Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Hawaii
Top Specialties include: Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Complex PTSD and domestic violence.
My ideal patient is ready for specialized therapy. They are willing to shift disruptive thinking patterns and decision making that leaves them or others feeling hurt again and again. They are curious about what keeps them stuck.
I will guide you with direct and laser sharp clinical precision - in a way where you're left feeling clear, hopeful, and empowered to be radically honest with yourself and others in spite of how scary that can sometimes be.
Top Specialties include: Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Complex PTSD and domestic violence.
My ideal patient is ready for specialized therapy. They are willing to shift disruptive thinking patterns and decision making that leaves them or others feeling hurt again and again. They are curious about what keeps them stuck.
I will guide you with direct and laser sharp clinical precision - in a way where you're left feeling clear, hopeful, and empowered to be radically honest with yourself and others in spite of how scary that can sometimes be.
In a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each of my clients individual needs. I am committed to help client’s attain the personal growth they’re striving for through expiring hope and healing to help each client move closer to self-actualization. I will partner with you as you discover new possibilities and learn new ways to accomplish your goals and enhance your life.
In a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each of my clients individual needs. I am committed to help client’s attain the personal growth they’re striving for through expiring hope and healing to help each client move closer to self-actualization. I will partner with you as you discover new possibilities and learn new ways to accomplish your goals and enhance your life.
Most people experience times in life when they don’t know how to cope or don’t know what to do about something they are struggling with. Some people struggle for years, either alone or in their relationships, before they are ready to talk with someone about things they want to change in their life. Some feel content in life except in one area, and they could use an unbiased third party to help them solve that last piece of their puzzle. Whatever your reason is, seeking help is not easy, and it is a brave move that speaks volumes of your readiness to better your life.
Most people experience times in life when they don’t know how to cope or don’t know what to do about something they are struggling with. Some people struggle for years, either alone or in their relationships, before they are ready to talk with someone about things they want to change in their life. Some feel content in life except in one area, and they could use an unbiased third party to help them solve that last piece of their puzzle. Whatever your reason is, seeking help is not easy, and it is a brave move that speaks volumes of your readiness to better your life.
I believe in starting where my client is and tailoring treatment around your needs. I can help you see your blocks and blast right through them. Let me help you to discover what makes you unique, what motivates you — and I will keep you inspired to reach your goals. I have done a lot of work on myself including being in therapy, so I have an unique understanding of the process of going through therapy. I live my life in a grateful abundant mindset and have taught so many of my clients to do the same with amazing results. Please feel free to reach out for any questions or to schedule a session today.
I believe in starting where my client is and tailoring treatment around your needs. I can help you see your blocks and blast right through them. Let me help you to discover what makes you unique, what motivates you — and I will keep you inspired to reach your goals. I have done a lot of work on myself including being in therapy, so I have an unique understanding of the process of going through therapy. I live my life in a grateful abundant mindset and have taught so many of my clients to do the same with amazing results. Please feel free to reach out for any questions or to schedule a session today.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, or uncertain about what comes next? Therapy offers a supportive, non-judgmental space to explore what you’re experiencing free from the well-intended (but sometimes biased) perspectives of friends or family. Whether you’re navigating a life transition, relationship challenges, or the everyday weight of stress, we’ll work together to gain clarity, build resilience, and reconnect with what matters most.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, or uncertain about what comes next? Therapy offers a supportive, non-judgmental space to explore what you’re experiencing free from the well-intended (but sometimes biased) perspectives of friends or family. Whether you’re navigating a life transition, relationship challenges, or the everyday weight of stress, we’ll work together to gain clarity, build resilience, and reconnect with what matters most.
Do you feel unseen, overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward? Whether you are navigating anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, life’s hardest transitions, or the tender, exhausting season of pregnancy or new parenthood, you do not have to carry it alone. With over fifteen years of experience and licensure in Hawai'i, Washington, and Oregon, I help individuals and couples rediscover hope, healing, and a clearer sense of self. By integrating mind and body approaches, we will move at your own pace toward the meaningful change you are hoping for.
Do you feel unseen, overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward? Whether you are navigating anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, life’s hardest transitions, or the tender, exhausting season of pregnancy or new parenthood, you do not have to carry it alone. With over fifteen years of experience and licensure in Hawai'i, Washington, and Oregon, I help individuals and couples rediscover hope, healing, and a clearer sense of self. By integrating mind and body approaches, we will move at your own pace toward the meaningful change you are hoping for.
Grace's focus in treatment is to be client centered and to help support you in accomplishing your goals in therapy. Her goal is to create a safe environment for you to process past or current difficulties, stressors or traumas. Grace has a background working with clients who experience anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, attachment disorders, personality disorders, and have experienced abuse or neglect.
Grace's focus in treatment is to be client centered and to help support you in accomplishing your goals in therapy. Her goal is to create a safe environment for you to process past or current difficulties, stressors or traumas. Grace has a background working with clients who experience anxiety, depression, addiction, PTSD, attachment disorders, personality disorders, and have experienced abuse or neglect.
I focus on helping a client work on personal issues as well as primary relationships. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, and addictions. Counseling is a partnership. You're the expert in running your life and I have the training and experience in partnering with others. I specialize in helping to improve your relationships with other people. I am licensed in Hawaii and I hold a Masters with a specialty in Marriage and Family Therapy. Recently hosted the TV Show "Shrink Rap Hawaii. You can find my shows on YouTube.
I focus on helping a client work on personal issues as well as primary relationships. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, and addictions. Counseling is a partnership. You're the expert in running your life and I have the training and experience in partnering with others. I specialize in helping to improve your relationships with other people. I am licensed in Hawaii and I hold a Masters with a specialty in Marriage and Family Therapy. Recently hosted the TV Show "Shrink Rap Hawaii. You can find my shows on YouTube.
Individuals can lead a happier, more productive life when they are engaged in the therapy process. I specialize in assisting individuals who are experiencing life transitions including divorce, illness, bereavement, and change of careers. I also treat depression, anxiety, addictions (including substance abuse), trauma, and a variety of other psychological concerns. I routinely work with individuals' physicians and a variety of other practitioners to create a comprehensive treatment plan. I am an anger management specialist, certified by the National Association for Anger Management Specialists as well as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC). I am also a certified EMDR therapist.
Individuals can lead a happier, more productive life when they are engaged in the therapy process. I specialize in assisting individuals who are experiencing life transitions including divorce, illness, bereavement, and change of careers. I also treat depression, anxiety, addictions (including substance abuse), trauma, and a variety of other psychological concerns. I routinely work with individuals' physicians and a variety of other practitioners to create a comprehensive treatment plan. I am an anger management specialist, certified by the National Association for Anger Management Specialists as well as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC). I am also a certified EMDR therapist.
Are you struggling with issues related to depression, trauma, grief, divorce, addiction, anxiety, or major life changes? There comes a time when help is needed from a licensed professional to cope with many of life’s challenges. We are licensed Psychologists serving populations nationwide. We are here to support you on your journey toward healing and self-discovery.
Are you struggling with issues related to depression, trauma, grief, divorce, addiction, anxiety, or major life changes? There comes a time when help is needed from a licensed professional to cope with many of life’s challenges. We are licensed Psychologists serving populations nationwide. We are here to support you on your journey toward healing and self-discovery.
Aloha, I am a Couples and Family Therapist. My approach emphasizes the importance of working with a couple and family as a system that influence one another. To restructure healthy relationships, I use therapies that promote positive interactions between individuals. My methods include trans-generational, structural family therapy, cognitive-behavioral approaches, and Gottman Therapy. I use exercises such as enactments to help clients set new appropriate boundaries, build love maps to improve interactions and establish loving communication.
Aloha, I am a Couples and Family Therapist. My approach emphasizes the importance of working with a couple and family as a system that influence one another. To restructure healthy relationships, I use therapies that promote positive interactions between individuals. My methods include trans-generational, structural family therapy, cognitive-behavioral approaches, and Gottman Therapy. I use exercises such as enactments to help clients set new appropriate boundaries, build love maps to improve interactions and establish loving communication.
Annie Vance offers therapy for couples and individuals wanting a better functioning relationship. We come from two different family structures and go through the growing pains of becoming our own new family. Sometimes we need some help along the way. Annie also works with individuals experiencing difficulty in the workplace. She is continuously growing herself with attending training offering new skills and courses. A Couples and Individual expert with a variety of skills and talents she has acquired along the way. She enjoys working with people and you will find her easy to relate to as well as most capable and knowledgeable, prefessional yet relaxed.
Annie Vance offers therapy for couples and individuals wanting a better functioning relationship. We come from two different family structures and go through the growing pains of becoming our own new family. Sometimes we need some help along the way. Annie also works with individuals experiencing difficulty in the workplace. She is continuously growing herself with attending training offering new skills and courses. A Couples and Individual expert with a variety of skills and talents she has acquired along the way. She enjoys working with people and you will find her easy to relate to as well as most capable and knowledgeable, prefessional yet relaxed.
Aloha-Welcome to Self Help Hawaii, LLC. We hope you feel our Aloha. Our growing ohana of selfless therapists, life coaches, spiritual and/or Christian counselors, are happy to help at your pace. In these times, we offer sliding-scale support to you, your loved ones, couples, families, pets/service animals. We focus on solutions and enjoy helping our clients gain a helpful perspective that allows the problem solving process to take root. Self Help Hawaii, LLC reminds us all of the resources within and around us. You are never alone. Let's talk story. That's the first step.
Aloha-Welcome to Self Help Hawaii, LLC. We hope you feel our Aloha. Our growing ohana of selfless therapists, life coaches, spiritual and/or Christian counselors, are happy to help at your pace. In these times, we offer sliding-scale support to you, your loved ones, couples, families, pets/service animals. We focus on solutions and enjoy helping our clients gain a helpful perspective that allows the problem solving process to take root. Self Help Hawaii, LLC reminds us all of the resources within and around us. You are never alone. Let's talk story. That's the first step.
If you have a child with behavioral difficulties and need to decrease outbursts, if you cannot get your adolescent to listen, or don’t know what to do to support your teenager who is struggling with mood swings, I can help. Whether you are an individual or a parent who wants to improve your quality of life, a couple or a family that wants better cohesiveness, I have worked as an individual and family therapist on many of the Hawaiian islands with local families and families new to the islands on a plethora of issues.
If you have a child with behavioral difficulties and need to decrease outbursts, if you cannot get your adolescent to listen, or don’t know what to do to support your teenager who is struggling with mood swings, I can help. Whether you are an individual or a parent who wants to improve your quality of life, a couple or a family that wants better cohesiveness, I have worked as an individual and family therapist on many of the Hawaiian islands with local families and families new to the islands on a plethora of issues.
I approach therapy as education - helping clients to better identify patterns associated with difficulties, develop skills to overcome these difficulties, and learn how to utilize these skills in their daily lives in order to live as optimally as possible. We focus both on addressing the issues that have been plaguing you as well as learning to live more fully and comfortably in each moment and activity you are engaged in. Learning powerful skills helps overcome specific problems, boost resilience against future problems, and more fully enjoy daily life. Therapy is individually tailored to your specific needs and lifestyle.
I approach therapy as education - helping clients to better identify patterns associated with difficulties, develop skills to overcome these difficulties, and learn how to utilize these skills in their daily lives in order to live as optimally as possible. We focus both on addressing the issues that have been plaguing you as well as learning to live more fully and comfortably in each moment and activity you are engaged in. Learning powerful skills helps overcome specific problems, boost resilience against future problems, and more fully enjoy daily life. Therapy is individually tailored to your specific needs and lifestyle.
We all experience speed bumps during our life journey. Though it may seem we are "lost"unsure of I believe the powers we are looking for are inside YOU! One simply needs to be validated, and to strengthen the emotional "muscles" that have grown weak--just as we exercise our bodies and our minds, we must exercise our emotional I truly believe we can not experience long term health unless we pay close attention to our Mind, Body and Spirit--the Emotional; our humanness. when we honor our truths, we will achieve our Authentic Self! I look forward to helping guide you towards your personal, goals. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF YOU
We all experience speed bumps during our life journey. Though it may seem we are "lost"unsure of I believe the powers we are looking for are inside YOU! One simply needs to be validated, and to strengthen the emotional "muscles" that have grown weak--just as we exercise our bodies and our minds, we must exercise our emotional I truly believe we can not experience long term health unless we pay close attention to our Mind, Body and Spirit--the Emotional; our humanness. when we honor our truths, we will achieve our Authentic Self! I look forward to helping guide you towards your personal, goals. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF YOU
To provide quality care to people in the community dealing with mental illness by assessing and providing counseling through a variety of psychological theories and practices.
To provide quality care to people in the community dealing with mental illness by assessing and providing counseling through a variety of psychological theories and practices.
I support individuals healing from antagonistic or narcissistic relationship dynamics, to help them reclaim their voice, improve conscious communication, strengthen self-regulation, and rebuild healthier relationships.
Aloha, my name is Summer and I from the north shore of Oahu. I am here to walk alongside you with compassion and evidence-based care. If you are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected—whether due to anxiety, depression, PTSD, relationship struggles, fatigue, chronic pain, grief, ADHD, or major life transitions— My therapeutic approach embraces the whole person, integrating mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. I draw from Mindfulness based-CBT, narrative therapy, positive psychology, Jungian and embodiment techniques for calming the nervous system and self-regulation to support your healing and growth.
I support individuals healing from antagonistic or narcissistic relationship dynamics, to help them reclaim their voice, improve conscious communication, strengthen self-regulation, and rebuild healthier relationships.
Aloha, my name is Summer and I from the north shore of Oahu. I am here to walk alongside you with compassion and evidence-based care. If you are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected—whether due to anxiety, depression, PTSD, relationship struggles, fatigue, chronic pain, grief, ADHD, or major life transitions— My therapeutic approach embraces the whole person, integrating mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. I draw from Mindfulness based-CBT, narrative therapy, positive psychology, Jungian and embodiment techniques for calming the nervous system and self-regulation to support your healing and growth.
Aloha! Are you ready to feel more grounded, connected, and at peace?
I spent several years working with Aloha House in residential treatment, IOP, and Maui Drug Court, supporting individuals on their recovery journeys. Through this work, I've come to understand that substance use is often an attempt to cope with deeper emotional pain, trauma, or unmet needs—not simply the problem itself. This perspective shapes my work with all clients. I believe in identifying and healing the underlying issues so lasting change can occur. As I often tell my clients, instead of continually trimming the weeds, let's get to the root.
Aloha! Are you ready to feel more grounded, connected, and at peace?
I spent several years working with Aloha House in residential treatment, IOP, and Maui Drug Court, supporting individuals on their recovery journeys. Through this work, I've come to understand that substance use is often an attempt to cope with deeper emotional pain, trauma, or unmet needs—not simply the problem itself. This perspective shapes my work with all clients. I believe in identifying and healing the underlying issues so lasting change can occur. As I often tell my clients, instead of continually trimming the weeds, let's get to the root.
Tom is a Ph.D. student in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Consciousness, Spirituality, and Integrative Health at Saybrook University. Tom also received his MA in Humanistic and Transpersonal Psychology. Tom wrote his master's thesis on the therapeutic use of the circular art form known as mandalas. Tom earned his BA in Human Development at Prescott College. There he worked with the Prescott Unified School District to create recreation-based behavioral interventions for 8-10 year-olds diagnosed with ADHD.
Tom is a Ph.D. student in Clinical Psychology with a concentration in Consciousness, Spirituality, and Integrative Health at Saybrook University. Tom also received his MA in Humanistic and Transpersonal Psychology. Tom wrote his master's thesis on the therapeutic use of the circular art form known as mandalas. Tom earned his BA in Human Development at Prescott College. There he worked with the Prescott Unified School District to create recreation-based behavioral interventions for 8-10 year-olds diagnosed with ADHD.
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.