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Heidi Patcheak

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

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Available both in-person and online
3505 Cadillac Avenue Costa Mesa, CA 92626
You may look capable on the outside while feeling anxious, disconnected, or stuck repeating the same patterns inside. Maybe you overthink, over-function, care for everyone else, or know where your struggles come from but still can’t seem to change them. I’m Heidi Patcheak, LMFT, and I help children, teens, and adults slow down, understand what is happening beneath the surface, and create new ways of relating to themselves and others. I offer in-person therapy in Costa Mesa and telehealth throughout California, including play therapy for children.
I help clients understand the patterns beneath anxiety, depression, grief, disconnection, and relationship struggles. With children, I use play therapy to help them express and process what they may not yet have words for. With teens and adults I offer warm, relational therapy that supports insight, emotional awareness, and meaningful change.
You don’t have to figure it out alone. Therapy can be a place to slow down, feel less stuck, and understand the patterns that keep repeating. If something in you is wondering whether it’s time, reaching out is a meaningful first step. I’d be glad to talk with you about what you’re carrying and whether therapy together feels like a fit.
Call or Heidi Patcheak now for a free 15 minute consultation - (657) 566-5861

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

3505 Cadillac Avenue

Costa Mesa, CA 92626 map

(657) 566-5861
My website
In-person in Costa Mesa or securely online throughout California, creating space to understand what keeps repeating and what can change.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Trauma and PTSD 
$190 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Sometimes staying productive is the most sophisticated way to avoid yourself.
Heidi Patcheak
Let's Connect (657) 566-5861
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

3505 Cadillac Avenue

Costa Mesa, CA 92626 map

(657) 566-5861
My website
In-person in Costa Mesa or securely online throughout California, creating space to understand what keeps repeating and what can change.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Trauma and PTSD 
$190 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Sometimes staying productive is the most sophisticated way to avoid yourself.
Heidi Patcheak

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $190
  • Couple Sessions $190

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Zelle
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I am an out-of-network provider and do not bill insurance directly. I can provide superbills for you to submit to your insurance plan for possible reimbursement, depending on your benefits.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861
"
I am an out-of-network provider and do not bill insurance directly. I can provide superbills for you to submit to your insurance plan for possible reimbursement, depending on your benefits.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 155516 Heidi Patcheak
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Hope International University, Masters of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from PACT Level 1 (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) 2025
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My path to becoming a therapist began long before graduate school, shaped by many years of relational work in classrooms, communities, and family life. Those experiences deepened my belief that healing happens in relationship and that therapy offers a space where change can take root.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861
"
My path to becoming a therapist began long before graduate school, shaped by many years of relational work in classrooms, communities, and family life. Those experiences deepened my belief that healing happens in relationship and that therapy offers a space where change can take root.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Child
  • Depression
  • Life Transitions
  • Peer Relationships
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Women's Issues
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Anxiety, depression, and trauma often make sense when we understand the patterns beneath them. You may feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. In therapy, we slow down what keeps repeating, explore what your symptoms may be protecting, and build new ways of relating to yourself and others with more clarity, steadiness, and choice.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861
"
Anxiety, depression, and trauma often make sense when we understand the patterns beneath them. You may feel stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. In therapy, we slow down what keeps repeating, explore what your symptoms may be protecting, and build new ways of relating to yourself and others with more clarity, steadiness, and choice.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861

2 Endorsements

Teressa Wilcox
Teressa Wilcox
Marriage & Family TherapistDMFTLMFT
Heidi is a warm and compassionate clinician who creates a safe and supportive space for healing. She has a thoughtful presence and a genuine ability to help others feel seen and heard.
Ariane Guirguis
Ariane Guirguis
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Heidi's ability to connect with others through curiosity, empathy, and authenticity is unmatched. She creates a safe and supportive environment for growth and healing and is someone I deeply admire as both a colleague and therapist.

Client Focus

Age

Toddler
Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Christian

Age

Toddler
Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • EMDR
  • Play Therapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Sandplay
  • Somatic
  • Trauma Focused
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The patterns that shape us often develop in relationship, and they can also be transformed in relationship. Together, we slow down what keeps repeating and explore what it may have protected, creating space for new ways of relating with greater freedom and connection. For children, this same process unfolds naturally through play.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861
"
The patterns that shape us often develop in relationship, and they can also be transformed in relationship. Together, we slow down what keeps repeating and explore what it may have protected, creating space for new ways of relating with greater freedom and connection. For children, this same process unfolds naturally through play.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (657) 566-5861

Location

Primary Location

3505 Cadillac Avenue

Costa Mesa, CA 92626

(657) 566-5861
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In-person in Costa Mesa or securely online throughout California, creating space to understand what keeps repeating and what can change.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (657) 566-5861
"
In-person in Costa Mesa or securely online throughout California, creating space to understand what keeps repeating and what can change.
Photo of Heidi Patcheak, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Heidi Patcheak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (657) 566-5861