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Elisa Blair
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-CA, LMFT-AZ
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108  (Online Only)
You are tired, stressed, and fighting with your partner. How did it get this bad? What is wrong with me? You just want feel calmer and like you and your partner on the same page again. You are tired of "pretending" to have it all together. They say "trauma" is the root of everything, humm. Chaotic childhood home, check. But you have told yourself "It wasn't THAT bad." But as the black sheep of your family, raised in chaos, you can't help but wonder if all this might be related. The constant loud self critic, people-pleasing, and feeling misunderstood. It is time to unpack the stuff that is holding you back.
You are tired, stressed, and fighting with your partner. How did it get this bad? What is wrong with me? You just want feel calmer and like you and your partner on the same page again. You are tired of "pretending" to have it all together. They say "trauma" is the root of everything, humm. Chaotic childhood home, check. But you have told yourself "It wasn't THAT bad." But as the black sheep of your family, raised in chaos, you can't help but wonder if all this might be related. The constant loud self critic, people-pleasing, and feeling misunderstood. It is time to unpack the stuff that is holding you back.
(619) 332-4167 View (619) 332-4167
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DPRC veterans services,LLCp
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Berkeley, CA 94704
Seasoned licensed psychologist with a cognitive behavioral brief psychotherapy theoretical orientation. I serve as a mirror to our community and specialize in trauma, stress management, chemical dependency, domestic violence and family systems. Bienvenidos a mi practica. Somos un cucharon para servir al pueblo. Sirvo como espejo para ayudarle encontrar tu destino.
Seasoned licensed psychologist with a cognitive behavioral brief psychotherapy theoretical orientation. I serve as a mirror to our community and specialize in trauma, stress management, chemical dependency, domestic violence and family systems. Bienvenidos a mi practica. Somos un cucharon para servir al pueblo. Sirvo como espejo para ayudarle encontrar tu destino.
(559) 471-3501 View (559) 471-3501
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Juanda Green
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Anaheim, CA 92804
My name is Juanda Green, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I congratulate you on your decision to face issues that have hindered you from discovering your personal strengths. My therapeutic strength is the ability to build a strong relationship with clients, which I believe is essential for successful treatment outcomes. I believe everyone has divine-given qualities that must not be stifled by depression, anxiety, fear, or low self-esteem. I work with individuals and couples experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma-related issues, and relationship complexities.
My name is Juanda Green, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I congratulate you on your decision to face issues that have hindered you from discovering your personal strengths. My therapeutic strength is the ability to build a strong relationship with clients, which I believe is essential for successful treatment outcomes. I believe everyone has divine-given qualities that must not be stifled by depression, anxiety, fear, or low self-esteem. I work with individuals and couples experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma-related issues, and relationship complexities.
(714) 266-1404 View (714) 266-1404
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Anobella Eshoo
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95124
Our environment and early attachment styles with parents/caregivers often show up in present relationships, this is why I use Object Relations and the Family of Origin.
I am dedicated to creating an environment of safety in our therapeutic relationship so you can heal and meet your goals. This allows room for unfinished business of the past to surface and receive the attention it deserves. I love working with teens, couples, and families. My primary focus is pre-marital therapy, parent-teen relationships, and identity formation. Specifically, I work with Christian couples who are facing fears and reservations around the topic of marriage and sex. Oftentimes, spiritual trauma, upbringing and other factors can contribute to these challenges.
Our environment and early attachment styles with parents/caregivers often show up in present relationships, this is why I use Object Relations and the Family of Origin.
I am dedicated to creating an environment of safety in our therapeutic relationship so you can heal and meet your goals. This allows room for unfinished business of the past to surface and receive the attention it deserves. I love working with teens, couples, and families. My primary focus is pre-marital therapy, parent-teen relationships, and identity formation. Specifically, I work with Christian couples who are facing fears and reservations around the topic of marriage and sex. Oftentimes, spiritual trauma, upbringing and other factors can contribute to these challenges.
(408) 539-0660 View (408) 539-0660
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Emma Reyes-Ramirez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95126
Waitlist for new clients
My clinical interests and experience are in postpartum adjustments and difficulties, trauma work, launching/life transitions, first mental health break family work, work/school adjustments/difficulties, treatment of mood disorders, anxiety and depression.
I have worked in the mental health field for over 20 years. I have provided array of clinical services; including individual and group psychotherapy, crisis intervention and case management. I am holistic in my approach as I strongly believe in meeting my client's needs with evidence based treatment modalities that work for that individual. My goal is to work with my clients to develop a treatment plan along side them that best suits them and their needs.
My clinical interests and experience are in postpartum adjustments and difficulties, trauma work, launching/life transitions, first mental health break family work, work/school adjustments/difficulties, treatment of mood disorders, anxiety and depression.
I have worked in the mental health field for over 20 years. I have provided array of clinical services; including individual and group psychotherapy, crisis intervention and case management. I am holistic in my approach as I strongly believe in meeting my client's needs with evidence based treatment modalities that work for that individual. My goal is to work with my clients to develop a treatment plan along side them that best suits them and their needs.
(408) 617-9564 View (408) 617-9564
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East Bay Art Therapy
Art Therapist, MPS, ATR-BC, LCAT, ATCS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94610
We offer individual, family, and couples sessions as well as groups.
Are you looking for a new creative way to deal with difficulties in life and get in touch with your best self? Do you feel like you’ve tried everything with your child, but they struggle to benefit from traditional talk therapy? As art therapists, we incorporate talk therapy with art making to help our clients unlock their creative potential, look at problems with fresh eyes, and develop new creative coping skills for managing with difficult emotions. If you or your child is feeling blocked by past trauma, stuck in destructive patterns, or overwhelmed by depression or anxiety, then I encourage you to reach out. You are not alone.
We offer individual, family, and couples sessions as well as groups.
Are you looking for a new creative way to deal with difficulties in life and get in touch with your best self? Do you feel like you’ve tried everything with your child, but they struggle to benefit from traditional talk therapy? As art therapists, we incorporate talk therapy with art making to help our clients unlock their creative potential, look at problems with fresh eyes, and develop new creative coping skills for managing with difficult emotions. If you or your child is feeling blocked by past trauma, stuck in destructive patterns, or overwhelmed by depression or anxiety, then I encourage you to reach out. You are not alone.
(510) 675-7070 View (510) 675-7070
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Ruby Phun
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rosemead, CA 91770
I have a passion for an individual who struggles in a relationship, with family members, have poor boundaries with others and themselves, have difficulty navigating different stages of life, and sense of self.
Starting therapy is difficult and scary; however, you do not have to do it yourself. I understand it is also vulnerable to share your stories with a stranger. Therapy is a space where you can feel safe being yourself. With sincerity, I strive to build that safe environment for you and work collaboratively to find yourself. I want to empower you to understand your thoughts and feelings. Working through your negative behavioral and thought patterns, we will identify how these currently affect your life. I will help you find solutions within yourself that you feel comfortable practicing and sustaining, using your natural strengths.
I have a passion for an individual who struggles in a relationship, with family members, have poor boundaries with others and themselves, have difficulty navigating different stages of life, and sense of self.
Starting therapy is difficult and scary; however, you do not have to do it yourself. I understand it is also vulnerable to share your stories with a stranger. Therapy is a space where you can feel safe being yourself. With sincerity, I strive to build that safe environment for you and work collaboratively to find yourself. I want to empower you to understand your thoughts and feelings. Working through your negative behavioral and thought patterns, we will identify how these currently affect your life. I will help you find solutions within yourself that you feel comfortable practicing and sustaining, using your natural strengths.
(626) 507-2980 View (626) 507-2980
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Lawrence Shweky
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Davis, CA 95616
Life has many challenges, but they give us the opportunity to grow in new ways and discover our inner strengths. I use a variety of approaches to help clients work on these challenges, develop new insights and make difficult decisions. I am a focused listener and strive to create a safe and healing environment, but I am also an interactive participant who provides direct feedback. I have a quiet and calming office where clients can relax and connect to their inner world of thoughts and feelings. I provide individual, group, family and couples counseling to adolescents and adults of all backgrounds.
Life has many challenges, but they give us the opportunity to grow in new ways and discover our inner strengths. I use a variety of approaches to help clients work on these challenges, develop new insights and make difficult decisions. I am a focused listener and strive to create a safe and healing environment, but I am also an interactive participant who provides direct feedback. I have a quiet and calming office where clients can relax and connect to their inner world of thoughts and feelings. I provide individual, group, family and couples counseling to adolescents and adults of all backgrounds.
(530) 341-3945 View (530) 341-3945
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Elizabeth Shon
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Pasadena, CA 91106
I have had the privilege of working with adults and couples for over 37 years, helping with a wide range of issues including: depression, anxiety, self esteem, relationships, stress, ageing, family of origin issues, cross cultural issues, identity, grief/loss and mild addictions.
I have had the privilege of working with adults and couples for over 37 years, helping with a wide range of issues including: depression, anxiety, self esteem, relationships, stress, ageing, family of origin issues, cross cultural issues, identity, grief/loss and mild addictions.
(626) 671-4930 View (626) 671-4930
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Maurice C Shaw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oakland, CA 94610
My goal is to empower individuals who call the Bay Area home to live their best lives by utilizing my education, skills, and experience to enhance evidenced based practices. My experience as a child welfare social worker has gifted me with the ability to support individuals who are struggling with the most challenging issues which could include attachment issues, behavioral challenges, family discord, couples issues related to parenting, substance abuse, anxiety, depression and anger management. Additionally, I have a passion for working with the underserved African American and L.G.B.T.Q. community.
My goal is to empower individuals who call the Bay Area home to live their best lives by utilizing my education, skills, and experience to enhance evidenced based practices. My experience as a child welfare social worker has gifted me with the ability to support individuals who are struggling with the most challenging issues which could include attachment issues, behavioral challenges, family discord, couples issues related to parenting, substance abuse, anxiety, depression and anger management. Additionally, I have a passion for working with the underserved African American and L.G.B.T.Q. community.
(510) 945-3678 View (510) 945-3678
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Ravreet (Ruby) Cheema
Psychological Associate, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
Simi Valley, CA 93065  (Online Only)
Welcome! I am Ruby, I am so glad you made it to my page. I am a relational psychotherapist, which means I value human connections and the client-therapist relationship. My approach is holistic and person-centered. I often integrate psychodynamic, CBT, mindfulness, and values-based approaches to address client challenges. Together, I hope to address the challenges you have been facing by processing past and present experiences and developing a greater sense of self and belonging. I typically work with individuals who have experienced childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, identity issues, and family/cultural stressors.
Welcome! I am Ruby, I am so glad you made it to my page. I am a relational psychotherapist, which means I value human connections and the client-therapist relationship. My approach is holistic and person-centered. I often integrate psychodynamic, CBT, mindfulness, and values-based approaches to address client challenges. Together, I hope to address the challenges you have been facing by processing past and present experiences and developing a greater sense of self and belonging. I typically work with individuals who have experienced childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, identity issues, and family/cultural stressors.
(805) 301-9882 View (805) 301-9882
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Amineh Helalian
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sacramento, CA 95816
My own bi-cultural background (Persian & American) has left me with a special interest in working with clients of multiple heritages, as well as clients raised in an immigrant family.
My therapy is strongly person centered; I embrace the idea that a solid therapeutic relationship is the backbone to change. I believe this relationship is built through empathy, humor, and respect for the idea that you are the expert in your own life, not me. My therapeutic style is eclectic; I tailor treatments to your needs to find an approach that feels right to you. What this means is that therapy will look different for different clients; sometimes you might need a supportive listener, and sometimes you might need concrete exercises to build new skills. As a therapist, I believe it is my job to pivot according to your needs.
My own bi-cultural background (Persian & American) has left me with a special interest in working with clients of multiple heritages, as well as clients raised in an immigrant family.
My therapy is strongly person centered; I embrace the idea that a solid therapeutic relationship is the backbone to change. I believe this relationship is built through empathy, humor, and respect for the idea that you are the expert in your own life, not me. My therapeutic style is eclectic; I tailor treatments to your needs to find an approach that feels right to you. What this means is that therapy will look different for different clients; sometimes you might need a supportive listener, and sometimes you might need concrete exercises to build new skills. As a therapist, I believe it is my job to pivot according to your needs.
(916) 280-0528 View (916) 280-0528
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Ralph Rueda
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redlands, CA 92374
I have always been an active listener throughout my life, and I owe it to just being very patient and curious with family and friends around me.
My name is Ralph Rueda, and I am a first-generation Filipino American. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Northern California. I work exclusively with clients via telehealth. I specialize in motivational interviewing, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and a strength-based approach. I tailor my approach to my clients according to their needs and what they seek out of therapy. I aim to make sure to keep my client-centered and value normalizing feedback in therapy on how each session goes so I can better strengthen my work in every session moving forward.
I have always been an active listener throughout my life, and I owe it to just being very patient and curious with family and friends around me.
My name is Ralph Rueda, and I am a first-generation Filipino American. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Northern California. I work exclusively with clients via telehealth. I specialize in motivational interviewing, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and a strength-based approach. I tailor my approach to my clients according to their needs and what they seek out of therapy. I aim to make sure to keep my client-centered and value normalizing feedback in therapy on how each session goes so I can better strengthen my work in every session moving forward.
(909) 414-1690 View (909) 414-1690
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Katey Nicolai
Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Palo Alto, CA 94306  (Online Only)
I specialize in treating adolescents and adults with trauma and PTSD, self-harm and suicidality, disordered eating, family conflict, depression, and anxiety.
I work with clients between the ages of 13-24, struggling with everything from mild anxiety and depression to disordered eating and self-harm. Some of my clients face pervasive mood and relationship struggles based in trauma and family conflict. My work relies on evidence-based treatments rooted in cognitive-behavioral and psychodynamic therapies including DBT, interpersonal therapy, and family systems. I work well in building a safe and trusting space in therapy, especially for clients who have complex histories.
I specialize in treating adolescents and adults with trauma and PTSD, self-harm and suicidality, disordered eating, family conflict, depression, and anxiety.
I work with clients between the ages of 13-24, struggling with everything from mild anxiety and depression to disordered eating and self-harm. Some of my clients face pervasive mood and relationship struggles based in trauma and family conflict. My work relies on evidence-based treatments rooted in cognitive-behavioral and psychodynamic therapies including DBT, interpersonal therapy, and family systems. I work well in building a safe and trusting space in therapy, especially for clients who have complex histories.
(650) 517-6403 View (650) 517-6403
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Kendra Claire Wilhelm
Marriage & Family Therapist, BS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92011
I use EMDR, Internal Family Systems and Somatic Therapy to help you feel, heal and manage challenges to live a rich life.
Do you struggle managing your emotions, dissatisfaction with your life, shame & guilt, anxiety or exhaustion? Are you overcome by difficult experiences from the past or loss? I am passionate about empowering teens and adults with emotional distress, self doubt, relationship issues or repeat patterns, who feel stressed, stuck & overwhelmed. I specialize in trauma and also help with anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, self-esteem, relationship issues, body image, mindfulness, inner child work, boundaries & sexuality. I will help you untangle the painful & frustrating areas of your life to make room for a life of joy and ease.
I use EMDR, Internal Family Systems and Somatic Therapy to help you feel, heal and manage challenges to live a rich life.
Do you struggle managing your emotions, dissatisfaction with your life, shame & guilt, anxiety or exhaustion? Are you overcome by difficult experiences from the past or loss? I am passionate about empowering teens and adults with emotional distress, self doubt, relationship issues or repeat patterns, who feel stressed, stuck & overwhelmed. I specialize in trauma and also help with anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, self-esteem, relationship issues, body image, mindfulness, inner child work, boundaries & sexuality. I will help you untangle the painful & frustrating areas of your life to make room for a life of joy and ease.
(619) 367-8413 View (619) 367-8413
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Julia Mendoza
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92110  (Online Only)
Hello I'm Julia Mendoza, a therapist providing therapy throughout the state of California. I have experience working with children and adults, in the areas of depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, LGBT+ issues, OCD, personality disorders, family problems, relationship and partner conflict, and traumas. I truly enjoy helping others and I have been told that I am funny, genuine, open-minded, and a good listener. Se habla Español!
Hello I'm Julia Mendoza, a therapist providing therapy throughout the state of California. I have experience working with children and adults, in the areas of depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, LGBT+ issues, OCD, personality disorders, family problems, relationship and partner conflict, and traumas. I truly enjoy helping others and I have been told that I am funny, genuine, open-minded, and a good listener. Se habla Español!
(951) 438-7873 View (951) 438-7873
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Yufei Chen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
My name is Yufei Chen. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Millbrae, California. I use a client-centered and relational approach to support adolescent and adult clients through life transitions, identity exploration, existential dread, relationship issues, and other stressful situations. Issues I have experience serving include perfectionism, burnout, immigration stress, perinatal issues and parenting struggles, anxiety, and depression.
My name is Yufei Chen. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Millbrae, California. I use a client-centered and relational approach to support adolescent and adult clients through life transitions, identity exploration, existential dread, relationship issues, and other stressful situations. Issues I have experience serving include perfectionism, burnout, immigration stress, perinatal issues and parenting struggles, anxiety, and depression.
(323) 649-6991 View (323) 649-6991
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Jasmine Bell Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Pasadena, CA 91101
Is your child or teen adjusting to changes in their lives? Have you noticed a difference in their demeanor, attitude, playfulness, and attachment with you? Are you struggling with your own mental health while balancing work and/or family? I am here to support your families needs. I have been providing services for children, teens, and parents for about a decade. I believe in treating the whole family through individual and parent-child family sessions to implement realistic coping skills in the home to improve your connection with your child outside of therapy.
Is your child or teen adjusting to changes in their lives? Have you noticed a difference in their demeanor, attitude, playfulness, and attachment with you? Are you struggling with your own mental health while balancing work and/or family? I am here to support your families needs. I have been providing services for children, teens, and parents for about a decade. I believe in treating the whole family through individual and parent-child family sessions to implement realistic coping skills in the home to improve your connection with your child outside of therapy.
(323) 417-8923 View (323) 417-8923
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Erica S Wheeler-Dubin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94611  (Online Only)
My twin identity offers a unique perspective into relationships, identity and intimacy among family members as well as romantic partners.
I am seeking clients who are open to discovering what makes them unique through a creative and imaginative process; Clients whose goals may range from deeper self knowledge, to decreasing experiences with anxiety and depression, to understanding how trauma plays itself out in their relationships, to being able to resource themselves, etc; Clients interested in exploring their strengths as well as their more scary parts. I believe that pain and suffering are normal emotions and healing happens in connection with others; others who can hold and stay with the difficulty and provide curiosity and support.
My twin identity offers a unique perspective into relationships, identity and intimacy among family members as well as romantic partners.
I am seeking clients who are open to discovering what makes them unique through a creative and imaginative process; Clients whose goals may range from deeper self knowledge, to decreasing experiences with anxiety and depression, to understanding how trauma plays itself out in their relationships, to being able to resource themselves, etc; Clients interested in exploring their strengths as well as their more scary parts. I believe that pain and suffering are normal emotions and healing happens in connection with others; others who can hold and stay with the difficulty and provide curiosity and support.
(510) 683-5650 View (510) 683-5650
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Shabnam S Cherry
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Tustin, CA 92780
Are you feeling down? Are there conflicts in your family? Are you concerned about your relationship, or have you had a recent breakup or loss? Are you struggling at work or in school? Do you feel anxious or angry? There are times when feelings of sadness, anxiety, or anger overwhelm us and we need someone to talk to. During those difficult times, it is comforting to know that there is someone you can talk to in a safe environment, where you can express yourself without fear of judgment or shame.
Are you feeling down? Are there conflicts in your family? Are you concerned about your relationship, or have you had a recent breakup or loss? Are you struggling at work or in school? Do you feel anxious or angry? There are times when feelings of sadness, anxiety, or anger overwhelm us and we need someone to talk to. During those difficult times, it is comforting to know that there is someone you can talk to in a safe environment, where you can express yourself without fear of judgment or shame.
(949) 899-8560 View (949) 899-8560
Family Therapy

What do family therapists do?

A family therapist facilitates the process of understanding and improving how a family functions. The therapist will help family members develop empathy for one another. They’ll seek to understand existing patterns, misunderstandings, and conflicts that arise, in order to help the family arrive at a realistic, unified understanding and develop the coping skills they need to build stronger relationships.

How long does therapy for families take to work?

Therapy manifests differently in every family; a common time frame is 12 weekly sessions, but some families may see improvement after just a few weeks. Families should discuss their goals with the therapist at the beginning of the process and periodically revisit those goals to assess their progress together.

How can you encourage a family member to attend family therapy?

You can encourage family members to attend therapy by expressing with both love and concern the challenges you see and explaining how a therapist could help the family navigate those challenges together. An outside perspective can help everyone feel heard, get on the same page, and develop new skills. If family members are still hesitant, it may be helpful to emphasize that family therapy is short-term—it won’t last forever.

Is therapy for families effective?

Family therapy can significantly improve family dynamics and relationships. Research suggests that family therapy can help individuals understand their role in the family, communicate and solve problems together, reduce conflict and draw boundaries when necessary, and develop coping skills for stressors, major life changes, and mental or physical illnesses within the family.