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Kara Hill
Counselor, LMHCA, NCC, MA, MBA
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98195  (Online Only)
Sometimes you just need a safe and confidential space to sort it all out. Life and relationships can challenge us to our very limits as we try to love other people and hold onto our own sense of self at the same time. It can feel overwhelming to navigate the emotions, interaction cycles, and patterns at play in relationships. As difficult as these challenges are, they are ultimately the key to our personal growth and development. I work with couples who want a better partnership, and want to feel heard, valued, and understood. I help them find genuine connection in their emotional, mental, spiritual, and intimate relationship.
Sometimes you just need a safe and confidential space to sort it all out. Life and relationships can challenge us to our very limits as we try to love other people and hold onto our own sense of self at the same time. It can feel overwhelming to navigate the emotions, interaction cycles, and patterns at play in relationships. As difficult as these challenges are, they are ultimately the key to our personal growth and development. I work with couples who want a better partnership, and want to feel heard, valued, and understood. I help them find genuine connection in their emotional, mental, spiritual, and intimate relationship.
(360) 646-2093 View (360) 646-2093
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Sheena Kaas Mudaliar
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98121  (Online Only)
I work with individuals who want to make sense of their emotions, heal from trauma, and build authentic relationships with their loved ones. Many of my clients are brave change-makers, the first in their family to break multi-generational patterns. They wonder how to forgive, cast away anger, and move forward while at the same time standing up for themselves and their needs. They want tools for immediate relief, but they want to go beyond managing symptoms. They know that this work is so much bigger than themselves and that they are creating a new legacy for future generations
I work with individuals who want to make sense of their emotions, heal from trauma, and build authentic relationships with their loved ones. Many of my clients are brave change-makers, the first in their family to break multi-generational patterns. They wonder how to forgive, cast away anger, and move forward while at the same time standing up for themselves and their needs. They want tools for immediate relief, but they want to go beyond managing symptoms. They know that this work is so much bigger than themselves and that they are creating a new legacy for future generations
(253) 338-5268 View (253) 338-5268
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Tina Schermer Sellers
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, CST-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98117
Discover the Northwest Institute on Intimacy (NWIOI) for expert guidance in strengthening you & your relationships. With 25+ years of experience and a unique blend of spiritual, sexual, and emotional expertise, we've developed a unique approach that combines spiritual, sexual, and emotional tools to heal & enhance your life. Our 28 therapists have unparalleled training & expertise. Less than 5% of therapists in the US are trained as comprehensively in individual, couple, family, sex therapy, & healing trauma, racial, & sexual oppression. Many medical clinics refer only to us due to our experience serving people w pain and illness.
Discover the Northwest Institute on Intimacy (NWIOI) for expert guidance in strengthening you & your relationships. With 25+ years of experience and a unique blend of spiritual, sexual, and emotional expertise, we've developed a unique approach that combines spiritual, sexual, and emotional tools to heal & enhance your life. Our 28 therapists have unparalleled training & expertise. Less than 5% of therapists in the US are trained as comprehensively in individual, couple, family, sex therapy, & healing trauma, racial, & sexual oppression. Many medical clinics refer only to us due to our experience serving people w pain and illness.
(206) 981-5265 View (206) 981-5265
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Jill Arndt
Pre-Licensed Professional, LMHCA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Experiencing conflict that seems to have no end is exhausting. We all find ourselves in cycles of conflict at times - with friends, family, colleagues, or even within ourselves. My privilege is in helping folks move out of patterns of stuck-ness, hopelessness, and helplessness and into more secure relationships, balance, and peace.
Experiencing conflict that seems to have no end is exhausting. We all find ourselves in cycles of conflict at times - with friends, family, colleagues, or even within ourselves. My privilege is in helping folks move out of patterns of stuck-ness, hopelessness, and helplessness and into more secure relationships, balance, and peace.
(206) 823-1201 View (206) 823-1201
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PNW Sex Therapy Collective
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109
We are a collective of comprehensively trained, client-centered, and value-focused therapists who have a sincere interest in helping people improve connection to themselves, their sexuality, and their relationships with others. Our values reflect who we are as individuals and as a collective, where inclusivity is paramount, diversity is celebrated, and our work considers the needs of those we serve.
We are a collective of comprehensively trained, client-centered, and value-focused therapists who have a sincere interest in helping people improve connection to themselves, their sexuality, and their relationships with others. Our values reflect who we are as individuals and as a collective, where inclusivity is paramount, diversity is celebrated, and our work considers the needs of those we serve.
(425) 368-9306 View (425) 368-9306
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Haley Hinkle
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98101  (Online Only)
Have you drawn your last straw? I work with couples in distress regarding sexual issues, chronic conflict, and diagnoses such as anxiety, depression, or ADHD. My focus in couple therapy is to understand and give space to even the ugliest parts of you and your partner that have been preventing the connection you once felt. As we contextualize parts and patterns in your experience, we can uncover the stuck-ness that is keeping you from feeling the satisfaction and safety you seek. While I see many wonderful, burned-out mothers and wives, I also have extensive experience with courageous men who also enter the "feeling" space.
Have you drawn your last straw? I work with couples in distress regarding sexual issues, chronic conflict, and diagnoses such as anxiety, depression, or ADHD. My focus in couple therapy is to understand and give space to even the ugliest parts of you and your partner that have been preventing the connection you once felt. As we contextualize parts and patterns in your experience, we can uncover the stuck-ness that is keeping you from feeling the satisfaction and safety you seek. While I see many wonderful, burned-out mothers and wives, I also have extensive experience with courageous men who also enter the "feeling" space.
(425) 470-6192 View (425) 470-6192
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Scarlett A Thompson
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
Specializing in neurodivergence, particularly in ADHD, giftedness/2E & creativity and additionally religious trauma, existential questioning and cultural or life transitions. I enjoy working with relationship concerns including couples, families and individuals. In counseling, a good fit between your therapist and you is of the utmost importance. I hold a supportive protected space for you to grow within, lending my tools and expertise. I am here to facilitate your journey, and to support your growth empathetically. Multicultural and diverse clientele are welcome and encouraged.
Specializing in neurodivergence, particularly in ADHD, giftedness/2E & creativity and additionally religious trauma, existential questioning and cultural or life transitions. I enjoy working with relationship concerns including couples, families and individuals. In counseling, a good fit between your therapist and you is of the utmost importance. I hold a supportive protected space for you to grow within, lending my tools and expertise. I am here to facilitate your journey, and to support your growth empathetically. Multicultural and diverse clientele are welcome and encouraged.
(206) 309-2700 View (206) 309-2700
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Jacob Lehman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98122  (Online Only)
Getting started in therapy can feel daunting and I can help to make that experience easier for you. My clients most frequently describe me as genuine, easy to talk to, and compassionate. I understand that we all cope in different ways and welcome having periods of light conversation and humor along the way. I strive to genuinely get to know you and help you identify what is causing your distress, so we can work towards resolving it. I help my clients learn and strengthen the skills needed to navigate difficult life experiences more efficiently.
Getting started in therapy can feel daunting and I can help to make that experience easier for you. My clients most frequently describe me as genuine, easy to talk to, and compassionate. I understand that we all cope in different ways and welcome having periods of light conversation and humor along the way. I strive to genuinely get to know you and help you identify what is causing your distress, so we can work towards resolving it. I help my clients learn and strengthen the skills needed to navigate difficult life experiences more efficiently.
(503) 828-1041 View (503) 828-1041
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Dr. S. Gabe Hatch
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98116
From trauma to communication, every relationship has its challenges including work-related stress, sexual dysfunction, feeling like you’re living with a roommate, or coming to terms with an affair. Using the best available therapies, I offer a safe therapeutic relationship full of empathy and compassion to help heal the pain
From trauma to communication, every relationship has its challenges including work-related stress, sexual dysfunction, feeling like you’re living with a roommate, or coming to terms with an affair. Using the best available therapies, I offer a safe therapeutic relationship full of empathy and compassion to help heal the pain
(380) 333-9590 View (380) 333-9590
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Shannon McCune
Counselor, MEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98116
I work alongside couples who are either in distress or are starting to feel the distance and conflict between them overshadowing the good. So many partnerships and marriages are worn down by stress and conflict around work/life/family balancing, sexual differences, parenting, in-laws, differences in values or beliefs, and all the ways we don’t show up for each other as anticipated. I create a safe place and ample time for you to share what you need, hope for, miss, and crave in your relationship. We will work through hard topics, recurring struggles, and old hurts in ways that will help you each feel seen, heard, and understood.
I work alongside couples who are either in distress or are starting to feel the distance and conflict between them overshadowing the good. So many partnerships and marriages are worn down by stress and conflict around work/life/family balancing, sexual differences, parenting, in-laws, differences in values or beliefs, and all the ways we don’t show up for each other as anticipated. I create a safe place and ample time for you to share what you need, hope for, miss, and crave in your relationship. We will work through hard topics, recurring struggles, and old hurts in ways that will help you each feel seen, heard, and understood.
(360) 345-3952 View (360) 345-3952
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Taylor McCarrey
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98107
The cornerstone of my practice is the belief that actual connection with a real human being will go further than any single psychological theory. My degree is in clinical psychology with an emphasis in applied existentialism, which really just means applied humanity. I am a pragmatist and find mental and emotional health is contingent on meeting everyone where they are, rather than where anyone thinks they "should" be. I take pride in my honesty, compassion, and faith in humanity's ability to overcome. I truly love helping people through hard times, and look forward to helping you however I can.
The cornerstone of my practice is the belief that actual connection with a real human being will go further than any single psychological theory. My degree is in clinical psychology with an emphasis in applied existentialism, which really just means applied humanity. I am a pragmatist and find mental and emotional health is contingent on meeting everyone where they are, rather than where anyone thinks they "should" be. I take pride in my honesty, compassion, and faith in humanity's ability to overcome. I truly love helping people through hard times, and look forward to helping you however I can.
(737) 258-7538 View (737) 258-7538

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Photo of Desirae Dorsey-Medications Depression Adhd Anxiety Weight in Seattle, WA
Desirae Dorsey-Medications Depression Adhd Anxiety Weight
ARNP, MHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004  (Online Only)
New Patients Welcome, offering safe, trusting, affirmative, warm, non-judgmental counseling. Life has its challenges and as a Board-Certified Nurse Practitioner specializing in Mental Health and weight management, I assist my patients in achieving a higher quality of life through Talk therapy, CBT, Motivational interviewing, Boundary setting & meds. I develop relationships built on mutual respect, trust, empathy, authenticity and compassion so that concerns can be worked through together in a safe private space! Mental health medication management certification and weight loss medication (Ozempic/Zepbound) counseling offered too!
New Patients Welcome, offering safe, trusting, affirmative, warm, non-judgmental counseling. Life has its challenges and as a Board-Certified Nurse Practitioner specializing in Mental Health and weight management, I assist my patients in achieving a higher quality of life through Talk therapy, CBT, Motivational interviewing, Boundary setting & meds. I develop relationships built on mutual respect, trust, empathy, authenticity and compassion so that concerns can be worked through together in a safe private space! Mental health medication management certification and weight loss medication (Ozempic/Zepbound) counseling offered too!
(360) 818-7426 View (360) 818-7426
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Sarah Tanner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98006  (Online Only)
Something needs to change, you can feel it! The confusion, loss, and flashes from one emotion to another seem to turn every day upside down. Gratefully, stepping from where you and your loved ones are to where you long to be is so much more possible than you may now realize! Together we can create a better way forward.
Something needs to change, you can feel it! The confusion, loss, and flashes from one emotion to another seem to turn every day upside down. Gratefully, stepping from where you and your loved ones are to where you long to be is so much more possible than you may now realize! Together we can create a better way forward.
(425) 906-1956 View (425) 906-1956
Photo of Bonnie Young, Marriage & Family Therapist in Seattle, WA
Bonnie Young
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98008
Are you feeling stuck in your relationship? Do you feel paralyzed by anxiety and worry? Have you tried to fix things yourself and feel frustrated with the results? I am dedicated to helping clients who are seeking more connection in their marriage and who want to make life more manageable. My typical clients are those who struggle with anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and/or sexual dysfunction. This includes issues of sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, or out-of-control sexual behavior/addiction.
Are you feeling stuck in your relationship? Do you feel paralyzed by anxiety and worry? Have you tried to fix things yourself and feel frustrated with the results? I am dedicated to helping clients who are seeking more connection in their marriage and who want to make life more manageable. My typical clients are those who struggle with anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and/or sexual dysfunction. This includes issues of sexual desire, arousal, orgasm, or out-of-control sexual behavior/addiction.
(425) 243-1832 View (425) 243-1832
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Janette Allred Howarth
Counselor, PhD, LCPC, LMHP
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98004
My professional interests and current training experience are in the area of personality and mood disorders. I have certification in treating psychological trauma and it connection to addiction. It is critical that professionals are trained in handling psychological trauma and addiction brought on by a variety of factors, including mental health factors. I identify the basis of negative emotional reactivity, look at the motivational factors of deviant behavior or impulsive behaviors in general and assist the client in gaining healthy life skills that will help them through their difficulties.
My professional interests and current training experience are in the area of personality and mood disorders. I have certification in treating psychological trauma and it connection to addiction. It is critical that professionals are trained in handling psychological trauma and addiction brought on by a variety of factors, including mental health factors. I identify the basis of negative emotional reactivity, look at the motivational factors of deviant behavior or impulsive behaviors in general and assist the client in gaining healthy life skills that will help them through their difficulties.
(425) 620-3179 View (425) 620-3179
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Azure Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98006
Welcome to Azure Counseling! We are a group of highly trained and compassionate therapists who serve clients in Washington, Utah, and Idaho. Our experience spans working with clients with depression, anxiety, OCD/ religious scrupulosity, relationship distress, divorce, remarriage, life transitions, grief, loss, women's issues, and trauma.
Welcome to Azure Counseling! We are a group of highly trained and compassionate therapists who serve clients in Washington, Utah, and Idaho. Our experience spans working with clients with depression, anxiety, OCD/ religious scrupulosity, relationship distress, divorce, remarriage, life transitions, grief, loss, women's issues, and trauma.
(425) 243-1877 View (425) 243-1877
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Brandon Christensen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98005
As a parent to a struggling teen, you're wondering how you can help them feel better. It seems like you've tried everything, from punishing them to bribing them, but nothing seems to work for long. While things are not great right now, you are starting to see signs that it is getting worse like scars from where they may be cutting themselves, or you think they may be using drugs/alcohol. You've tried to talk to them about this but it quickly turns into an argument. You're hoping you can find someone that can connect with them, help them learn how to get through these difficult years, and also keep you informed along the way.
As a parent to a struggling teen, you're wondering how you can help them feel better. It seems like you've tried everything, from punishing them to bribing them, but nothing seems to work for long. While things are not great right now, you are starting to see signs that it is getting worse like scars from where they may be cutting themselves, or you think they may be using drugs/alcohol. You've tried to talk to them about this but it quickly turns into an argument. You're hoping you can find someone that can connect with them, help them learn how to get through these difficult years, and also keep you informed along the way.
(425) 658-9711 View (425) 658-9711

Online Therapists

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Terri Cole
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98003
I utilize highly effective methods of Person Centered, Child Centered Play, Sandtray, Emotionally Focused, Experiential, Cognitive Behavior, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy.
Welcome to Sound Clarity Counseling! I'll work collaboratively with you to enhance your quality of life by combining insight, neutral support and guidance. You’ll gain relief by developing healthier ways of coping, expanding inner growth and strengthening relational bonds. I work with couples, children, families and individuals from a integrated approach that considers all the experiences, relationships and connections that may be affecting areas you wish to change.
I utilize highly effective methods of Person Centered, Child Centered Play, Sandtray, Emotionally Focused, Experiential, Cognitive Behavior, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy.
Welcome to Sound Clarity Counseling! I'll work collaboratively with you to enhance your quality of life by combining insight, neutral support and guidance. You’ll gain relief by developing healthier ways of coping, expanding inner growth and strengthening relational bonds. I work with couples, children, families and individuals from a integrated approach that considers all the experiences, relationships and connections that may be affecting areas you wish to change.
(253) 243-0741 View (253) 243-0741
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Kaila Duke Peterson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tacoma, WA 98402
Adults/teens/family/couples: Attachment Theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman's Couples Therapy, Gestalt Therapy (Experiential-based), CBT, Narrative therapy.
I work with children ages 5-15, couples, families and individuals from a family systems perspective to address any myriad of concerns. I work collaboratively with my clients, to facilitate a client-led course of treatment based on their own strengths. If you want to strengthen relationships, identify and track potentially harmful behavior or thought patterns, and overall improve and progress in your life and circumstances, I am here to help you do that!
Adults/teens/family/couples: Attachment Theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman's Couples Therapy, Gestalt Therapy (Experiential-based), CBT, Narrative therapy.
I work with children ages 5-15, couples, families and individuals from a family systems perspective to address any myriad of concerns. I work collaboratively with my clients, to facilitate a client-led course of treatment based on their own strengths. If you want to strengthen relationships, identify and track potentially harmful behavior or thought patterns, and overall improve and progress in your life and circumstances, I am here to help you do that!
(253) 843-7538 View (253) 843-7538
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Britney Roark
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Snohomish, WA 98290
I’m influenced by Emotionally Focused Therapy and several other therapeutic models including family systems theory, IFS (internal family systems), and CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy).
Whether you’re in a season of conflict in a relationship or just feeling overwhelmed with the burdens of life, you don’t have to suffer alone. Through counseling, you can make sense of your experiences and gain support as you move toward better days.
I’m influenced by Emotionally Focused Therapy and several other therapeutic models including family systems theory, IFS (internal family systems), and CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy).
Whether you’re in a season of conflict in a relationship or just feeling overwhelmed with the burdens of life, you don’t have to suffer alone. Through counseling, you can make sense of your experiences and gain support as you move toward better days.
(360) 503-0261 View (360) 503-0261
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.