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Haley Selarnick

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
5 Endorsed
New York, NY 10021
Let's Connect (646) 647-3263
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Are you a woman in your 20s feeling overwhelmed by the emotional ups and downs of dating, friendships, and family relationships? Do you find that anxiety shows up most strongly in your connections - whether with a partner, a friend, a coworker, or a parent? You’ve come to the right place. I work with thoughtful, motivated young women who want to understand their patterns, strengthen their relationships, and build a life that feels both connected and authentic.
I also specialize in supporting women who are navigating fertility challenges - from early anxiety around trying to conceive to heartbreak and uncertainty around treatment, loss, or reproductive transitions.
Therapy with me is warm, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices — tailored to your unique goals and pace. Whether your worry shows up as relational anxiety, self-doubt, or tension around life transitions, we will figure it out and get you on track. Send me a text or an email for a consultation!
Call or Haley Selarnick now for a free 15 minute consultation - (646) 647-3263

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

New York, NY 10021

(646) 647-3263
My website
I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
I specialize in Anxiety, Life Transitions and Relationship Issues 
$225 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hi! I'm a licensed therapist based in New York and would be happy to talk with you about your therapy needs and how I can help. :)
Haley Selarnick
Let's Connect (646) 647-3263
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

New York, NY 10021

(646) 647-3263
My website
I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
I specialize in Anxiety, Life Transitions and Relationship Issues 
$225 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hi! I'm a licensed therapist based in New York and would be happy to talk with you about your therapy needs and how I can help. :)
Haley Selarnick

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $225
  • Couple Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for Out of Network reimbursement. I can explain more about this if needed!
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Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for Out of Network reimbursement. I can explain more about this if needed!
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 001815 Haley Selarnick
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended Thomas Jefferson University , Graduated 2019
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from The Gottman Institute Level 2 / 2019
  • Certificate from NYU - Advanced Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
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I am a Licensed Psychotherapist who works with individuals and couples.
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Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I am a Licensed Psychotherapist who works with individuals and couples.
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Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Life Transitions
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Body Image
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Infertility
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Peer Relationships
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
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I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety disorders related to relationships, family, health, and life transitions. During our initial sessions, we will delve deeply into the issues at hand, and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them in a way that helps you get your life back.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety disorders related to relationships, family, health, and life transitions. During our initial sessions, we will delve deeply into the issues at hand, and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them in a way that helps you get your life back.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

5 Endorsements

Becca B Bassman
Becca B Bassman
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Haley is a therapist who you can always rely on to be validating and honest. She is knowledgeable about all that goes into couples and individual therapy and she cares deeply for the well being of her clients.
Lauren Alexandra Eavarone
Lauren Alexandra Eavarone
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMS
Haley is an excellent therapist with whom I have had the pleasure of having as a colleague. She cares deeply for her clients and is passionate about growing and learning in the field. I can confidently recommend considering Haley as your practitioner.
Dr. Danielle Levy
Dr. Danielle Levy
PsychologistPsyD
Haley is an exceptional therapist who approaches her work with thoughtfulness and extensive knowledge. I have had opportunities to consult with Haley, and have consistently found her grasp of her cases to be insightful and uniquely tailored to each client
Lindsay Huckaba
Lindsay Huckaba
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Haley has the unique skill to make her clients and colleagues feel validated and understood. She is direct, kind, nonjudgmental, and knowledgeable. Her passion and efforts to help her clients and her peers is invaluable. She is a therapist I fully trust!
Lea Trageser
Lea Trageser
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Haley is a highly skilled clinician and is dedicated to her clients. She balances interventions with compassion, which fosters incredible change for the clients she works with. I often refer to Haley, especially for OCD, and can't recommend her enough!

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
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Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (646) 647-3263
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Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (646) 647-3263

Location

Primary Location

New York, NY 10021

(646) 647-3263
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I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (646) 647-3263