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Haley Selarnick

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT (she, her)

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Brooklyn, NY 11249
Starting therapy can feel like a big step, especially when you're already juggling a lot. Maybe anxiety has been your constant companion for years, or self-doubt has made it hard to trust yourself and your decisions. Maybe your relationships keep hitting the same walls, or you're navigating a life transition that feels bigger than you expected. Whatever brought you here, I'm glad you found me. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with women in their 20s and 30s on anxiety, self-esteem, relationships, and the complicated stuff life throws at you in this season.
My approach is warm and direct. Sessions with me are conversational. We dig into how you actually experience the world and won't just stay on the surface. I use evidence-based methods including CBT, ACT, and ERP (the gold-standard treatment for OCD), tailored to who you are.
Most of my clients come in feeling stuck. They leave with a clearer sense of themselves and tools that actually work. If that sounds like what you're looking for, reach out. I offer a free 15-20 minute consultation and would love to connect.
Call or Haley Selarnick now for a free 15 minute consultation - (646) 647-3263

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Brooklyn, NY 11249

(646) 647-3263

New York, NY 10021

My website
I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
I specialize in Anxiety, Self Esteem and Relationship Issues 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (646) 647-3263
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Brooklyn, NY 11249

(646) 647-3263

New York, NY 10021

My website
I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
I specialize in Anxiety, Self Esteem and Relationship Issues 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $225
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Northwell Health
  • Optum
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for Out of Network reimbursement. I can explain more about this if needed!
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Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I can provide documentation if clients wish to submit to an insurance company for Out of Network reimbursement. I can explain more about this if needed!
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 001815 Haley Selarnick
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended Thomas Jefferson University , Graduated 2019
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from The Gottman Institute Level 2 / 2019
  • Certificate from NYU - Advanced Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
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I am a Licensed Psychotherapist who works with individuals and couples.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
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I am a Licensed Psychotherapist who works with individuals and couples.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Self Esteem
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Body Image
  • Chronic Illness
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety disorders related to relationships, family, health, and life transitions. During our initial sessions, we will delve deeply into the issues at hand, and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them in a way that helps you get your life back.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety disorders related to relationships, family, health, and life transitions. During our initial sessions, we will delve deeply into the issues at hand, and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them in a way that helps you get your life back.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

5 Endorsements

Becca B Bassman
Becca B Bassman
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Haley is a therapist who you can always rely on to be validating and honest. She is knowledgeable about all that goes into couples and individual therapy and she cares deeply for the well being of her clients.
Lauren Alexandra Eavarone
Lauren Alexandra Eavarone
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMS
Haley is an excellent therapist with whom I have had the pleasure of having as a colleague. She cares deeply for her clients and is passionate about growing and learning in the field. I can confidently recommend considering Haley as your practitioner.
Dr. Danielle Levy
Dr. Danielle Levy
PsychologistPsyD
Haley is an exceptional therapist who approaches her work with thoughtfulness and extensive knowledge. I have had opportunities to consult with Haley, and have consistently found her grasp of her cases to be insightful and uniquely tailored to each client
Lindsay Huckaba
Lindsay Huckaba
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Haley has the unique skill to make her clients and colleagues feel validated and understood. She is direct, kind, nonjudgmental, and knowledgeable. Her passion and efforts to help her clients and her peers is invaluable. She is a therapist I fully trust!
Lea Trageser
Lea Trageser
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Haley is a highly skilled clinician and is dedicated to her clients. She balances interventions with compassion, which fosters incredible change for the clients she works with. I often refer to Haley, especially for OCD, and can't recommend her enough!

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Religion

Jewish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
  • Family / Marital
  • Imago
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
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I use a combination of Cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, and general integrative approaches. With these forms of therapy, we will look at how your thoughts, emotions and behaviors impact one another and your experience in life. We will focus on strengthening your relationships with others and with yourself.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I use a combination of Cognitive behavioral therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, and general integrative approaches. With these forms of therapy, we will look at how your thoughts, emotions and behaviors impact one another and your experience in life. We will focus on strengthening your relationships with others and with yourself.
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 647-3263

Location

Primary Location

Brooklyn, NY 11249

(646) 647-3263

Additional Location

New York, NY 10021

(646) 647-3263
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I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (646) 647-3263
"
I will be offering my therapy services via video sessions for clients in NY and FL!
Photo of Haley Selarnick, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Haley Selarnick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (646) 647-3263