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Kisha Heron
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brentwood, NY 11717  (Online Only)
I have both personal and professional experience dealing with the brokenness of addiction, struggles of mood disorders, being dually diagnosed, and the pain of trauma.
Do you ever feel like something is missing? Like there is a void that nothing seems to fill? Ever feel bound or trapped by the failures of your past? The regrets of your mistakes? The pressure and weight of depression, anxiety, family strain, and stress ever wear you down and wear you out? Well I believe there is an answer and it is found in wholeness! It is found in the truth of who you are! The unity of the family system. The healing from the past. The acceptance of the present. The hope for the future.
I have both personal and professional experience dealing with the brokenness of addiction, struggles of mood disorders, being dually diagnosed, and the pain of trauma.
Do you ever feel like something is missing? Like there is a void that nothing seems to fill? Ever feel bound or trapped by the failures of your past? The regrets of your mistakes? The pressure and weight of depression, anxiety, family strain, and stress ever wear you down and wear you out? Well I believe there is an answer and it is found in wholeness! It is found in the truth of who you are! The unity of the family system. The healing from the past. The acceptance of the present. The hope for the future.
(631) 400-3479 View (631) 400-3479

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Photo of Lori R Alrod, Counselor in Brentwood, NY
Lori R Alrod
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Melville, NY 11747
I am a psychotherapist, life coach and consultant with over 24 years of experience in the field of mental health. I completed a Masters of Arts in Counseling Psychology at Lesley University in Cambridge Massachusetts and went on to study and work for The Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy in New York City . I have maintained a private practice in New York for 20 years. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, codependency parenting problems ,career challenges grief and loss, loneliness, substance abuse, eating disorders and trauma
I am a psychotherapist, life coach and consultant with over 24 years of experience in the field of mental health. I completed a Masters of Arts in Counseling Psychology at Lesley University in Cambridge Massachusetts and went on to study and work for The Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy in New York City . I have maintained a private practice in New York for 20 years. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, codependency parenting problems ,career challenges grief and loss, loneliness, substance abuse, eating disorders and trauma
(631) 518-3864 View (631) 518-3864
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Jennifer Scheck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Sayville, NY 11782  (Online Only)
I offer Telehealth therapy services to adolescents and adults with a focus on substance use and mental health. I also work with significant others (spouses/partners, siblings, parents etc.) who seek support to cope with a loved one's addiction or mental health. The decision to begin therapy is deeply personal and often comes with much consideration. Choosing to share your story and acknowledge life's challenges takes courage and can be a new beginning for personal growth. I am a person centered Clinical Social Worker and Certified Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Counselor who will support you with compassion, dignity and respect.
I offer Telehealth therapy services to adolescents and adults with a focus on substance use and mental health. I also work with significant others (spouses/partners, siblings, parents etc.) who seek support to cope with a loved one's addiction or mental health. The decision to begin therapy is deeply personal and often comes with much consideration. Choosing to share your story and acknowledge life's challenges takes courage and can be a new beginning for personal growth. I am a person centered Clinical Social Worker and Certified Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Counselor who will support you with compassion, dignity and respect.
(631) 625-6679 View (631) 625-6679
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Antonietta Bruccoleri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CTRS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I provide psychotherapy for individuals, couples and adolescents. Clients describe me as being compassionate and non judgmental which helps to create a safe space to explore even the most difficult topics. I use several different modalities including mindfulness, positive psychology, and transpersonal theory. I believe in a mind body and spirit connection. Therapy is about supporting you in getting beneath the layers of habit, addiction, stress and obsessive thinking and help you recognize the essential self within rather than relying only on the mind, which is often the source of negativity.
I provide psychotherapy for individuals, couples and adolescents. Clients describe me as being compassionate and non judgmental which helps to create a safe space to explore even the most difficult topics. I use several different modalities including mindfulness, positive psychology, and transpersonal theory. I believe in a mind body and spirit connection. Therapy is about supporting you in getting beneath the layers of habit, addiction, stress and obsessive thinking and help you recognize the essential self within rather than relying only on the mind, which is often the source of negativity.
(516) 862-2175 View (516) 862-2175
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Victoria Romero Mental Health Counseling, PLLC
Mental Health Counselor, MSEd, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ronkonkoma, NY 11779  (Online Only)
I work with individuals coping with various concerns such as depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, stress management, co-occurring disorders, and more. I believe that all individuals, with the right tools can grow to become more self-aware and make decisions that nurture ongoing motivation for continued wellness.
I work with individuals coping with various concerns such as depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, stress management, co-occurring disorders, and more. I believe that all individuals, with the right tools can grow to become more self-aware and make decisions that nurture ongoing motivation for continued wellness.
(516) 210-0652 View (516) 210-0652
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Sarah Randall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Babylon, NY 11702
My goal as a therapist is to provide a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore life’s many challenges. I work from a non-judgemental, affirming, collaborative, trauma-informed, and attachment based lens. I have experience working with individuals who suffer from depression, anxiety, substance abuse issues, love addiction, co-dependency, personality disorders, relationship issues, survivors of abusive relationships/trauma bonds, anger, low self-esteem, grief, ADHD, PTSD, and complex PTSD. I believe everyone is unique...therefore, my style is to customize the therapeutic process for each individual.
My goal as a therapist is to provide a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore life’s many challenges. I work from a non-judgemental, affirming, collaborative, trauma-informed, and attachment based lens. I have experience working with individuals who suffer from depression, anxiety, substance abuse issues, love addiction, co-dependency, personality disorders, relationship issues, survivors of abusive relationships/trauma bonds, anger, low self-esteem, grief, ADHD, PTSD, and complex PTSD. I believe everyone is unique...therefore, my style is to customize the therapeutic process for each individual.
(631) 658-5720 View (631) 658-5720
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Cheryl R Buscaglia
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC-t
Verified Verified
Bohemia, NY 11716
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Substance Abuse Counselor(t).
Are you going through a tough time? Are you so full of anxiety that you find it challenging to navigate through the day? Parents, do you have a child that is struggling to focus at school or control their emotions? Are you hesitant to talk to somebody for fear of being judged? Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? Starting a journey in therapy can be scary, however it might just be the best decision of your life. Through experience, I've come to learn that there is nothing more comforting than hearing the words “I understand, I’ve been there or I can relate.”
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Substance Abuse Counselor(t).
Are you going through a tough time? Are you so full of anxiety that you find it challenging to navigate through the day? Parents, do you have a child that is struggling to focus at school or control their emotions? Are you hesitant to talk to somebody for fear of being judged? Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? Starting a journey in therapy can be scary, however it might just be the best decision of your life. Through experience, I've come to learn that there is nothing more comforting than hearing the words “I understand, I’ve been there or I can relate.”
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Megan Paniccia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hauppauge, NY 11788
I’ve spent my career working with a wide variety of mental health, addiction and trauma challenges and I can use these skills and knowledge of the most current best practices to support you and your family in your journey towards the best version of yourself.
Are you struggling with a mood that you can’t seem to control? Past experiences that still dictate your thoughts and behaviors? Or a life transition that your having difficulty coping with? I believe in a down to earth approach to addressing your struggles and I want to help you feel confident in your own head. I work with individuals, couples and families ranging from children to adults. Together, using a blend of CBT, DBT and mindfulness we can help you to live a healthier lifestyle with adaptive coping skills and more positive relationships.
I’ve spent my career working with a wide variety of mental health, addiction and trauma challenges and I can use these skills and knowledge of the most current best practices to support you and your family in your journey towards the best version of yourself.
Are you struggling with a mood that you can’t seem to control? Past experiences that still dictate your thoughts and behaviors? Or a life transition that your having difficulty coping with? I believe in a down to earth approach to addressing your struggles and I want to help you feel confident in your own head. I work with individuals, couples and families ranging from children to adults. Together, using a blend of CBT, DBT and mindfulness we can help you to live a healthier lifestyle with adaptive coping skills and more positive relationships.
(631) 212-2405 View (631) 212-2405
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Danielle D Relyea
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, -R, EMDR, -AF
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
Addiction, Trauma , Mood DO, SPMI, Meditation, Energy Work, Spirituality, extensive MH training, EMDR Training with Parnell Institute, creating groups & programs.
It takes courage to seek guidance and can take a few tries to connect with a Mental Health Professional thatcan meet your needs. So keep trying until you meet that person & don't give up Hope!:) I have twenty plus years experience in mental health care, I'm dedicated to decreasing mental health stigma, highly passionate about understanding our mind practicing progressive, advanced, integrative treatment approaches. I'm always learning & growing from my work with clients & consider it a sacred privilege to assist another in their healing journey. I treat a broad range of issues, including but not limited to the most common in human experience: Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Addiction, Grief & Loss, Relationship Difficulties, & Stress management. Whole Person, Multifaceted approach All the best in your wellness journey Danielle :)
Addiction, Trauma , Mood DO, SPMI, Meditation, Energy Work, Spirituality, extensive MH training, EMDR Training with Parnell Institute, creating groups & programs.
It takes courage to seek guidance and can take a few tries to connect with a Mental Health Professional thatcan meet your needs. So keep trying until you meet that person & don't give up Hope!:) I have twenty plus years experience in mental health care, I'm dedicated to decreasing mental health stigma, highly passionate about understanding our mind practicing progressive, advanced, integrative treatment approaches. I'm always learning & growing from my work with clients & consider it a sacred privilege to assist another in their healing journey. I treat a broad range of issues, including but not limited to the most common in human experience: Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Addiction, Grief & Loss, Relationship Difficulties, & Stress management. Whole Person, Multifaceted approach All the best in your wellness journey Danielle :)
(631) 734-0415 View (631) 734-0415
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Stress Solutions of New York
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
Melville, NY 11747
Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor.
Selected by NASW as Nassau County's "Social Worker of the Year for 2013", I have been providing quick symptom relief and comprehensive healing for 32 years. As I believe in "different strokes for different folks," I utilize Havening, EMDR, and DNMS to achieve these results. Clients experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and panic attacks have all benefitted. I also provide counseling for alcohol and substance abusers where I specialize in relapse prevention. Child and adolescent issues are also actively addressed, along with parenting concerns. Relief is available for those experiencing grief and other trauma i.e. car crash victims.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor.
Selected by NASW as Nassau County's "Social Worker of the Year for 2013", I have been providing quick symptom relief and comprehensive healing for 32 years. As I believe in "different strokes for different folks," I utilize Havening, EMDR, and DNMS to achieve these results. Clients experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and panic attacks have all benefitted. I also provide counseling for alcohol and substance abusers where I specialize in relapse prevention. Child and adolescent issues are also actively addressed, along with parenting concerns. Relief is available for those experiencing grief and other trauma i.e. car crash victims.
(631) 527-3114 View (631) 527-3114
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Antonia Porco
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Northport, NY 11768
In addition, I am a graduate of The Masterson Institute with certification in advanced psychotherapy, as well as a graduate of the SUNY Stony Brook addiction specialist program.
Therapy is ultimately meant to be a life altering process, from how you understand your personal challenges and problematic situations to how you choose your coping strategies and the options you see as possible for your life. It is my goal to guide and support you through this therapeutic experience to help you create a higher quality of life that resonates with your true self. Therapy starts where you are at, and it progresses one step at a time. I approach my clients with commitment, integrity and a vision of positive growth.
In addition, I am a graduate of The Masterson Institute with certification in advanced psychotherapy, as well as a graduate of the SUNY Stony Brook addiction specialist program.
Therapy is ultimately meant to be a life altering process, from how you understand your personal challenges and problematic situations to how you choose your coping strategies and the options you see as possible for your life. It is my goal to guide and support you through this therapeutic experience to help you create a higher quality of life that resonates with your true self. Therapy starts where you are at, and it progresses one step at a time. I approach my clients with commitment, integrity and a vision of positive growth.
(631) 850-3549 View (631) 850-3549
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Honey From The Rock Christian Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Saint James, NY 11780  (Online Only)
Tara Daniels, LMSW, serves in NYS through Telehealth Care. She serves many diverse needs with many treatment modalities using a generalist approach.
Tara Daniels, LMSW, serves in NYS through Telehealth Care. She serves many diverse needs with many treatment modalities using a generalist approach.
(631) 540-2695 View (631) 540-2695
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Randi Zimmerman @ Randi Z. Therapy Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CEDS-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Melville, NY 11747
At The Time is Always Now Therapy Group, Randi Zimmerman, LCSW-R, CEDS-S and her team are ready for you! "What lies before you and what lies behind you are tiny matters compared to what lies within you." - Ralph Waldo Emerson. For those who wish to be the best they can be, to heal and strive and connect, therapy can help you achieve the highest quality of your life. Your unique strengths will be uncovered and cultivated to help you meet the challenges before you. You will be guided and nurtured to achieve and exceed your goals, to take the risks necessary to fulfill your dreams. The time to start is now!
At The Time is Always Now Therapy Group, Randi Zimmerman, LCSW-R, CEDS-S and her team are ready for you! "What lies before you and what lies behind you are tiny matters compared to what lies within you." - Ralph Waldo Emerson. For those who wish to be the best they can be, to heal and strive and connect, therapy can help you achieve the highest quality of your life. Your unique strengths will be uncovered and cultivated to help you meet the challenges before you. You will be guided and nurtured to achieve and exceed your goals, to take the risks necessary to fulfill your dreams. The time to start is now!
(516) 986-4345 View (516) 986-4345
Photo of Linda A. Butelli, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Brentwood, NY
Linda A. Butelli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sayville, NY 11782
Are you consumed by negative thoughts and you don't know where to turn? Are you a teenager or adult grappling with unhealthy behaviors that just won’t stop? Toxic thinking patterns, behaviors and relationships can manifest in various forms and significantly impact mental health and overall well-being. Gaining insight into those patterns we easily fall into, is a necessary step to making profound changes in our lives.
Are you consumed by negative thoughts and you don't know where to turn? Are you a teenager or adult grappling with unhealthy behaviors that just won’t stop? Toxic thinking patterns, behaviors and relationships can manifest in various forms and significantly impact mental health and overall well-being. Gaining insight into those patterns we easily fall into, is a necessary step to making profound changes in our lives.
(631) 919-7711 View (631) 919-7711
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Areeba Babar
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, CASAC 2, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Dix Hills, NY 11746  (Online Only)
Have you been struggling with how you're feeling and seeing it affect your wellness, your relationships, or your life? Have you been experiencing sadness, hurt, self-doubt, or are just trying to find balance and peace? Letting someone in can be scary but given the privilege, I would love to be able to walk with you in your journey towards personal healing. Being provided with a safe, non-judgemental space to be comfortable and vulnerable, what you're able to do will be beautiful.
Have you been struggling with how you're feeling and seeing it affect your wellness, your relationships, or your life? Have you been experiencing sadness, hurt, self-doubt, or are just trying to find balance and peace? Letting someone in can be scary but given the privilege, I would love to be able to walk with you in your journey towards personal healing. Being provided with a safe, non-judgemental space to be comfortable and vulnerable, what you're able to do will be beautiful.
(631) 515-6946 View (631) 515-6946
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Jennifer Barone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Babylon, NY 11702
Beginning therapy, especially for the first time, can feel like an intimidating task. I understand that firsthand. The hardest step is acknowledging you need extra support and there is no shame in that, only strength. No matter what the presenting issue(s) is, we can work together to unpack it and focus on what brought you here, what you need out of therapy and what your ultimate goal is. I view the mind and body as one and in order to best care for ourselves, we need to nurture and understand both. Often times, our environment or situations happening in our life can derail this and that's where therapy can provide a consistency.
Beginning therapy, especially for the first time, can feel like an intimidating task. I understand that firsthand. The hardest step is acknowledging you need extra support and there is no shame in that, only strength. No matter what the presenting issue(s) is, we can work together to unpack it and focus on what brought you here, what you need out of therapy and what your ultimate goal is. I view the mind and body as one and in order to best care for ourselves, we need to nurture and understand both. Often times, our environment or situations happening in our life can derail this and that's where therapy can provide a consistency.
(631) 823-7609 View (631) 823-7609
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Elsy Martinez
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bay Shore, NY 11706  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with experience working with children, adolescents and adults. I have been in the field of mental health for over 10 years and provide ongoing individual, couples and family counseling.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with experience working with children, adolescents and adults. I have been in the field of mental health for over 10 years and provide ongoing individual, couples and family counseling.
(631) 212-0339 View (631) 212-0339
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Donna M Walsh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Dix Hills, NY 11746
In life, we all encounter struggles that we need help with. Whether it be low self-esteem, anxiety, life transitions or other daily stressors, I can assist you in creating a more productive and happier lifestyle, while improving your mental, emotional and physical health. Together we will build a strong therapeutic relationship through the utilization of a warm, nurturing, non-judgmental approach. My focus is person-centered and strength-based to help clients tailor their treatment to their specific needs and become a better version of themselves.
In life, we all encounter struggles that we need help with. Whether it be low self-esteem, anxiety, life transitions or other daily stressors, I can assist you in creating a more productive and happier lifestyle, while improving your mental, emotional and physical health. Together we will build a strong therapeutic relationship through the utilization of a warm, nurturing, non-judgmental approach. My focus is person-centered and strength-based to help clients tailor their treatment to their specific needs and become a better version of themselves.
(631) 856-1643 View (631) 856-1643
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Katelyn Halleran
Art Therapist, MA, LCAT, ATR-BC, C-TFCBT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greenlawn, NY 11740  (Online Only)
There are challenges that we experience in life in which resilience and hope seem distant while stress, uncertainty, and anxiety are inevitable. Struggling with trauma, transitions, or overwhelming emotions can feel depleting. A combination of art psychotherapy incorporating various treatment approaches may offer you the tools needed to tackle the obstacles you are facing in your life. I view the dynamics of our therapeutic relationship as if we were driving in a car together. You are ultimately the driver- hitting the brakes, pressing on the gas, changing direction of the steering wheel, and most importantly in control of the car.
There are challenges that we experience in life in which resilience and hope seem distant while stress, uncertainty, and anxiety are inevitable. Struggling with trauma, transitions, or overwhelming emotions can feel depleting. A combination of art psychotherapy incorporating various treatment approaches may offer you the tools needed to tackle the obstacles you are facing in your life. I view the dynamics of our therapeutic relationship as if we were driving in a car together. You are ultimately the driver- hitting the brakes, pressing on the gas, changing direction of the steering wheel, and most importantly in control of the car.
(516) 585-3731 View (516) 585-3731
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Nick Califano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Grove, NY 11755
Sometimes life can feel like a rollercoaster as we go through ups and downs. During these times it can be difficult to reach out for help as intrusive thoughts lead us to feel alone, anxious, sad, or afraid. We will work together to explore these thoughts and feelings as well as set and climb towards goals at your pace.
Sometimes life can feel like a rollercoaster as we go through ups and downs. During these times it can be difficult to reach out for help as intrusive thoughts lead us to feel alone, anxious, sad, or afraid. We will work together to explore these thoughts and feelings as well as set and climb towards goals at your pace.
(516) 666-4817 View (516) 666-4817

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Addiction Therapists

What is the best therapy for addiction?

Addiction treatment will be tailored to the individual. People seeking help for addiction—whether with a psychotherapist, in an outpatient clinic, or in a residential program—should expect to engage in multiple types of treatments, sometimes including medication. For anyone recovering from addiction, avoiding situations in which one has typically used a substance is essential, as is the support of close connections. Since substance use disorders tend to co-occur with underlying mental health conditions such as anxiety or depression, those must also be addressed as part of any recovery plan.

How long does therapy for addiction take?

There is no set timeline for recovery from addiction. Patients and their families should expect the work to last several months, if not longer. Residential treatment programs may be based on a stay of 30, 60, or 90 days, with continuing work after release, but only about 1 percent of people are treated in such facilities. Ceasing use is just the first step; therapy to help maintain abstinence and effect behavior change must follow. The process of recovery, neuroscience has shown, involves brain cells recovering the capacity to respond to natural sources of reward and restore control over the impulse to use. Another definition of recovery is restoring voluntary control over one’s substance use and retaking all of one’s previous responsibilities.

How effective is drug addiction treatment?

Substance use disorders are treatable and remission is achievable for many who seek recovery; by some estimates, more than three-quarters of people who become addicted to alcohol or drugs recover. But that success rarely occurs quickly or on a set timeline; relapse is not only common, but many therapists and clinicians view it as a normal part of the process—not always a sign that a person has returned to addiction, but a signal that their treatment should be adjusted to help them regain control. Overall, research suggests, five years after the end of substance use, one’s risk of relapse is no greater than that of others who had not faced addiction. Other experts believe that complete abstinence is not the only measure of recovery, and that, through effective treatment, many people can learn to control their use.

How can you get addiction treatment for someone?

The most important factor in recovery from addiction is widely understood to be an individual’s commitment to change. For that reason,“interventions” in which friends and family gather to urge or force someone to begin immediate treatment often backfire; even when such efforts do lead someone to begin treatment, they may be less likely to stay than those who are self-driven. Still, family members can play an important role in supporting an individual who seeks help and can take part in family therapy as one element of a loved one’s treatment.