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Aviva Stavsky-Benor
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Bronx, NY 10471  (Online Only)
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with extensive training in the treatment of anxiety, depression, PTSD, interpersonal difficulties, and adjustment challenges. I utilize an integrative approach that combines insight-oriented and goal-directed interventions informed by Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Attachment, and Relational modalities. My work with couples draws from Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy models. I take particular interest in understanding all aspects of my patients’ identities through their lens in order to facilitate increased insight and promote a robust sense of self-efficacy.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with extensive training in the treatment of anxiety, depression, PTSD, interpersonal difficulties, and adjustment challenges. I utilize an integrative approach that combines insight-oriented and goal-directed interventions informed by Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Attachment, and Relational modalities. My work with couples draws from Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy models. I take particular interest in understanding all aspects of my patients’ identities through their lens in order to facilitate increased insight and promote a robust sense of self-efficacy.
(646) 941-8343 View (646) 941-8343
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Adrian Kwiatkowski
MS-MFT
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11229  (Online Only)
To assist clients in developing into their optimal self, I utilize various treatment styles such as CBT, ACT, Psychodynamic Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Pursuing your full potential is a noble goal, but it can feel frustrating when you get stuck and you're not making meaningful progress. I aim to help you build a strong foundation for your pursuits. We’ll work together to clarify your guiding principles and develop tools so that you can take meaningful action toward your goals. I specialize in providing support to adults and young adults struggling with ADHD, low self-esteem, anxiety, and relationship issues. As a son of immigrant parents, I am also familiar with the pressures that can come from fulfilling a specific role and expectations for one’s family.
To assist clients in developing into their optimal self, I utilize various treatment styles such as CBT, ACT, Psychodynamic Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Pursuing your full potential is a noble goal, but it can feel frustrating when you get stuck and you're not making meaningful progress. I aim to help you build a strong foundation for your pursuits. We’ll work together to clarify your guiding principles and develop tools so that you can take meaningful action toward your goals. I specialize in providing support to adults and young adults struggling with ADHD, low self-esteem, anxiety, and relationship issues. As a son of immigrant parents, I am also familiar with the pressures that can come from fulfilling a specific role and expectations for one’s family.
(347) 527-4550 View (347) 527-4550
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Lisa Current
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I have taught masters level classes, delivered presentations on couples and family counseling, and am specially trained in Gottman Method Couples therapies.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), couples and families usually come to me because they are already aware that something needs to change. Understanding that relationship dynamics create the need for treatment, I work collaboratively with everyone involved to transform those dynamics. When working with clients to solve the problems they face, I use an inclusive approach, keeping in mind that everyone brings their own unique knowledge, perspective, strengths, and resources to their situation. I’m committed to using my understanding and expertise in mental health and relationships to help clients achieve their goals
I have taught masters level classes, delivered presentations on couples and family counseling, and am specially trained in Gottman Method Couples therapies.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), couples and families usually come to me because they are already aware that something needs to change. Understanding that relationship dynamics create the need for treatment, I work collaboratively with everyone involved to transform those dynamics. When working with clients to solve the problems they face, I use an inclusive approach, keeping in mind that everyone brings their own unique knowledge, perspective, strengths, and resources to their situation. I’m committed to using my understanding and expertise in mental health and relationships to help clients achieve their goals
(516) 604-3489 View (516) 604-3489
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Edie Patterson Brown
Counselor, MEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
Fayetteville, NY 13066
Effective, research-based approaches such as Internal Family Systems, solution-focused, client-centered, CBT, DBT and the Gottman Method of couples’ therapy (Level 2 Certified) will be utilized to create lasting, positive, growth and awareness.
Choosing to begin therapy is a wise and wonderful step in the direction of healing wounds and belief systems which may be holding you back. Together, we will collaborate to help you unearth your true self and discover the most beneficial strategies and skills for you to actively pursue and practice living the life you desire. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor experienced in working with individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in relationships, life transitions, supporting business and helping professionals, trauma, anxiety, grief, sexuality, OCD, confidence building and spirituality.
Effective, research-based approaches such as Internal Family Systems, solution-focused, client-centered, CBT, DBT and the Gottman Method of couples’ therapy (Level 2 Certified) will be utilized to create lasting, positive, growth and awareness.
Choosing to begin therapy is a wise and wonderful step in the direction of healing wounds and belief systems which may be holding you back. Together, we will collaborate to help you unearth your true self and discover the most beneficial strategies and skills for you to actively pursue and practice living the life you desire. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor experienced in working with individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in relationships, life transitions, supporting business and helping professionals, trauma, anxiety, grief, sexuality, OCD, confidence building and spirituality.
(315) 667-1769 View (315) 667-1769
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Jamey Baumbusch
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11201  (Online Only)
Through a combination of Gottman Method communication interventions and emotionally-focused dialogues, couples can learn to appreciate working together to solve any of their problems.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over a dacade of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I make sure that all my time with clients feels genuine and personable. I find it a lot easier, and frankly more fun, when you can enjoy talking with your therapist, and the mental health work doesn’t feel like a chore. I primarily work from systemic theories, and incorporate solution-focused work into my practice. After a thorough exploration of presenting issues, I aim to set clear goals for therapy in the initial sessions. I find it is important to evolve solution attempts to get change started.
Through a combination of Gottman Method communication interventions and emotionally-focused dialogues, couples can learn to appreciate working together to solve any of their problems.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over a dacade of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I make sure that all my time with clients feels genuine and personable. I find it a lot easier, and frankly more fun, when you can enjoy talking with your therapist, and the mental health work doesn’t feel like a chore. I primarily work from systemic theories, and incorporate solution-focused work into my practice. After a thorough exploration of presenting issues, I aim to set clear goals for therapy in the initial sessions. I find it is important to evolve solution attempts to get change started.
(929) 205-4866 View (929) 205-4866
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Malka Belgrod
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Astoria, NY 11105  (Online Only)
Hi! How are you feeling today? Is something impacting your daily life and functioning? Are you struggling at work, in your relationships, or in other aspects of your life? Is there something you want to change but need help getting started? Is there something you've struggled with for a long time and need to find a new approach? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? I'm here to help you through it all! I received a Master's in Social Work as well as a post graduate Certificate in Trauma Studies from Adelphi University and utilize different modalities such as CBT, DBT, and The Gottman Method for couples counseling.
Hi! How are you feeling today? Is something impacting your daily life and functioning? Are you struggling at work, in your relationships, or in other aspects of your life? Is there something you want to change but need help getting started? Is there something you've struggled with for a long time and need to find a new approach? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? I'm here to help you through it all! I received a Master's in Social Work as well as a post graduate Certificate in Trauma Studies from Adelphi University and utilize different modalities such as CBT, DBT, and The Gottman Method for couples counseling.
(718) 550-3854 View (718) 550-3854
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Stephanie O'Hanlon Kayalar
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, BSN-RN
Verified Verified
Glens Falls, NY 12801
I offer both individual and couples sessions, international retreats/workshops as well couples intensives utilizing Gottman Method approach.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with couples and individuals looking to increase connection, promote effective communication, find personal growth and reduce stress and anxiety. I have a strength-based approach and truly believe we all have strengths and resources waiting to be discovered that allow us to solve problems and move through life transitions such as relationships, separation, chronic illness as well as stress and anxiety to find healing, happiness and new meaning in life.
I offer both individual and couples sessions, international retreats/workshops as well couples intensives utilizing Gottman Method approach.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with couples and individuals looking to increase connection, promote effective communication, find personal growth and reduce stress and anxiety. I have a strength-based approach and truly believe we all have strengths and resources waiting to be discovered that allow us to solve problems and move through life transitions such as relationships, separation, chronic illness as well as stress and anxiety to find healing, happiness and new meaning in life.
(518) 896-8905 View (518) 896-8905
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Marisa T. Cohen
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Floral Park, NY 11001  (Online Only)
I am also a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator and have completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the EFT Externship.
Therapy offers a safe place for exploration and a greater depth of understanding of both yourself and your relationships. It is also an avenue to enhance social connections, and a way to set goals and chart a path to achieve them. I work with clients to address any obstacles they may be facing and in helping them to enact a plan to achieve their desired outcomes. This partnership is different from person to person, because it’s about identifying any stumbling blocks clients may be facing and working through them. I value approaching people from a place of curiosity, empathetic understanding, and use a collaborative approach.
I am also a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator and have completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the EFT Externship.
Therapy offers a safe place for exploration and a greater depth of understanding of both yourself and your relationships. It is also an avenue to enhance social connections, and a way to set goals and chart a path to achieve them. I work with clients to address any obstacles they may be facing and in helping them to enact a plan to achieve their desired outcomes. This partnership is different from person to person, because it’s about identifying any stumbling blocks clients may be facing and working through them. I value approaching people from a place of curiosity, empathetic understanding, and use a collaborative approach.
(516) 219-1796 View (516) 219-1796
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Alison Cunningham-Goldberg Psychotherapist
Art Therapist, MPS, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
Alison has postgraduate training in a variety of modalities, Psychoanalytically Informed Approach, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Authentic Movement, and Gottman Method for working with couples.
Alison's practice consists of professionals from diverse backgrounds, who are navigating careers, balancing family, friends, within increased challenges of daily living. Alison has successfully provided treatment for individuals who have had adverse childhood experiences which can manifest in adulthood as depression, anxiety, ptsd, or having trouble setting goals for the future. Alison has extensive experience working with children, adolescence and young adults that identify as neuro-diverse.
Alison has postgraduate training in a variety of modalities, Psychoanalytically Informed Approach, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Authentic Movement, and Gottman Method for working with couples.
Alison's practice consists of professionals from diverse backgrounds, who are navigating careers, balancing family, friends, within increased challenges of daily living. Alison has successfully provided treatment for individuals who have had adverse childhood experiences which can manifest in adulthood as depression, anxiety, ptsd, or having trouble setting goals for the future. Alison has extensive experience working with children, adolescence and young adults that identify as neuro-diverse.
(332) 239-1529 View (332) 239-1529
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Victoria L Markouizos
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newburgh, NY 12550
Waitlist for new clients
I also specialize in working with couples and have completed Level 3 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, working towards certification.
Making the decision to enter into therapy can feel overwhelming and at times, very intimidating for many people. Regardless of how big or small you feel a problem is, we can all use a little help and outside perspective sometimes. As a solution focused therapist, my goal is to collaborate with my clients in helping them identify what they would like to change, and make a plan to do so as quickly as possible. My goal is to assist you in living a more satisfying and fulfilling life.
I also specialize in working with couples and have completed Level 3 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, working towards certification.
Making the decision to enter into therapy can feel overwhelming and at times, very intimidating for many people. Regardless of how big or small you feel a problem is, we can all use a little help and outside perspective sometimes. As a solution focused therapist, my goal is to collaborate with my clients in helping them identify what they would like to change, and make a plan to do so as quickly as possible. My goal is to assist you in living a more satisfying and fulfilling life.
(845) 319-7791 View (845) 319-7791
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Daniel DiTieri
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10022
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
I blend techniques from the Top in our field from the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Pragmatic Experiential Couples Therapy.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
(646) 941-8530 View (646) 941-8530
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Kate Feiner Lorenzoni
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
New York, NY 10024  (Online Only)
Therapy is going to the gym for your emotional and relational well-being, so I give you a ton of credit for being here, exploring how to get in shape! Throughout my work, I have developed a style that is warm, direct, and actively challenges you to evolve. I have a tremendous working knowledge of evidence-based models, including CBT, DBT, MST, and ACT, as well as psychodynamic theory and the Gottman Method. My commitment to staying updated on current research and utilizing evidence-based models is a testament to my resolve to deliver therapy that actually works to help you meet your goals and experience relief.
Therapy is going to the gym for your emotional and relational well-being, so I give you a ton of credit for being here, exploring how to get in shape! Throughout my work, I have developed a style that is warm, direct, and actively challenges you to evolve. I have a tremendous working knowledge of evidence-based models, including CBT, DBT, MST, and ACT, as well as psychodynamic theory and the Gottman Method. My commitment to staying updated on current research and utilizing evidence-based models is a testament to my resolve to deliver therapy that actually works to help you meet your goals and experience relief.
(914) 219-6821 View (914) 219-6821
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Happy Apple® - Anxiety, Depression, Couples
LMFT, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10019
Our therapists specialize in couples counseling & the treatment of trauma, anxiety & depression. We use an engaging yet supportive approach to help you reach goals as quickly as possible. Our psychotherapists employ a variety of approaches, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), & EMDR for trauma. We help clients discover the origins of & contributors to unwanted emotions and relational troubles, and develop coping tools & skills for quick relief & change. We hope you'll reach out so we can tell you more about us & our work!
Our therapists specialize in couples counseling & the treatment of trauma, anxiety & depression. We use an engaging yet supportive approach to help you reach goals as quickly as possible. Our psychotherapists employ a variety of approaches, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), & EMDR for trauma. We help clients discover the origins of & contributors to unwanted emotions and relational troubles, and develop coping tools & skills for quick relief & change. We hope you'll reach out so we can tell you more about us & our work!
(646) 960-3345 View (646) 960-3345
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Russell Brian Shelkowitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rhinebeck, NY 12572  (Online Only)
Though Russell tailors his approach to each individual's needs, he is trained in Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), The Gottman Method, and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), to name a few.
Russell Shelkowitz, LCSW-R has extensive experience working with adolescents (12+), adults (individuals & couples), and families, and has provided compassionate and effective care in diverse settings, including hospitals, private practices, and outpatient clinics.
Though Russell tailors his approach to each individual's needs, he is trained in Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), The Gottman Method, and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), to name a few.
Russell Shelkowitz, LCSW-R has extensive experience working with adolescents (12+), adults (individuals & couples), and families, and has provided compassionate and effective care in diverse settings, including hospitals, private practices, and outpatient clinics.
(917) 746-0769 View (917) 746-0769
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Jersey Garcia
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10040  (Online Only)
Hola! I am a virtual bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose expertise is working with couples and individuals who are desiring to recover trust in their relationship after betrayal/infidelity. I also work with couples who are overwhelmed with the continual conflict and misunderstandings in their relationships. I am spiritual, non-religious and respectful of all faiths and denominations. I am LGBTQAI+ affirming and a proud POC, who is trauma aware and trained in brief therapeutic approaches, including Gottman Method, CBT Conjoint Therapy for PTSD, and Solution & Emotional Focused therapies.
Hola! I am a virtual bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose expertise is working with couples and individuals who are desiring to recover trust in their relationship after betrayal/infidelity. I also work with couples who are overwhelmed with the continual conflict and misunderstandings in their relationships. I am spiritual, non-religious and respectful of all faiths and denominations. I am LGBTQAI+ affirming and a proud POC, who is trauma aware and trained in brief therapeutic approaches, including Gottman Method, CBT Conjoint Therapy for PTSD, and Solution & Emotional Focused therapies.
(914) 745-6428 View (914) 745-6428
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Pam Spallacci
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd, ADHD-, CCSP
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14607
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and ADHD- Certified Clinical Services Provider. With a compassionate and understanding approach, I offer psychotherapy/psycho-educational therapy to individuals, couples, and families, whether they have with ADHD or not. Support I provide includes The Gottman Method for couples, Solution Focused Therapy, where instead of focusing on what is wrong, we'll highlight what is working and the tools you are already using. Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy has been found to be effective in helping reduce ADHD, depression, and anxiety symptoms.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and ADHD- Certified Clinical Services Provider. With a compassionate and understanding approach, I offer psychotherapy/psycho-educational therapy to individuals, couples, and families, whether they have with ADHD or not. Support I provide includes The Gottman Method for couples, Solution Focused Therapy, where instead of focusing on what is wrong, we'll highlight what is working and the tools you are already using. Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy has been found to be effective in helping reduce ADHD, depression, and anxiety symptoms.
(585) 440-6091 View (585) 440-6091
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Kelly A. Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11201
Such as, the Gottman Method and EFT for couples.
Are you a couple struggling to be heard and reaching for connection? Are you dealing with anxiety over a recent life transition? As a clinical therapist in DUMBO, I specialize in helping individuals cope with anxiety, couples in conflict increase positive interactions, and those going through life transitions find confidence. I also offer family therapy skills to children and parents struggling with behavioral challenges. We help those who feel stuck in patterns that don't seem to be working anymore by providing a safe, trustworthy and collaborative environment that works towards a sense of self-efficacy and change.
Such as, the Gottman Method and EFT for couples.
Are you a couple struggling to be heard and reaching for connection? Are you dealing with anxiety over a recent life transition? As a clinical therapist in DUMBO, I specialize in helping individuals cope with anxiety, couples in conflict increase positive interactions, and those going through life transitions find confidence. I also offer family therapy skills to children and parents struggling with behavioral challenges. We help those who feel stuck in patterns that don't seem to be working anymore by providing a safe, trustworthy and collaborative environment that works towards a sense of self-efficacy and change.
(516) 874-6917 View (516) 874-6917
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Katherine Mazza Psychotherapy
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10166  (Online Only)
As a NY State and Florida State Licensed Psychotherapist, I specialize in Couples Counseling. I am a Gottman Method Couples Therapist working with individuals and couples who struggle with: Disconnection, Lack of desire and intimacy, Negative communication patterns, Infidelity, and other traumas. If there is resentment or complacency in your relationship, surely disconnection is setting in. It takes some work to get back on track, and this can be done safely and efficiently with the help of a skillful therapist. I also do individual work with clients on various issues listed on my website https://www.kmhealth.net
As a NY State and Florida State Licensed Psychotherapist, I specialize in Couples Counseling. I am a Gottman Method Couples Therapist working with individuals and couples who struggle with: Disconnection, Lack of desire and intimacy, Negative communication patterns, Infidelity, and other traumas. If there is resentment or complacency in your relationship, surely disconnection is setting in. It takes some work to get back on track, and this can be done safely and efficiently with the help of a skillful therapist. I also do individual work with clients on various issues listed on my website https://www.kmhealth.net
(646) 762-1389 View (646) 762-1389
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Diana Zadrima Marriage And Family Therapist
MFT, Ms Ed
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Thornwood, NY 10594
The right fit in therapy is one of the greatest elements of creating long lasting change or becoming ’unstuck”. As a Marriage and Family Therapist I work with my clients (individuals, couples, and families) through a holistic view of self, including past and current experiences. I have completed level 3 training in the Gottman Method for Couple’s Therapy and provide services to couples in crisis, pre-marital counseling, and other relationship challenges. Additionally, I hold a Master’s in School counseling and have over a decade of experience working with families and adolescents.
The right fit in therapy is one of the greatest elements of creating long lasting change or becoming ’unstuck”. As a Marriage and Family Therapist I work with my clients (individuals, couples, and families) through a holistic view of self, including past and current experiences. I have completed level 3 training in the Gottman Method for Couple’s Therapy and provide services to couples in crisis, pre-marital counseling, and other relationship challenges. Additionally, I hold a Master’s in School counseling and have over a decade of experience working with families and adolescents.
(914) 350-6894 View (914) 350-6894
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Ivana Ross
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10128
The Gottman method and imago therapy for couples and CBT for individuals.
I believe that positive reinforcement and approach in life can help people with individual and interpersonal challenges. I specialize in Marriage and Family therapy, couples counseling, anxiety, depression and anger management. I am a clinical fellow of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, where I expand my professional expertise (in addition to my clinical work) to optimize therapeutic services provided to my patients.
The Gottman method and imago therapy for couples and CBT for individuals.
I believe that positive reinforcement and approach in life can help people with individual and interpersonal challenges. I specialize in Marriage and Family therapy, couples counseling, anxiety, depression and anger management. I am a clinical fellow of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, where I expand my professional expertise (in addition to my clinical work) to optimize therapeutic services provided to my patients.
(646) 941-7906 View (646) 941-7906

Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.