Eric J
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
5 Endorsed
Let's Connect (480) 470-0465

The argument may be about the dishes, the phone, sex, money, parenting, or whose turn it was—but the wound beneath it is about whether you still feel chosen, heard, and safe with each other. Beneath the argument are deeper questions: Do I matter to you? Am I safe with you? Will you hear me, choose me, and stay present when this gets hard? One of you reaches harder while the other pulls away. The louder one becomes, the more distant the other feels. Eventually, the argument ends—but the loneliness does not. You still love each other. You are simply losing each other inside a pattern neither of you knows how to stop.
I help couples uncover the cycle beneath the conflict. My style is active, compassionate, and direct. We slow the moment down, identify what each person is protecting, and build safer ways to speak, listen, repair, and reconnect. I draw from EFT, Gottman Method, attachment work, trauma treatment, and family systems.
You do not need to wait until love turns into resentment or silence. I work with recurring conflict, emotional distance, betrayal, intimacy concerns, trauma-driven reactions, and uncertainty about whether to stay. I offer in-person and online therapy for Arizona couples, with a complimentary 15-minute consultation to explore whether we are a good fit.
Call or Email Eric J Henley now for a free 15 minute consultation - (480) 470-0465
Let's Connect (480) 470-0465

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $180
- Couple Sessions $220
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Eric J Henley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (480) 470-0465
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Arizona / LMFT-15494 Eric J Henley
- In Practice for 9 years
- Attended Arizona State University, MAS-MFT, Graduated 2017
- Certificate from EMDRIA Certified Therapist (EMDR) 100217566 / 2023
- Certificate from CCTP (Certified Clinical Trauma Professional) 2023
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Eric J Henley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (480) 470-0465
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Infidelity
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Decision Making (Discernment)
- Depression
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Life Transitions
- Sex Therapy
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
Eric J Henley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (480) 470-0465
5 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Narrative
- Relational
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Somatic
- Trauma Focused
Eric J Henley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (480) 470-0465
Location
Nearby Areas
Eric J Henley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (480) 470-0465