Sexual Addiction Therapists in Arizona

Family Strategies Counseling Center
Licensed Professional Counselor
Not Verified Not Verified
3 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
We provide a variety of specialties at our agency among our 24 therapists. Programming for pornography and sexual addiction (adults, couples and teens), betrayal trauma, marriage therapy, parenting, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, suicide prevention, trauma, self-harm and other mental health concerns. We treat children, youth and adults. Our counselors have specialized training and expertise in their specific areas of emphasis. We also work closely with HOPE foundation to help clients who need financial support for therapeutic services.
We provide a variety of specialties at our agency among our 24 therapists. Programming for pornography and sexual addiction (adults, couples and teens), betrayal trauma, marriage therapy, parenting, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, suicide prevention, trauma, self-harm and other mental health concerns. We treat children, youth and adults. Our counselors have specialized training and expertise in their specific areas of emphasis. We also work closely with HOPE foundation to help clients who need financial support for therapeutic services.
(480) 666-9041 View (480) 666-9041
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Mark Bell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85209
Sexual addiction is a complex addiction but there is hope! As a trained Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I have completed training which required attendance at multiple training modules, supervision with a CSAT Supervisor, and ongoing education so that CSATs such as myself are experts in providing sexual addiction therapy.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I have helped couples and families work through various relational & emotional intimacy challenges. I am also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. I work significantly with males struggling with sexually compulsive behaviors along with the spouses, partners, families and others impacted by their unhealthy and/or problematic choices. I have been described as a 'Perspectivist Therapist' due to my clear, honest, open, respectful and direct ability to help people gain perspective about their problems, increase hopeful belief for their future and establish realistic expectations.
Sexual addiction is a complex addiction but there is hope! As a trained Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I have completed training which required attendance at multiple training modules, supervision with a CSAT Supervisor, and ongoing education so that CSATs such as myself are experts in providing sexual addiction therapy.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I have helped couples and families work through various relational & emotional intimacy challenges. I am also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. I work significantly with males struggling with sexually compulsive behaviors along with the spouses, partners, families and others impacted by their unhealthy and/or problematic choices. I have been described as a 'Perspectivist Therapist' due to my clear, honest, open, respectful and direct ability to help people gain perspective about their problems, increase hopeful belief for their future and establish realistic expectations.
(480) 400-0711 View (480) 400-0711
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Sandra Nettles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Phoenix, AZ 85023
I help individuals struggling with anxiety or depression, couples restore their love, intimacy & trust, individuals with sexual addiction stop the roller coaster, and individuals with gender questions sort things out.
I help individuals struggling with anxiety or depression, couples restore their love, intimacy & trust, individuals with sexual addiction stop the roller coaster, and individuals with gender questions sort things out.
(480) 409-2322 View (480) 409-2322
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John Parker
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, SATP, CSAT
Verified Verified
Phoenix, AZ 85027
I am an experienced couples counselor, trauma treatment specialist and a certified sexual addiction therapist (CSAT).
If you are haunted by past trauma that doesn’t seem to get better with time, I am able to help you find relief. If your relationship has hit an all-time low, and you don't know if you can take it much longer, I can give you the tools to work through conflict and reclaim the love you have for one another. If having affairs or watching porn has gotten out of control for you or someone you love, together we can move toward healing for both you and your partner. If you’ve been disillusioned by religion and need to find a safe place to heal from spiritual abuse, I can walk with you as you find the kind of spirituality that works for you.
I am an experienced couples counselor, trauma treatment specialist and a certified sexual addiction therapist (CSAT).
If you are haunted by past trauma that doesn’t seem to get better with time, I am able to help you find relief. If your relationship has hit an all-time low, and you don't know if you can take it much longer, I can give you the tools to work through conflict and reclaim the love you have for one another. If having affairs or watching porn has gotten out of control for you or someone you love, together we can move toward healing for both you and your partner. If you’ve been disillusioned by religion and need to find a safe place to heal from spiritual abuse, I can walk with you as you find the kind of spirituality that works for you.
(623) 244-7349 View (623) 244-7349
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Joleena Abrams
CMEMI, CCTSA, CLC, MA
Verified Verified
Phoenix, AZ 85018  (Online Only)
Joleena is Certified in the Treament of Sexual Addiction, is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Coach, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, with an Masters of Psychology in Grief Counseling, and a Bachelors of Science in Psychology. Joleena specializes in helping couples working through betrayal and addiction of all kinds. She also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. Her passion is to provide a safe space for her clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
Joleena is Certified in the Treament of Sexual Addiction, is a Certified Betrayal Trauma Coach, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, with an Masters of Psychology in Grief Counseling, and a Bachelors of Science in Psychology. Joleena specializes in helping couples working through betrayal and addiction of all kinds. She also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. Her passion is to provide a safe space for her clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
(619) 349-7159 View (619) 349-7159
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Eric Schultz
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
I specialize in marriage and family therapy, which includes family and marriage counseling, divorce care, re-marriage, blended family issues, sexual addiction and compulsion, and general mental health.
Through a comprehensive approach, I work with families, couples, and individuals to create safety and security in their relationships. Having the privilege to come alongside this population has increased my passion for working with both adults and children in regard to abuse, shame, and freedom from their respective pasts.
I specialize in marriage and family therapy, which includes family and marriage counseling, divorce care, re-marriage, blended family issues, sexual addiction and compulsion, and general mental health.
Through a comprehensive approach, I work with families, couples, and individuals to create safety and security in their relationships. Having the privilege to come alongside this population has increased my passion for working with both adults and children in regard to abuse, shame, and freedom from their respective pasts.
(623) 428-0204 View (623) 428-0204
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Hannah Ray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85201
Sexual Addiction: Have you been unsuccessful in disengaging from unwanted sexually compulsive behaviors? Now is the time to reach out for help.
I am passionate about helping to illuminate each person’s unique path to happiness and fulfillment. I have experience treating various types of trauma, addiction, codependency, narcissistic abuse, and issues related to infidelity in relationships. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT). I specialize in treating various types of sexual addiction, betrayal trauma and narcissistic abuse. I love to incorporate different therapeutic modalities, including EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, DBT, IFS, and SFBT.
Sexual Addiction: Have you been unsuccessful in disengaging from unwanted sexually compulsive behaviors? Now is the time to reach out for help.
I am passionate about helping to illuminate each person’s unique path to happiness and fulfillment. I have experience treating various types of trauma, addiction, codependency, narcissistic abuse, and issues related to infidelity in relationships. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT). I specialize in treating various types of sexual addiction, betrayal trauma and narcissistic abuse. I love to incorporate different therapeutic modalities, including EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, DBT, IFS, and SFBT.
(480) 757-8704 View (480) 757-8704
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Clark Lee
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85206
Hello I'm Clark Lee owner of S.O.L.E. "survivors of life experience" Counseling. I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
Hello I'm Clark Lee owner of S.O.L.E. "survivors of life experience" Counseling. I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
(480) 906-4089 View (480) 906-4089
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Cynthia A. Criss
Counselor, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Phoenix, AZ 85028
With over 20 years of experience in the counseling field, Cynthia A. Criss, LPC, Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, founded a private practice, Open Hearts, Open Minds Counseling Services specializing in the treatment of addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma and intimacy disorders. Treatment of intimacy disorders may include a focus on sexual compulsivity, infidelity and relational trauma. Cynthia helps persons to create healthy and intimate relationships. She provides individual, group, couples and family therapy in the treatment of addiction (sexual compulsive behavior, drugs, alcohol), depression, anxiety, and trauma.
With over 20 years of experience in the counseling field, Cynthia A. Criss, LPC, Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, founded a private practice, Open Hearts, Open Minds Counseling Services specializing in the treatment of addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma and intimacy disorders. Treatment of intimacy disorders may include a focus on sexual compulsivity, infidelity and relational trauma. Cynthia helps persons to create healthy and intimate relationships. She provides individual, group, couples and family therapy in the treatment of addiction (sexual compulsive behavior, drugs, alcohol), depression, anxiety, and trauma.
(602) 461-7619 View (602) 461-7619
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Feryn Heath
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Phoenix, AZ 85003  (Online Only)
Within a secure and encouraging atmosphere, I am dedicated to assisting you in recognizing and removing the obstacles caused by sexual addiction, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, life transitions, and trauma, regardless of whether you have previously attended therapy or are thinking about doing so for the first time.
Within a secure and encouraging atmosphere, I am dedicated to assisting you in recognizing and removing the obstacles caused by sexual addiction, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, life transitions, and trauma, regardless of whether you have previously attended therapy or are thinking about doing so for the first time.
(602) 833-1823 View (602) 833-1823
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Julie Dana Young
Counselor, MSc, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
I have extensive training in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma and problems with regulating emotions, sexual addiction, and intimacy-blocking behaviors.
There are times in our lives when we may feel overwhelmed, powerless, or hopeless. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma related to your partner or other relational issues, I believe I can help. My approach to treatment is from a place of empathy and unconditional positive regard for my clients in order to create a safe and trusting therapeutic alliance. Together we can build a stronger, healthier, more resilient you.
I have extensive training in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma and problems with regulating emotions, sexual addiction, and intimacy-blocking behaviors.
There are times in our lives when we may feel overwhelmed, powerless, or hopeless. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma related to your partner or other relational issues, I believe I can help. My approach to treatment is from a place of empathy and unconditional positive regard for my clients in order to create a safe and trusting therapeutic alliance. Together we can build a stronger, healthier, more resilient you.
(480) 418-2425 x1021 View (480) 418-2425 x1021
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Dan Oakes
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85206
I have specialized training in sexual addiction and sexual abuse.
My years of clinical practice have helped me to understand the value of an individual. Most people have the resources they need to manage the challenges they have, but they sometimes struggle to see the resources that are available to them. I use a solution focused, non judgmental, approach to help individuals resolve major life issues like addiction, depression, anxiety, and family and relational conflict. Individuals and couples can find affective attunement with themselves, their spouse, and their children, as they learn to strengthen who they are as individuals and become clearer about their own emotional regulation.
I have specialized training in sexual addiction and sexual abuse.
My years of clinical practice have helped me to understand the value of an individual. Most people have the resources they need to manage the challenges they have, but they sometimes struggle to see the resources that are available to them. I use a solution focused, non judgmental, approach to help individuals resolve major life issues like addiction, depression, anxiety, and family and relational conflict. Individuals and couples can find affective attunement with themselves, their spouse, and their children, as they learn to strengthen who they are as individuals and become clearer about their own emotional regulation.
(480) 409-2289 View (480) 409-2289
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Jennifer Monninger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Phoenix, AZ 85003
I am a certified sex therapist with a focus on sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. I offer individual and couples counseling focused on sexual addiction, infidelity, polyamory, kink/BDSM, desire differences, sexual pain and other health concerns impacting sexuality, and generally helping individuals improve their understanding of their sexuality. I use a sex positive approach that works to reduce shame and improve communication around sex. I would love to hear your story and see what I can do to support you. I see clients in person in Phoenix, and through telehealth in NM.
I am a certified sex therapist with a focus on sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. I offer individual and couples counseling focused on sexual addiction, infidelity, polyamory, kink/BDSM, desire differences, sexual pain and other health concerns impacting sexuality, and generally helping individuals improve their understanding of their sexuality. I use a sex positive approach that works to reduce shame and improve communication around sex. I would love to hear your story and see what I can do to support you. I see clients in person in Phoenix, and through telehealth in NM.
(602) 755-3230 View (602) 755-3230
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Kristin Day-Hardwig
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Phoenix, AZ 85018
Dr. Day-Hardwig has years of experience and training working with individuals who struggle with eating disorders/body image issues and individuals struggling with sexual addiction. She has had the opportunity to work in all levels of treatment (inpatient, IOP, and traditional outpatient), and strives to provide comprehensive treatment for her clients. In addition to these specialties, Dr. Day-Hardwig enjoys working with individuals who suffer from mood disorders, general life adjustment issues, and fertility struggles.
Dr. Day-Hardwig has years of experience and training working with individuals who struggle with eating disorders/body image issues and individuals struggling with sexual addiction. She has had the opportunity to work in all levels of treatment (inpatient, IOP, and traditional outpatient), and strives to provide comprehensive treatment for her clients. In addition to these specialties, Dr. Day-Hardwig enjoys working with individuals who suffer from mood disorders, general life adjustment issues, and fertility struggles.
(602) 483-4602 View (602) 483-4602
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Jake Pehrson
Counselor, MS, LAC, NCC
Verified Verified
Glendale, AZ 85308
I am passionate about helping individuals and couples with varying issues especially trauma, relationship and/or communication problems, and sexual addiction. Because I believe that individuals are the experts in their lives, I make counseling a collaborative process. I believe everyone deserves to feel heard, understood, and accepted. I strive to do this by providing a non-judgmental space for individuals and couples to freely share their stories. I work to ignite the flames of hope and happiness in those I work with to facilitate lasting, positive change. I am a father to 3 beautiful children and love the ocean and outdoors.
I am passionate about helping individuals and couples with varying issues especially trauma, relationship and/or communication problems, and sexual addiction. Because I believe that individuals are the experts in their lives, I make counseling a collaborative process. I believe everyone deserves to feel heard, understood, and accepted. I strive to do this by providing a non-judgmental space for individuals and couples to freely share their stories. I work to ignite the flames of hope and happiness in those I work with to facilitate lasting, positive change. I am a father to 3 beautiful children and love the ocean and outdoors.
(623) 263-3046 View (623) 263-3046
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Dr. Brian Longworth
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, C-SAT , MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Glendale, AZ 85308  (Online Only)
I support clients who have experienced a variety of types of trauma including the impact of the trauma of sexual addiction on families.
I believe therapy is about a therapist and a client collaborating together to address mental health issues and or deal with life problems. I believe the client (You) is the expert about themselves concerning strengths, weaknesses, and issues of concern. I believe it is my purpose as a therapist to build a therapeutic relationship which supports the development of your insights, and life skills; including the identification of strengths, and support systems that may aid in the reduction of negative symptoms and improve quality. I do tele-health only and I am joined by Mason my therapy dog.
I support clients who have experienced a variety of types of trauma including the impact of the trauma of sexual addiction on families.
I believe therapy is about a therapist and a client collaborating together to address mental health issues and or deal with life problems. I believe the client (You) is the expert about themselves concerning strengths, weaknesses, and issues of concern. I believe it is my purpose as a therapist to build a therapeutic relationship which supports the development of your insights, and life skills; including the identification of strengths, and support systems that may aid in the reduction of negative symptoms and improve quality. I do tele-health only and I am joined by Mason my therapy dog.
(480) 531-5711 View (480) 531-5711
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Veronica Ehret
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-TX, LPC-AZ, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Scottsdale, AZ 85255
I am qualified and have experience in Sexual Addiction Therapy (CSAT), Post Induction Therapy (PIT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy (EMDR), and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART).
My job is to help you mend your relationship with yourself so that you can find and grow healthy connections with others. Together, we will work to discover the root of the problem while also investigating other issues often tied to intimacy disorders, such as addiction in all its forms, including substances, workaholism, sex, poor spending habits, and other addictive behaviors.
I am qualified and have experience in Sexual Addiction Therapy (CSAT), Post Induction Therapy (PIT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy (EMDR), and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART).
My job is to help you mend your relationship with yourself so that you can find and grow healthy connections with others. Together, we will work to discover the root of the problem while also investigating other issues often tied to intimacy disorders, such as addiction in all its forms, including substances, workaholism, sex, poor spending habits, and other addictive behaviors.
(469) 425-8946 View (469) 425-8946
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Caleb Abrams
CSAT, CCTP, CLC, MA
Verified Verified
Chandler, AZ 85225  (Online Only)
Caleb is Certified in the Treatment of Sexual Addiction, is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Ordained Minister, Certified Life Coach, with a Masters of Psychology in Counseling and a Bachelors of Arts in Psychology. Caleb specializes in helping men work through sex addiction but provides counseling services for all kinds of addictions. He also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. His passion is to provide a safe space for his clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
Caleb is Certified in the Treatment of Sexual Addiction, is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Ordained Minister, Certified Life Coach, with a Masters of Psychology in Counseling and a Bachelors of Arts in Psychology. Caleb specializes in helping men work through sex addiction but provides counseling services for all kinds of addictions. He also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. His passion is to provide a safe space for his clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
(208) 213-2158 View (208) 213-2158
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SOLE Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85206
I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. "A person who never learned to trust, confuses intensity with intimacy......" Patrick Carnes
I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. "A person who never learned to trust, confuses intensity with intimacy......" Patrick Carnes
(480) 470-9504 View (480) 470-9504
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Wendy Lehnertz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Gilbert, AZ 85233
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I believe it's not only important but essential for individuals and couples to have a safe, non-judgemental space to share and work through problems. I have nearly twenty years of experience working with individuals and couples struggling with destructive relationship patterns, post traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, sexual and intimacy disruptions (such as infidelity, sexual addiction, past sexual abuse, etc), trauma and abuse, domestic violence, depression, and grief.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I believe it's not only important but essential for individuals and couples to have a safe, non-judgemental space to share and work through problems. I have nearly twenty years of experience working with individuals and couples struggling with destructive relationship patterns, post traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, sexual and intimacy disruptions (such as infidelity, sexual addiction, past sexual abuse, etc), trauma and abuse, domestic violence, depression, and grief.
(919) 343-9011 View (919) 343-9011

Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.