Gottman Method Therapists in King County, WA

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Elizabeth Mary Nichol
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Tukwila, WA 98188
I use a variety of approaches, including the Gottman Method and Schema Therapy.
Life is a journey. Sometimes we need a sounding board to sort out our thoughts and feelings and gain a new perspective on life. My goal is to help you be the happiest person you can be. I specialize in working with clients with complex trauma, which is trauma related to childhood experiences. I have expertise in working with adult children of narcissistic parents. I also have expertise in working with adult clients with depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, family of origin issues, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, and career issues.
I use a variety of approaches, including the Gottman Method and Schema Therapy.
Life is a journey. Sometimes we need a sounding board to sort out our thoughts and feelings and gain a new perspective on life. My goal is to help you be the happiest person you can be. I specialize in working with clients with complex trauma, which is trauma related to childhood experiences. I have expertise in working with adult children of narcissistic parents. I also have expertise in working with adult clients with depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, family of origin issues, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, and career issues.
(425) 629-0788 x1 View (425) 629-0788 x1
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Gemma Collins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98122
I have training in the Gottman Method, and use interventions and thinking from Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment theory.
I work with couples, family members, and individuals experiencing conflict, disconnection or distress in their intimate relationships. Couples who come to see me say things like: "We've had a breakdown in communication;" "We just can't seem to get along;" "I'm feeling unappreciated by my spouse/partner," "We've tried but we can't seem to work through this issue on our own;" "We want to rebuild trust after a betrayal;" "We're struggling to feel close after the transition to parenthood;" and "We love each other very much but we can't stop fighting."
I have training in the Gottman Method, and use interventions and thinking from Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment theory.
I work with couples, family members, and individuals experiencing conflict, disconnection or distress in their intimate relationships. Couples who come to see me say things like: "We've had a breakdown in communication;" "We just can't seem to get along;" "I'm feeling unappreciated by my spouse/partner," "We've tried but we can't seem to work through this issue on our own;" "We want to rebuild trust after a betrayal;" "We're struggling to feel close after the transition to parenthood;" and "We love each other very much but we can't stop fighting."
(206) 737-7258 View (206) 737-7258
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Scott Shillito
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98118
With couples, I use Gottman Method and Emotion-Focused Therapy to address difficult relational issues.
Are you ready for a stronger relationship? Maybe communication with your partner has broken down, or there always seems to be another painful conflict? There are many different ways a relationship can become derailed, but it can get better, and you have taken the first step.
With couples, I use Gottman Method and Emotion-Focused Therapy to address difficult relational issues.
Are you ready for a stronger relationship? Maybe communication with your partner has broken down, or there always seems to be another painful conflict? There are many different ways a relationship can become derailed, but it can get better, and you have taken the first step.
(206) 502-0949 View (206) 502-0949
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Lisa Emily Theofelis
Counselor, LMHC, MEd, NBCT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004
Offering hybrid IN- PERSON/ VIRTUAL. I work with clients experiencing, mood disorders, anxiety, disordered eating and depression. RO-DBT is a proven framework for addressing these challenges and more (eating disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, perfectionism, self harm). In addition to RO-DBT, I work with adult couples using the Gottman Method. Other areas of work include, divorce, teen + adult grief/loss, and teen survivors of sexual assault. As a bi-racial counselor, I have a special lens of working with individuals from different cultural backgrounds. Also offering skills classes for teens with eating disorders.
Offering hybrid IN- PERSON/ VIRTUAL. I work with clients experiencing, mood disorders, anxiety, disordered eating and depression. RO-DBT is a proven framework for addressing these challenges and more (eating disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, perfectionism, self harm). In addition to RO-DBT, I work with adult couples using the Gottman Method. Other areas of work include, divorce, teen + adult grief/loss, and teen survivors of sexual assault. As a bi-racial counselor, I have a special lens of working with individuals from different cultural backgrounds. Also offering skills classes for teens with eating disorders.
(206) 741-0740 View (206) 741-0740
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Eliza Cady
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98119
I enjoy working with couples, adults, and teens to guide healing, positive change, and growth. Couples: I support couples from all backgrounds to improve communication, conflict patterns, and heal from relational wounds. My work is grounded in the Gottman Method, Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT), and tailored to the unique needs of each relationship.
I enjoy working with couples, adults, and teens to guide healing, positive change, and growth. Couples: I support couples from all backgrounds to improve communication, conflict patterns, and heal from relational wounds. My work is grounded in the Gottman Method, Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT), and tailored to the unique needs of each relationship.
(206) 278-1311 View (206) 278-1311
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Crystal Cressey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98005
When life and relationships begin to feel overwhelming and unsatisfying, I can assist you in identifying what changes need to be made to achieve the level of satisfaction that you are seeking to find passion in life again. Are you looking for change in your personal relationship with your partner? Using Gottman Method Therapy techniques, I help you stabilize through the turbulence, and reconnect. I assist clients interested in pre-marital therapy to build further commitment by having the necessary strengthening conversations. I'll help you find your personal strengths and maximize your natural potential.
When life and relationships begin to feel overwhelming and unsatisfying, I can assist you in identifying what changes need to be made to achieve the level of satisfaction that you are seeking to find passion in life again. Are you looking for change in your personal relationship with your partner? Using Gottman Method Therapy techniques, I help you stabilize through the turbulence, and reconnect. I assist clients interested in pre-marital therapy to build further commitment by having the necessary strengthening conversations. I'll help you find your personal strengths and maximize your natural potential.
(206) 966-6231 View (206) 966-6231
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Annie Yacopetti Couples Therapist
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
Depending on my client's needs, I integrate a variety of approaches and I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, IFS, and Gottman Method.
I’m a Couples Therapist and Individual Therapist as well as the Co-founder at Wellness Collective Therapy Group in Seattle, Washington: www.wellnesscollectivenw.com. I specialize in treating relationship issues around communication, sex and intimacy and conflict resolution. My clients are often looking for help with emotional disconnection, job stress, self worth issues, depression and anxiety. I help clients change their emotional responses and develop tools for managing stressors and increasing joy, contentment and peace in their lives.
Depending on my client's needs, I integrate a variety of approaches and I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, IFS, and Gottman Method.
I’m a Couples Therapist and Individual Therapist as well as the Co-founder at Wellness Collective Therapy Group in Seattle, Washington: www.wellnesscollectivenw.com. I specialize in treating relationship issues around communication, sex and intimacy and conflict resolution. My clients are often looking for help with emotional disconnection, job stress, self worth issues, depression and anxiety. I help clients change their emotional responses and develop tools for managing stressors and increasing joy, contentment and peace in their lives.
(206) 337-0809 View (206) 337-0809
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Dawn Lyman Meyer
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
I have advanced training in Gottman Method Therapy and EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy for Couples).
I am passionate about working with couples who are struggling with conflict resolution and communication. I enjoy teaching couples new skills that can help them have the relationship they have always hoped to achieve. I also find it rewarding to work with adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression and trauma. I also enjoy supervising new clinicians as they work toward their license. I currently teach and supervise in the MAP program of Seattle University. I have my PSYPACT certificate and am able to see clients from any PSYPACT state for telehealth.
I have advanced training in Gottman Method Therapy and EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy for Couples).
I am passionate about working with couples who are struggling with conflict resolution and communication. I enjoy teaching couples new skills that can help them have the relationship they have always hoped to achieve. I also find it rewarding to work with adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression and trauma. I also enjoy supervising new clinicians as they work toward their license. I currently teach and supervise in the MAP program of Seattle University. I have my PSYPACT certificate and am able to see clients from any PSYPACT state for telehealth.
(425) 842-1672 View (425) 842-1672
Photo of Karin Tinta-Guibert, Mental Health Counselor in King County, WA
Karin Tinta-Guibert
Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Kirkland, WA 98034
I integrate a biopsychosocial approach, considering clients’ overall well-being and interpersonal connections, applying evidence-based practices such as IFS, BA, and CBT, and the Gottman Method.
We experience many changes and challenges, such as relocation, growing within relationships, parenthood, or changes in education, career or employment status. Loss comes in many forms, and grief looks different for each individual. Therapy is a way to navigate these challenges, to grow self-awareness and coping skills, and to find meaning in the unexpected, while exploring the external and internal factors that influence our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
I integrate a biopsychosocial approach, considering clients’ overall well-being and interpersonal connections, applying evidence-based practices such as IFS, BA, and CBT, and the Gottman Method.
We experience many changes and challenges, such as relocation, growing within relationships, parenthood, or changes in education, career or employment status. Loss comes in many forms, and grief looks different for each individual. Therapy is a way to navigate these challenges, to grow self-awareness and coping skills, and to find meaning in the unexpected, while exploring the external and internal factors that influence our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
(206) 594-2338 View (206) 594-2338
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Shaun Rich
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98102
I employ evidence-based practices such as Emotion-Focused Therapy, Mindfulness, Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and EFIT.
When you get stuck, it's wise to enlist the support of professionals. An experienced therapist can help you create secure and meaningful relationships, overcome emotional pain, find clarity and meaning, and handle stressful situations effectively. My counseling practice often involves supporting people who struggle with relationships, depression, anxiety, trauma, and coping with difficulties. Couples work involves breaking through old, stuck patterns that create conflict and disconnection to create strong and satisfying partnerships.
I employ evidence-based practices such as Emotion-Focused Therapy, Mindfulness, Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and EFIT.
When you get stuck, it's wise to enlist the support of professionals. An experienced therapist can help you create secure and meaningful relationships, overcome emotional pain, find clarity and meaning, and handle stressful situations effectively. My counseling practice often involves supporting people who struggle with relationships, depression, anxiety, trauma, and coping with difficulties. Couples work involves breaking through old, stuck patterns that create conflict and disconnection to create strong and satisfying partnerships.
(206) 408-2547 View (206) 408-2547
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Danielle Southern
Counselor, MA, LMHCA, LABA
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98104  (Online Only)
For Couples, carefully integrating the Gottman Method and emotionally focused therapy is my approach of choice.
Are you feeling low, empty, or alone and are struggling to recover from this feeling? Are you experiencing heightened stress, anxiety, or mood swings that are making it difficult to manage life and/or relationships? Oftentimes, our internal states can disrupt our ability to function and engage on a daily basis. Have you experienced a personal/professional setback or loss that you have found difficult to recover from? After a loss, it can feel isolating and even challenging to see hope for the future.
For Couples, carefully integrating the Gottman Method and emotionally focused therapy is my approach of choice.
Are you feeling low, empty, or alone and are struggling to recover from this feeling? Are you experiencing heightened stress, anxiety, or mood swings that are making it difficult to manage life and/or relationships? Oftentimes, our internal states can disrupt our ability to function and engage on a daily basis. Have you experienced a personal/professional setback or loss that you have found difficult to recover from? After a loss, it can feel isolating and even challenging to see hope for the future.
(425) 657-3277 View (425) 657-3277
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Maika D'Ambrosi, PhD
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109
When working with couples, as a Certified Gottman therapist I apply the Gottman Method to improve communication and relationship issues.
I can help you living beyond the distress of life. If you are feeling stuck and don't see any way out you are not alone. Whether you worry too much, have recurrent panic attacks and/or you are getting in your own way I can help you to gain your life back. I am a clinical psychologist in private practice offering individual and couples therapy. In my work with couples, I help partners to effectively address marital conflict to build intimacy and a strong connection. My therapeutic style is warm and engaging, collaborating closely with you to tailor the treatment to your specific needs.
When working with couples, as a Certified Gottman therapist I apply the Gottman Method to improve communication and relationship issues.
I can help you living beyond the distress of life. If you are feeling stuck and don't see any way out you are not alone. Whether you worry too much, have recurrent panic attacks and/or you are getting in your own way I can help you to gain your life back. I am a clinical psychologist in private practice offering individual and couples therapy. In my work with couples, I help partners to effectively address marital conflict to build intimacy and a strong connection. My therapeutic style is warm and engaging, collaborating closely with you to tailor the treatment to your specific needs.
(206) 866-5912 View (206) 866-5912
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Haley Boscolo
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98119
Working from a family systems perspective and informed by EFT and attachment frameworks as well as the Gottman method, I will consider your situation in the context of your family, community, and culture.
Currently only accepting new couples. Conflict in interpersonal relationships is one of the most difficult challenges we may face. If you are looking to overcome a communication rut and get back on the same team with your partner, I am here to help! I can help you rekindle your connection and see a future again. I want you to feel safe to openly explore your challenges as we collaborate on a plan toward change.
Working from a family systems perspective and informed by EFT and attachment frameworks as well as the Gottman method, I will consider your situation in the context of your family, community, and culture.
Currently only accepting new couples. Conflict in interpersonal relationships is one of the most difficult challenges we may face. If you are looking to overcome a communication rut and get back on the same team with your partner, I am here to help! I can help you rekindle your connection and see a future again. I want you to feel safe to openly explore your challenges as we collaborate on a plan toward change.
(206) 312-4936 View (206) 312-4936
Photo of Talya Rozenberg, Counselor in King County, WA
Talya Rozenberg
Counselor, MEd, LMHCA, CCC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98118  (Online Only)
I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy level I and II and have a certificate in Sex Therapy.
It takes a lot of courage to begin therapy. That is why I use a warm, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach. I hope to create a safe therapeutic space to help you feel supported while you take steps towards desired change so you can live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. I believe in the profound impact of relationships and connection on our lives. Yet, when things aren’t going well in this area it can be all-consuming. Specializing in working with both individuals and couples, I address issues like anxiety, perfectionism, and burnout, and work to enhance intimacy and satisfaction in relationships.
I am trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy level I and II and have a certificate in Sex Therapy.
It takes a lot of courage to begin therapy. That is why I use a warm, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach. I hope to create a safe therapeutic space to help you feel supported while you take steps towards desired change so you can live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. I believe in the profound impact of relationships and connection on our lives. Yet, when things aren’t going well in this area it can be all-consuming. Specializing in working with both individuals and couples, I address issues like anxiety, perfectionism, and burnout, and work to enhance intimacy and satisfaction in relationships.
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Jessica Hoekstra
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
I have completed Level One of the Gottman Method, a research-based approach to working with couples.
At its core, I believe therapy to be about creating space for change. People come to therapy for a variety of reasons—seeking support and healing, desiring change, looking for relief from pain. With a relational and trauma-informed lens, we’ll look at how you landed here, in an effort to find new ways of being that may be kinder to yourself and more congruent with a whole and healthy life. I work with teens, adults, and couples on issues of trauma, anxiety, grief, relationships, life transitions, and identity formation. I have focused much of my work supporting women recovering from trauma.
I have completed Level One of the Gottman Method, a research-based approach to working with couples.
At its core, I believe therapy to be about creating space for change. People come to therapy for a variety of reasons—seeking support and healing, desiring change, looking for relief from pain. With a relational and trauma-informed lens, we’ll look at how you landed here, in an effort to find new ways of being that may be kinder to yourself and more congruent with a whole and healthy life. I work with teens, adults, and couples on issues of trauma, anxiety, grief, relationships, life transitions, and identity formation. I have focused much of my work supporting women recovering from trauma.
(206) 207-9372 View (206) 207-9372
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Sophie Odegaard
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
I incorporate several theories and modalities into my therapeutic practice including Client centered therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method, Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Attachment Theory, and Psychodynamic Theory.
As a psychotherapist, I believe that building healthy and fulfilling relationships is the foundation of change in all areas of life. I work with both couples and individual clients in identifying and achieving personal and relational goals. In therapy, we will work together to understand the struggles that a couple or individual client is facing and provide helpful tools to navigate them. I am committed to creating a safe, honest, and collaborative therapeutic space with a dash of humor, where I encourage my clients to explore and challenge their negative patterns and beliefs to produce lasting changes.
I incorporate several theories and modalities into my therapeutic practice including Client centered therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method, Family Systems, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Attachment Theory, and Psychodynamic Theory.
As a psychotherapist, I believe that building healthy and fulfilling relationships is the foundation of change in all areas of life. I work with both couples and individual clients in identifying and achieving personal and relational goals. In therapy, we will work together to understand the struggles that a couple or individual client is facing and provide helpful tools to navigate them. I am committed to creating a safe, honest, and collaborative therapeutic space with a dash of humor, where I encourage my clients to explore and challenge their negative patterns and beliefs to produce lasting changes.
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Regina Y Yeh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
My experience and training: EMDR certified; certified trauma therapist; Gottman Method level 2, EMDR for couples; IFS informed; hospice, oncology, IOP and psychiatric ER.
I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space, empathetic/active listening as a compassionate presence and witness to see you, hear you, and meet you where you are in your human condition. My hope is to inspire your inner compassionate healer to go through your current circumstance and increase sense of peace, meaning and purpose. As an Asian American woman, I have a personal understanding of how to successfully navigate multicultural systems, especially those of Eastern/Western combined backgrounds. A rich full life experience as a classical musician/artist before mid-life, helps inform my service with added empathetic capacity
My experience and training: EMDR certified; certified trauma therapist; Gottman Method level 2, EMDR for couples; IFS informed; hospice, oncology, IOP and psychiatric ER.
I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space, empathetic/active listening as a compassionate presence and witness to see you, hear you, and meet you where you are in your human condition. My hope is to inspire your inner compassionate healer to go through your current circumstance and increase sense of peace, meaning and purpose. As an Asian American woman, I have a personal understanding of how to successfully navigate multicultural systems, especially those of Eastern/Western combined backgrounds. A rich full life experience as a classical musician/artist before mid-life, helps inform my service with added empathetic capacity
(206) 208-7114 View (206) 208-7114
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Angela Johnston
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shoreline, WA 98133
I integrate various methods including narrative therapy, emotion-focused, and Gottman method.
- Not currently accepting new clients. Will update when openings available. - I help individuals and couples in all stages of life find healing and growth in the face of anxiety, depression, challenging relationships, and life transitions. I am passionate about supporting women who are striving to cope, rediscover their identities, and find belonging. I also love working with premarital and newlywed couples as well as collaborating with couples experiencing disconnection, conflict, addiction, or infidelity and creating space for emotional and relational healing.
I integrate various methods including narrative therapy, emotion-focused, and Gottman method.
- Not currently accepting new clients. Will update when openings available. - I help individuals and couples in all stages of life find healing and growth in the face of anxiety, depression, challenging relationships, and life transitions. I am passionate about supporting women who are striving to cope, rediscover their identities, and find belonging. I also love working with premarital and newlywed couples as well as collaborating with couples experiencing disconnection, conflict, addiction, or infidelity and creating space for emotional and relational healing.
(206) 737-2903 View (206) 737-2903
Photo of Lexi Nudelman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in King County, WA
Lexi Nudelman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98119
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with shame, self-criticism, people-pleasing, & perfectionism behaviors. I also specialize in grief/bereavement, trauma recovery and anxiety management. I also offer relationship therapy (family and/or romantic). I am certified in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing) therapy and have training in DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) and Gottman Method. I have completed Gottman Level 3 Practicum Training & accepting new couples!
I specialize in working with shame, self-criticism, people-pleasing, & perfectionism behaviors. I also specialize in grief/bereavement, trauma recovery and anxiety management. I also offer relationship therapy (family and/or romantic). I am certified in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing) therapy and have training in DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) and Gottman Method. I have completed Gottman Level 3 Practicum Training & accepting new couples!
(253) 352-3832 View (253) 352-3832
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Rebekah Hage
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98011
I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, Lifespan Integration and the Gottman Method depending on client need.
Welcome! Making the choice to start therapy can be overwhelming. Knowing what to expect can help. Our sessions will take place via secure Telehealth or in person, depending on your needs. I have over 15 years of experience in working with individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, chronic illness, grief/loss, motherhood, postpartum depression/anxiety and adults navigating life transitions. I utilize holistic, relational and strengths-based approaches to work with you towards growth and healing. I work with adults and couples. I am LGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergent Affirming therapist.
I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, Lifespan Integration and the Gottman Method depending on client need.
Welcome! Making the choice to start therapy can be overwhelming. Knowing what to expect can help. Our sessions will take place via secure Telehealth or in person, depending on your needs. I have over 15 years of experience in working with individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, chronic illness, grief/loss, motherhood, postpartum depression/anxiety and adults navigating life transitions. I utilize holistic, relational and strengths-based approaches to work with you towards growth and healing. I work with adults and couples. I am LGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergent Affirming therapist.
(425) 215-0785 View (425) 215-0785

Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.