducing unhealthy habits. I am currently under the supervision of Dr. Christine Park, whose info can be found by clicking "my website".
I provide a non-judgmental space for curiosity and mindfulness to grow. The journey into existence and exploring who you are can be a challenging experience. Suffering is abundant, and so is pleasure and joy! My philosophy on psychotherapy is as follows: The space we co-create in therapy is designed to deepen your understanding of yourself, raise your baseline well-being, reduce suffering, and aid in your flourishing and flexibility. Let's work toward an authentic life attuned to your values while reducing unhealthy habits. I am currently under the supervision of Dr. Christine Park, whose info can be found by clicking "my website".
I offer virtual therapy sessions anywhere on Hawaii.
Life keeps moving and changing, sometimes faster than we expect. Challenges, big or small, can show up and leave us feeling stretched, yet inside every person there is a natural ability to adapt and grow. Even in hard seasons, new strength and a steadier heart are already forming.
While facing struggles alone can hold value, there is deep wisdom in trusting a safe relationship to help carry what feels heavy. Therapy offers that space. It is a place to be seen, heard, and understood while learning to see and support yourself.
I offer virtual therapy sessions anywhere on Hawaii.
Life keeps moving and changing, sometimes faster than we expect. Challenges, big or small, can show up and leave us feeling stretched, yet inside every person there is a natural ability to adapt and grow. Even in hard seasons, new strength and a steadier heart are already forming.
While facing struggles alone can hold value, there is deep wisdom in trusting a safe relationship to help carry what feels heavy. Therapy offers that space. It is a place to be seen, heard, and understood while learning to see and support yourself.
Happiness is the only true measure of success. When we realize that something is impeding our journey of life a conscious choice can be made to change that which is keeping greater happiness at bay. The other choice is to remain on our current path and choose to accept things exactly for how they are. Self-doubt, fears, anger, grief, past trauma, or maladaptive behaviors, challenge many good people. Whether it is personal growth you seek or better relationships with loved ones, neighbors, or coworkers - permit me to be your professional guide on the road to your success.
Happiness is the only true measure of success. When we realize that something is impeding our journey of life a conscious choice can be made to change that which is keeping greater happiness at bay. The other choice is to remain on our current path and choose to accept things exactly for how they are. Self-doubt, fears, anger, grief, past trauma, or maladaptive behaviors, challenge many good people. Whether it is personal growth you seek or better relationships with loved ones, neighbors, or coworkers - permit me to be your professional guide on the road to your success.
Support shouldn’t require you to justify who you are or how you love. You may be seeking a therapist who understands identity and relationships without needing explanation. You may be navigating identity exploration, minority stress, internalized shame, or relational challenges shaped by stigma rather than personal failure. You want support that affirms who you are, honors chosen family and nontraditional structures, and helps you live and relate with greater authenticity, safety, and self-trust.
Support shouldn’t require you to justify who you are or how you love. You may be seeking a therapist who understands identity and relationships without needing explanation. You may be navigating identity exploration, minority stress, internalized shame, or relational challenges shaped by stigma rather than personal failure. You want support that affirms who you are, honors chosen family and nontraditional structures, and helps you live and relate with greater authenticity, safety, and self-trust.
As a neuropsychologist, I provide neuropsychological assessments, diagnostic services, and treatment to a wide range of clients, from questions about a child's learning difficulties to concerns about a senior's memory that has started to impact their daily living. I also provide a wide range of evaluations for legal related issues from Independent Medical Examinations, fitness for duty to legal issues; such as testamentary capacity. I approach each person with care and consideration for their emotional well-being, cultural background, age, and life experiences that may affect cognitive functioning. My goal is to provide a comprehensive and quality evaluation product whether that be for an individual client or third-party. My endeavor is to give the client the information they need to develop the best treatment plan for neuropsychological health or legal outcome. An appropriate diagnosis is dependent upon a good history, interviewing family members, teachers and review of records as appropriate. I strive to develop a treatment plan tailored to the individual with written reports appropriate for the consumer, be they parents, adult children, physicians, or lawyers.
As a neuropsychologist, I provide neuropsychological assessments, diagnostic services, and treatment to a wide range of clients, from questions about a child's learning difficulties to concerns about a senior's memory that has started to impact their daily living. I also provide a wide range of evaluations for legal related issues from Independent Medical Examinations, fitness for duty to legal issues; such as testamentary capacity. I approach each person with care and consideration for their emotional well-being, cultural background, age, and life experiences that may affect cognitive functioning. My goal is to provide a comprehensive and quality evaluation product whether that be for an individual client or third-party. My endeavor is to give the client the information they need to develop the best treatment plan for neuropsychological health or legal outcome. An appropriate diagnosis is dependent upon a good history, interviewing family members, teachers and review of records as appropriate. I strive to develop a treatment plan tailored to the individual with written reports appropriate for the consumer, be they parents, adult children, physicians, or lawyers.
Aloha! I am delighted that you found me! I am a clinical social worker and an educator, deeply committed to embrace and empower those I work with towards living fuller, richer lives. I offer individuals a safe, supportive, encouraging, non-judgmental, and nurturing space where they may explore and grow. I help clients, by empowering them to take charge of their lives. My role is to illuminate the path to their ideal future.
Aloha! I am delighted that you found me! I am a clinical social worker and an educator, deeply committed to embrace and empower those I work with towards living fuller, richer lives. I offer individuals a safe, supportive, encouraging, non-judgmental, and nurturing space where they may explore and grow. I help clients, by empowering them to take charge of their lives. My role is to illuminate the path to their ideal future.
Starting therapy can feel vulnerable, and I deeply respect your courage in exploring this step. Therapy is a personal journey, and I strive to create a safe space that feels safe and supportive, where you can share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with care and without fear of judgment. My goal is to guide you to overcome challenges and support you in building a life aligned with your values and aspirations. My background includes working with adults from diverse backgrounds facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, grief, identity, interpersonal relationship issues, life transitions, and trauma.
Starting therapy can feel vulnerable, and I deeply respect your courage in exploring this step. Therapy is a personal journey, and I strive to create a safe space that feels safe and supportive, where you can share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with care and without fear of judgment. My goal is to guide you to overcome challenges and support you in building a life aligned with your values and aspirations. My background includes working with adults from diverse backgrounds facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, grief, identity, interpersonal relationship issues, life transitions, and trauma.
We all have the desire to experience connection and contribution to the community beyond ourselves. Often on this journey, we experience significant challenges and stuck periods. I believe each individual has the capability to overcome these obstacles given a nurturing and supportive environment. When working with clients, I attempt to provide this environment in order for my clients to enact meaningful change in their lives.
We all have the desire to experience connection and contribution to the community beyond ourselves. Often on this journey, we experience significant challenges and stuck periods. I believe each individual has the capability to overcome these obstacles given a nurturing and supportive environment. When working with clients, I attempt to provide this environment in order for my clients to enact meaningful change in their lives.
Aloha mai! I'm Lauren Melendez, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and I'm here to support you on your journey to healing and growth. If you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, or relationship challenges, know that you're not alone—and you don't have to navigate this path by yourself. My approach to therapy is holistic, focusing on the powerful connection between your body and mind. Together, we'll work to uncover the root of your struggles and develop new ways of coping that feel right for you. Our work together will be a collaborative process.
Aloha mai! I'm Lauren Melendez, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and I'm here to support you on your journey to healing and growth. If you're struggling with anxiety, trauma, or relationship challenges, know that you're not alone—and you don't have to navigate this path by yourself. My approach to therapy is holistic, focusing on the powerful connection between your body and mind. Together, we'll work to uncover the root of your struggles and develop new ways of coping that feel right for you. Our work together will be a collaborative process.
It gets much better from here. No matter what you're going through, our expert providers are here to help with online mental health care tailored to you. Brightside Health offers personalized psychiatry, proven therapy, or both to help you feel better. Get started right from home, with appointments in as little as 2 days.
It gets much better from here. No matter what you're going through, our expert providers are here to help with online mental health care tailored to you. Brightside Health offers personalized psychiatry, proven therapy, or both to help you feel better. Get started right from home, with appointments in as little as 2 days.
Welcome to a place where you can be yourself feeling safe and secure. My goal is to provide you ways to rediscover yourself while alleviating barriers. Together we will set meaningful goals to get you to a place of feeling comfortable with yourself. I am open to getting to know you and would love to help you get through this time in your life.
Welcome to a place where you can be yourself feeling safe and secure. My goal is to provide you ways to rediscover yourself while alleviating barriers. Together we will set meaningful goals to get you to a place of feeling comfortable with yourself. I am open to getting to know you and would love to help you get through this time in your life.
Feeling stuck and in need of a gentle reset? You deserve a compassionate ally to navigate life with you. Let's embark on a journey towards authenticity, where together we'll tackle the hurdles in your path one step at a time. Through our collaborative efforts, you'll discover the strength within yourself to break free from old patterns and embrace a life that aligns with your true essence and purpose.
Feeling stuck and in need of a gentle reset? You deserve a compassionate ally to navigate life with you. Let's embark on a journey towards authenticity, where together we'll tackle the hurdles in your path one step at a time. Through our collaborative efforts, you'll discover the strength within yourself to break free from old patterns and embrace a life that aligns with your true essence and purpose.
Are you facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, panic attacks, work stress, family conflict, identity questions, or significant life transitions? If so, you're not alone—and you don’t have to carry it all by yourself. Life can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions are complicated to manage or you’re unsure of your next steps. Therapy offers a space to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with yourself, your values, and what matters most to you. As a licensed mental health counselor with advanced degrees in counseling and educational psychology, I offer compassionate, personalized support tailored to your needs.
Are you facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, panic attacks, work stress, family conflict, identity questions, or significant life transitions? If so, you're not alone—and you don’t have to carry it all by yourself. Life can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions are complicated to manage or you’re unsure of your next steps. Therapy offers a space to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with yourself, your values, and what matters most to you. As a licensed mental health counselor with advanced degrees in counseling and educational psychology, I offer compassionate, personalized support tailored to your needs.
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Number of Therapists in Honolulu, HI
900+
Average cost per session
$150
Therapists in Honolulu, HI who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 92% | Social Anxiety |
| 92% | Health Anxiety |
| 92% | Driving Anxiety |
| 83% | Depression |
| 78% | Relationship Issues |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
Average years in practice
12 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 72% | Hawaii Medical Services Association |
| 52% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
| 52% | University Health Alliance |
How Therapists in Honolulu, HI see their clients
| 56% | Online Only | |
| 44% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 77% | Female | |
| 22% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Honolulu?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


