Gottman Method Therapists in 10013

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Meredith Shirey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013
I use a combination of EFT and Gottman Method for couples.
Whether wishing to reconnect with a partner, recover from infidelity, cope with a loss, or even find ways to amicably end a relationship; I can offer assistance and guidance in not only resolving the issues that brought you and your partner to therapy, but also to gain insight into how your own life experiences may impact the relationship. My hope is that my warm but direct approach to treatment will allow you and your partner to feel welcomed, understood, and safe to speak about the issues impacting your relationship. Please visit the website to learn more about my approach.
I use a combination of EFT and Gottman Method for couples.
Whether wishing to reconnect with a partner, recover from infidelity, cope with a loss, or even find ways to amicably end a relationship; I can offer assistance and guidance in not only resolving the issues that brought you and your partner to therapy, but also to gain insight into how your own life experiences may impact the relationship. My hope is that my warm but direct approach to treatment will allow you and your partner to feel welcomed, understood, and safe to speak about the issues impacting your relationship. Please visit the website to learn more about my approach.
(646) 713-0975 View (646) 713-0975
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Siqi Grace Chen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013
Grace's therapeutic approach is characterized by its integration of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), and Existential Therapy for Individual clients, as well as utilizing Gottman Method for Couples.
Grace Chen, M.Phil.Ed., M.S.Ed., M.A., MHC-LP eligible, enriches our team as a bilingual NYS Mental Health Counselor with a diverse finance and mental health background. Her journey from finance, marked by an MA in Accounting from George Washington University and a BA in Economics from Lafayette College to mental health demonstrates her dedication to finding deeper meaning in her work. Grace is a clinician, fluent in English, Mandarin Chinese, and Shanghainese dialects, and invites the opportunity to provide therapeutic services in all these languages.
Grace's therapeutic approach is characterized by its integration of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), and Existential Therapy for Individual clients, as well as utilizing Gottman Method for Couples.
Grace Chen, M.Phil.Ed., M.S.Ed., M.A., MHC-LP eligible, enriches our team as a bilingual NYS Mental Health Counselor with a diverse finance and mental health background. Her journey from finance, marked by an MA in Accounting from George Washington University and a BA in Economics from Lafayette College to mental health demonstrates her dedication to finding deeper meaning in her work. Grace is a clinician, fluent in English, Mandarin Chinese, and Shanghainese dialects, and invites the opportunity to provide therapeutic services in all these languages.
(929) 254-3796 View (929) 254-3796
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Meghan Sunayna Mehta
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013
Are you struggling to feel fulfilled in life? Does waking up and functioning day to day seem unnecessarily difficult? Are you experiencing symptoms of anxiety or depression, or the lasting effects of grief or trauma? Therapy can help. I utilize and have training in a range of therapeutic modalities including Trauma Focused-CBT, DBT, EMDR, Psychodynamic therapy, Expressive Art Therapy, the Gottman method for couples, as well as EFT. I tailor unique plans for each individual client or couple in order to empower them to better understand themselves, achieve their goals and feel more fulfilled.
Are you struggling to feel fulfilled in life? Does waking up and functioning day to day seem unnecessarily difficult? Are you experiencing symptoms of anxiety or depression, or the lasting effects of grief or trauma? Therapy can help. I utilize and have training in a range of therapeutic modalities including Trauma Focused-CBT, DBT, EMDR, Psychodynamic therapy, Expressive Art Therapy, the Gottman method for couples, as well as EFT. I tailor unique plans for each individual client or couple in order to empower them to better understand themselves, achieve their goals and feel more fulfilled.
(929) 538-3584 View (929) 538-3584
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Pei-Chen Hsu
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
When working with couples, I combine Emotionally-Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method.
I am experienced in treating depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, trauma, unresolved issues, life-transition difficulties, family/relational problems, and grief and loss. While I have extensive experience working with individuals of Asian decent, they comprise only 30% of my clientele and I am well-rounded in treating individuals from various cultural and religious backgrounds. I am dedicated to bring genuine, compassionate, and evidence-based care to my clients. After a thorough assessment of my client's presenting concern and history, I collaborate with my client to formulate a treatment plan that is highly individualized.
When working with couples, I combine Emotionally-Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method.
I am experienced in treating depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, trauma, unresolved issues, life-transition difficulties, family/relational problems, and grief and loss. While I have extensive experience working with individuals of Asian decent, they comprise only 30% of my clientele and I am well-rounded in treating individuals from various cultural and religious backgrounds. I am dedicated to bring genuine, compassionate, and evidence-based care to my clients. After a thorough assessment of my client's presenting concern and history, I collaborate with my client to formulate a treatment plan that is highly individualized.
(862) 292-9584 View (862) 292-9584
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Marisa T. Cohen
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
I am also a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator and have completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the EFT Externship.
Therapy offers a safe place for exploration and a greater depth of understanding of both yourself and your relationships. It is also an avenue to enhance social connections, and a way to set goals and chart a path to achieve them. I work with clients to address any obstacles they may be facing and in helping them to enact a plan to achieve their desired outcomes. This partnership is different from person to person, because it’s about identifying any stumbling blocks clients may be facing and working through them. I value approaching people from a place of curiosity, empathetic understanding, and use a collaborative approach.
I am also a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator and have completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the EFT Externship.
Therapy offers a safe place for exploration and a greater depth of understanding of both yourself and your relationships. It is also an avenue to enhance social connections, and a way to set goals and chart a path to achieve them. I work with clients to address any obstacles they may be facing and in helping them to enact a plan to achieve their desired outcomes. This partnership is different from person to person, because it’s about identifying any stumbling blocks clients may be facing and working through them. I value approaching people from a place of curiosity, empathetic understanding, and use a collaborative approach.
(516) 219-1796 View (516) 219-1796
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Reyna Ramirez-Guest
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Looking for an affirming, safe, nonjudgmental space where you can be yourself? Together we can work through whatever challenges you are facing to meet goals that have seemed difficult to attain. My intention is to pave the way toward healing, acceptance of your full authentic self, and long-term growth. Drawing on knowledge from queer, and critical race theory, we will work collaboratively to help you navigate systemic issues and its impact on your intersecting identities.
Looking for an affirming, safe, nonjudgmental space where you can be yourself? Together we can work through whatever challenges you are facing to meet goals that have seemed difficult to attain. My intention is to pave the way toward healing, acceptance of your full authentic self, and long-term growth. Drawing on knowledge from queer, and critical race theory, we will work collaboratively to help you navigate systemic issues and its impact on your intersecting identities.
(718) 215-9109 View (718) 215-9109
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Madeline Lucas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
I offer online individual, couples, & sex therapy in NY and NJ. Therapy isn’t just about facing difficult feelings. It’s about embracing the journey of self-discovery to better know yourself. Whether you're grappling with anxiety, depression, or navigating the complexities of sex and intimacy, I'm here to help guide you to an empowered self. I use an insight-oriented, psychodynamic approach, with techniques from CBT, IFS, EFT, Gottman Couples Therapy, & somatic therapy.
I offer online individual, couples, & sex therapy in NY and NJ. Therapy isn’t just about facing difficult feelings. It’s about embracing the journey of self-discovery to better know yourself. Whether you're grappling with anxiety, depression, or navigating the complexities of sex and intimacy, I'm here to help guide you to an empowered self. I use an insight-oriented, psychodynamic approach, with techniques from CBT, IFS, EFT, Gottman Couples Therapy, & somatic therapy.
(347) 507-2821 View (347) 507-2821
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Gabriela Baquero-Henao
MHC-LP
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013
Gabriela is a mental health counselor who is passionate about providing comprehensive multiculturally sensitive therapy for people from diverse backgrounds. She is originally from Bogotá, Colombia and speaks Spanish fluently. Gabriela has experience providing individual, couples/family and group counseling, as well as psychoeducational interventions. In addition, Gabriela has worked in-depth with survivors of gender and intimate partner violence and chronic pain. Gabriela believes that every treatment needs to be tailored to the specific needs of the client, which is why she draws from multiple therapeutic approaches in her work.
Gabriela is a mental health counselor who is passionate about providing comprehensive multiculturally sensitive therapy for people from diverse backgrounds. She is originally from Bogotá, Colombia and speaks Spanish fluently. Gabriela has experience providing individual, couples/family and group counseling, as well as psychoeducational interventions. In addition, Gabriela has worked in-depth with survivors of gender and intimate partner violence and chronic pain. Gabriela believes that every treatment needs to be tailored to the specific needs of the client, which is why she draws from multiple therapeutic approaches in her work.
(332) 262-7867 View (332) 262-7867
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Shavon Gaddy- Dalrymple
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
I provide a safe therapeutic treatment space for those within and outside the LGBTQ/QI 2-S+ spectrum, GNC/Non-Binary, and BDSM/Kink community. I have extensive experience working with individuals who have been diagnosed as Differently-Abled/Special Needs/ASD/Neuroatypical/ Neurodivergent or with an Intellectual and Emotional Disability.
I provide a safe therapeutic treatment space for those within and outside the LGBTQ/QI 2-S+ spectrum, GNC/Non-Binary, and BDSM/Kink community. I have extensive experience working with individuals who have been diagnosed as Differently-Abled/Special Needs/ASD/Neuroatypical/ Neurodivergent or with an Intellectual and Emotional Disability.
(502) 289-6128 View (502) 289-6128
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Angel Suarez
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT-LP, MA, MSEd
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013
I offer empathetic, non-judgmental, and humanistic therapy. I work with couples and families navigating relational conflict. I also work with individuals from across all age groups and cultures on accomplishing their goals, growing to their highest potential, and achieving their authentic self. As an experienced educator for over a decade, I am also interested in continuing to work with teenagers and their families.
I offer empathetic, non-judgmental, and humanistic therapy. I work with couples and families navigating relational conflict. I also work with individuals from across all age groups and cultures on accomplishing their goals, growing to their highest potential, and achieving their authentic self. As an experienced educator for over a decade, I am also interested in continuing to work with teenagers and their families.
(347) 801-0721 View (347) 801-0721
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Jess Laliberte
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013
I believe in therapy as a way to understand our pasts and move forward in the present—a powerful tool in navigating transitions, staying rooted, and expressing our creative selves. I have a Bachelors and Masters in music/opera, a Masters in social work from Columbia University, and am a certified yoga teacher.
I believe in therapy as a way to understand our pasts and move forward in the present—a powerful tool in navigating transitions, staying rooted, and expressing our creative selves. I have a Bachelors and Masters in music/opera, a Masters in social work from Columbia University, and am a certified yoga teacher.
(332) 239-6208 View (332) 239-6208
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Nicole Banner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Finding the right therapist can feel frustrating; however once the right fit has been found, the power of that relationship can be life changing. I believe that you are the expert of your own life and therefore capable of making any changes necessary to experience true relief from any inner struggle or pain and to achieve an overall higher level of life satisfaction. My job is to create a safe and supportive space where we can collaborate in identifying goals and needs specific to you and to help you navigate the path to happiness and bring about transformation and opportunity.
Finding the right therapist can feel frustrating; however once the right fit has been found, the power of that relationship can be life changing. I believe that you are the expert of your own life and therefore capable of making any changes necessary to experience true relief from any inner struggle or pain and to achieve an overall higher level of life satisfaction. My job is to create a safe and supportive space where we can collaborate in identifying goals and needs specific to you and to help you navigate the path to happiness and bring about transformation and opportunity.
(929) 244-4506 View (929) 244-4506
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Yudi Xia
Licensed Master Social Worker, LSW, ASW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013
Desires drive our lives—what we want, when, and how. Our efforts are focused on moving towards what we desire and away from what we do not want. The more inflexible or rigid our desires become, the more disappointment and anger we feel when faced with undesired outcomes. Frequently, in our pursuit of fulfilling these desires, we may drift away from aligning with our values or becoming the person we aspire to be. And that can be painful. Anxiety and fear often become ingrained habits aimed at avoiding undesired outcomes—”a need for control to achieve what I want or to ensure I don’t get what I fear.”
Desires drive our lives—what we want, when, and how. Our efforts are focused on moving towards what we desire and away from what we do not want. The more inflexible or rigid our desires become, the more disappointment and anger we feel when faced with undesired outcomes. Frequently, in our pursuit of fulfilling these desires, we may drift away from aligning with our values or becoming the person we aspire to be. And that can be painful. Anxiety and fear often become ingrained habits aimed at avoiding undesired outcomes—”a need for control to achieve what I want or to ensure I don’t get what I fear.”
(347) 244-7496 View (347) 244-7496
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(332) 378-5736 View (332) 378-5736
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Thrive Mental Health Holistic Wellness Counseling
Counselor
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
Thrive is a multicultural practice with clients from all ethnicities and sexual orientations. Our clients come to us for culturally relevant & generationally inclusive individual counseling to positively adjust to changes in their lives, better navigate anxiety, cope with depression, heal from grief, explore their identities, resolve interpersonal conflicts, and to unpack trauma/racial trauma so that they can live optimally happy lives. Our clients seek to heal from their pasts by learning healthy ways to change the connectivity of their thoughts, emotions & behaviors and to develop positive coping skills.
Thrive is a multicultural practice with clients from all ethnicities and sexual orientations. Our clients come to us for culturally relevant & generationally inclusive individual counseling to positively adjust to changes in their lives, better navigate anxiety, cope with depression, heal from grief, explore their identities, resolve interpersonal conflicts, and to unpack trauma/racial trauma so that they can live optimally happy lives. Our clients seek to heal from their pasts by learning healthy ways to change the connectivity of their thoughts, emotions & behaviors and to develop positive coping skills.
(646) 681-7170 View (646) 681-7170
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Desmond Barnett
MHC-LP, MCoun
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
As a transgender therapist, I bring a unique perspective to the field of mental health. I have personally experienced the challenges and joys of gender identity exploration and transition, which has given me a deep understanding and empathy for my clients who are also navigating these issues.
As a transgender therapist, I bring a unique perspective to the field of mental health. I have personally experienced the challenges and joys of gender identity exploration and transition, which has given me a deep understanding and empathy for my clients who are also navigating these issues.
(646) 713-0324 View (646) 713-0324
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Racheal E Poole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
Stuck? Pull up a seat and let's talk. I have a few questions for you. Have you ever felt like throwing in the towel? Like shouting "I give up!" or wanting to trade in your life for a whole new one? If any of this applies to you I am so glad you stopped by my page. I am a dedicated therapist who has been through a thing or two myself. I have a variety of life experiences that make it easy for me to relate to others. I use a trauma informed; strength based; whole person; integrative approach. I have been doing this for over 20 years and still love it!
Stuck? Pull up a seat and let's talk. I have a few questions for you. Have you ever felt like throwing in the towel? Like shouting "I give up!" or wanting to trade in your life for a whole new one? If any of this applies to you I am so glad you stopped by my page. I am a dedicated therapist who has been through a thing or two myself. I have a variety of life experiences that make it easy for me to relate to others. I use a trauma informed; strength based; whole person; integrative approach. I have been doing this for over 20 years and still love it!
(716) 226-3526 View (716) 226-3526
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Ariel Hayat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
Do you have feelings of anxiety, depression, instability, or codependency within your relationships? Do you want to find the right partner(s) or improve your current relationship but are stuck in dating cycles that aren't working? Are you grieving a breakup and wanting to find ways of healing and finding yourself again? Have you experienced negative dynamics in previous relationships or with family? Are you feeling disconnected and frustrated in your marriage but don't know if change is possible? Are you tired of having the same fights over and over again? Something has to change and you want to find the right way to move forward.
Do you have feelings of anxiety, depression, instability, or codependency within your relationships? Do you want to find the right partner(s) or improve your current relationship but are stuck in dating cycles that aren't working? Are you grieving a breakup and wanting to find ways of healing and finding yourself again? Have you experienced negative dynamics in previous relationships or with family? Are you feeling disconnected and frustrated in your marriage but don't know if change is possible? Are you tired of having the same fights over and over again? Something has to change and you want to find the right way to move forward.
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Johanna Sangemino
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with adults presenting with anxiety and OCD. I understand that letting go of anxiety can at times feel insurmountable, and I work with you to develop the tools to free yourself from worry and better connect with what is important to you.
I specialize in working with adults presenting with anxiety and OCD. I understand that letting go of anxiety can at times feel insurmountable, and I work with you to develop the tools to free yourself from worry and better connect with what is important to you.
(631) 856-7205 View (631) 856-7205
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Kerrie Mohr
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
19 Endorsed
New York, NY 10013
If you are ready to take steps towards changing how you feel and interact with your world, then I am here to support you on your journey. You may feel that something is off, your life is not headed in the direction you want it to go in, or you are stuck. Together, we will explore ways to get you past these barriers so you can feel fulfilled and in control of your life. I will help you tap into your inner strengths to work gently and proactively toward change.
If you are ready to take steps towards changing how you feel and interact with your world, then I am here to support you on your journey. You may feel that something is off, your life is not headed in the direction you want it to go in, or you are stuck. Together, we will explore ways to get you past these barriers so you can feel fulfilled and in control of your life. I will help you tap into your inner strengths to work gently and proactively toward change.
(347) 408-0336 View (347) 408-0336

Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.