Gottman Method Therapists in Auburn, WA

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Teri Simons
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98092  (Online Only)
Immediate Openings! Let's get you out of crisis mode and back to the life you deserve! Whether you are going through a transitional phase in your life, taking your relationship to a new level, needing to work on said relationship, or just feeling lost or overwhelmed in your life and in need of something - I am here to walk alongside you and help guide you through it. I absolutely love helping my couples get back on the right track.
Immediate Openings! Let's get you out of crisis mode and back to the life you deserve! Whether you are going through a transitional phase in your life, taking your relationship to a new level, needing to work on said relationship, or just feeling lost or overwhelmed in your life and in need of something - I am here to walk alongside you and help guide you through it. I absolutely love helping my couples get back on the right track.
(253) 867-9440 View (253) 867-9440
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Jennifer R Trefonas
Counselor, MS, LMHC, MHP
Verified Verified
Auburn, WA 98002
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, I am Jennifer R. Trefonas, MS, LMHC, MHP. I was initially licensed in FL in 1992, moved to WA 2002; licensed WA 2001. I ENJOY assisting INDIVIDUALS, FAMILIES, COUPLES, & CHILDREN in overcoming obstacles. I AM ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Contact me for HELP with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, addiction issues, bullying, grief, feeling shamed, taken advantage of, abuse of any kind, trouble at work, getting along with others, HOW TO BE HAPPY and POSITIVE, hypnosis, and most anything! I'm NOT PARANOID, but that is funny,,,:)
Hello, I am Jennifer R. Trefonas, MS, LMHC, MHP. I was initially licensed in FL in 1992, moved to WA 2002; licensed WA 2001. I ENJOY assisting INDIVIDUALS, FAMILIES, COUPLES, & CHILDREN in overcoming obstacles. I AM ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Contact me for HELP with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, addiction issues, bullying, grief, feeling shamed, taken advantage of, abuse of any kind, trouble at work, getting along with others, HOW TO BE HAPPY and POSITIVE, hypnosis, and most anything! I'm NOT PARANOID, but that is funny,,,:)
(253) 352-3122 View (253) 352-3122
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Eastside Professional Counseling Services, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Auburn, WA 98092  (Online Only)
Everyone needs help sometimes. When it feels like circumstances and life-pressures are causing you to feel sad, hopeless, stuck, and/or afraid, counseling may help you regain emotional traction and move through the challenges of your life. I believe every person has great internal resources/strengths to uncover or discover solutions for life..I specialize in helping couples/families/individuals improve their relationships and also those who experience anxiety, depression, ADHD, grief, self-worth, divorce, blended-families, healing from infidelity, parenting, and many other individual and relationship issues. I work from a variety of theories, including Cognitive Behavioral, Solution-Focused, and Gottman Relationship Therapy.
Everyone needs help sometimes. When it feels like circumstances and life-pressures are causing you to feel sad, hopeless, stuck, and/or afraid, counseling may help you regain emotional traction and move through the challenges of your life. I believe every person has great internal resources/strengths to uncover or discover solutions for life..I specialize in helping couples/families/individuals improve their relationships and also those who experience anxiety, depression, ADHD, grief, self-worth, divorce, blended-families, healing from infidelity, parenting, and many other individual and relationship issues. I work from a variety of theories, including Cognitive Behavioral, Solution-Focused, and Gottman Relationship Therapy.
(425) 358-4548 View (425) 358-4548
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Paul Croft
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98001  (Online Only)
My goal as a therapist is to assist you in finding practical solutions to your life problems, and to help you take positive steps to experience a more fulfilling life. You will come away from our time together with useful tools which will empower you to enjoy your life and your relationships to the fullest degree.
My goal as a therapist is to assist you in finding practical solutions to your life problems, and to help you take positive steps to experience a more fulfilling life. You will come away from our time together with useful tools which will empower you to enjoy your life and your relationships to the fullest degree.
(253) 444-4294 View (253) 444-4294
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Alisa Murray
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Auburn, WA 98092  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Are you ready to make positive changes in your life? I specialize in nurturing personal growth and inner peace by fostering connection between the body, mind and spirit. My approach involves working to transform negative thinking patterns, increase bodily and emotional awareness, and improve communication with others. I listen carefully to discover how to build upon your strengths and design an action plan that fits your personality and your current challenges. For example, depending on your needs, written exercises, psychological tests, values clarification, or yoga-based anxiety reduction techniques may be used.
Are you ready to make positive changes in your life? I specialize in nurturing personal growth and inner peace by fostering connection between the body, mind and spirit. My approach involves working to transform negative thinking patterns, increase bodily and emotional awareness, and improve communication with others. I listen carefully to discover how to build upon your strengths and design an action plan that fits your personality and your current challenges. For example, depending on your needs, written exercises, psychological tests, values clarification, or yoga-based anxiety reduction techniques may be used.
(253) 271-4344 View (253) 271-4344
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Shawnda Brese
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98002
Current openings: Monday 11am or 2pm, Tuesday 9am or 3:30pm; Wednesday 3:30pm; Thursday 11am, 1pm, 2pm. People see counselors for many different reasons. Some folks have mental health struggles such as anxiety or depression and therefore come to therapy for treatment and help. Others come to therapy for other life problems such as relationship problems, stressful work environments, worries about their future or their kids, struggles with their faith and spirituality, or grief and loss, etc. Counseling is an investment in the betterment of your life.
Current openings: Monday 11am or 2pm, Tuesday 9am or 3:30pm; Wednesday 3:30pm; Thursday 11am, 1pm, 2pm. People see counselors for many different reasons. Some folks have mental health struggles such as anxiety or depression and therefore come to therapy for treatment and help. Others come to therapy for other life problems such as relationship problems, stressful work environments, worries about their future or their kids, struggles with their faith and spirituality, or grief and loss, etc. Counseling is an investment in the betterment of your life.
(253) 231-3581 View (253) 231-3581
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Ryan Ferguson
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Auburn, WA 98092
Life is hard sometimes. Sometimes things happen to us that are beyond our control. Sometimes we just have thoughts and feelings that won't go away. Sometimes we end up hurting those around us because we don't know what else to do or how not to react to our thoughts and feelings. Whether your goals are to reduce anxiety, depression, process trauma, strengthen your relationships all to live your best life.
Life is hard sometimes. Sometimes things happen to us that are beyond our control. Sometimes we just have thoughts and feelings that won't go away. Sometimes we end up hurting those around us because we don't know what else to do or how not to react to our thoughts and feelings. Whether your goals are to reduce anxiety, depression, process trauma, strengthen your relationships all to live your best life.
(253) 455-7489 View (253) 455-7489
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Gregory R. Gates
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CDP
Verified Verified
Auburn, WA 98002
I completed training in traditional or secular therapeutic approaches to Psychotherapy obtaining a Master of Arts Degree in Counseling Psychology. Additionally, I have obtain a Bachelor of Arts degree in Christian Leadership and Counseling. Finally, I am also Licensed as a Chemical Dependency Professional also known as a Substance Use Disorder Professional.
I completed training in traditional or secular therapeutic approaches to Psychotherapy obtaining a Master of Arts Degree in Counseling Psychology. Additionally, I have obtain a Bachelor of Arts degree in Christian Leadership and Counseling. Finally, I am also Licensed as a Chemical Dependency Professional also known as a Substance Use Disorder Professional.
(253) 766-5595 View (253) 766-5595
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Amy A. Rinker
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98092
We are wired for connection. Are you feeling disconnected from important people in your life, let down, or not feeling fully accepted or valued? Are you experiencing anger, sadness, loneliness, or don't feel understood? I or my team of therapists may be the therapist for you if you are interested in addressing relational struggles, difficulty with interpersonal communication, sexual struggles, repairing connection, improving intimacy, improving your sexual health, healing from trauma, addressing sexual shame, life transitions, identity, and many others. Our goal is to get to the roots to help people thrive not merely survive.
We are wired for connection. Are you feeling disconnected from important people in your life, let down, or not feeling fully accepted or valued? Are you experiencing anger, sadness, loneliness, or don't feel understood? I or my team of therapists may be the therapist for you if you are interested in addressing relational struggles, difficulty with interpersonal communication, sexual struggles, repairing connection, improving intimacy, improving your sexual health, healing from trauma, addressing sexual shame, life transitions, identity, and many others. Our goal is to get to the roots to help people thrive not merely survive.
(253) 785-9564 View (253) 785-9564
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Gina Romero
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98001
Your mind is wired differently than others. This makes it difficult to manage your time, follow through on tasks, and stay focused. You make well-intentioned commitments that you struggle to keep. You look like you have it all together, but you’re struggling. This struggle is impacting your relationships, your home life, and your performance at work. It also makes it difficult for you to enjoy your hobbies and pursue new ones. You’ve decided that it’s time to make some changes.
Your mind is wired differently than others. This makes it difficult to manage your time, follow through on tasks, and stay focused. You make well-intentioned commitments that you struggle to keep. You look like you have it all together, but you’re struggling. This struggle is impacting your relationships, your home life, and your performance at work. It also makes it difficult for you to enjoy your hobbies and pursue new ones. You’ve decided that it’s time to make some changes.
(702) 675-9193 View (702) 675-9193
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Building Bridges Therapeutic Services, PLLC
Counselor, PhD, LMFTA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98001  (Online Only)
IMMEDIATE APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE. I respond to emails within the initial 24 hrs. My therapeutic approach is centered around my belief that you deserve to be heard and understood. My passion is to empower and equip individuals and families experiencing invisible emotional wounds to heal themselves, build better relationships while strengthening connections and navigate through life challenges. You will discover your inner worth, love and acceptance. You have the power within yourself to do the work and awaken to your best-kept self! You are VALUABLE and deserve to have an opportunity to take care of your inner self.
IMMEDIATE APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE. I respond to emails within the initial 24 hrs. My therapeutic approach is centered around my belief that you deserve to be heard and understood. My passion is to empower and equip individuals and families experiencing invisible emotional wounds to heal themselves, build better relationships while strengthening connections and navigate through life challenges. You will discover your inner worth, love and acceptance. You have the power within yourself to do the work and awaken to your best-kept self! You are VALUABLE and deserve to have an opportunity to take care of your inner self.
(253) 242-2804 View (253) 242-2804
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Aidan Merris
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98023
Navigating Relationships can be a difficult process that requires guidance and support. When our relationships are struggling and we are feeling let down by our partner or friends, it can take a toll on our mental health. It is my desire as your therapist to offer guidance and support to help you find ways to help your relationships grow and become more fulfilling. It is my passion to help and empower others to extend the same love and empathy they would towards others onto themselves. We all need reminders that our needs are just as important as others, and it is my goal to support you in that practice.
Navigating Relationships can be a difficult process that requires guidance and support. When our relationships are struggling and we are feeling let down by our partner or friends, it can take a toll on our mental health. It is my desire as your therapist to offer guidance and support to help you find ways to help your relationships grow and become more fulfilling. It is my passion to help and empower others to extend the same love and empathy they would towards others onto themselves. We all need reminders that our needs are just as important as others, and it is my goal to support you in that practice.
(206) 589-1645 View (206) 589-1645
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Lynn Wunder Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Auburn, WA 98002
Not accepting new clients
Life can be complicated and there are times when outside support is exactly what you need. Therapy offers a safe, supportive environment to address life's challenges. As a Marriage and Family therapist, I work with individuals, couples and families. Therapy involves a commitment of time and energy, choosing the right therapist for you is an important first step in seeking the support you need.
Life can be complicated and there are times when outside support is exactly what you need. Therapy offers a safe, supportive environment to address life's challenges. As a Marriage and Family therapist, I work with individuals, couples and families. Therapy involves a commitment of time and energy, choosing the right therapist for you is an important first step in seeking the support you need.
(253) 655-2795 View (253) 655-2795
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Amber Belanger
Counselor, LMHC, NCC, MHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auburn, WA 98001
Not accepting new clients
I have worked with families, adolescents, couples and individuals since 2010. My experience includes working with divorce, single parenting, blended families, adolescent developmental stages, school related issues, anxiety/depression, grief and loss, personal growth, and trauma. My goal is to provide an environment of safety and trust for exploring issues and learning new skills, centered on your needs and disposition.
I have worked with families, adolescents, couples and individuals since 2010. My experience includes working with divorce, single parenting, blended families, adolescent developmental stages, school related issues, anxiety/depression, grief and loss, personal growth, and trauma. My goal is to provide an environment of safety and trust for exploring issues and learning new skills, centered on your needs and disposition.
(253) 252-5402 View (253) 252-5402

More Therapists Nearby

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Mark R Ferrer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MBA, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98001
In my work as a therapist and organizational consultant over the last 35+ years, I have assisted youth, adults, families, and organizations in reducing barriers to and facilitating elements of healthy growth, functioning, and the achievement of goals. I work collaboratively with clients for I don't feel that I'm an expert on someone else life. We learn together what will work for you as the therapy progresses and by the work you do in therapy, it is hoped that you will reach the goals that you set for yourself at the very first appointment.
In my work as a therapist and organizational consultant over the last 35+ years, I have assisted youth, adults, families, and organizations in reducing barriers to and facilitating elements of healthy growth, functioning, and the achievement of goals. I work collaboratively with clients for I don't feel that I'm an expert on someone else life. We learn together what will work for you as the therapy progresses and by the work you do in therapy, it is hoped that you will reach the goals that you set for yourself at the very first appointment.
(253) 785-0451 View (253) 785-0451
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Jennifer M Sampson
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98093
Are you in a relationship that is lacking connection or trust? Are you struggling with sexual concerns in your relationship(s)? Are you an adult who is dealing with conflict in your own family of origin, even though you left home long ago? I can help. I work with intimate relationships and adult individuals in my practice. We focus on healing past hurts and moving forward to achieve a more fulfilling sense of self, connection, and communication.
Are you in a relationship that is lacking connection or trust? Are you struggling with sexual concerns in your relationship(s)? Are you an adult who is dealing with conflict in your own family of origin, even though you left home long ago? I can help. I work with intimate relationships and adult individuals in my practice. We focus on healing past hurts and moving forward to achieve a more fulfilling sense of self, connection, and communication.
(206) 855-3478 View (206) 855-3478
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Brian Ashburn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98001
I am here to support and encourage clients facing hardships and life changes who desire to live as their best selves and feel unstuck. I work with clients who struggle with issues such as identity, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, and communication. I work at a pace set by my client while providing tools and resources to aid along the way. I personally have seen the positive impact therapeutic relationships can have in the lives of youth and young adults. For this reason, I enjoy working with young adults, teens, and the LGBTQIA+ community. Please visit my website for more information about me and my work.
I am here to support and encourage clients facing hardships and life changes who desire to live as their best selves and feel unstuck. I work with clients who struggle with issues such as identity, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, and communication. I work at a pace set by my client while providing tools and resources to aid along the way. I personally have seen the positive impact therapeutic relationships can have in the lives of youth and young adults. For this reason, I enjoy working with young adults, teens, and the LGBTQIA+ community. Please visit my website for more information about me and my work.
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Candace Cooper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DCSW
Verified Verified
Federal Way, WA 98093
Life challenges today can be difficult to face alone and you may find the extra help you need by talking with me. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over fifteen (15) years of counseling experience. What brings someone to see me can be prompted by a personal issue or a family crisis that has been stressful. People also have seen me for life-long problems they have been struggling with. I will meet you where you are and introduce important tools for you to use in resolving whatever you may be dealing with. Remember, there is hope for your situation.
Life challenges today can be difficult to face alone and you may find the extra help you need by talking with me. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over fifteen (15) years of counseling experience. What brings someone to see me can be prompted by a personal issue or a family crisis that has been stressful. People also have seen me for life-long problems they have been struggling with. I will meet you where you are and introduce important tools for you to use in resolving whatever you may be dealing with. Remember, there is hope for your situation.
(253) 285-1577 View (253) 285-1577
Photo of Lizette Arroyo-Dillard, Pre-Licensed Professional in Auburn, WA
Lizette Arroyo-Dillard
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98063
I wish to serve people of color and other marginalized groups who have experienced chronic oppression and injustices. I would love to work with individuals, couples and families who are ready to step into their power and reclaim their voice. I wish to serve those who are in need of healing and need assistance processing grief, loss, frustration and exhaustion from life's trials and adversities. Being a person of color poses many challenges in this country and seeking help from professionals who look or talk nothing like you makes it far more difficult. I see you and I'm here for you.
I wish to serve people of color and other marginalized groups who have experienced chronic oppression and injustices. I would love to work with individuals, couples and families who are ready to step into their power and reclaim their voice. I wish to serve those who are in need of healing and need assistance processing grief, loss, frustration and exhaustion from life's trials and adversities. Being a person of color poses many challenges in this country and seeking help from professionals who look or talk nothing like you makes it far more difficult. I see you and I'm here for you.
(206) 483-0434 View (206) 483-0434
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Klarissa Fellows
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98003  (Online Only)
Are you struggling to navigate life after a major change? Do you feel disconnected from your spouse, your family, or yourself? When life gets to be too much, we can all use some extra support. I work with adolescents, adults, families, and couples to overcome hurdles and find joy in the every day. Together, we will work to break down emotional barriers, uncover and heal wounds, and bring about self discovery.
Are you struggling to navigate life after a major change? Do you feel disconnected from your spouse, your family, or yourself? When life gets to be too much, we can all use some extra support. I work with adolescents, adults, families, and couples to overcome hurdles and find joy in the every day. Together, we will work to break down emotional barriers, uncover and heal wounds, and bring about self discovery.
(360) 837-5894 View (360) 837-5894
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.