Kailua Kona
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Gary Jaster

M.Ed.

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Available both in-person and online
75-6100 Alii Drive Kailua Kona, HI 96740
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Do you feel stuck in your life, knowing something needs to change? Do you find yourself repeating the same patterns in relationships or behaviors? Do you understand the problem yet still react from old habits? From the outside, do you seem fine, while inside you feel anxious, disconnected, or unfulfilled? Are you tired of insight without real change? I don't believe you are broken. My role is not to fix you, but to help you uncover the unconscious patterns shaping your life so you can make intentional choices and create a more fulfilling, purposeful future.
This is not passive talk therapy. It is transformational pattern work focused on lasting change. Together, we identify and break free from emotional distress, negative beliefs, self-sabotaging behaviors, and unhealthy relationship patterns. Using a trauma-informed approach, I will help you to create meaningful and sustainable change.
My approach integrates trauma-informed principles, EMDR-informed techniques, somatic awareness, parts work, relationship healing, codependency recovery, and addiction recovery support. You’ll gain practical, evidence-based tools to help you build healthier relationships, strengthen resilience, and create a more authentic, meaningful, and fulfilling life.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

75-6100 Alii Drive

Kailua Kona, HI 96740 map

 (843) 224-9493
My website
Move beyond coping to lasting transformation. Trauma-informed guidance in Kona or online. Free 15-minute consultation to see how I can help.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Relationship Issues and Life Transitions 
$125 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (843) 224-9493
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

75-6100 Alii Drive

Kailua Kona, HI 96740 map

 (843) 224-9493
My website
Move beyond coping to lasting transformation. Trauma-informed guidance in Kona or online. Free 15-minute consultation to see how I can help.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Relationship Issues and Life Transitions 
$125 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $125
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Paypal, Venmo
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Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
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Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (843) 224-9493

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Degree/Diploma from University of Arkansas at Little Rock Gary John Jaster

    • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 10 years
  • Attended University of Arkansas at Little Rock, M.Ed., Graduated 1984

    • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from The Institute For Creative Mindfulness - EMDR - (EMDRIA 10002) ZFYGVA-CE00048 / 2026
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The same negative thoughts and beliefs. The same anxiety in your body. The same relationship dynamic. The same fear of disappointing someone, being alone, shutting down, or reacting. Together I will help you get to the root of what keeps repeating, then choose from a different way forward.
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Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (843) 224-9493
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The same negative thoughts and beliefs. The same anxiety in your body. The same relationship dynamic. The same fear of disappointing someone, being alone, shutting down, or reacting. Together I will help you get to the root of what keeps repeating, then choose from a different way forward.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (843) 224-9493

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Men's Issues
  • Relationship Issues
  • Life Transitions

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Drug Abuse
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Emotional Regulation
  • Family Conflict
  • Intervention
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Purpose
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Peer Relationships
  • Self Esteem
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with men and women who feel stuck in repeating relationship patterns, life transitions, or emotional struggles they can't seem to change despite understanding them. Together, we'll uncover the unconscious beliefs & protective patterns driving those reactions, replace inherited false beliefs with truth, and practice new choices that create healthier relationships, authenticity & freedom.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (843) 224-9493
"
I work with men and women who feel stuck in repeating relationship patterns, life transitions, or emotional struggles they can't seem to change despite understanding them. Together, we'll uncover the unconscious beliefs & protective patterns driving those reactions, replace inherited false beliefs with truth, and practice new choices that create healthier relationships, authenticity & freedom.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (843) 224-9493

2 Endorsements

Thomas J Jameson
Thomas J Jameson
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Gary has a genuine gift for Men's work. He creates a space where men feel seen, challenged and supported to grow with honesty, accountability and integrity. His steady presence, deep listening, and commitment to authentic connection supports his clients.
R. Aurora Leikula Papalii
R. Aurora Leikula Papalii
Counselor, PhD, LMHC
Gary is a calm, dedicated, and seasoned professional who creates a supportive environment for growth and self-discovery. He excels at empowering and challenging clients to develop healthier relationships, establish boundaries, and address codependency.

Client Focus

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Blind Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Single Parent

Ethnicity

Pacific Islander

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Blind Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Single Parent

Ethnicity

Pacific Islander

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • EMDR
  • Family / Marital
  • Group therapy (In-person & online)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Jungian
  • Somatic
  • Trauma Focused
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Individual Sessions - In-Person or Online. Group Sessions - a powerful, supportive, & cost-effective space for healing & change: "Empowering the Self" group: Break through unconscious patterns keeping you stuck. "Healthy Relationships" group: Helps break codependency patterns and create thriving connections.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (843) 224-9493
"
Individual Sessions - In-Person or Online. Group Sessions - a powerful, supportive, & cost-effective space for healing & change: "Empowering the Self" group: Break through unconscious patterns keeping you stuck. "Healthy Relationships" group: Helps break codependency patterns and create thriving connections.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (843) 224-9493

Groups

Empowering The Self Group

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Hosted by
Gary Jaster

For individuals who are ready to move beyond simply talking about change-and begin living it. This isn't a traditional support group. It's a transformational experience designed to create real, lasting change. In this group you will: *Discover unconscious patterns that keep you stuck *Heal emotional wounds that continue to influence your life *Challenge limiting beliefs & self-sabotaging behaviors *Develop authenticity, integrity, and personal responsibility *Stretch beyond your comfort zone into meaningful growth

Types of Therapy

Trauma Focused

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$20-$30

Location

Empowering The Self

Kailua Kona, HI 96740

Email Gary Jaster about this group or call - (843) 224-9493

Healthy Relationships Group

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Hosted by
Gary Jaster

Healthy Relationships begin with a healthy relationship with yourself. Learn to break free from codependent survival patterns that sabotage your relationships. In this professionally-facilitated group you will learn how to: *Build health boundaries without guilt *Stop people-pleasing and over-functioning *Strengthen self-worth from within *Communicate honestly, confidently, & respectfully *Stop enabling and begin empowering

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$20-$30

Location

Empowering The Self

Kailua Kona, HI 96740

Email Gary Jaster about this group or call - (843) 224-9493

Location

Primary Location

75-6100 Alii Drive

Kailua Kona, HI 96740

(843) 224-9493

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Move beyond coping to lasting transformation. Trauma-informed guidance in Kona or online. Free 15-minute consultation to see how I can help.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call for a free consultation now - (843) 224-9493
"
Move beyond coping to lasting transformation. Trauma-informed guidance in Kona or online. Free 15-minute consultation to see how I can help.
Photo of Gary Jaster, M.Ed.
Gary Jaster
M.Ed.
Call for a free consultation now - (843) 224-9493