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Gaylen Bendewald

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW

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2525 West Main Street, Suite 214, Rapid City, SD 57702
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2525 West Main Street Suite 214 Rapid City, SD 57702
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Many of the men and couples I work with feel stuck in cycles around pornography, sexual habits, or intimacy concerns that are quietly eroding confidence and connection. These struggles often come with anxiety, low mood, and a lot of shame - even when everything else in life looks "fine." I regularly work with individuals and couples together when sexual concerns are impacting trust, communication, and intimacy. I am a capable guide who will respect your individuality and choices along the way while providing you a sureness of foot that only experience can provide.
My approach is practical, non-shaming, and grounded in real relationship dynamics. I don't moralize sexual behavior - we focus on impact, values, and choice. This work for me is finding the right solutions. Solutions that lead you and your partner to places that ultimately make sense to both of you, they are right for you.
I am honest and joy filled, a good humored guy, unwaveringly convinced of the essential goodness that underlies all of us, even when we fail. For a "better feel" for who I am, take a look at my blog on my website.
Call or Gaylen Bendewald now for a free 15 minute consultation - (605) 956-4114

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Clock Tower Building

2525 West Main Street

Suite 214

Rapid City, SD 57702 map

(605) 956-4114
My website
I see both individuals and couples. Online and in person.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Anxiety and Sex Therapy 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Give me a call.
Gaylen Bendewald
Let's Connect (605) 956-4114
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Clock Tower Building

2525 West Main Street

Suite 214

Rapid City, SD 57702 map

(605) 956-4114
My website
I see both individuals and couples. Online and in person.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Anxiety and Sex Therapy 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Give me a call.
Gaylen Bendewald

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, Apple Cash, Cash, Check, Venmo

Insurance

  • Avera Health Plans
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Sanford Health Plan
  • Wellmark BCBS
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I will file insurance on your behalf.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (605) 956-4114
"
I will file insurance on your behalf.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (605) 956-4114

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of South Dakota / 444 Gaylen Bendewald
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended The University of Iowa, Graduated 1977
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from South Dakota Board of Social Work Examiners LCSW~PIP / 1982
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Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (605) 956-4114
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (605) 956-4114

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Anxiety
  • Sex Therapy

Expertise

  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Ketamine assisted integration
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
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I help individuals and couples with their sexual issues and concerns.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (605) 956-4114
"
I help individuals and couples with their sexual issues and concerns.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (605) 956-4114


Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Humanistic
  • Interpersonal
  • Marriage decision therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Psychodynamic
  • Trauma Focused
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I use my own method of treatment guided by years of experience. I advance myself yearly with Continuing Education where I glean new ideas from time to time. Big influences for me would be Attachment Theory. Realistically, everyone uses some version of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, including myself.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (605) 956-4114
"
I use my own method of treatment guided by years of experience. I advance myself yearly with Continuing Education where I glean new ideas from time to time. Big influences for me would be Attachment Theory. Realistically, everyone uses some version of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, including myself.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (605) 956-4114

Location

Primary Location

Clock Tower Building

2525 West Main Street

Suite 214

Rapid City, SD 57702

(605) 956-4114
"
I see both individuals and couples. Online and in person.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call for a free consultation now - (605) 956-4114
"
I see both individuals and couples. Online and in person.
Photo of Gaylen Bendewald, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Gaylen Bendewald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Call for a free consultation now - (605) 956-4114