Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

9 Endorsed

21015 Market Ridge, Suite 101, San Antonio, TX 78258

Imagine that you are holding a bottle of soda. Now imagine yourself shaking that bottle. What happens if you open the top? It explodes everywhere! Now, if you take that same shaken up bottle and carefully turn the lid to let a little amount of air out at a time, it will settle. This is how I view therapy, with each shake representing a negative experience, relationship, and/or trauma. Good therapy demands being careful with and sensitive to those shakes, and eventually walking out of the door with a mind, a relationship, and a life...settled.

I specialize in working with individuals, couples and families. I often utilize a great deal of humor in doing so, but recognize when humor serves more as a defense mechanism than a healthy attitude about life, love, and other mysteries.

I have also trained budding therapists on their pursuit toward full licensure for the last fifteen years. I have been married since 2003 to another therapist, Ashley (www.ashleytherapy.com), so we never have any issues. We have two perfect children who never do anything questionable. (Those last two sentences may not be entirely accurate).

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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Institute for Couple and Family Enhancement

21015 Market Ridge

Suite 101

San Antonio, TX 78258

(210) 460-7987

I received the required training and was certified to do teletherapy two years ago, so have been able to be ahead of the professional panic.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Infidelity and Anxiety

$160 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and families

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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Institute for Couple and Family Enhancement

21015 Market Ridge

Suite 101

San Antonio, TX 78258

(210) 460-7987

I received the required training and was certified to do teletherapy two years ago, so have been able to be ahead of the professional panic.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Infidelity and Anxiety

$160 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and families

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $160
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Insurance

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Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. Email or (210) 460-7987

Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Texas / 4937 Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
In Practice for 27 Years
Certificate from TX Board of Examiners of LPS 17068 / 2001
Attended St. Mary's University, Graduated 2001

Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (210) 460-7987

Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (210) 460-7987

Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Relationship Issues
Infidelity
Anxiety

Expertise

Bisexual
Divorce
Family Conflict
Lesbian
LGBTQ+
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Should we stay together?
Therapy for guys who don't want to be in therapy.

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (210) 460-7987

Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (210) 460-7987

Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S

9 Endorsements

Melissa Chapman Pettit

Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, Veteran

Having not ever met in person, I have been recommending couples to Dr. Wilkens for quite sometime. His reputation and the feedback I get from the individuals he see’s in a couple’s context, have been authentic and OUTSTANDING! A wealth of knowledge, a grac...

Jason Northrup

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S

Dr. Wilkens is funny, down-to-earth, and a wonderful therapist. I can't recommend him enough.

Dr. Melissa L. McVicker

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, PLLC

Dr. Wilkens brings experience, knowledge, and humor to his work with clients. When I refer clients to him, I do so with confidence that they are in good hands with a skilled, trusted professional who can help them make meaningful changes. He is great at wh...

Joseph Estess

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran

Nick has extensive knowledge and experience but what I think is most valuable about him is his ability to genuinely connect with anyone and effortlessly make them feel understood and important. Any client would be lucky to enjoy the comfort and humor of hi...

Allen Novian

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LPC-S, BCN

Dr. Nick Wilkens is not only one of the most knowledgeable and experienced marriage & family therapist/counselor I know but also one of the most personable and compassionate. The combination of these qualities are hard to find, so if you need counseling o...