Therapists in Honolulu, HI
My ideal patient is ready for specialized therapy. They are willing to shift disruptive thinking patterns and decision making that leaves them or others feeling hurt again and again. They are curious about what keeps them stuck.
I will guide you with direct and laser sharp clinical precision - in a way where you're left feeling clear, hopeful, and empowered to be radically honest with yourself and others in spite of how scary that can sometimes be.
My ideal patient is ready for specialized therapy. They are willing to shift disruptive thinking patterns and decision making that leaves them or others feeling hurt again and again. They are curious about what keeps them stuck.
I will guide you with direct and laser sharp clinical precision - in a way where you're left feeling clear, hopeful, and empowered to be radically honest with yourself and others in spite of how scary that can sometimes be.
In affiliation with Honolulu Psychology Collective. - -
Life can be challenging. I am here to help you. My commitment is to work with you in addressing and dealing with the problems and issues that you face. My experience is working with depression, anxiety, trauma, PTSD, relationships (including couples counseling), family issues, and grief and loss. I use a collaborative approach that focuses on your needs, utilizing client-centered, solution-focused and cognitive-behavioral approaches.
In affiliation with Honolulu Psychology Collective. - -
Life can be challenging. I am here to help you. My commitment is to work with you in addressing and dealing with the problems and issues that you face. My experience is working with depression, anxiety, trauma, PTSD, relationships (including couples counseling), family issues, and grief and loss. I use a collaborative approach that focuses on your needs, utilizing client-centered, solution-focused and cognitive-behavioral approaches.
Aloha! I’m a bilingual (Tagalog and English) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 10 years of experience. I work with adults who are navigating anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, relationship challenges, or substance use. If you are feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, relationship challenges, or substance use, you're not alone. Whether you're feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, or simply looking for a safe, supportive space to better understand yourself, I am here to help.
Aloha! I’m a bilingual (Tagalog and English) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 10 years of experience. I work with adults who are navigating anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, relationship challenges, or substance use. If you are feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, relationship challenges, or substance use, you're not alone. Whether you're feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, or simply looking for a safe, supportive space to better understand yourself, I am here to help.
Creating and maintaining a healthy family is something that can be difficult to do, but highly rewarding. That's why you may need some guidance along the way. Whether you or your family are facing a transition, struggling with anxiety, depression, or substance abuse, or trying to manage children who are acting out, finding the right support can make all the difference.
Creating and maintaining a healthy family is something that can be difficult to do, but highly rewarding. That's why you may need some guidance along the way. Whether you or your family are facing a transition, struggling with anxiety, depression, or substance abuse, or trying to manage children who are acting out, finding the right support can make all the difference.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Therapeutic Eating: The Gateway, I am passionate about helping individuals and couples move toward deeper healing and alignment. I specialize in women’s issues, addiction, relationship dynamics, spirituality, and personal growth, with a strong focus on embodiment, eating disorder recovery, and cultivating a healthier self-image.
I view therapy as a space for both healing and expansion—where you can reconnect with your body, understand patterns, and step into a more grounded and empowered version of yourself. My approach is warm, intuitive, and collaborative.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Therapeutic Eating: The Gateway, I am passionate about helping individuals and couples move toward deeper healing and alignment. I specialize in women’s issues, addiction, relationship dynamics, spirituality, and personal growth, with a strong focus on embodiment, eating disorder recovery, and cultivating a healthier self-image.
I view therapy as a space for both healing and expansion—where you can reconnect with your body, understand patterns, and step into a more grounded and empowered version of yourself. My approach is warm, intuitive, and collaborative.
"As one of the clinical psychologists at Hawaii Counseling and Wellness Center, Dr. Lu works with clients of all ages, through individual, couples, and family therapy. Depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues are among her clinical specialties. Dr. Lu has training in couples and family as well as emotion focused models. Dr. Lu utilizes an integrative approach to therapy that incorporates relational, cognitive behavioral, and strength based methods actively tailored to the individual, couple, or family."
"As one of the clinical psychologists at Hawaii Counseling and Wellness Center, Dr. Lu works with clients of all ages, through individual, couples, and family therapy. Depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues are among her clinical specialties. Dr. Lu has training in couples and family as well as emotion focused models. Dr. Lu utilizes an integrative approach to therapy that incorporates relational, cognitive behavioral, and strength based methods actively tailored to the individual, couple, or family."
Most people come to therapy because they need some kind of support or are looking for change in their life. While this sounds simple, it is not easy to accomplish, since we may be taught not to ask for help or to just accept things the way they are. Someone who may benefit from therapy the most would be someone who can keep an open mind, be motivated to work toward change, and to have patience to allow the process to work.
Most people come to therapy because they need some kind of support or are looking for change in their life. While this sounds simple, it is not easy to accomplish, since we may be taught not to ask for help or to just accept things the way they are. Someone who may benefit from therapy the most would be someone who can keep an open mind, be motivated to work toward change, and to have patience to allow the process to work.
Rather than having to call around, let us match you with the right therapist for you! TCGPsych is a multidisciplinary team of highly qualified and caring licensed professionals that includes: Clinical Psychologists, Clinical Social Workers, Licensed Family and Marriage Therapists, Mental Health Counselors, and Certified Substance Abuse Counselors. And when you call our number, in most instances, you will get a live person who will assist you immediately. We also respond to our email inquiries within couple of hours or less.
Rather than having to call around, let us match you with the right therapist for you! TCGPsych is a multidisciplinary team of highly qualified and caring licensed professionals that includes: Clinical Psychologists, Clinical Social Workers, Licensed Family and Marriage Therapists, Mental Health Counselors, and Certified Substance Abuse Counselors. And when you call our number, in most instances, you will get a live person who will assist you immediately. We also respond to our email inquiries within couple of hours or less.
Life takes us for turns we don't expect and sometimes we’re able to get through them, but in other times, we can become stuck. We may feel overwhelmed at work, in our marriage, or in other relationships. Perhaps, there are difficulties with a teenager at home or maybe there are feelings of sadness or anxiousness. When life brings us to this point, reaching out for help is a courageous first step toward change. Entering therapy can provide clarity to the confusion and is a safe place to explore alternative avenues toward an improved quality of life.
Life takes us for turns we don't expect and sometimes we’re able to get through them, but in other times, we can become stuck. We may feel overwhelmed at work, in our marriage, or in other relationships. Perhaps, there are difficulties with a teenager at home or maybe there are feelings of sadness or anxiousness. When life brings us to this point, reaching out for help is a courageous first step toward change. Entering therapy can provide clarity to the confusion and is a safe place to explore alternative avenues toward an improved quality of life.
You may look capable and composed on the outside, yet feel overwhelmed, scattered, or emotionally drained beneath the surface. Living with ADHD while carrying the impact of trauma can leave your nervous system feeling constantly “on” swinging between overdrive and shutdown. You might struggle with focus, procrastination fueled by shame, emotional intensity, or relationship patterns that feel confusing and hard to shift. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why is this so much harder for me?” you are not broken.
You may look capable and composed on the outside, yet feel overwhelmed, scattered, or emotionally drained beneath the surface. Living with ADHD while carrying the impact of trauma can leave your nervous system feeling constantly “on” swinging between overdrive and shutdown. You might struggle with focus, procrastination fueled by shame, emotional intensity, or relationship patterns that feel confusing and hard to shift. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why is this so much harder for me?” you are not broken.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst with over twenty-five years of work experience. I am Associate Clinical Professor in Psychiatry at the University of Hawaii Medical School. I am licensed in Hawaii and New York and located in downtown Honolulu. I am one of only two practicing psychoanalysts in Hawaii trained at an institute approved by the American Psychoanalytic Association. I specialize in psychodynamic therapy and psychoanalysis, which are intensive treatments which help people understand themselves at a deeper level. I also conduct psychological evaluations, provide consultations and clinical supervision.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst with over twenty-five years of work experience. I am Associate Clinical Professor in Psychiatry at the University of Hawaii Medical School. I am licensed in Hawaii and New York and located in downtown Honolulu. I am one of only two practicing psychoanalysts in Hawaii trained at an institute approved by the American Psychoanalytic Association. I specialize in psychodynamic therapy and psychoanalysis, which are intensive treatments which help people understand themselves at a deeper level. I also conduct psychological evaluations, provide consultations and clinical supervision.
The healing process is one that is infinite and the beauty of that rests in the fact that there are an abundance of healing methods and forms of healing. Sourcing the appropriate path is contingent upon our present state and what we need in that particular life moment. I believe that a holistic approach to psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues is the most effective way to reaching the source of our distress. Throughout treatment an individual or family is provided with various coping tools and skills to manage symptoms.
The healing process is one that is infinite and the beauty of that rests in the fact that there are an abundance of healing methods and forms of healing. Sourcing the appropriate path is contingent upon our present state and what we need in that particular life moment. I believe that a holistic approach to psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues is the most effective way to reaching the source of our distress. Throughout treatment an individual or family is provided with various coping tools and skills to manage symptoms.
My guidance and approach as a therapist and social worker are shaped by the perspective I have gained throughout my life and experiences living in Texas, Florida, Chicago, California, and Hawai’i. I provide therapy that is relationship-based and holistic. My areas of strength and expertise include supporting those struggling with systemic and judicial oppression, trauma, depression, anxiety, family stress, mood disorders, ADHD, and life transitions. I'm open and transparent while supporting and teaching clients to persevere and improve resiliency.
My guidance and approach as a therapist and social worker are shaped by the perspective I have gained throughout my life and experiences living in Texas, Florida, Chicago, California, and Hawai’i. I provide therapy that is relationship-based and holistic. My areas of strength and expertise include supporting those struggling with systemic and judicial oppression, trauma, depression, anxiety, family stress, mood disorders, ADHD, and life transitions. I'm open and transparent while supporting and teaching clients to persevere and improve resiliency.
I have a client-centered approach to therapy that focuses on the individual, the strengths of the individual, and their goals. I get the chance to learn about you, who you are, and what you want to accomplish. Whether you have short-term or long-term goals or just need the help to get through a unique challenge, I will provide support, focus on calming techniques, coping skills, new thinking, and foster growth by empowerment. Learning new skills and developing the necessary insight is key to opening up to endless possibilities of growth and success.
I have a client-centered approach to therapy that focuses on the individual, the strengths of the individual, and their goals. I get the chance to learn about you, who you are, and what you want to accomplish. Whether you have short-term or long-term goals or just need the help to get through a unique challenge, I will provide support, focus on calming techniques, coping skills, new thinking, and foster growth by empowerment. Learning new skills and developing the necessary insight is key to opening up to endless possibilities of growth and success.
I’m glad you’re taking steps to make things better. I understand that life can feel overwhelming at times, especially when you’re trying to understand things alone. Depression and anxiety can be very serious. You don’t have to feel bad; I have helped thousands of people just like you. I specialize in a wide range of areas, including anxiety, stress, depression, trauma recovery, and phase-of-life transitions. If there is an area that I think you would be better served by another therapist, we’ll talk about that and find you the best person for you.
I’m glad you’re taking steps to make things better. I understand that life can feel overwhelming at times, especially when you’re trying to understand things alone. Depression and anxiety can be very serious. You don’t have to feel bad; I have helped thousands of people just like you. I specialize in a wide range of areas, including anxiety, stress, depression, trauma recovery, and phase-of-life transitions. If there is an area that I think you would be better served by another therapist, we’ll talk about that and find you the best person for you.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and feel it is truly an honor to help people to improve their quality of life, reach their personal goals, and live a meaningful and fulfilling life. I strive to create a safe, warm, and nonjudgmental environment for us to openly discuss your concerns. We will work together to develop new ways of coping with your challenges and problems, to gain a deeper understanding of yourself, to enrich your relationships in your life, and to reach your goals.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and feel it is truly an honor to help people to improve their quality of life, reach their personal goals, and live a meaningful and fulfilling life. I strive to create a safe, warm, and nonjudgmental environment for us to openly discuss your concerns. We will work together to develop new ways of coping with your challenges and problems, to gain a deeper understanding of yourself, to enrich your relationships in your life, and to reach your goals.
Seeking help? ...There had been a more persistent hope that you could do it on your own, that you wouldn’t need to seek help. But that feeling of being stuck just won’t go away. I know; I’ve been there too. You’ve tried many things: from ignoring and distracting yourself to perhaps making big external changes—all in an attempt to shake things up and shake things off. But you still can’t seem to get to that next goal in life or stage in your relationships. What you want may also be hard to define. It’s darn frustrating.
Seeking help? ...There had been a more persistent hope that you could do it on your own, that you wouldn’t need to seek help. But that feeling of being stuck just won’t go away. I know; I’ve been there too. You’ve tried many things: from ignoring and distracting yourself to perhaps making big external changes—all in an attempt to shake things up and shake things off. But you still can’t seem to get to that next goal in life or stage in your relationships. What you want may also be hard to define. It’s darn frustrating.
I was born and raised on Oahu. I studied psychology at the University of Hawaii at Manoa and received my master’s in counseling from Chaminade University. I been licensed as a counselor in the state of Hawaii since 2011. I realize that no two people are the same and as such I tailor my therapy to meet the specific needs of my clients. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression or another issue, I hope to help clients find a healthier way of living.
I was born and raised on Oahu. I studied psychology at the University of Hawaii at Manoa and received my master’s in counseling from Chaminade University. I been licensed as a counselor in the state of Hawaii since 2011. I realize that no two people are the same and as such I tailor my therapy to meet the specific needs of my clients. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression or another issue, I hope to help clients find a healthier way of living.
Finding the right therapist to help you navigate through life's unexpected journeys can be scary. Finding the right fit for you is important to me! I believe in a collaborative, client-centered approach to therapy and that your voice deserves to be heard, even if it may feel small. Whether you're not too sure about therapy or want to dive right in, I encourage you to reach out.
Finding the right therapist to help you navigate through life's unexpected journeys can be scary. Finding the right fit for you is important to me! I believe in a collaborative, client-centered approach to therapy and that your voice deserves to be heard, even if it may feel small. Whether you're not too sure about therapy or want to dive right in, I encourage you to reach out.
If you're exhausted from being "too much" or "not enough," this is for you. I work with teen girls, women, LGBTQ+, and trans clients in HI, AZ, WA, NC, and SC (telehealth only). Support for identity, fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, perimenopause, and midlife.
If therapy has helped you understand your trauma but you still feel it in your body, you're not broken. You're stuck in old survival wiring. I use ART and other trauma-informed methods to help your brain finally let go of what it's been holding, not just talk about it again. Insurance accepted in HI, AZ, and WA. Send your plan and I'll check your coverage first.
If you're exhausted from being "too much" or "not enough," this is for you. I work with teen girls, women, LGBTQ+, and trans clients in HI, AZ, WA, NC, and SC (telehealth only). Support for identity, fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, perimenopause, and midlife.
If therapy has helped you understand your trauma but you still feel it in your body, you're not broken. You're stuck in old survival wiring. I use ART and other trauma-informed methods to help your brain finally let go of what it's been holding, not just talk about it again. Insurance accepted in HI, AZ, and WA. Send your plan and I'll check your coverage first.
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Number of Therapists in Honolulu, HI
900+
Average cost per session
$155
Therapists in Honolulu, HI who prioritize treating:
| 91% | Anxiety |
| 91% | Social Anxiety |
| 91% | Health Anxiety |
| 91% | Driving Anxiety |
| 83% | Depression |
| 79% | Relationship Issues |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
Average years in practice
12 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 71% | Hawaii Medical Services Association |
| 50% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
| 50% | Hawaii Medical Assurance Association |
How Therapists in Honolulu, HI see their clients
| 55% | Online Only | |
| 45% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 77% | Female | |
| 22% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.


