Therapists in Lakeville, CT

Substance use disorders treatment can save your or a loved one’s life. For over 15 years, I have enjoyed working with individuals and families to elicit positive change in their lives. As the Outpatient Services Program Manager at Mountainside treatment center in Wilton, I implement Acceptance Commitment Therapy, as well as somatic and experiential therapies to help my clients engage more fully in what gives them a sense of meaning and purposefulness in their lives. I also like to incorporate mindfulness and breathwork through my experience as a yoga teacher.

My clients are seeking goal-oriented, short-term, supportive therapy for adults, teens & children, often to address changes in their lives (loss, life changes, family conflict) or because they have a desire to function “happier” and more effectively, Many of my adult clients are experiences life changes related to work, marriage, empty-nesting, return to work or adjusting to retirement. Teens and young adults are often seeking supportive therapy that is aimed at coping with anxiety, depression, college planning stress, and family issues. Many of my younger clients have diagnosed learning differences, ADD/ADHD, or anxiety.

Welcome! I'm glad you're here. Often anxiety, trauma, and burnout can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed, in physical pain, or even numb; I am ready to meet you where you are in your journey, offering support and guidance. As a marriage and family therapist, my approach is systemic, I look at your life as a canvas of art, considering your relationships, family, and environments as integral parts. Many clients find tension and physical sensations tied to trauma, stress, and anxiety. We delve into processing these, fostering calm and equilibrium in your nervous system for a more balanced life.

I understand it takes a tremendous amount of courage to enter therapy. My intention is to offer a supportive, compassionate, evidence-based model of treatment particular to the goals of the client. Please feel free to contact me or visit my website at www.lisaoneillmft.com if you have any questions on how therapy might benefit you,or your family.

As a clinician, my most inspiring clients are the adolescents and adults that have overcome the struggles of addiction, eating disorders and family conflict. Effective change happens when strategies addressing the underlying problem are individualized and creative. The safe space offered in therapy allows my clients to explore their feelings, their choices, and challenge their patterns of behavior. I have worked extensively with teens struggling at school, at home, and with the legal system. My work with parents includes finding effective strategies to reach their teen while opening the lines of communication within the family system.

Reaching out for support can feel overwhelming, but sobriety is worth the effort. Throughout my time working in the behavioral health field, including my role as a clinician at Mountainside treatment center, I have had the pleasure of assisting clients as they embark on their recovery journey. At Mountainside, I use a person-centered approach to form meaningful therapeutic relationships and brainstorm practical solutions to early treatment hurdles. Drawing from evidence-based practices, I have helped people of different ages and socioeconomic backgrounds create treatment plans to ensure a comprehensive and successful recovery.

I specialize in mood disorders and anxiety. I've published five books--Undoing Depression is probably the most familiar---on depression, stress, and happiness, My latest, "Rewire," was released August 2014, and I'm working on a new book about self-destructive behavior. My approach is basically psychodynamic, with a lot of CBT and mindfulness. I believe that anyone can change--the brain can literally be rewired--but it takes a lot of patience and practice. Most of the people I meet have been battered around by life, and it's left scars--difficulty hoping, difficulty trusting. It's my job to mobilize that hope and trust.

Recovery from substance use is a process that takes time and patience, and everyone’s experience is unique. Together, we will create an individualized plan tailored to your needs and goals while exploring ways to cope with overwhelming emotions, trauma, and any internal conflict you may have. Through modalities such as Motivational Interviewing, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Ego State Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing, we will work together on what is most important to and for you.

Alcohol and Drug addiction impact millions of lives a year, but it is time to reclaim yours. Over the past decade, I have enjoyed working with individuals and families on their journey toward reaching their recovery goals. In our clinical sessions, I will help you achieve self-awareness and holistic healing through psychoeducation as well as mind-body techniques. As Mountainside Ramsey's Outpatient Services Program Manager, I will draw from my years of clinical practice in treating substance use and mental health disorders to create an individualized treatment plan tailored to your needs.

I am professional counselor with 12 years of experience specializing in substance use disorders and co-occurring conditions like depression and anxiety. My passion lies in practicing from a trauma-informed perspective, supporting adults in navigating the impacts of trauma on their lives, empowering them to achieve their desired outcomes, and assisting them in discovering their goals. Through compassionate listening, validation, and a strengths-based approach, I am dedicated to supporting you in reclaiming your narrative, fostering self-compassion, and building a foundation for lasting well-being and flourishing.

Adolescents and young people are creating a bridge for their adult future. I am passionate about guiding this process of transformation for the world’s future. I work with parents, families, children, youth, and adolescents to learn to fully live in the world and to claim a place for each individual for the whole. Gary teaches teens to meet their absolute place in the world. Together I help each adolescent move beyond stuck-ness, anxiety or uncertainty. You may be a parent struggling with your teen’s screen or gaming addiction with no solution. Left alone, it could take years - if ever – for him move to a zest for life.

Life has offered me the gift of experience. I am here to offer my clients insight into life’s toughest challenges with creative curiosity, clarity, and compassion. With certifications in EMDR, IFS, and GOTTMAN, I’ve got you covered.

Are you trying to make changes in yourself, your work, your education, or your relationships? Maybe the problem is clear but the solution feels out of reach. Or maybe it’s not quite clear what is out of kilter, but you or they sense change is necessary. Even if there is no owner's manual for change, my life experience as a parent/grandparent, and my varied professional background in mental health, public policy, and academia have convinced me that change can be an enriching part of life. Psychotherapy is a place to explore change openly.

I believe that every person has an emotional, mental, physical and spiritual life that needs to be supported and nurtured. The path to healing and self-acceptance occurs through a collaborative approach, focused on enhancing personal strengths and insight. Empowering individuals to manage challenges and stressors. My therapeutic approach utilizes the principles of contextual and cognitive-behavioral techniques, as well as skill-based therapies to improve personal effectiveness and empowerment.

*Not accepting new clients at this time* Life in our contemporary society is far more complicated and stressful than in previous generations. Our coping skills are continually being tested, it is important for us to learn new ways to handle life’s changing demands and challenges. People and problems do not exist in a vacuum; home, school, work, and social environments, as well as cultural heritage, are important factors in how we feel and act. It is vital for us to acknowledge and understand these influences. Counseling is a process of exploring, clarifying and identifying what we require in order to feel better about our lives.

Currently Accepting New Clients. The reality of pregnancy and childbirth doesn't always match up to the expectations. Please know you're not alone. Family transitions can contribute to changes in family dynamics and feel overwhelming - no matter your role within the family. It's not always easy to reach out for support, but a phone call is the first step toward getting back on track. I specialize in peripartum mental health.