Sexual Addiction Therapists in Tallahassee, FL
No insurance - If you’re not having sex, or not talking about it, your relationship is signaling that something needs attention. And if you’re running on fumes, disconnected from friends, overwhelmed by work, or avoiding your partner’s texts, your nervous system is telling a similar story. Different symptoms, same underlying system.
No insurance - If you’re not having sex, or not talking about it, your relationship is signaling that something needs attention. And if you’re running on fumes, disconnected from friends, overwhelmed by work, or avoiding your partner’s texts, your nervous system is telling a similar story. Different symptoms, same underlying system.
One of the most impactful concepts I’ve embraced is the importance of being curious rather than judgmental. This mindset not only shapes the way we relate to others but also transforms how we engage with ourselves—with greater grace, understanding, and vulnerability.
As a Christian, I hold the conviction that our spiritual beliefs profoundly influence every aspect of our lives. By combining a Christian worldview with evidence-based clinical practices, I strive to offer care that is both spiritually grounded and clinically effective
One of the most impactful concepts I’ve embraced is the importance of being curious rather than judgmental. This mindset not only shapes the way we relate to others but also transforms how we engage with ourselves—with greater grace, understanding, and vulnerability.
As a Christian, I hold the conviction that our spiritual beliefs profoundly influence every aspect of our lives. By combining a Christian worldview with evidence-based clinical practices, I strive to offer care that is both spiritually grounded and clinically effective
I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) and a certified sexual addiction therapist (CSAT).
I am experienced in working with adults encountering various life altering issues. This includes areas such as sexual and chemical addiction, anxiety, depression, stress management, co-dependency and sexual/physical/emotional abuse. I have completed EMDR basic training for use in trauma related issues.
I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) and a certified sexual addiction therapist (CSAT).
I am experienced in working with adults encountering various life altering issues. This includes areas such as sexual and chemical addiction, anxiety, depression, stress management, co-dependency and sexual/physical/emotional abuse. I have completed EMDR basic training for use in trauma related issues.
Monica Massion Founder Of Unlocking Your
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
As a bilingual speaker (English/Spanish), I want you to know that support is available. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of daily life, experiencing anxiety, stress, or depression, or facing complex decisions and life transitions, I'm here to help! If your relationship has lost the love and intimacy it once had, if you’ve noticed a strain in communication with your partner, or if your relationship is struggling due to a breakdown in trust, I'm here to help. Additionally, if your marriage has ended or you and your partner are planning to separate but are unsure how to do so peacefully, I have resources that can guide you.
As a bilingual speaker (English/Spanish), I want you to know that support is available. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of daily life, experiencing anxiety, stress, or depression, or facing complex decisions and life transitions, I'm here to help! If your relationship has lost the love and intimacy it once had, if you’ve noticed a strain in communication with your partner, or if your relationship is struggling due to a breakdown in trust, I'm here to help. Additionally, if your marriage has ended or you and your partner are planning to separate but are unsure how to do so peacefully, I have resources that can guide you.
David Silvers, Licensed Therapist – LMHC - State of Florida, and a CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) and CMAT (Multiple Addiction). He earned his MS from Troy State University in Counseling and Human Development and has trained with Dr. Patrick Carnes and his team through the International Institute of Addiction Professionals (IITAP). David specializes in the treatment of sex addiction and other co-occurring disorders including depression, anxiety, and trauma. He has been in the addiction treatment field since 2007 and understands the devastating effects of active addiction and that recovery and lasting change is possible.
David Silvers, Licensed Therapist – LMHC - State of Florida, and a CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist) and CMAT (Multiple Addiction). He earned his MS from Troy State University in Counseling and Human Development and has trained with Dr. Patrick Carnes and his team through the International Institute of Addiction Professionals (IITAP). David specializes in the treatment of sex addiction and other co-occurring disorders including depression, anxiety, and trauma. He has been in the addiction treatment field since 2007 and understands the devastating effects of active addiction and that recovery and lasting change is possible.
I am a Christian counselor/coach and I am passionate about helping men experience freedom from compulsive behaviors and, as a result, a deeper connection with God, themselves, and others. I specialize in helping men struggling with addictive and compulsive behaviors like pornography, sex, drugs, alcohol, food, work, video games, relationships, etc.
After more than 20 years of experience, I have found that true lasting healing does not happen in isolation. Weekly recovery groups provide the accountability, honesty, and brotherhood required for lasting transformation. That is why I now fully focus on the power of group work.
I am a Christian counselor/coach and I am passionate about helping men experience freedom from compulsive behaviors and, as a result, a deeper connection with God, themselves, and others. I specialize in helping men struggling with addictive and compulsive behaviors like pornography, sex, drugs, alcohol, food, work, video games, relationships, etc.
After more than 20 years of experience, I have found that true lasting healing does not happen in isolation. Weekly recovery groups provide the accountability, honesty, and brotherhood required for lasting transformation. That is why I now fully focus on the power of group work.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men overcome sex addiction, porn addiction, and compulsive sexual behavior to regain control and build healthier, more productive lives.
When unwanted sexual behaviors feel hard to stop, it can be painful, discouraging, and damaging to relationships and overall well-being. Many men feel stuck despite a real desire to change. If you or someone you care about is struggling, I offer a free consultation to explore if working together is a good fit.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men overcome sex addiction, porn addiction, and compulsive sexual behavior to regain control and build healthier, more productive lives.
When unwanted sexual behaviors feel hard to stop, it can be painful, discouraging, and damaging to relationships and overall well-being. Many men feel stuck despite a real desire to change. If you or someone you care about is struggling, I offer a free consultation to explore if working together is a good fit.
I became a Marriage and Family Therapist because I enjoy processing with individuals and listening to personal journeys to find a resolution. I was a High School performance art major and find this skill set benefical in providing supports through visual cues using various therapeutic approaches and modalities. I specialize in working with children and families in child welfare. I enjoy working with young children and teens as these are challenging developmental years, trauma and distress from systemic and familial patterns of behaviors, coupled with low parenting, coping, decision-making and problem-solving skills.
I became a Marriage and Family Therapist because I enjoy processing with individuals and listening to personal journeys to find a resolution. I was a High School performance art major and find this skill set benefical in providing supports through visual cues using various therapeutic approaches and modalities. I specialize in working with children and families in child welfare. I enjoy working with young children and teens as these are challenging developmental years, trauma and distress from systemic and familial patterns of behaviors, coupled with low parenting, coping, decision-making and problem-solving skills.
Trauma informs how we relate in the world and can be complex, confusing, and painful with multiple layers. Coping or trying to cope with trauma is challenging, interfering with what most consider "normal life activities." Its hard to explain to others who do not understand and who have never experienced something that "rocked" their world in a disturbing, sometimes literally life threatening way. When there has been any degree of trauma, what was is no longer and what is frightens, disorients us. Behaviors, thinking, feelings change in the shadow of trauma. There is help available and you are not alone. Recovery is possible.
Trauma informs how we relate in the world and can be complex, confusing, and painful with multiple layers. Coping or trying to cope with trauma is challenging, interfering with what most consider "normal life activities." Its hard to explain to others who do not understand and who have never experienced something that "rocked" their world in a disturbing, sometimes literally life threatening way. When there has been any degree of trauma, what was is no longer and what is frightens, disorients us. Behaviors, thinking, feelings change in the shadow of trauma. There is help available and you are not alone. Recovery is possible.
I see individuals that are longing for a better quality of life but unsure of how to get there. I believe that counseling can excel healing and instill hope in your life. My goal is to hold the hope while you do the brave work of coping and healing.
I see individuals that are longing for a better quality of life but unsure of how to get there. I believe that counseling can excel healing and instill hope in your life. My goal is to hold the hope while you do the brave work of coping and healing.
If you’re struggling with addiction, feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns, or trying to regain control of your life, you don’t have to go through it alone. Recovery can feel overwhelming, but with the right support it is absolutely possible to create meaningful change. I work with individuals who are ready to understand what’s been holding them back and start building a healthier, more stable future.
If you’re struggling with addiction, feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns, or trying to regain control of your life, you don’t have to go through it alone. Recovery can feel overwhelming, but with the right support it is absolutely possible to create meaningful change. I work with individuals who are ready to understand what’s been holding them back and start building a healthier, more stable future.
I authored three books: I3 (cubed): Information, Interpretation, Intensity - Unlock the Inner Strength Behind Your Negative Emotions, I3 for Couples: Facing Our Negative Emotions to Build Intimacy in Marriage, & I3 for Leaders: Unleash the Rage of Negative Emotions Against the Obstacles of Becoming More.. I help clients who want to conquer negative emotions and become more. We all experience anxiety, fear, depression, and hopelessness. If we have healed, we look back and see those times as hard, but some of the most powerful in our lives. Let me help you!
I authored three books: I3 (cubed): Information, Interpretation, Intensity - Unlock the Inner Strength Behind Your Negative Emotions, I3 for Couples: Facing Our Negative Emotions to Build Intimacy in Marriage, & I3 for Leaders: Unleash the Rage of Negative Emotions Against the Obstacles of Becoming More.. I help clients who want to conquer negative emotions and become more. We all experience anxiety, fear, depression, and hopelessness. If we have healed, we look back and see those times as hard, but some of the most powerful in our lives. Let me help you!
Our unique experiences shape our identities and impact our mental health. Growing up in a diverse yet often challenging cultural landscape has taught me the importance of empathy, resilience, and the healing power of connection. I specialize in helping my clients navigate the complexities of identity, acculturation, and systemic barriers, fostering a space where you can feel seen, heard, and empowered to thrive.
Our unique experiences shape our identities and impact our mental health. Growing up in a diverse yet often challenging cultural landscape has taught me the importance of empathy, resilience, and the healing power of connection. I specialize in helping my clients navigate the complexities of identity, acculturation, and systemic barriers, fostering a space where you can feel seen, heard, and empowered to thrive.
Therapy should provide a safe, nonjudgmental relationship through which to explore those parts of you that may make you feel ashamed or afraid, to develop meaningful insights, and to discover your strengths. I have extensive experience working with people seeking to overcome traumatic life events - sexual violations, abuse, neglect, extreme acts of violence - but have found that, in the end, it can sometimes be the seemingly small, overlooked wounds that take longest to heal. No matter how stuck and hopeless you may feel, you have the power to take control and embrace the person you'd like to be.
Therapy should provide a safe, nonjudgmental relationship through which to explore those parts of you that may make you feel ashamed or afraid, to develop meaningful insights, and to discover your strengths. I have extensive experience working with people seeking to overcome traumatic life events - sexual violations, abuse, neglect, extreme acts of violence - but have found that, in the end, it can sometimes be the seemingly small, overlooked wounds that take longest to heal. No matter how stuck and hopeless you may feel, you have the power to take control and embrace the person you'd like to be.
A Time to Change Counseling Center, P.A.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Tallahassee, FL 32301
I have extensive experience with mood disorders, trauma and addictions and work with all ages. I am trained in EMDR and use that technique with both children and adults if appropriate. My clients often state when they first spoke to me they felt immediately at ease and did not feel judged. I am able to assist my clients in seeing patterns in their life story and work to identify and change core beliefs such as "I'm not good enough", "I'm defective" or "I cannot trust others."
I have extensive experience with mood disorders, trauma and addictions and work with all ages. I am trained in EMDR and use that technique with both children and adults if appropriate. My clients often state when they first spoke to me they felt immediately at ease and did not feel judged. I am able to assist my clients in seeing patterns in their life story and work to identify and change core beliefs such as "I'm not good enough", "I'm defective" or "I cannot trust others."
I have a passion for marriages and for those struggling through some of life’s situations. I will use my 34 years of counseling experience to help individuals, couples, and families, find peace and hope from a biblical worldview. I went back to school to get my masters in counseling because I wanted to be able to help those that are hurting to the very best of my ability.
I have a passion for marriages and for those struggling through some of life’s situations. I will use my 34 years of counseling experience to help individuals, couples, and families, find peace and hope from a biblical worldview. I went back to school to get my masters in counseling because I wanted to be able to help those that are hurting to the very best of my ability.
“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.” -Carl Rogers. I am passionate about helping people who have experienced trauma and are struggling with unwanted behaviors. Therapy can be a journey to find the answers you seek to live a more fulfilling, peaceful, and happy life. Helping you on your journey is my passion. If you are viewing this page, then you are seeking more out of life. This is the first step in that direction. Book with me now by clicking on my website.
“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.” -Carl Rogers. I am passionate about helping people who have experienced trauma and are struggling with unwanted behaviors. Therapy can be a journey to find the answers you seek to live a more fulfilling, peaceful, and happy life. Helping you on your journey is my passion. If you are viewing this page, then you are seeking more out of life. This is the first step in that direction. Book with me now by clicking on my website.
My primary goal is to help you be the best person you can be. I strive to listen, be present, and to understand what issues you are experiencing and how we can best work together in a collaborative way for you to grow into your best self. There is no one right theoretical approach for everyone. We will explore the tools that fit with your personality because you are the expert of your own life. I am sensitive to folks from marginalized communities and understand the impact of discrimination on mental health.
My primary goal is to help you be the best person you can be. I strive to listen, be present, and to understand what issues you are experiencing and how we can best work together in a collaborative way for you to grow into your best self. There is no one right theoretical approach for everyone. We will explore the tools that fit with your personality because you are the expert of your own life. I am sensitive to folks from marginalized communities and understand the impact of discrimination on mental health.
Is the current state of the world wearing on you? Are you struggling to make sense of it all? It’s hard out there right now. Therapy can be a place for you to explore these feelings and find a means of coping through this hellscape. Let’s create a space for you to navigate through all this and work towards that light at the end of the tunnel. My goal is to assist you through all of this, as well as any other life experiences you may be having, such as depression, anxiety, life transitions, relationship issues, intersectional struggles, or self-esteem issues. I am especially sensitive to those impacted by LGBTQ issues.
Is the current state of the world wearing on you? Are you struggling to make sense of it all? It’s hard out there right now. Therapy can be a place for you to explore these feelings and find a means of coping through this hellscape. Let’s create a space for you to navigate through all this and work towards that light at the end of the tunnel. My goal is to assist you through all of this, as well as any other life experiences you may be having, such as depression, anxiety, life transitions, relationship issues, intersectional struggles, or self-esteem issues. I am especially sensitive to those impacted by LGBTQ issues.
Lee Schlanger is a Florida State Licensed Mental Health Counselor currently living Sarasota, FL by way of New York City, NY. Lee has a passion for animals and doing anything outdoors, and is an avid sports fan. Lee has been working as a Mental Health Counselor since of 2014. Lee specializes in working with clients who are experiencing anxiety and depression as well as specializes in working with clients who have undergone grief, loss, and traumatic events, as well as substance abuse recovery, and more. Lee is also a Board Certified Tele-Mental Health Provider and specializes in Telehealth sessions and is Certified EMDR and Trauma.
Lee Schlanger is a Florida State Licensed Mental Health Counselor currently living Sarasota, FL by way of New York City, NY. Lee has a passion for animals and doing anything outdoors, and is an avid sports fan. Lee has been working as a Mental Health Counselor since of 2014. Lee specializes in working with clients who are experiencing anxiety and depression as well as specializes in working with clients who have undergone grief, loss, and traumatic events, as well as substance abuse recovery, and more. Lee is also a Board Certified Tele-Mental Health Provider and specializes in Telehealth sessions and is Certified EMDR and Trauma.
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When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.