Gottman Method Therapists in Duluth, MN

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Ashley Kalina
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LMHC, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Duluth, MN 55803
I have completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I training.
I work with individuals to address sexual health related issues that may be getting in the way of a healthy and satisfying sex life. I help couples and individuals to improve overall sexual health and connectedness, while also working to improve overall relationship satisfaction and communication. Issues may include: sexual pain, desire discrepancies, orgasm problems, discomfort with your body image, sexual boredom, etc. I recognize that change can be difficult and seek to provide the support you need to achieve your goals by listening to you, helping to identify the outcome you desire, and motivating you to reach your goals.
I have completed Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I training.
I work with individuals to address sexual health related issues that may be getting in the way of a healthy and satisfying sex life. I help couples and individuals to improve overall sexual health and connectedness, while also working to improve overall relationship satisfaction and communication. Issues may include: sexual pain, desire discrepancies, orgasm problems, discomfort with your body image, sexual boredom, etc. I recognize that change can be difficult and seek to provide the support you need to achieve your goals by listening to you, helping to identify the outcome you desire, and motivating you to reach your goals.
(218) 276-4053 View (218) 276-4053
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Melissa Ann Nervick
Counselor, MSEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55802
It’s no mistake that you have found yourself here… looking for help… support… guidance… something to get you out of stuckness… the “yuk”. You’re losing sleep at night, distracted during the day and just can’t seem to get it together. You’re consumed by sadness, fear, guilt and/or shame, feeling like an unmade bed … day after day after day. Maybe you’ve tried a thing or two… or maybe you think you have tried it all, and you’re still not where you want to be. What if I told you that there is a different path? A different approach to help you truly heal and live the life you want to live?
It’s no mistake that you have found yourself here… looking for help… support… guidance… something to get you out of stuckness… the “yuk”. You’re losing sleep at night, distracted during the day and just can’t seem to get it together. You’re consumed by sadness, fear, guilt and/or shame, feeling like an unmade bed … day after day after day. Maybe you’ve tried a thing or two… or maybe you think you have tried it all, and you’re still not where you want to be. What if I told you that there is a different path? A different approach to help you truly heal and live the life you want to live?
(218) 210-8148 View (218) 210-8148
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Eve-Lynn Fellersen
Counselor, MSEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Duluth, MN 55802
My name is Eve and I am a licensed therapist (LPCC) in Minnesota and Wisconsin. In today’s world, many of us can often feel alone, isolated, and overwhelmed. It takes courage and strength to reach out for support and connection. I am here to support you in navigating challenging times. You can expect an authentic safe space to feel heard, validated, and understood. I have worked with clients in a wide range of concerns and enjoy working with individuals, couples and families.
My name is Eve and I am a licensed therapist (LPCC) in Minnesota and Wisconsin. In today’s world, many of us can often feel alone, isolated, and overwhelmed. It takes courage and strength to reach out for support and connection. I am here to support you in navigating challenging times. You can expect an authentic safe space to feel heard, validated, and understood. I have worked with clients in a wide range of concerns and enjoy working with individuals, couples and families.
(218) 215-4089 View (218) 215-4089
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Katie Erickson
Counselor, MA, LPCC, NBCC
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55802
"Tomorrow, you promise yourself, will be different, yet, tomorrow is too often a repetition of today." James T. Mccay. Research has repeatedly shown that the single largest factor impacting treatment outcomes is not a provider's treatment methodology or theoretical orientation, but rather the quality of a client's relationship with their individual provider. Consequently I work with each client to design a carefully researched yet highly customized program that fits their unique needs. I am able to form a realistic plan for improving their life situation that brings about improvement in their symptoms quickly.
"Tomorrow, you promise yourself, will be different, yet, tomorrow is too often a repetition of today." James T. Mccay. Research has repeatedly shown that the single largest factor impacting treatment outcomes is not a provider's treatment methodology or theoretical orientation, but rather the quality of a client's relationship with their individual provider. Consequently I work with each client to design a carefully researched yet highly customized program that fits their unique needs. I am able to form a realistic plan for improving their life situation that brings about improvement in their symptoms quickly.
(218) 321-4661 View (218) 321-4661
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Rachel G Ashford
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55804
I love working with teens and adults who are looking to make positive changes in their lives and are ready to heal from a variety of issues, including trauma exposure, PTSD, depression, anxiety, or family and relational issues. I think the relationship between therapist and client is the basis for healing and progress in therapy.
I love working with teens and adults who are looking to make positive changes in their lives and are ready to heal from a variety of issues, including trauma exposure, PTSD, depression, anxiety, or family and relational issues. I think the relationship between therapist and client is the basis for healing and progress in therapy.
(218) 228-3140 View (218) 228-3140
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Inner Fokus
Psychologist
Not Verified Not Verified
Duluth, MN 55802
More than just a way to capture attention, the spelling of Inner Fōkus also carries a personal meaning to the founders. The name is a nod to the German heritage shared by both Dr. Lori and Dr. Patrick, since “fōkus” is the correct spelling of “focus” in German. Our heritage, culture, and environment can have great impacts in shaping who we are. Our name, Inner Fōkus, also serves as a prominent reminder of the importance to occasionally break from current patterns and try new things.
More than just a way to capture attention, the spelling of Inner Fōkus also carries a personal meaning to the founders. The name is a nod to the German heritage shared by both Dr. Lori and Dr. Patrick, since “fōkus” is the correct spelling of “focus” in German. Our heritage, culture, and environment can have great impacts in shaping who we are. Our name, Inner Fōkus, also serves as a prominent reminder of the importance to occasionally break from current patterns and try new things.
(218) 305-4069 View (218) 305-4069
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Duluth Counseling Center
Counselor
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55802
We offer flexible hours, including night time and weekend appointments. We realize when you are in crisis, you need to be seen as soon as possible. We will work with you to get you in within one week. We will even try to offer you a same or next-day appointments.Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. Our goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating.
We offer flexible hours, including night time and weekend appointments. We realize when you are in crisis, you need to be seen as soon as possible. We will work with you to get you in within one week. We will even try to offer you a same or next-day appointments.Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. Our goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating.
(218) 325-4835 View (218) 325-4835
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Mark Odland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, MDiv, EMDR
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55802
My name is Mark Odland, and I specialize in EMDR therapy, marriage counseling, addiction, men’s issues, and faith-based counseling for those that desire it. In my 15+ years as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified EMDR Therapist I’ve had the privilege to train over 1,000 therapists, help over 1,000 clients, and provide over 15,000 therapy sessions. While I work with clients of all backgrounds, I have a heart for helping business leaders, physicians, fellow therapists, and other professional men. When not working, I’m practicing jiu jitsu, surfing, drawing, writing books, and enjoying nature with my wife and 4 kids.
My name is Mark Odland, and I specialize in EMDR therapy, marriage counseling, addiction, men’s issues, and faith-based counseling for those that desire it. In my 15+ years as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified EMDR Therapist I’ve had the privilege to train over 1,000 therapists, help over 1,000 clients, and provide over 15,000 therapy sessions. While I work with clients of all backgrounds, I have a heart for helping business leaders, physicians, fellow therapists, and other professional men. When not working, I’m practicing jiu jitsu, surfing, drawing, writing books, and enjoying nature with my wife and 4 kids.
(218) 250-6505 View (218) 250-6505
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Patrick Aleknavicius
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55802
I am a firm believer in thorough evaluation early on in the therapy process. I frequently use my expertise in psychological testing to assist in this diagnostic process to ensure the most effective and appropriate treatments are used. While the human condition allows for great challenges and pain, it also allows for miraculous opportunities for healing and growth. Therapy is a collaborative relationship. I focus treatment on a combination of providing information, skill building, and evidence based treatments. Being tech-interested also helps me connect with younger clients, and bridge the gap of resistance to change or getting help.
I am a firm believer in thorough evaluation early on in the therapy process. I frequently use my expertise in psychological testing to assist in this diagnostic process to ensure the most effective and appropriate treatments are used. While the human condition allows for great challenges and pain, it also allows for miraculous opportunities for healing and growth. Therapy is a collaborative relationship. I focus treatment on a combination of providing information, skill building, and evidence based treatments. Being tech-interested also helps me connect with younger clients, and bridge the gap of resistance to change or getting help.
(218) 491-0746 View (218) 491-0746
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Dr. Heather Rose-Carlson
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Duluth, MN 55803
I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families with all types of relationship and mental health issues. All of us bring positive and negative aspects of ourselves into our relationships and our work. I often find that people get stuck using behaviors or having expectations that may have worked well in past situations, such as childhood or previous relationships, but do not work well in their current situation. Often the goal in therapy is to identify what is and what is not working, and then build healthy and effective thoughts and behaviors.
I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families with all types of relationship and mental health issues. All of us bring positive and negative aspects of ourselves into our relationships and our work. I often find that people get stuck using behaviors or having expectations that may have worked well in past situations, such as childhood or previous relationships, but do not work well in their current situation. Often the goal in therapy is to identify what is and what is not working, and then build healthy and effective thoughts and behaviors.
(218) 666-8932 View (218) 666-8932
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Margaret Light
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Duluth, MN 55801  (Online Only)
I work with adults, couples, and families who face challenges related to their personal, professional, or familial circumstances. Many of my clients have found improvement through discovering balance, finding confidence, and healing from previous painful experiences. Our work will focus on improving your ability to manage difficult situations and emotions, processing and learning from previous experiences of all kinds, and learning constructive new ways of interacting with others and the world around you. I have experience working with a variety people of varying racial, sexual, political, and religious identities.
I work with adults, couples, and families who face challenges related to their personal, professional, or familial circumstances. Many of my clients have found improvement through discovering balance, finding confidence, and healing from previous painful experiences. Our work will focus on improving your ability to manage difficult situations and emotions, processing and learning from previous experiences of all kinds, and learning constructive new ways of interacting with others and the world around you. I have experience working with a variety people of varying racial, sexual, political, and religious identities.
(763) 703-2755 View (763) 703-2755
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Nicole Schefers
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Duluth, MN 55802  (Online Only)
I am most passionate about working with women, couples, the LGBTQIA+ community, and teenagers. Most of my clients present with concerns related to self esteem, anxiety, trauma, or depression. I enjoy working with clients on healthy communication, boundaries, and self care.
I am most passionate about working with women, couples, the LGBTQIA+ community, and teenagers. Most of my clients present with concerns related to self esteem, anxiety, trauma, or depression. I enjoy working with clients on healthy communication, boundaries, and self care.
(651) 349-4932 View (651) 349-4932
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Suzanne Kay Oswald
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA-LADC, CNC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Duluth, MN 55802  (Online Only)
Deciding to pursue therapy is a decision that is not easy for everyone. It can be hard work, and emotionally draining. It can seem like there's no light at the end of the tunnel, and even if there is a light, it's miles and miles away. But, if you're struggling with anything in life - from work stress to family relationships, childhood trauma or shame, diagnosed mood disorders, addictions of any kind - you owe it to yourself to try to move toward that light. Taking this first step is often the hardest, and finding the perfect therapist may be part of your challenge. Let’s see if we might be a fit.
Deciding to pursue therapy is a decision that is not easy for everyone. It can be hard work, and emotionally draining. It can seem like there's no light at the end of the tunnel, and even if there is a light, it's miles and miles away. But, if you're struggling with anything in life - from work stress to family relationships, childhood trauma or shame, diagnosed mood disorders, addictions of any kind - you owe it to yourself to try to move toward that light. Taking this first step is often the hardest, and finding the perfect therapist may be part of your challenge. Let’s see if we might be a fit.
(651) 376-2064 View (651) 376-2064

Online Therapists

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Molly Josefson
Pre-Licensed Professional, BA
Verified Verified
Two Harbors, MN 55616
I look forward to working with clients who are feeling stuck, have a sense of stagnation in their lives, have been unable to make change, or adjust to transitions. This could be in the context of relationships, family, career, or inner life. Therapy is a place where together we can explore a client's personal values, uncover barriers to growth, identify patterns of thought and behavior that the client was previously unaware of, and improve quality of life. In therapy, we will work towards increased knowledge of self, personal growth, resiliency, identity, courage, and self-determination.
I look forward to working with clients who are feeling stuck, have a sense of stagnation in their lives, have been unable to make change, or adjust to transitions. This could be in the context of relationships, family, career, or inner life. Therapy is a place where together we can explore a client's personal values, uncover barriers to growth, identify patterns of thought and behavior that the client was previously unaware of, and improve quality of life. In therapy, we will work towards increased knowledge of self, personal growth, resiliency, identity, courage, and self-determination.
(218) 413-2625 View (218) 413-2625
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Janine A Hill
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MN 55744
In the last 20 years I have worked with clients who have sought to make changes in their lives. I have extensive experience in the areas of depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, relationship issues and grief and loss. My passion is helping individuals, families and couples find ways which support the desired growth and change they are seeking. I focus on individual, couple or family strengths brought into sessions as a building place for the onset of healing and change to take place. My collaborative and straightforward approach with clients has empowered them to take needed steps to achieve their goals.
In the last 20 years I have worked with clients who have sought to make changes in their lives. I have extensive experience in the areas of depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, relationship issues and grief and loss. My passion is helping individuals, families and couples find ways which support the desired growth and change they are seeking. I focus on individual, couple or family strengths brought into sessions as a building place for the onset of healing and change to take place. My collaborative and straightforward approach with clients has empowered them to take needed steps to achieve their goals.
(218) 228-0016 View (218) 228-0016
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Brooke Borst
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LGSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sandstone, MN 55072
I work with adults ages 18+, I am experienced in working with clients who are experiencing depression, anxiety, Trauma, addiction, and many other mental health struggles. I work from a person-centered approach, and I will work with each individual to meet their mental health goals.
I work with adults ages 18+, I am experienced in working with clients who are experiencing depression, anxiety, Trauma, addiction, and many other mental health struggles. I work from a person-centered approach, and I will work with each individual to meet their mental health goals.
(320) 441-1105 View (320) 441-1105
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Bruce E Fischer
Psychologist, PhD, LP, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Crosslake, MN 56442  (Online Only)
I've been working with adults and teens for over 47 years. My approach is empathic, direct, and thoughtful. Given I have a wide background in my training, I adapt my therapeutic approach to your needs. I find that effective therapy is a collaborative approach where we work together to understand your concerns, their origins and most importantly what can be done to bring about both the internal and behavioral changes that will be beneficial to you. My goal in therapy is to help integrate your shame and vulnerabilities into a healthy identity grounded in self-esteem and pride.
I've been working with adults and teens for over 47 years. My approach is empathic, direct, and thoughtful. Given I have a wide background in my training, I adapt my therapeutic approach to your needs. I find that effective therapy is a collaborative approach where we work together to understand your concerns, their origins and most importantly what can be done to bring about both the internal and behavioral changes that will be beneficial to you. My goal in therapy is to help integrate your shame and vulnerabilities into a healthy identity grounded in self-esteem and pride.
(612) 223-7345 View (612) 223-7345
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Alexis Jacobson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Two Harbors, MN 55616
Seeking out new and unfamiliar support during challenging times can be difficult. Let me meet you wherever you may be on your journey. Building trust and rapport are my top priority when establishing a therapeutic relationship. I strive to create a space where every individual feels heard, supported, and empowered to intentionally embrace their strengths, vulnerabilities, and resilience.
Seeking out new and unfamiliar support during challenging times can be difficult. Let me meet you wherever you may be on your journey. Building trust and rapport are my top priority when establishing a therapeutic relationship. I strive to create a space where every individual feels heard, supported, and empowered to intentionally embrace their strengths, vulnerabilities, and resilience.
(218) 514-5323 View (218) 514-5323
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Well
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LMFT
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MN 55744  (Online Only)
Well was created with the purpose of helping individuals, couples, and families grow independently and as a whole.  We realize that life has its challenges and can sometimes feel overwhelming and unrelenting, which may leave us feeling hopeless.  Other times life may have us feeling stuck and needing someone to walk along side us as we seek understanding.  
Well was created with the purpose of helping individuals, couples, and families grow independently and as a whole.  We realize that life has its challenges and can sometimes feel overwhelming and unrelenting, which may leave us feeling hopeless.  Other times life may have us feeling stuck and needing someone to walk along side us as we seek understanding.  
(218) 322-1293 View (218) 322-1293
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Patricia Grigsby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LGSW
Verified Verified
Cloquet, MN 55720  (Online Only)
Let's pretend... it's 6 months from now - what is different? What do you have more of? In the beginning of therapy, many people come confused, overwhelmed, and burned-out. Some describe feeling lost, or "wanting to feel like me again." Many tell me that they've tried everything, to no avail. But they also often know where they want to be. Maybe you're in a place where you feel ready to make a change. Or maybe that you need to make one. Taking the first step in finding a provider, scheduling an appointment, and meeting for the first time is hard work! And it is the last step you need to do alone.
Let's pretend... it's 6 months from now - what is different? What do you have more of? In the beginning of therapy, many people come confused, overwhelmed, and burned-out. Some describe feeling lost, or "wanting to feel like me again." Many tell me that they've tried everything, to no avail. But they also often know where they want to be. Maybe you're in a place where you feel ready to make a change. Or maybe that you need to make one. Taking the first step in finding a provider, scheduling an appointment, and meeting for the first time is hard work! And it is the last step you need to do alone.
(218) 377-7828 View (218) 377-7828
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.