Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Carrollwood, FL

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Cameron Burris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, QS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You’ve spent so much of your life holding space for others—showing up, pushing through, doing what’s expected. But where do you go when you need space to exhale? My practice is a sanctuary for high-achieving, heart-centered individuals who are tired of performing strength and ready to cultivate something deeper: true balance, ease, and self-trust. Together, we’ll explore the patterns keeping you stuck and build a foundation for a life that feels just as good as it looks on paper.
You’ve spent so much of your life holding space for others—showing up, pushing through, doing what’s expected. But where do you go when you need space to exhale? My practice is a sanctuary for high-achieving, heart-centered individuals who are tired of performing strength and ready to cultivate something deeper: true balance, ease, and self-trust. Together, we’ll explore the patterns keeping you stuck and build a foundation for a life that feels just as good as it looks on paper.
(727) 758-4966 View (727) 758-4966
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Brianna Miah Emdr Trained
Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern, MA, RMHCI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Your story is important, and you deserve to be heard. Whether you’re carrying the weight of past trauma, struggling with life’s challenges, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, you don’t have to face it on your own. Healing is not about erasing the past but about leaning into your resilience, honoring the strength that has carried you this far, and creating space for growth and self-compassion. It’s about shifting from survival to healing, from enduring to truly living.
Your story is important, and you deserve to be heard. Whether you’re carrying the weight of past trauma, struggling with life’s challenges, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, you don’t have to face it on your own. Healing is not about erasing the past but about leaning into your resilience, honoring the strength that has carried you this far, and creating space for growth and self-compassion. It’s about shifting from survival to healing, from enduring to truly living.
(727) 353-2194 View (727) 353-2194
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Dr. Lee Gavi
Psychologist, PsyD, MSW
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Accepting new in-person and telehealth clients! Exclusively private pay. Offering sliding scale appointments! Life can be overwhelming. Whether you are struggling with anxiety that won't quiet down, the weight of depression, the challenges of ADHD, body image difficulties, or the pain of loss, you don't have to go through it alone. Maybe you're navigating a difficult transition, starting college, becoming a parent, going through a divorce, or facing a shift in your identity and it feels like no one truly understands. Or perhaps trauma from the past still lingers, making it hard to move forward. I believe in creating a spac
Accepting new in-person and telehealth clients! Exclusively private pay. Offering sliding scale appointments! Life can be overwhelming. Whether you are struggling with anxiety that won't quiet down, the weight of depression, the challenges of ADHD, body image difficulties, or the pain of loss, you don't have to go through it alone. Maybe you're navigating a difficult transition, starting college, becoming a parent, going through a divorce, or facing a shift in your identity and it feels like no one truly understands. Or perhaps trauma from the past still lingers, making it hard to move forward. I believe in creating a spac
(813) 669-3894 View (813) 669-3894
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Adaliz Garces
Counselor, LMHC, CCTS-I, C-DBT, CGCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
*Accepting New Teletherapy Clients* Feeling constantly stressed, anxious, irritable, and easily angered by others or with yourself? You find yourself frustrated by the challenges of managing your emotions and asking yourself, "Why am I having such a hard time controlling my emotions?" or telling yourself "I should be able to handle this!" You've found that managing anxiety and the stress from everyday life feels overwhelming, and, you're exhausted. You want to be able to manage how you respond to daily stress and worry in ways that help you live a better quality of life and improve your relationship with others. I can help!
*Accepting New Teletherapy Clients* Feeling constantly stressed, anxious, irritable, and easily angered by others or with yourself? You find yourself frustrated by the challenges of managing your emotions and asking yourself, "Why am I having such a hard time controlling my emotions?" or telling yourself "I should be able to handle this!" You've found that managing anxiety and the stress from everyday life feels overwhelming, and, you're exhausted. You want to be able to manage how you respond to daily stress and worry in ways that help you live a better quality of life and improve your relationship with others. I can help!
(813) 694-5256 View (813) 694-5256

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Dr. Rachael Meir
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have extensive experience supporting those in LGBTQ+ communities, non-traditional relationships (ENM, polyamory, kink/BDSM), and sex-positive spaces—but you don’t need to fit into any particular category to work with me.
Life is full of transitions, challenges, and moments of self-discovery. Whether you're navigating anxiety, stress, self-esteem, relationships, or identity exploration, I offer a safe, affirming, and judgment-free space to help you gain clarity and confidence. My approach is collaborative and strengths-based, incorporating Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Positive Psychology, and mindfulness techniques to foster resilience, self-acceptance, and meaningful personal growth. I work with individuals and couples facing a variety of concerns, including relationship dynamics, life transitions, and personal identity development.
I have extensive experience supporting those in LGBTQ+ communities, non-traditional relationships (ENM, polyamory, kink/BDSM), and sex-positive spaces—but you don’t need to fit into any particular category to work with me.
Life is full of transitions, challenges, and moments of self-discovery. Whether you're navigating anxiety, stress, self-esteem, relationships, or identity exploration, I offer a safe, affirming, and judgment-free space to help you gain clarity and confidence. My approach is collaborative and strengths-based, incorporating Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Positive Psychology, and mindfulness techniques to foster resilience, self-acceptance, and meaningful personal growth. I work with individuals and couples facing a variety of concerns, including relationship dynamics, life transitions, and personal identity development.
(727) 334-2830 View (727) 334-2830
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Carrie Glebe
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Online Only
In addition to childhood trauma I also specialize in working with adults involved in non-traditional relationships such as kink/BDSM, polyamory, & open relationships.
I specialize in working with people who grew up in families where there was some type of instability or turmoil. This could have been from addiction, mental health, abuse, neglect, anger, poverty, foster care placement, religious trauma or anything that caused some form of trauma. I can help you heal, you were not responsible for the abuse.
In addition to childhood trauma I also specialize in working with adults involved in non-traditional relationships such as kink/BDSM, polyamory, & open relationships.
I specialize in working with people who grew up in families where there was some type of instability or turmoil. This could have been from addiction, mental health, abuse, neglect, anger, poverty, foster care placement, religious trauma or anything that caused some form of trauma. I can help you heal, you were not responsible for the abuse.
(352) 441-2788 View (352) 441-2788
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Bailey Franklin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Online Only
My approach is Consensual Non-Monogamy, Polyamory and Kink affirmative.
You don't have to go through it alone. Even when we are feeling stuck and overwhelmed, meaningful change is possible. I take a solution oriented approach that applies modern techniques for exploring and shifting old patterns of feeling and thinking that are getting in the way of growth. Employing curiosity and compassion, we can heal wounded parts and build new connections to your authentic self. A primary focus of my couples work is to practice new ways of communicating our needs more effectively with both our partners and ourselves. I also specialize in supporting the unique concerns and strengths of the LGBTQIA+ community.
My approach is Consensual Non-Monogamy, Polyamory and Kink affirmative.
You don't have to go through it alone. Even when we are feeling stuck and overwhelmed, meaningful change is possible. I take a solution oriented approach that applies modern techniques for exploring and shifting old patterns of feeling and thinking that are getting in the way of growth. Employing curiosity and compassion, we can heal wounded parts and build new connections to your authentic self. A primary focus of my couples work is to practice new ways of communicating our needs more effectively with both our partners and ourselves. I also specialize in supporting the unique concerns and strengths of the LGBTQIA+ community.
(727) 312-0295 View (727) 312-0295
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Serena Yeager
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, CHT, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
This includes gender-affirming care, neurodiversity-affirming care, support for individuals who are exploring polyamory or ENM, and sex-positive relationship counseling inclusive of BDSM and kink.
Book with me now by clicking on my website - You may feel like past traumas or reactive patterns are keeping you from experiencing the full depth of connection and joy in life. You're searching for a safe, nonjudgmental space for healing, that celebrates each of your unique identities. Whether you're struggling with trauma, insecure attachment, or navigating complex relationships, you want to break free from these cycles and reconnect with your authentic self. Together, we’ll embrace your strength and wisdom, guiding you toward self-love and empowered relationships.
This includes gender-affirming care, neurodiversity-affirming care, support for individuals who are exploring polyamory or ENM, and sex-positive relationship counseling inclusive of BDSM and kink.
Book with me now by clicking on my website - You may feel like past traumas or reactive patterns are keeping you from experiencing the full depth of connection and joy in life. You're searching for a safe, nonjudgmental space for healing, that celebrates each of your unique identities. Whether you're struggling with trauma, insecure attachment, or navigating complex relationships, you want to break free from these cycles and reconnect with your authentic self. Together, we’ll embrace your strength and wisdom, guiding you toward self-love and empowered relationships.
(689) 202-3664 View (689) 202-3664
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Darleen Claire Wodzenski
Counselor, MS MA , PhD LPC, NCC ACS
Verified Verified
Online Only
Trauma; BIPOC; LGBTQIA+ and Polyamory respectful & informed.
We work from a Person-Centered approach steeped in Positive Psychology. That means we find efficient, compassionate, and practical ways to support you in processing your personal and trauma history, to create a new world view that allows you to feel hope for a bright and compelling future.
Trauma; BIPOC; LGBTQIA+ and Polyamory respectful & informed.
We work from a Person-Centered approach steeped in Positive Psychology. That means we find efficient, compassionate, and practical ways to support you in processing your personal and trauma history, to create a new world view that allows you to feel hope for a bright and compelling future.
(386) 223-1815 View (386) 223-1815
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Nattalie Wolff-Tseng- Sex Therapist
Counselor, MA, NBCC
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am well-versed in polyamory, CNM dynamics, BDSM, and sexual dysfunctions such as PE, ED, and vaginismus.
Offering treatment and counseling for: individuals experimenting with open or consensual non-monogamy, polycules navigating relational challenges, sex workers, individuals experiencing vaginismus, ED, PE, or delayed/absent ejaculation, kink or BDSM communities, and couples experiencing relational changes as a result of having children and aging.
I am well-versed in polyamory, CNM dynamics, BDSM, and sexual dysfunctions such as PE, ED, and vaginismus.
Offering treatment and counseling for: individuals experimenting with open or consensual non-monogamy, polycules navigating relational challenges, sex workers, individuals experiencing vaginismus, ED, PE, or delayed/absent ejaculation, kink or BDSM communities, and couples experiencing relational changes as a result of having children and aging.
(813) 491-1296 View (813) 491-1296
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Danielle Beloso PsyD, LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Dunedin, FL 34698
Lastly, I recognize the fraught history of the field of psychology in relation to various diversity issues (among them, trans identity, class, race, polyamory, sex work, and sexuality), and seek through ongoing inclusivity training to ensure that my practice does not replicate this history.
Poet Rumi wrote, “These pains you feel are messengers. Listen to them.” My role as your therapist is to assist you in identifying, understanding, and communicating the feelings you are feeling as messengers telling us a story about how your present day experiences and feelings are in conversation with those formed before you had agency, awareness, and choice. I strive to create a safe environment where, together, we can explore the chapters of your life in order to give you the insight necessary to implement change, alleviate suffering, and grow as a thinking and feeling person in a complicated world.
Lastly, I recognize the fraught history of the field of psychology in relation to various diversity issues (among them, trans identity, class, race, polyamory, sex work, and sexuality), and seek through ongoing inclusivity training to ensure that my practice does not replicate this history.
Poet Rumi wrote, “These pains you feel are messengers. Listen to them.” My role as your therapist is to assist you in identifying, understanding, and communicating the feelings you are feeling as messengers telling us a story about how your present day experiences and feelings are in conversation with those formed before you had agency, awareness, and choice. I strive to create a safe environment where, together, we can explore the chapters of your life in order to give you the insight necessary to implement change, alleviate suffering, and grow as a thinking and feeling person in a complicated world.
(727) 353-2414 View (727) 353-2414
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Somatic Psychotherapy Michigan—Faith Elie
Counselor, LPC, MA, MA, SEP, NARM, IFS-L3
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Online Only
I am sex positive, LGBTQIA+ advocating, gender affirming, polyamory & kink affirming.
The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are -Joseph Campbell. Together, we can really hone in on what it is you are wanting for yourself and finding a path forward, that best suites you. Often, the work is getting back in touch with your Self in a deeper way—like re-calibrating your inner compass. My understanding of counseling comes from holistic, somatic and trauma-informed approaches that incorporate mind, body, and soul such as Jungian, IFS and transpersonal. Sex therapy is also a very important part of the work I do. Check out my website blog to learn more details about how I work
I am sex positive, LGBTQIA+ advocating, gender affirming, polyamory & kink affirming.
The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are -Joseph Campbell. Together, we can really hone in on what it is you are wanting for yourself and finding a path forward, that best suites you. Often, the work is getting back in touch with your Self in a deeper way—like re-calibrating your inner compass. My understanding of counseling comes from holistic, somatic and trauma-informed approaches that incorporate mind, body, and soul such as Jungian, IFS and transpersonal. Sex therapy is also a very important part of the work I do. Check out my website blog to learn more details about how I work
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Colin Fyfe
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Saint Petersburg, FL 33702
I specialize in working with Gay/Queer men, individuals that are in the recovery process from substance use, and males around issues of masculinity, sex, and emotional vulnerability I have expertise in and experience with: Masculinity and other male issues Sex and sexuality Ethically non- monogamous/ polyamory relationships / Kink Substance abuse issues.
Human connection is the catalyst needed to explore any underlining psychic distress. In my psychotherapy practice, I prioritize fostering a collaborative relationship to provide emotional and personal safety, allowing you to dive beneath the surface to better understand the underlying causes of your personal distress. The goal is, through exploration, to create opportunities for you to become more self-aware of your own thoughts and feelings, empowering you to re-create new ways of connecting to yourself and loved ones
I specialize in working with Gay/Queer men, individuals that are in the recovery process from substance use, and males around issues of masculinity, sex, and emotional vulnerability I have expertise in and experience with: Masculinity and other male issues Sex and sexuality Ethically non- monogamous/ polyamory relationships / Kink Substance abuse issues.
Human connection is the catalyst needed to explore any underlining psychic distress. In my psychotherapy practice, I prioritize fostering a collaborative relationship to provide emotional and personal safety, allowing you to dive beneath the surface to better understand the underlying causes of your personal distress. The goal is, through exploration, to create opportunities for you to become more self-aware of your own thoughts and feelings, empowering you to re-create new ways of connecting to yourself and loved ones
(415) 484-9466 View (415) 484-9466
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Emily Camera
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Saint Petersburg, FL 33710
I offer a supportive, knowledgeable, and nonjudgmental space for clients navigating kink, polyamory, and nontraditional relationship styles.
Sometimes, we suppress our true identities and silence our voices because of external pressures and expectations, which ultimately keeps us from creating lives worth living. You deserve a space where you can be exactly who you are and become exactly who you want to be, in a way that makes you feel seen and validated. My aspiration is to be the kind of therapist my generational peers and I would have needed as adolescents: one who is solution-focused, authentic, nonjudgmental, will call you on your BS (gently!), and genuinely cares about you and your progress. (I do not treat couples or families at this time).
I offer a supportive, knowledgeable, and nonjudgmental space for clients navigating kink, polyamory, and nontraditional relationship styles.
Sometimes, we suppress our true identities and silence our voices because of external pressures and expectations, which ultimately keeps us from creating lives worth living. You deserve a space where you can be exactly who you are and become exactly who you want to be, in a way that makes you feel seen and validated. My aspiration is to be the kind of therapist my generational peers and I would have needed as adolescents: one who is solution-focused, authentic, nonjudgmental, will call you on your BS (gently!), and genuinely cares about you and your progress. (I do not treat couples or families at this time).
(727) 617-3165 View (727) 617-3165
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Aims Beardslee
Counselor, LMHC, EdS, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have completed numerous Autistic, ADHD, and OCD affirming trainings, Level 1 Gottman Method for couples therapy, and trainings on kink/BDSM, polyamory/CNM, and decolonizing mental health.
If you are seeking a neurodivergent affirming autism/ADHD assessment OR self-diagnosis consultation with an AuDHD therapist who specializes in recognizing/diagnosing adults who have been overlooked and/or misdiagnosed- including those who were assigned female at birth (AFAB), transgender/nonbinary/gender diverse people, high masking individuals, BIPOC individuals, and women- then you have absolutely arrived at the right place, and I am so glad you are here!
I have completed numerous Autistic, ADHD, and OCD affirming trainings, Level 1 Gottman Method for couples therapy, and trainings on kink/BDSM, polyamory/CNM, and decolonizing mental health.
If you are seeking a neurodivergent affirming autism/ADHD assessment OR self-diagnosis consultation with an AuDHD therapist who specializes in recognizing/diagnosing adults who have been overlooked and/or misdiagnosed- including those who were assigned female at birth (AFAB), transgender/nonbinary/gender diverse people, high masking individuals, BIPOC individuals, and women- then you have absolutely arrived at the right place, and I am so glad you are here!
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Lauren Consul
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST, JD
Verified Verified
Online Only
If you're facing sex-related challenges, infidelity, feeling disconnected, or struggling with attachment issues, you're not alone—and you’re in the right place. Whether it's mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, or a lack of intimacy that’s leaving you feeling lost, or you’re grappling with the pain of infidelity, healing is possible (and yes, you can get through it). If you're exploring new sexual dynamics or non-monogamy, I can help you navigate the journey with confidence. You don’t have to face this on your own. I’m here to help you build satisfying, secure, and connected relationships and sexual experiences.
If you're facing sex-related challenges, infidelity, feeling disconnected, or struggling with attachment issues, you're not alone—and you’re in the right place. Whether it's mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, or a lack of intimacy that’s leaving you feeling lost, or you’re grappling with the pain of infidelity, healing is possible (and yes, you can get through it). If you're exploring new sexual dynamics or non-monogamy, I can help you navigate the journey with confidence. You don’t have to face this on your own. I’m here to help you build satisfying, secure, and connected relationships and sexual experiences.
(786) 947-5496 View (786) 947-5496
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Rouse Relational Wellness
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Saint Petersburg, FL 33702
What if intimacy wasn't a source of anxiety, but a source of empowerment? We help couples and individuals rewrite their narratives around sex, pleasure, and connection. If you're seeking a therapist who understands the unique needs of queer, kinky, and polyamorous relationships, you've come to the right place.
What if intimacy wasn't a source of anxiety, but a source of empowerment? We help couples and individuals rewrite their narratives around sex, pleasure, and connection. If you're seeking a therapist who understands the unique needs of queer, kinky, and polyamorous relationships, you've come to the right place.
(415) 936-1168 View (415) 936-1168
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Laurie Melton
Pre-Licensed Professional, RIMH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Port Richey, FL 34652
As a counselor, I am drawn to clients ready to engage in meaningful self-exploration, even when that journey feels difficult or uncertain. My ideal client doesn’t have everything figured out. They may feel lost, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns they don’t fully understand, but are willing to show up and are open to growth, even if that starts with just a small flicker of hope. Many of my clients have felt unheard or misunderstood in other spaces, and I strive to create a therapeutic environment where they feel seen, validated, and supported.
As a counselor, I am drawn to clients ready to engage in meaningful self-exploration, even when that journey feels difficult or uncertain. My ideal client doesn’t have everything figured out. They may feel lost, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns they don’t fully understand, but are willing to show up and are open to growth, even if that starts with just a small flicker of hope. Many of my clients have felt unheard or misunderstood in other spaces, and I strive to create a therapeutic environment where they feel seen, validated, and supported.
(727) 739-2589 View (727) 739-2589
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Mick D Rehrig
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Saint Petersburg, FL 33702
Welcome! I know it’s rough out there, and I’m here with you in holding the terror, complexity, personal agency, connection, healing, resistance, thoughtful boundaries, and joy this moment needs. I believe in therapy that affirms, empowers, and supports people to recognize patterns, navigate changes, bolster personal growth and self-worth, and figure things out. Collaboration with the folks I work with is of utmost importance to me, guided by clinical theory and evidence-based therapeutic techniques that work for you. I utilize a strengths based, anti-racist, intersectional feminist approach.
Welcome! I know it’s rough out there, and I’m here with you in holding the terror, complexity, personal agency, connection, healing, resistance, thoughtful boundaries, and joy this moment needs. I believe in therapy that affirms, empowers, and supports people to recognize patterns, navigate changes, bolster personal growth and self-worth, and figure things out. Collaboration with the folks I work with is of utmost importance to me, guided by clinical theory and evidence-based therapeutic techniques that work for you. I utilize a strengths based, anti-racist, intersectional feminist approach.
(678) 335-1270 View (678) 335-1270
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Peter Hindley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, ALMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Has something changed about your sexuality or sex life, and you’re afraid that you will lose your current partner(s) or community because of the ways you are changing? Do you feel confused about how to stay together, when the foundations of your bond seem gone? I am here as your therapist to help you co-create the new relationship dynamic you want. Just because your relationship looks different now, doesn’t mean the connection and love is gone. I am a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, and specialize in working with queer individuals and couples. I am kink, poly, and sex-worker affirming.
Has something changed about your sexuality or sex life, and you’re afraid that you will lose your current partner(s) or community because of the ways you are changing? Do you feel confused about how to stay together, when the foundations of your bond seem gone? I am here as your therapist to help you co-create the new relationship dynamic you want. Just because your relationship looks different now, doesn’t mean the connection and love is gone. I am a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, and specialize in working with queer individuals and couples. I am kink, poly, and sex-worker affirming.
(773) 839-9524 View (773) 839-9524

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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.

When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?

Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.

How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?

Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.