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Ernie O’Connell

Counselor, LMHC

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Locust Valley, NY 11560
Real change starts when you feel safe enough to explore what's holding you back. As a licensed mental health counselor specializing in helping adults and couples (18+) overcome anxiety, depression, panic, and trauma as well as identity, relationship, and attachment issues, I’m here to support you through life’s toughest moments. Whether you're facing overwhelming transitions, racing thoughts, anxiety, depression, or relationship challenges, we’ll work together to unpack difficult emotions, break free from negative patterns, and build the confidence to navigate life’s ups and downs.
I’m deeply committed to creating a safe, affirming space—particularly for the LGBTQIA+ community—where you can feel seen, valued, and supported. I’m here to guide you through diverse relationship dynamics and identity exploration. Whether you're navigating polyamory, non-monogamy, or simply wanting to improve communication I meet you exactly where you areat.
In our work together, I’ll help you recognize and shift unhelpful thought patterns, develop healthier coping strategies, and move toward a more authentic, fulfilling life. I believe lasting change happens when trust and connection form the foundation of our therapeutic relationship, allowing you the space to discover who you are and what you need to thrive.
Call or Ernie O’Connell now for a free 15 minute consultation - (516) 928-5980

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Soul Serenity Therapy

Locust Valley, NY 11560

(516) 928-5980

Glen Cove, NY 11542

My website
I am accepting NEW clients for virtual video sessions through a safe and secure platform. I look forward to working together!
I specialize in Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Trauma and PTSD 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (516) 928-5980
Photo of Ernie O’Connell, Counselor, LMHC

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Soul Serenity Therapy

Locust Valley, NY 11560

(516) 928-5980

Glen Cove, NY 11542

My website
I am accepting NEW clients for virtual video sessions through a safe and secure platform. I look forward to working together!
I specialize in Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Trauma and PTSD 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
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I am in network for BCBS, Aetna, Optum/UHC & Cigna. For those out-of-network, I provide a monthly invoice that you can submit to your insurance company for direct reimbursement if your plan offers out-of-network benefits. I will do my best to work with you to keep therapy manageable and affordable!
Photo of Ernie O’Connell, Counselor, LMHC
Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (516) 928-5980
"
I am in network for BCBS, Aetna, Optum/UHC & Cigna. For those out-of-network, I provide a monthly invoice that you can submit to your insurance company for direct reimbursement if your plan offers out-of-network benefits. I will do my best to work with you to keep therapy manageable and affordable!
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (516) 928-5980

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 013484-01 Ernie O’Connell
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (516) 928-5980

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Relationship Issues
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body Image
  • Cancer
  • Caregivers
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (516) 928-5980
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (516) 928-5980

Endorsement

Kristen Whelan
Kristen Whelan
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Ernie's clients appreciate her dynamic, relatable, and genuine nature fostering a comfortable environment to feel understood. She is best known for her personable and motivating energy as she is deeply passionate about the work she does.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Narrative
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Trauma Focused
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
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Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (516) 928-5980

Location

Primary Location

Soul Serenity Therapy

Locust Valley, NY 11560

(516) 928-5980

Additional Location

Glen Cove, NY 11542

(516) 928-5980
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I am accepting NEW clients for virtual video sessions through a safe and secure platform. I look forward to working together!
Photo of Ernie O’Connell, Counselor, LMHC
Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (516) 928-5980
"
I am accepting NEW clients for virtual video sessions through a safe and secure platform. I look forward to working together!
Photo of Ernie O’Connell, Counselor, LMHC
Ernie O’Connell
Counselor, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (516) 928-5980