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Heather Hayden

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST (they, them)

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Wichita, KS 67214
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Wichita, KS 67214
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When I imagine my ideal client, I see someone who is thoughtful, perceptive, and often harder on themselves than anyone else ever could be. On the outside, they may appear capable and composed. On the inside, they feel unsettled. They may identify as LGBTQIA+, trans, non-binary, neurodivergent, or part of consensual non-monogamous or kink communities. Many have spent years adapting to environments that required them to soften, hide, or over-function to stay safe. Over time, that constant adaptation has created exhaustion, shame, and a quiet sense of fragmentation.
I specialize in trauma-informed couples and sex therapy for LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent adults navigating attachment wounds, intimacy challenges, and OCD. I offer structured, evidence-based support integrating Crucible Therapy, ERP, ACT, I-CBT, Parts work and somatic tools to rebuild connection and reduce shame.
If you’re exhausted from holding it all together while feeling disconnected inside, you’re not alone. Change is possible with steady, affirming support—if this resonates, I invite you to take the next step and begin.
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My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

Wichita, KS 67214

(315) 667-3525
My website
Greetings. I am currently relocating out of state and not accepting new clients.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Transgender and Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD) 
$185 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
It's me. A therapist for the neurodiverse, gender expansive, sexual and relational diverse folx.
Heather Hayden
Let's Connect (315) 667-3525
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

Wichita, KS 67214

(315) 667-3525
My website
Greetings. I am currently relocating out of state and not accepting new clients.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Transgender and Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD) 
$185 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
It's me. A therapist for the neurodiverse, gender expansive, sexual and relational diverse folx.
Heather Hayden

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $185
  • Couple Sessions $225

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Aetna Spirit
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • First Health
  • Medicaid
  • Meritain Health
  • Optum
  • Sunflower Health Plan
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (315) 667-3525
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (315) 667-3525

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Kansas / 03117 Heather Hayden
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 7 years
  • Attended Friends University, Graduated 2019
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: New York 002692-01 / 2026
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Kansas and New York and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist with 7 years experience. Advanced training in ERP, I-CBT, and ACT for anxiety disorders, OCD, with specialization in trauma-informed, gender-affirming, and systems-based care for individuals and couples.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (315) 667-3525
"
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Kansas and New York and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist with 7 years experience. Advanced training in ERP, I-CBT, and ACT for anxiety disorders, OCD, with specialization in trauma-informed, gender-affirming, and systems-based care for individuals and couples.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (315) 667-3525

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Transgender
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Codependency
  • Consensual Nonmonogamy, BDSM/Kink Dynamics
  • Deconstructing Patriarchy, Spiritual Abuse
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Spirituality
  • Women's Issues
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I help with sexual concerns, gender identity exploration, and OCD, including intrusive thoughts tied to sexuality or identity. Treatment may include sex therapy interventions, affirming identity support, and ERP or I-CBT for compulsions. You can expect reduced shame, clearer identity integration, improved intimacy, and relief from obsessive cycles.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (315) 667-3525
"
I help with sexual concerns, gender identity exploration, and OCD, including intrusive thoughts tied to sexuality or identity. Treatment may include sex therapy interventions, affirming identity support, and ERP or I-CBT for compulsions. You can expect reduced shame, clearer identity integration, improved intimacy, and relief from obsessive cycles.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (315) 667-3525

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Crucible Neurobiological Therapy
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • I-CBT
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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I use Bowen Family Systems/Crucible Therapy, ACT, CBT, I-CBT, ERP, somatic interventions, and sex therapy. Sessions are collaborative, structured, and trauma-informed. You can expect insight into patterns, practical tools to shift them, and steady support as you build regulation, clarity, and more secure relationships.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (315) 667-3525
"
I use Bowen Family Systems/Crucible Therapy, ACT, CBT, I-CBT, ERP, somatic interventions, and sex therapy. Sessions are collaborative, structured, and trauma-informed. You can expect insight into patterns, practical tools to shift them, and steady support as you build regulation, clarity, and more secure relationships.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (315) 667-3525

Location

Primary Location

Wichita, KS 67214

(315) 667-3525
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Greetings. I am currently relocating out of state and not accepting new clients.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (315) 667-3525
"
Greetings. I am currently relocating out of state and not accepting new clients.
Photo of Heather Hayden, Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Heather Hayden
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Call for a free consultation now - (315) 667-3525