Gottman Method Therapists in East Hampton, NY

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Jeannette Lofas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
East Hampton, NY 11937
Does This Describe Your Stepfamily Situation? Who comes first? Kids or me? The prior spouse? Discipline? Lack of the rules, roles, responsibilities? More…? These are complex issues. I counsel with love and direction.
Does This Describe Your Stepfamily Situation? Who comes first? Kids or me? The prior spouse? Discipline? Lack of the rules, roles, responsibilities? More…? These are complex issues. I counsel with love and direction.
(631) 825-7902 View (631) 825-7902
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Michael Z Jody
Licensed Psychoanalyst, LP, MA
Verified Verified
East Hampton, NY 11937
I treat individuals and couples using both short and long term treatment techniques. There is a writers' saying: 'How can I know what I think until I hear what I say?' This applies to psychotherapy as well. Talking about your problems and concerns with a trained, empathic listener is often the best way to discover both your issues and their solutions. I use a great deal of humor and compassion in my work. Psychotherapy is particularly helpful in working with relationships, career issues and ambivalence in choices.
I treat individuals and couples using both short and long term treatment techniques. There is a writers' saying: 'How can I know what I think until I hear what I say?' This applies to psychotherapy as well. Talking about your problems and concerns with a trained, empathic listener is often the best way to discover both your issues and their solutions. I use a great deal of humor and compassion in my work. Psychotherapy is particularly helpful in working with relationships, career issues and ambivalence in choices.
(917) 809-6243 View (917) 809-6243
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Aniik Libby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC, NBCCH, EFT, Marriag
Verified Verified
East Hampton, NY 11937
Wouldn’t you like better communication tools and improved connection in your primary relationship? Have you lost “That Loving Feeling” ? Or perhaps you are recently single or post-divorce and ready to begin dating again but don’t know where to begin? Have you been trying to find the right partner and continue to meet the wrong people or fall into the same old type of relationship that just doesn’t work? Are you ready to let me help? If you answered yes to any of the above, get in touch, I would love to get you started on the path to feeling good again! Aniik
Wouldn’t you like better communication tools and improved connection in your primary relationship? Have you lost “That Loving Feeling” ? Or perhaps you are recently single or post-divorce and ready to begin dating again but don’t know where to begin? Have you been trying to find the right partner and continue to meet the wrong people or fall into the same old type of relationship that just doesn’t work? Are you ready to let me help? If you answered yes to any of the above, get in touch, I would love to get you started on the path to feeling good again! Aniik
(917) 746-6437 View (917) 746-6437
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Michael Z. Jody
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, LP
Verified Verified
East Hampton, NY 11937  (Online Only)
I offer couples counseling and individual psychotherapy, and use a great deal of humor and compassion in my work. I work psychoanalytically (seeking unconscious motivations) and cognitively, looking at present issues and challenges. This means that I utilize both short-term AND long-term therapeutic methodologies. I specialize in working with people who are depressed, anxious, suffering from sexual or relationship issues, daunted by the problems they face, or who find themselves creatively blocked, or not living up to their potential in their vocation, or who wish to guide their careers to new heights and new directions.
I offer couples counseling and individual psychotherapy, and use a great deal of humor and compassion in my work. I work psychoanalytically (seeking unconscious motivations) and cognitively, looking at present issues and challenges. This means that I utilize both short-term AND long-term therapeutic methodologies. I specialize in working with people who are depressed, anxious, suffering from sexual or relationship issues, daunted by the problems they face, or who find themselves creatively blocked, or not living up to their potential in their vocation, or who wish to guide their careers to new heights and new directions.
(917) 652-6970 View (917) 652-6970
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Marie Ragona
Art Therapist, LCAT, ATR-BC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Hampton, NY 11937  (Online Only)
You feel ready to take the next step to heal from the past and live a life that makes you proud and joyful. Whether it’s improving your sex life, managing anxiety, wanting to love yourself more, dating and all that comes with it, improving an existing relationship, or (most likely!) a combination of all of those, you need compassionate support. You want to have a deep understanding of yourself and build tools that will help you to make a significant shift in the way you experience life. It’s time to move forward, away from repeated patterns that don’t work for you, and towards empowerment, peace, and healthy relationships.
You feel ready to take the next step to heal from the past and live a life that makes you proud and joyful. Whether it’s improving your sex life, managing anxiety, wanting to love yourself more, dating and all that comes with it, improving an existing relationship, or (most likely!) a combination of all of those, you need compassionate support. You want to have a deep understanding of yourself and build tools that will help you to make a significant shift in the way you experience life. It’s time to move forward, away from repeated patterns that don’t work for you, and towards empowerment, peace, and healthy relationships.
(646) 832-4565 View (646) 832-4565
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Virginie Petrus
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
East Hampton, NY 11937  (Online Only)
Congratulations to you for taking this initial step forward into your wellness journey. Through compassion, empathy, and attention, I provide a safe space for you to flourish and to grow as you address and heal your wounded parts. By establishing a warm and welcoming space, my goal is to help you to reach tangible goals and to have meaningful transformation. Together, we will do the required work to improve relationship to oneself so you can show up as your true authentic self,
Congratulations to you for taking this initial step forward into your wellness journey. Through compassion, empathy, and attention, I provide a safe space for you to flourish and to grow as you address and heal your wounded parts. By establishing a warm and welcoming space, my goal is to help you to reach tangible goals and to have meaningful transformation. Together, we will do the required work to improve relationship to oneself so you can show up as your true authentic self,
(516) 226-2119 View (516) 226-2119

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Wendy Walker Cleary
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
With over two decades of dedicated practice in clinical social work, I bring a depth of understanding and compassion to my work with adults and couples. My areas of expertise include guiding individuals through the complexities of depression, anxiety, and relationship challenges. As a therapist trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), I journey with clients through the shadows of past traumas to the light of healing. Throughout this process, we gently unravel and reweave the tapestries of their lives, transforming pain into resilience.
With over two decades of dedicated practice in clinical social work, I bring a depth of understanding and compassion to my work with adults and couples. My areas of expertise include guiding individuals through the complexities of depression, anxiety, and relationship challenges. As a therapist trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), I journey with clients through the shadows of past traumas to the light of healing. Throughout this process, we gently unravel and reweave the tapestries of their lives, transforming pain into resilience.
(332) 263-3852 View (332) 263-3852
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Michael Stokes
Counselor, LMHC, EdD
Verified Verified
Sagaponack, NY 11962
Finding the right fit for a therapist is so important. You want someone you can trust, open up to about things you would never tell family or friends, and someone who can offer you some useful strategies and feedback. I am an interactive therapist. This means, I will not just sit there and have you talk for 50 minutes without any interactive feedback. Being an interactive therapist, we are having a conversation so there is give and take. I will ask you questions and perspective about what is going on for you that maybe you didn’t think about before. Collaboration is huge! I am not the expert on you. You are.
Finding the right fit for a therapist is so important. You want someone you can trust, open up to about things you would never tell family or friends, and someone who can offer you some useful strategies and feedback. I am an interactive therapist. This means, I will not just sit there and have you talk for 50 minutes without any interactive feedback. Being an interactive therapist, we are having a conversation so there is give and take. I will ask you questions and perspective about what is going on for you that maybe you didn’t think about before. Collaboration is huge! I am not the expert on you. You are.
(646) 825-6629 View (646) 825-6629
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Whitley Louvier
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Sagaponack, NY 11962  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist who enjoys working with couples, families, and individuals of all ages who desire a stronger connection with their loved ones. The most important aspect of therapy is helping clients uncover their inherent strengths and empowering them to create lasting change in themselves and their relationships!
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist who enjoys working with couples, families, and individuals of all ages who desire a stronger connection with their loved ones. The most important aspect of therapy is helping clients uncover their inherent strengths and empowering them to create lasting change in themselves and their relationships!
(646) 907-6432 View (646) 907-6432
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Harmony Mental Health Counseling Services, PC
Counselor, LMHC, LMSW, LPC, NCC, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bridgehampton, NY 11932
Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think of you? Your heart races, your palms sweat, and your mind goes blank in social situations. You're afraid of being judged, and it feels like you're trapped in a cycle of anxiety and self-doubt. You long for connection, but the thought of attending social events or meeting new people leaves you feeling overwhelmed. Or maybe you're experiencing panic attacks that seem to come out of nowhere, making you feel like you're losing control. You might even find yourself feeling down, lacking motivation, and struggling to find joy in your day-to-day life. You're not alone!
Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think of you? Your heart races, your palms sweat, and your mind goes blank in social situations. You're afraid of being judged, and it feels like you're trapped in a cycle of anxiety and self-doubt. You long for connection, but the thought of attending social events or meeting new people leaves you feeling overwhelmed. Or maybe you're experiencing panic attacks that seem to come out of nowhere, making you feel like you're losing control. You might even find yourself feeling down, lacking motivation, and struggling to find joy in your day-to-day life. You're not alone!
(347) 657-3657 View (347) 657-3657
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Couples and Marriage Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, Marital, EFT, Therapy, Couples, Relatio
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bridgehampton, NY 11932
Is your relationship stuck? Are you feeling unheard? deprived? having the same old fight again? Are you feeling unappreciated, and like your needs will never be important enough to your partner? Most couples who come to me love each other but are feeling desperate and hopeless to realign without help. You deserve quality counseling. Helping people communicate and get long term results using Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is my expertise and I look forward to working with you to mend your relationship and get to marriage “2.0”Email me for a free chat about what’s happening for you and what you need. Looking forward
Is your relationship stuck? Are you feeling unheard? deprived? having the same old fight again? Are you feeling unappreciated, and like your needs will never be important enough to your partner? Most couples who come to me love each other but are feeling desperate and hopeless to realign without help. You deserve quality counseling. Helping people communicate and get long term results using Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is my expertise and I look forward to working with you to mend your relationship and get to marriage “2.0”Email me for a free chat about what’s happening for you and what you need. Looking forward
(917) 746-8579 View (917) 746-8579
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Valentina Zuric, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
Your thoughts are racing, stuck on replay. Your inner critic is winning. Life feels meaningless and exhausting. You want to escape reality. Feeling scared of vulnerability and hiding who you really are is wearing on you. Your relationships are draining. It feels like you're carrying around a body bag full of fears and insecurities. Feeling like a prisoner to your past is exhausting, too. Let’s face it: feeling confused, lost, and stuck has gotten old. Fortunately, you've come to the right place. Therapy can help. Life can be hard and feel overwhelming at times, but you don't have to live in pain.
Your thoughts are racing, stuck on replay. Your inner critic is winning. Life feels meaningless and exhausting. You want to escape reality. Feeling scared of vulnerability and hiding who you really are is wearing on you. Your relationships are draining. It feels like you're carrying around a body bag full of fears and insecurities. Feeling like a prisoner to your past is exhausting, too. Let’s face it: feeling confused, lost, and stuck has gotten old. Fortunately, you've come to the right place. Therapy can help. Life can be hard and feel overwhelming at times, but you don't have to live in pain.
(305) 748-2667 View (305) 748-2667
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Shawna Starkman
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified Verified
Amagansett, NY 11930  (Online Only)
You are an accomplished man. You have built a steady career, a lovely home, and a comfortable life. But, for some reason, every relationship seems to follow the same doomed pattern. Things always start okay, but before long comes the performance anxiety, disconnection, porn, even infidelity. You sometimes wonder if things would be different if you were just a little more successful, confident, and driven. You wish you could foster a genuine connection with yourself and the people you want to share your intimate life with. But every failed effort just further confirms your suspicion and shame. Am I destined to feel this way forever?
You are an accomplished man. You have built a steady career, a lovely home, and a comfortable life. But, for some reason, every relationship seems to follow the same doomed pattern. Things always start okay, but before long comes the performance anxiety, disconnection, porn, even infidelity. You sometimes wonder if things would be different if you were just a little more successful, confident, and driven. You wish you could foster a genuine connection with yourself and the people you want to share your intimate life with. But every failed effort just further confirms your suspicion and shame. Am I destined to feel this way forever?
(646) 679-7424 View (646) 679-7424
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Sugandha Sharma
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amagansett, NY 11930  (Online Only)
I am a multicultural, holistic, trauma-informed, LGBT+ affirmative therapist and a core believer in resiliency of human spirit. Though you may consider me as the professional/expert, you are the expert of your lived experiences. I strongly believe that the client has a right to both be a recipient as well as an influencer within the therapeutic relationship. My job as a therapist is to act as guide while you are empowered to tackle both inner and outer barriers. I aim to hold a space for those who may not have access to any other arenas to feel heard and understood.
I am a multicultural, holistic, trauma-informed, LGBT+ affirmative therapist and a core believer in resiliency of human spirit. Though you may consider me as the professional/expert, you are the expert of your lived experiences. I strongly believe that the client has a right to both be a recipient as well as an influencer within the therapeutic relationship. My job as a therapist is to act as guide while you are empowered to tackle both inner and outer barriers. I aim to hold a space for those who may not have access to any other arenas to feel heard and understood.
(347) 427-5301 View (347) 427-5301
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Amanda Persaud
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Sagaponack, NY 11962  (Online Only)
Hello! I'm Dr. Persaud, a licensed psychologist dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges and reach their fullest potential. With over 11 years of experience in practice, I am passionate about providing empathetic, evidence-based therapy tailored to your unique needs. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or simply seeking personal growth, I am here to offer support and guidance every step of the way. I believe that everyone has the capacity for growth and change, and I am here to help you tap into your inner resources and overcome obstacles that may be holding you back.
Hello! I'm Dr. Persaud, a licensed psychologist dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges and reach their fullest potential. With over 11 years of experience in practice, I am passionate about providing empathetic, evidence-based therapy tailored to your unique needs. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or simply seeking personal growth, I am here to offer support and guidance every step of the way. I believe that everyone has the capacity for growth and change, and I am here to help you tap into your inner resources and overcome obstacles that may be holding you back.
(929) 822-4572 View (929) 822-4572
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S.J. Collins, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR
Verified Verified
Sag Harbor, NY 11963  (Online Only)
If you feel lost, confused or hopeless about your life or your relationships, you can turn things around. You can get clear about these problems, and find solutions. You can have a life that more authentically fits who you really are. You can manage your relationships so they begin to feel warm and fun again. When you're suffering and feeling awful, it may be hard to believe that there are things you can do to feel good again. It may also be hard to believe that you can find the power to shift and revive painful relationships.
If you feel lost, confused or hopeless about your life or your relationships, you can turn things around. You can get clear about these problems, and find solutions. You can have a life that more authentically fits who you really are. You can manage your relationships so they begin to feel warm and fun again. When you're suffering and feeling awful, it may be hard to believe that there are things you can do to feel good again. It may also be hard to believe that you can find the power to shift and revive painful relationships.
(646) 681-1708 View (646) 681-1708
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Tracy Gangi
Psychologist, MS, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
​Please note: I am currently closed (as of 12/28/23 & 2024) to all prospective clients inquiries except inquiries into ketamine-assisted psychotherapy services, a concierge at-home or remote-assisted treatment I offer in tandem with Journey Clinical. As always, I make it a priority to help my clients feel at ease with me and with the work we do together. If you were my client, you can expect me to be warm, welcoming and supportive. My specialty areas include: ADHD, anxiety, depression, bipolar, OCD, relationship issues, and self-esteem building, and I have personal comfort with many other presenting concerns (please see side bar).
​Please note: I am currently closed (as of 12/28/23 & 2024) to all prospective clients inquiries except inquiries into ketamine-assisted psychotherapy services, a concierge at-home or remote-assisted treatment I offer in tandem with Journey Clinical. As always, I make it a priority to help my clients feel at ease with me and with the work we do together. If you were my client, you can expect me to be warm, welcoming and supportive. My specialty areas include: ADHD, anxiety, depression, bipolar, OCD, relationship issues, and self-esteem building, and I have personal comfort with many other presenting concerns (please see side bar).
(516) 806-6067 View (516) 806-6067
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Hali Riley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SIFI
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Sagaponack, NY 11962  (Online Only)
If you're here for ENM knowledgeable relationship therapy, monogamous relationship therapy, or LGBTQ+ individual therapy you've come to the right place. With over 25 years of experience (including my early days as a Conflict Mediator during recess), I bring a mix of warmth, enthusiasm, and a safe space for laughs, tears, and vulnerability. While holding safe boundaries for my clients, I believe in the power of transparency and being my genuine self in my work with people. I am affirming and open-minded, while encouraging you to try new ideas or behaviors that support your healing.
If you're here for ENM knowledgeable relationship therapy, monogamous relationship therapy, or LGBTQ+ individual therapy you've come to the right place. With over 25 years of experience (including my early days as a Conflict Mediator during recess), I bring a mix of warmth, enthusiasm, and a safe space for laughs, tears, and vulnerability. While holding safe boundaries for my clients, I believe in the power of transparency and being my genuine self in my work with people. I am affirming and open-minded, while encouraging you to try new ideas or behaviors that support your healing.
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Ashley Ludwinski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I draw from the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, IFS, and MSC, as well as 14 years of experience as a married partner, parent and educator.
I am a trauma-informed provider supporting couples and individuals navigating grief/loss, conflict, trauma and transition. I am passionate about supporting folks identifying with neurodiversity (eg. eg. autistic, AuDH, diagnosed with ADHD, etc ). Clients I support often struggle with the impact of stories about who they "should be", questioning, "Do I matter?" or shedding pieces of themselves to create a sense of belonging. Understanding our stories is one of the bravest things we can do. Together we can explore yours, identify your values and strengths, and pursue healing and growth.
I draw from the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, IFS, and MSC, as well as 14 years of experience as a married partner, parent and educator.
I am a trauma-informed provider supporting couples and individuals navigating grief/loss, conflict, trauma and transition. I am passionate about supporting folks identifying with neurodiversity (eg. eg. autistic, AuDH, diagnosed with ADHD, etc ). Clients I support often struggle with the impact of stories about who they "should be", questioning, "Do I matter?" or shedding pieces of themselves to create a sense of belonging. Understanding our stories is one of the bravest things we can do. Together we can explore yours, identify your values and strengths, and pursue healing and growth.
(332) 244-0328 View (332) 244-0328
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Don Appel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Riverdale, NY 10463
I provide specialized, effective, evidence-based "Gottman Method" couples therapy (see www.
I provide in-person sessions. If you are stressed, anxious, depressed, traumatized, or if you have an unsatisfying relationship, we can explore your unique needs for healing and happiness. In addition, I am compassionate, mature, and supportive and I offer a wide variety of counseling services to both individuals and couples. I offer clinical hypnosis to address various issues such as smoking, weight control, pain management, and phobias. I feel that anyone seeking therapy is demonstrating great strength and courage. I will be with you every step of the way as we explore your path to fulfillment, wellness, and happiness
I provide specialized, effective, evidence-based "Gottman Method" couples therapy (see www.
I provide in-person sessions. If you are stressed, anxious, depressed, traumatized, or if you have an unsatisfying relationship, we can explore your unique needs for healing and happiness. In addition, I am compassionate, mature, and supportive and I offer a wide variety of counseling services to both individuals and couples. I offer clinical hypnosis to address various issues such as smoking, weight control, pain management, and phobias. I feel that anyone seeking therapy is demonstrating great strength and courage. I will be with you every step of the way as we explore your path to fulfillment, wellness, and happiness
(917) 809-7496 View (917) 809-7496

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How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.