Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Smyrna, GA
Embracing change can sometimes seem like a daunting task. Even when our life experiences have a negative impact on us and those we care about, breaking away from familiarity can be challenging. Often, we find ourselves unsure of where to start. Seeking counseling can be the first step towards creating a life that aligns with our desires and aspirations.
Embracing change can sometimes seem like a daunting task. Even when our life experiences have a negative impact on us and those we care about, breaking away from familiarity can be challenging. Often, we find ourselves unsure of where to start. Seeking counseling can be the first step towards creating a life that aligns with our desires and aspirations.
As a licensed psychologist, I believe that prioritizing mental health and wellness is key to a happy successful life. I have been engaged in professional psychotherapy for the past 13 years, working in private practice and college/university counseling. My practice focuses on adults (18+) struggling with common mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, interpersonal relationships, life transitions, grief, and issues related to masculinity and ethnic identity.
As a licensed psychologist, I believe that prioritizing mental health and wellness is key to a happy successful life. I have been engaged in professional psychotherapy for the past 13 years, working in private practice and college/university counseling. My practice focuses on adults (18+) struggling with common mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, interpersonal relationships, life transitions, grief, and issues related to masculinity and ethnic identity.
I provide an authentic therapeutic alliance with my clients. We work together to transform painful emotions into empowering energy needed for healing and balance. My manner is warm, positive and direct. I believe healing is always possible when we are allied with the right support system. I provide a safe and judgement-free experience for all!
I provide an authentic therapeutic alliance with my clients. We work together to transform painful emotions into empowering energy needed for healing and balance. My manner is warm, positive and direct. I believe healing is always possible when we are allied with the right support system. I provide a safe and judgement-free experience for all!
How often do you feel you’ve gone unheard in your life? There is a unique pain in feeling stuck, that you need permission to be yourself, or that you’re in a constant cycle of being everything to everyone while feeling unable to prioritize yourself or your needs, wants, or goals. Familial and interpersonal relationships are at the core of everyone’s support system but navigating feeling good enough and setting and maintaining boundaries in those relationships can be overwhelming, especially when you feel your coping and regulation toolbox is empty. I specialize in working with ADHD and Autism across all ages and couples.
How often do you feel you’ve gone unheard in your life? There is a unique pain in feeling stuck, that you need permission to be yourself, or that you’re in a constant cycle of being everything to everyone while feeling unable to prioritize yourself or your needs, wants, or goals. Familial and interpersonal relationships are at the core of everyone’s support system but navigating feeling good enough and setting and maintaining boundaries in those relationships can be overwhelming, especially when you feel your coping and regulation toolbox is empty. I specialize in working with ADHD and Autism across all ages and couples.
Hello, I’m so glad you’re here! I'm passionate about guiding individuals on their journey towards healing and self-discovery. As an art therapist, I believe in the transformative power of creativity to help people of any age express themselves and navigate life's complexities. You don’t need to consider yourself to be an artist to find benefit in creative healing. I will work with you to introduce artmaking that meets your unique needs. Alongside art therapy, I also offer traditional talk therapy, providing a holistic approach to mental and emotional well-being that can be best catered to your specific therapeutic needs.
Hello, I’m so glad you’re here! I'm passionate about guiding individuals on their journey towards healing and self-discovery. As an art therapist, I believe in the transformative power of creativity to help people of any age express themselves and navigate life's complexities. You don’t need to consider yourself to be an artist to find benefit in creative healing. I will work with you to introduce artmaking that meets your unique needs. Alongside art therapy, I also offer traditional talk therapy, providing a holistic approach to mental and emotional well-being that can be best catered to your specific therapeutic needs.
Existing in unprecedented + scary times has never felt more confusing, and we are exhausted. If you are tired of carrying the weight of grief + injustice, burned out by a broken system, + desperate to be met in the heavy - I am so glad you’re here. I invite you to join me in a safe + judgment free space, where you don’t have to pretend to have it all together, but you always belong. I support individuals from all walks of life, while specializing in ADHD, Autism, LGBTQ+, and trauma. My mission is justice oriented, rooted in gentleness + authenticity, with a drive to dismantle the systems that no longer serves us - together.
Existing in unprecedented + scary times has never felt more confusing, and we are exhausted. If you are tired of carrying the weight of grief + injustice, burned out by a broken system, + desperate to be met in the heavy - I am so glad you’re here. I invite you to join me in a safe + judgment free space, where you don’t have to pretend to have it all together, but you always belong. I support individuals from all walks of life, while specializing in ADHD, Autism, LGBTQ+, and trauma. My mission is justice oriented, rooted in gentleness + authenticity, with a drive to dismantle the systems that no longer serves us - together.
Have you experienced a trauma or life-changing event? Are you feeling stuck and struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just trying to figure out who you are or find a purpose? I am passionate about helping those who are working to find balance in their lives and those in need of finding that mind-body connection to promote health and well-being. I am experienced in working with Trauma, LGBTQ+ community, interpersonal relationship concerns, difficulties relating to neurodivergence, and college students struggling to balance the demands of academics and daily living.
Have you experienced a trauma or life-changing event? Are you feeling stuck and struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just trying to figure out who you are or find a purpose? I am passionate about helping those who are working to find balance in their lives and those in need of finding that mind-body connection to promote health and well-being. I am experienced in working with Trauma, LGBTQ+ community, interpersonal relationship concerns, difficulties relating to neurodivergence, and college students struggling to balance the demands of academics and daily living.
Jessica Messler
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
You need an ally. Someone that is invested in your life and wants to be a partner that can support you along your journey. As a therapist, I strive to be that ally. I believe that it is my job to meet you exactly where you are and help you move toward where you would like to be. Empowerment is imperative to my therapeutic approach, as I believe it serves as a foundation to processing complex topics such as emotional regulation, cognitive distortions, or relationship conflicts.
You need an ally. Someone that is invested in your life and wants to be a partner that can support you along your journey. As a therapist, I strive to be that ally. I believe that it is my job to meet you exactly where you are and help you move toward where you would like to be. Empowerment is imperative to my therapeutic approach, as I believe it serves as a foundation to processing complex topics such as emotional regulation, cognitive distortions, or relationship conflicts.
Security, stability, balance - these three words come to mind when I think of ultimate human desire; to feel safe, stable and overall a sense of balance within our lives; at times we may feel these are not being met. It is my hope for us to work collaboratively to identify problem areas and work towards regaining balance in your life. My goal is to approach our therapeutic relationship with compassion, non-judgment, empathy and acceptance. I build my work upon a client-centered approach, as I believe a strong therapeutic relationship is the foundation to therapeutic success.
Security, stability, balance - these three words come to mind when I think of ultimate human desire; to feel safe, stable and overall a sense of balance within our lives; at times we may feel these are not being met. It is my hope for us to work collaboratively to identify problem areas and work towards regaining balance in your life. My goal is to approach our therapeutic relationship with compassion, non-judgment, empathy and acceptance. I build my work upon a client-centered approach, as I believe a strong therapeutic relationship is the foundation to therapeutic success.
We all have protective walls; they often contain emotions like a dam with water. You might notice that the dam weakening or perhaps too strong; you need release but fear where the water will go. My work centers balancing the dam and directing streams of water to lower the pressure. As a queer therapist, I prioritize creating a safe space for gender, sexual, and relationship structure minorities to flourish. We may be a good match if you are seeking guidance and support for complex trauma, neurodiversity, sexual/gender identity, relationship concerns, and/or substance use (with recognition of the healing power of plant medicines).
We all have protective walls; they often contain emotions like a dam with water. You might notice that the dam weakening or perhaps too strong; you need release but fear where the water will go. My work centers balancing the dam and directing streams of water to lower the pressure. As a queer therapist, I prioritize creating a safe space for gender, sexual, and relationship structure minorities to flourish. We may be a good match if you are seeking guidance and support for complex trauma, neurodiversity, sexual/gender identity, relationship concerns, and/or substance use (with recognition of the healing power of plant medicines).
We are an Anti-Racist, Neuro-Diverse, Trans-Inclusive, LGBTQ+, and Gender, Sexual, & Romantic Minorities-Affirming practice. We are respectful of all cultures and exercise humility toward our client’s religious identities. We serve children (3+), teens, and adults, individuals, couples (all structures), families. We create treatment plans that utilize evidence-based treatments while considering the unique experiences and identifies of our clients. Our clients want to feel safe to explore their needs with a therapist that understands them.
We are an Anti-Racist, Neuro-Diverse, Trans-Inclusive, LGBTQ+, and Gender, Sexual, & Romantic Minorities-Affirming practice. We are respectful of all cultures and exercise humility toward our client’s religious identities. We serve children (3+), teens, and adults, individuals, couples (all structures), families. We create treatment plans that utilize evidence-based treatments while considering the unique experiences and identifies of our clients. Our clients want to feel safe to explore their needs with a therapist that understands them.
At The Relationship House, we understand the profound impact that relationships have on every aspect of our lives. Whether you are dating, in a long-term partnership, married, starting a family, or navigating the complex dynamics of parenthood, our team of dedicated therapists in North Metro Atlanta offers tailored guidance and support to individuals, couples, and families at every phase of their relationship journey. Our therapists are skilled in facilitating transformative moments that lead to lasting change, enhancing your overall quality of life.
At The Relationship House, we understand the profound impact that relationships have on every aspect of our lives. Whether you are dating, in a long-term partnership, married, starting a family, or navigating the complex dynamics of parenthood, our team of dedicated therapists in North Metro Atlanta offers tailored guidance and support to individuals, couples, and families at every phase of their relationship journey. Our therapists are skilled in facilitating transformative moments that lead to lasting change, enhancing your overall quality of life.
Hey you! Yes you! Out there scrolling through this website looking for a therapist and feeling overwhelmed by the choice. I am an autistic, fat, queer and chronically ill therapist who loves to help other similar individuals. I find I fit best with other ND clients. Most of my clients are queer, trans, ADHD, autistic and/or Audhd and OCD. I utilize talk therapy (psychotherapy and psychodynamic) so being able to verbally process would be highly beneficial. I speak sarcasm fluently but memes are still a second language I am tourist fluent in. . If I haven't mentioned something please ask- I'm always up for learning.
Hey you! Yes you! Out there scrolling through this website looking for a therapist and feeling overwhelmed by the choice. I am an autistic, fat, queer and chronically ill therapist who loves to help other similar individuals. I find I fit best with other ND clients. Most of my clients are queer, trans, ADHD, autistic and/or Audhd and OCD. I utilize talk therapy (psychotherapy and psychodynamic) so being able to verbally process would be highly beneficial. I speak sarcasm fluently but memes are still a second language I am tourist fluent in. . If I haven't mentioned something please ask- I'm always up for learning.
I am affirming of LGBTQIA+ individuals & alternative interests/lifestyles like non-monogamy & kink.
I work with individuals and with intimate partners. With a warm, accepting and curious style, I have helped clients with challenges like depression, anxiety, stress, difficult childhood events, self-doubt and self-esteem. In my approach, I help clients to understand the relationship between themselves and their situation—personal, societal and cultural—in order to create healing, self-compassion, and personal growth. When working with partners, I see the relationship as a system or interactions that sometimes need fine tuning to perform better and improve connections.
I am affirming of LGBTQIA+ individuals & alternative interests/lifestyles like non-monogamy & kink.
I work with individuals and with intimate partners. With a warm, accepting and curious style, I have helped clients with challenges like depression, anxiety, stress, difficult childhood events, self-doubt and self-esteem. In my approach, I help clients to understand the relationship between themselves and their situation—personal, societal and cultural—in order to create healing, self-compassion, and personal growth. When working with partners, I see the relationship as a system or interactions that sometimes need fine tuning to perform better and improve connections.
Look…I know asking for help with your mental health is a huge task and incredibly anxiety inducing. Sometimes you make the calls and send the emails hoping no one gets back to you so that can be an excuse to put it off further. Sometimes you schedule, and you no-show your appointment. It’s scary, I’ve been there.
I like to think I’m not so scary. Let’s keep the intimidation of this task to a minimum, and make things about you and your decision to call or email your first step in your mental health journey. I would like an opportunity to talk and assist you in learning your goals or needs, and then partner in making them happen.
Look…I know asking for help with your mental health is a huge task and incredibly anxiety inducing. Sometimes you make the calls and send the emails hoping no one gets back to you so that can be an excuse to put it off further. Sometimes you schedule, and you no-show your appointment. It’s scary, I’ve been there.
I like to think I’m not so scary. Let’s keep the intimidation of this task to a minimum, and make things about you and your decision to call or email your first step in your mental health journey. I would like an opportunity to talk and assist you in learning your goals or needs, and then partner in making them happen.
I am LGBTQ+, gender, and kink affirming, and I work from a trauma-informed, sex-positive, and identity-affirming lens.
Welcome to the shame-free zone! Sexuality is a powerful and deeply human part of life, but it can often become tangled with trauma, shame, secrecy, confusion, or behaviors that feel out of control. You deserve a safe, nonjudgmental space to heal from trauma, embrace yourself fully, and enjoy a healthy sex life!
Many of my clients come to therapy feeling disconnected from their body, conflicted about their desires, or stuck in patterns that no longer align with who they are or who they want to be. Together, we will identify what is driving those patterns, and build healthier, more aligned ways of relating to yourself and others.
I am LGBTQ+, gender, and kink affirming, and I work from a trauma-informed, sex-positive, and identity-affirming lens.
Welcome to the shame-free zone! Sexuality is a powerful and deeply human part of life, but it can often become tangled with trauma, shame, secrecy, confusion, or behaviors that feel out of control. You deserve a safe, nonjudgmental space to heal from trauma, embrace yourself fully, and enjoy a healthy sex life!
Many of my clients come to therapy feeling disconnected from their body, conflicted about their desires, or stuck in patterns that no longer align with who they are or who they want to be. Together, we will identify what is driving those patterns, and build healthier, more aligned ways of relating to yourself and others.
I practice from an anti-oppressive framework, inclusive, sex positive framework, and provide LGBTQIA2S+ and neurodiverse affirming therapy.
Are you struggling with anxiety, OCD or ADHD and looking for coping skills? Are you exploring your sexual identity or gender and looking for an affirming space? Are you seeking support from political anxiety or religious trauma?
Welcome! I am a trauma-informed, strength-focused therapist, with over 10 years of experience, who enjoys bringing humor and creativity in therapy. I am passionate about working with adults, especially those from BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ communities, and supporting them taking steps towards self-acceptance and living fulfilling lives.
I practice from an anti-oppressive framework, inclusive, sex positive framework, and provide LGBTQIA2S+ and neurodiverse affirming therapy.
Are you struggling with anxiety, OCD or ADHD and looking for coping skills? Are you exploring your sexual identity or gender and looking for an affirming space? Are you seeking support from political anxiety or religious trauma?
Welcome! I am a trauma-informed, strength-focused therapist, with over 10 years of experience, who enjoys bringing humor and creativity in therapy. I am passionate about working with adults, especially those from BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ communities, and supporting them taking steps towards self-acceptance and living fulfilling lives.
Hi there! I am so glad you're here.
No matter what stage of life you're at, seeking help is a hard first step. I know, because I've been where you are - staring at the page of yet another Psychology Today profile, debating on if THIS therapist is to be the one who will get to hear all of my deepest and darkest secrets. It's a deceptively straightforward decision (yes or no to Therapist Number 26), and I can't tell you what the outcome may be. What I can tell you is this: you are worthy of healing, and you are deserving of a space in which you feel safe, heard, and seen. My goal, in all sessions, is to help you get there.
Hi there! I am so glad you're here.
No matter what stage of life you're at, seeking help is a hard first step. I know, because I've been where you are - staring at the page of yet another Psychology Today profile, debating on if THIS therapist is to be the one who will get to hear all of my deepest and darkest secrets. It's a deceptively straightforward decision (yes or no to Therapist Number 26), and I can't tell you what the outcome may be. What I can tell you is this: you are worthy of healing, and you are deserving of a space in which you feel safe, heard, and seen. My goal, in all sessions, is to help you get there.
Hi! I’m here to help you align with your best self. I specialize in supporting women navigating stress, overthinking, relationship struggles, trauma, and depression. I’ll help you shift thought patterns that hold you back, so you can regain clarity, confidence, and balance. If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, therapy with me offers a safe, supportive space to heal and grow. My mission is to deeply listen, connect with your story, and guide you as you heal, grow, and rediscover your best self. Let's create the life you deserve—schedule your session today!
Hi! I’m here to help you align with your best self. I specialize in supporting women navigating stress, overthinking, relationship struggles, trauma, and depression. I’ll help you shift thought patterns that hold you back, so you can regain clarity, confidence, and balance. If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, therapy with me offers a safe, supportive space to heal and grow. My mission is to deeply listen, connect with your story, and guide you as you heal, grow, and rediscover your best self. Let's create the life you deserve—schedule your session today!
Hi! I'm Josie. I work with teens, young adults, adults, and couples navigating OCD, trauma (including complex trauma and religious trauma), anxiety, identity, relationship challenges, and neurodivergence. A lot of my clients come in feeling caught in cycles of overthinking, perfectionism, or people-pleasing - knowing something needs to shift but not knowing how to get there, even when they already understand why they do what they do.
I use EMDR, IFS, somatic therapy, and ERP to help clients move beyond just surviving -toward genuine self-trust, steadier relationships, and change that actually sticks.
Hi! I'm Josie. I work with teens, young adults, adults, and couples navigating OCD, trauma (including complex trauma and religious trauma), anxiety, identity, relationship challenges, and neurodivergence. A lot of my clients come in feeling caught in cycles of overthinking, perfectionism, or people-pleasing - knowing something needs to shift but not knowing how to get there, even when they already understand why they do what they do.
I use EMDR, IFS, somatic therapy, and ERP to help clients move beyond just surviving -toward genuine self-trust, steadier relationships, and change that actually sticks.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.