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Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS

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Available both in-person and online
2716 Ocean Park Boulevard Santa Monica, CA 90405
I believe that healing happens in relationship and growth begins with simple curiosity. We grow in the direction that we inquire about, and I strive to create a space where you feel safe to explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Whether you're healing from trauma, managing anxiety or depression, navigating the complexities of ADHD, or transitioning into a new chapter of life, or simply seeking deeper connection in your relationships, the journey starts with fostering radical acceptance of where we are. Together, we will identify constraints and build on your strengths to allow your unique vitality and purpose to unfold.
I specialize in couples therapy that helps partners move beyond blame, defensiveness, and pursue‑withdraw patterns into honest, accountable connection. As a former high‑performance athlete, I work with leaders and others used to “pushing through” to slow down, attend to emotions, and align relational skills with personal and professional goals.
My practice is particularly welcoming to the queer and trans, NB, & GNC community and those navigating cross-cultural experiences. If you're ready to start your journey towards clarity and meaningful change, let's connect. Call or email me to schedule an initial consultation, and we'll explore how I can support you in achieving your goals.
Take the first step to help. Call or Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples now - (213) 561-3657

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Pacific MFT Network - In Person

2716 Ocean Park Boulevard

Santa Monica, CA 90405 map

(213) 561-3657

Pacific MFT Network - Telehealth

Santa Monica, CA 90402

Website
I am available most weekdays, in our beautiful Santa Monica office or online.
I specialize in ADHD, LGBTQ+ and Sports Performance 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hedwig Aerts AMFT specializing in Neurodivergence, LGBTQ, and couples.
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Let's Connect (213) 561-3657
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Pacific MFT Network - In Person

2716 Ocean Park Boulevard

Santa Monica, CA 90405 map

(213) 561-3657

Pacific MFT Network - Telehealth

Santa Monica, CA 90402

Website
I am available most weekdays, in our beautiful Santa Monica office or online.
I specialize in ADHD, LGBTQ+ and Sports Performance 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hedwig Aerts AMFT specializing in Neurodivergence, LGBTQ, and couples.
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • AA Out of Network PPO
  • Aetna
  • All PPO Plans Out of Network
  • Anthem
  • Blue Cross
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Concierge Billing Service
  • Out of Network Concierge Svcs
  • Out of Network only
  • We file the claims for you
  • Out of Network
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Out-of-Network Concierge Service- We verify your Out of Network PPO benefits and manage the claims process for you as if in-network. No superbills.
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Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657
"
Out-of-Network Concierge Service- We verify your Out of Network PPO benefits and manage the claims process for you as if in-network. No superbills.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist Associate: Hedwig L Aerts

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 151470 Supervised by Tracy Kovacs Bevington (California / 53455) Hedwig L Aerts
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 3 years
  • Attended The Chicago School, Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Case Western Reserve MS in Organizational Development
  • Degree/Diploma from Yale University BA International Relations / East Asian Studies
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25 years helping people as a school principal and teacher. 2x Rugby World Cup athlete and coach. Deeply familiar with neurodiversity & applying its lens to transformative therapy. Master's in organizational development—experienced in understanding people and systems.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657
"
25 years helping people as a school principal and teacher. 2x Rugby World Cup athlete and coach. Deeply familiar with neurodiversity & applying its lens to transformative therapy. Master's in organizational development—experienced in understanding people and systems.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • ADHD
  • LGBTQ+
  • Sports Performance

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Child
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence
  • Drug Abuse
  • Family Conflict
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with ADHD, LGBTQplus, depression, and self-esteem issues by helping you explore your identity in relation to the messages you've received from family and the world. Together, we'll focus on integrating those experiences in ways that support positive self-worth. As you begin to reclaim your agency, you'll be able to identify meaningful goals and move toward them with confidence.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657
"
I work with ADHD, LGBTQplus, depression, and self-esteem issues by helping you explore your identity in relation to the messages you've received from family and the world. Together, we'll focus on integrating those experiences in ways that support positive self-worth. As you begin to reclaim your agency, you'll be able to identify meaningful goals and move toward them with confidence.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657

7 Endorsements

Tracy Bevington- Couples, Parenting Autism
Tracy Bevington- Couples, Parenting Autism
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Hedwig is an exceptional therapist-empathetic, insightful, and deeply dedicated to client growth. A true professional who inspires trust and healing.
Tram Nguyen Khatibi: Anxiety, Relationships, Faith
Tram Nguyen Khatibi: Anxiety, Relationships, Faith
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
I highly recommend Hedwig as a compassionate, insightful, and skilled therapist. She creates a warm and supportive environment where clients feel genuinely heard and understood.
Sufia Masilionis (Mehmood)- Identity, Financial
Sufia Masilionis (Mehmood)- Identity, Financial
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalAPCC
Hedwig creates an affirming, compassionate space for LGBTQ+ clients and individuals navigating ADHD. She is compassionate, insightful, and skilled at helping clients feel understood while building practical tools for growth and self-acceptance.
Monisha Brewer - Anxiety, Teens, Couples
Monisha Brewer - Anxiety, Teens, Couples
Associate Marriage & Family TherapistMAAMFT
Hedwig is a fantastic therapist! Her work with LGBTQ+ and ADHD is truly transformative. I highly recommend her.
Paul Carter - ADHD, Anxiety, College
Paul Carter - ADHD, Anxiety, College
Licensed Professional Clinical CounselorLPCC
Hedwig has a natural ability to help clients feel comfortable while offering meaningful insight and support. I truly value her clinical judgment and dedication to providing high-quality care.
Valeriya Pestrikova - Stress, Couples, Intimacy
Valeriya Pestrikova - Stress, Couples, Intimacy
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Hedwig is a fantstic therapist specializing in LGBTQ+ and ADHD. I highly recommend her.
Pacific MFT Network SF- ENM, Anxiety, LGBTQ
Pacific MFT Network SF- ENM, Anxiety, LGBTQ
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Hedwig is a compassionate and skilled therapist specializing in ADHD, LGBTQ+ concerns, couples, trauma, and athletes. She creates an affirming space where clients feel supported, heal from challenges, strengthen relationships, and grow with confidence.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Black and African American

I also speak

Dutch
French

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Black and African American

I also speak

Dutch
French

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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I practice strength-based and client-focused therapy, honoring each client's unique resources and the body's wisdom. As a systems thinker, I consider context and relationships. I support couples using attachment-based therapy and the research-backed Gottman Method, plus other collaborative approaches.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657
"
I practice strength-based and client-focused therapy, honoring each client's unique resources and the body's wisdom. As a systems thinker, I consider context and relationships. I support couples using attachment-based therapy and the research-backed Gottman Method, plus other collaborative approaches.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
or call with questions - (213) 561-3657

Location

Primary Location

Pacific MFT Network - In Person

2716 Ocean Park Boulevard

Santa Monica, CA 90405

(213) 561-3657

Additional Location

Pacific MFT Network - Telehealth

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(213) 561-3657
"
I am available most weekdays, in our beautiful Santa Monica office or online.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Take the first step to help. Call now - (213) 561-3657
"
I am available most weekdays, in our beautiful Santa Monica office or online.
Photo of Hedwig L Aerts - Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Hedwig Aerts: LGBTQ+, ADHD, Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS
Take the first step to help. Call now - (213) 561-3657