Emotionally Focused Therapists in Keystone, San Antonio, TX

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Esmé Valette
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EdM, EMDR, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
With couples, I use an evidence-based approach called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which draws on attachment theory and the science of emotions.
I strive to create a therapeutic environment where you feel comfortable expressing whatever is on your mind without fear of judgment. I believe that you are the expert in your own healing, and I will work collaboratively with you to identify and reach your treatment goals. I use approaches that have been scientifically researched and found to be effective, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and somatic and mindfulness-based interventions. I will work with you to ensure that you are not in therapy longer than is necessary to reach your treatment goals.
With couples, I use an evidence-based approach called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which draws on attachment theory and the science of emotions.
I strive to create a therapeutic environment where you feel comfortable expressing whatever is on your mind without fear of judgment. I believe that you are the expert in your own healing, and I will work collaboratively with you to identify and reach your treatment goals. I use approaches that have been scientifically researched and found to be effective, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and somatic and mindfulness-based interventions. I will work with you to ensure that you are not in therapy longer than is necessary to reach your treatment goals.
(512) 548-2372 View (512) 548-2372
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Kinder Mind - Texas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LICSW, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Some of our areas of specialty include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), EMDR, ACT, EFT, motivational interviewing, visualization techniques, mindfulness, life coaching, job coaching, anxiety, depression, ADHD, grief, self esteem, couples therapy, family therapy, and more.
Our goal is to help you reach your goals and to get you to see your life from all angles. Many of our providers take the holistic approach and like to examine the mind body connection with those they work with. At the end of the day, it’s all about making you feel better! We will give you helpful coping tools and guide you in the direction of cultivating the life, success, and relationships that you deserve.
Some of our areas of specialty include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), EMDR, ACT, EFT, motivational interviewing, visualization techniques, mindfulness, life coaching, job coaching, anxiety, depression, ADHD, grief, self esteem, couples therapy, family therapy, and more.
Our goal is to help you reach your goals and to get you to see your life from all angles. Many of our providers take the holistic approach and like to examine the mind body connection with those they work with. At the end of the day, it’s all about making you feel better! We will give you helpful coping tools and guide you in the direction of cultivating the life, success, and relationships that you deserve.
(857) 524-3454 View (857) 524-3454
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Wanda Hudson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
I help people turn their scars into beauty marks with the use of EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Parts & Inner Child Work, Mindfulness practices & other Attachment-Based Modalities.
You know that saying “Never judge a book by its cover”? Well, I can honestly say that the cover of my book does not match the pages! The pages in my book of life have equipped me with the experience to connect with ALL people. In my book, I’ve encountered many conflicts. I’ve been the antagonist and the protagonist and I’m just in the rising action. Because my pages are not all filled with butterflies and sunshine, I’ve had to work to find ways to help equip myself with daily coping skills. I am happy to be in a position to share my experience with others through therapy and educational opportunities.
I help people turn their scars into beauty marks with the use of EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Parts & Inner Child Work, Mindfulness practices & other Attachment-Based Modalities.
You know that saying “Never judge a book by its cover”? Well, I can honestly say that the cover of my book does not match the pages! The pages in my book of life have equipped me with the experience to connect with ALL people. In my book, I’ve encountered many conflicts. I’ve been the antagonist and the protagonist and I’m just in the rising action. Because my pages are not all filled with butterflies and sunshine, I’ve had to work to find ways to help equip myself with daily coping skills. I am happy to be in a position to share my experience with others through therapy and educational opportunities.
(972) 433-7695 View (972) 433-7695
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Kerry Adamek
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
I am licensed in Texas with 10 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, family conflicts, & bipolar disorder. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
I am licensed in Texas with 10 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, family conflicts, & bipolar disorder. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
(903) 342-8307 View (903) 342-8307
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Dominique Spigner, LLC ®
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW-S, EMDR-C, ADHD-C, NSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
I know that it is hard on you trying to face it all alone. Life transitions, the ups, and the downs can get the best of us. Do you carry trauma from your past? No matter how much progress you are making towards achieving your goals, you tend to feel stuck and can’t seem to weather the storm. I am here to tell you there is light at the end of the tunnel. Do you have trouble falling or staying asleep due to negative thoughts replaying in your head? Have you been stuck in a funk for a while, having feelings of sadness, withdrawing from family or friends, negative thoughts or feelings? There is support on the other end of your phone.
I know that it is hard on you trying to face it all alone. Life transitions, the ups, and the downs can get the best of us. Do you carry trauma from your past? No matter how much progress you are making towards achieving your goals, you tend to feel stuck and can’t seem to weather the storm. I am here to tell you there is light at the end of the tunnel. Do you have trouble falling or staying asleep due to negative thoughts replaying in your head? Have you been stuck in a funk for a while, having feelings of sadness, withdrawing from family or friends, negative thoughts or feelings? There is support on the other end of your phone.
(903) 205-9219 View (903) 205-9219
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Keadra Benford
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
I provide a safe, confidential, and enabling environment for my clients to overcome or manage life challenges through strength, knowledge, and resilience. I desire to work with my clients to assist in healing from trauma and building self-worth. I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to clients to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. My clients are truly heard, seen, and valued for their individuality.
I provide a safe, confidential, and enabling environment for my clients to overcome or manage life challenges through strength, knowledge, and resilience. I desire to work with my clients to assist in healing from trauma and building self-worth. I offer a highly personalized approach tailored to clients to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. My clients are truly heard, seen, and valued for their individuality.
(346) 220-5787 View (346) 220-5787
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Victoria Reyna
LPC Intern, MS, LPC-A, NCC, CRC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
If you are looking for a warm, secure, and supportive space to embark on your mental health journey, I am confident that we can work together to create it. Each therapeutic relationship is unique and special, and I strive to provide you with a safe and supportive environment where we can build trust and understanding together. During our work together we will take patient steps towards examining your needs and goals while exploring feelings, thoughts, and behaviors that may be standing in the way of progress. This can be a difficult, yet rewarding journey – just know that you don't have to do it alone.
If you are looking for a warm, secure, and supportive space to embark on your mental health journey, I am confident that we can work together to create it. Each therapeutic relationship is unique and special, and I strive to provide you with a safe and supportive environment where we can build trust and understanding together. During our work together we will take patient steps towards examining your needs and goals while exploring feelings, thoughts, and behaviors that may be standing in the way of progress. This can be a difficult, yet rewarding journey – just know that you don't have to do it alone.
(512) 957-4419 View (512) 957-4419
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Dr. Ashley Cherrington
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
Are you exhausted from feeling trapped in an unrelenting cycle of anxiety, constantly battling your own thoughts and emotions? Do you find yourself longing for an escape from the suffocating mental clutter that's holding you back? If you're a dedicated individual ready to take control of your life and steer it toward a more fulfilling direction, then you've arrived at the perfect destination. I'm Dr. Cherrington, and I specialize in helping motivated individuals break free from the grasp of anxiety. At EverTrue Therapy & Wellness, change isn't just a concept; it's our mission.
Are you exhausted from feeling trapped in an unrelenting cycle of anxiety, constantly battling your own thoughts and emotions? Do you find yourself longing for an escape from the suffocating mental clutter that's holding you back? If you're a dedicated individual ready to take control of your life and steer it toward a more fulfilling direction, then you've arrived at the perfect destination. I'm Dr. Cherrington, and I specialize in helping motivated individuals break free from the grasp of anxiety. At EverTrue Therapy & Wellness, change isn't just a concept; it's our mission.
(512) 546-6554 View (512) 546-6554
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Pragmatic Solutions Therapy LLC, Owner-Monica Pina
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NBCC, LPHA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Hello Friend! My name is Monica Pina, owner of Pragmatic Solutions Therapy PLLC, a telehealth practice in TX. I serve adults and teens (15 years and older). I specialize in helping those dealing with anxiety, grief, trauma, depression, mood disorders, adjustment issues, anxiety, life transitions and health-related challenges. I use specific modalities specific to the client such as: Solutions Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive, Biofeedback, Humanistic, Acceptance Commitment therapy and a modified version of EMDR. I welcome ALL who are searching for solutions to address their life issues.
Hello Friend! My name is Monica Pina, owner of Pragmatic Solutions Therapy PLLC, a telehealth practice in TX. I serve adults and teens (15 years and older). I specialize in helping those dealing with anxiety, grief, trauma, depression, mood disorders, adjustment issues, anxiety, life transitions and health-related challenges. I use specific modalities specific to the client such as: Solutions Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive, Biofeedback, Humanistic, Acceptance Commitment therapy and a modified version of EMDR. I welcome ALL who are searching for solutions to address their life issues.
(956) 420-6335 View (956) 420-6335
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Davida Vaughn
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, EdS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Life gets hard. Period. Every person has a unique sort of hard, but it's hard all the same. For some of us, it's a single event that changes the trajectory of our lives. For others of us, it's a series of traumatic experiences, decisions, disappointments, or relationship betrayals that result in emotional distress. A sense that life just isn't what it was (and perhaps never will be again) develops and suddenly, "hard" feels BIGGER. Maybe you're struggling with debilitating anxiety, relationship issues, spirituality concerns, or that thick and lingering cloud of depression. Whatever your hard is, you aren't alone.
Life gets hard. Period. Every person has a unique sort of hard, but it's hard all the same. For some of us, it's a single event that changes the trajectory of our lives. For others of us, it's a series of traumatic experiences, decisions, disappointments, or relationship betrayals that result in emotional distress. A sense that life just isn't what it was (and perhaps never will be again) develops and suddenly, "hard" feels BIGGER. Maybe you're struggling with debilitating anxiety, relationship issues, spirituality concerns, or that thick and lingering cloud of depression. Whatever your hard is, you aren't alone.
(470) 536-1402 View (470) 536-1402
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Ileana Abreu
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Ever feel like life’s a puzzle, but you’re missing a few pieces? You crave to feel happy and at peace, but something keeps coming up. Whether you’re a first gen navigating life, a constant people-pleaser or bravely breaking generational cycles. I get it. You might be wrestling with self-doubt, feeling overwhelmed by others expectations and struggling to say no or put yourself first.. If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. Counseling can be the piece you need, let’s put the pieces together one symptom at a time and rewrite your story
Ever feel like life’s a puzzle, but you’re missing a few pieces? You crave to feel happy and at peace, but something keeps coming up. Whether you’re a first gen navigating life, a constant people-pleaser or bravely breaking generational cycles. I get it. You might be wrestling with self-doubt, feeling overwhelmed by others expectations and struggling to say no or put yourself first.. If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. Counseling can be the piece you need, let’s put the pieces together one symptom at a time and rewrite your story
(469) 772-5043 View (469) 772-5043
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Sandra Simmons
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Choosing a therapist you feel you can work well with is critical to successful treatment. I offer a safe, collaborative, empathic & trusting relational space in which you can explore your issues and concerns without fear of judgment. We will work together to help you develop greater self-understanding, foster close, connected relationships, uncover thought & behavioral patterns that interfere with happiness, master coping skills and achieve the emotional vitality necessary to a healthy, productive and satisfying life.
Choosing a therapist you feel you can work well with is critical to successful treatment. I offer a safe, collaborative, empathic & trusting relational space in which you can explore your issues and concerns without fear of judgment. We will work together to help you develop greater self-understanding, foster close, connected relationships, uncover thought & behavioral patterns that interfere with happiness, master coping skills and achieve the emotional vitality necessary to a healthy, productive and satisfying life.
(210) 880-9104 View (210) 880-9104
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Serenity Total Mind Wellness
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
In life, we reach a point or go through a sudden life change that requires for one to make life adjustments. At times, these life adjustments are due to unexpected circumstances or situations that occur due to a form of trauma, abuse, depression, anxiety, divorce that affect our mental health. This can make one feel hopeless and alone. I can help guide you, help manage, help with teaching you skills that you can apply to these situations daily. I will listen without judgement and apply my expertise and approach that I believe can help you with coping skills and take on these challenges.
In life, we reach a point or go through a sudden life change that requires for one to make life adjustments. At times, these life adjustments are due to unexpected circumstances or situations that occur due to a form of trauma, abuse, depression, anxiety, divorce that affect our mental health. This can make one feel hopeless and alone. I can help guide you, help manage, help with teaching you skills that you can apply to these situations daily. I will listen without judgement and apply my expertise and approach that I believe can help you with coping skills and take on these challenges.
(956) 441-2643 View (956) 441-2643
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Gulf Coast Rehabilitative Services,Inc
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
Our families are the most valuable assets that we have to invest within ourselves. There are many times that our family system becomes disrupted as a result of alcoholism, substance abuse or other traumatic events that leads to a dysfunction. You are not in this alone, our services and approaches are unique since they combine a holistic therapeutic approach to addressing these issues within our relational systems. We might not get back to normal since problems existed but we can become better and that is the ultimate goal of our approach. A new relational family system without systemic problems.
Our families are the most valuable assets that we have to invest within ourselves. There are many times that our family system becomes disrupted as a result of alcoholism, substance abuse or other traumatic events that leads to a dysfunction. You are not in this alone, our services and approaches are unique since they combine a holistic therapeutic approach to addressing these issues within our relational systems. We might not get back to normal since problems existed but we can become better and that is the ultimate goal of our approach. A new relational family system without systemic problems.
(361) 203-8495 View (361) 203-8495
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Stephanie Beckner
Licensed Professional Counselor, JD, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
I work with my clients to create an open and collaborative relationship offering a nonjudgmental, supportive environment for growth and change. I am dedicated to creating a safe therapeutic space to explore vulnerability and discover and ignite client strengths, while expanding self-compassion, connectedness, resiliency, and self-awareness. With empathy and encouragement, I will meet you where you are and guide treatment unique to your individual needs and goals. I use an integrative, evidence-based approach to create positive change, incorporating CBT, DBT, mindfulness, shame-resilience theory, and solution-focused therapy.
I work with my clients to create an open and collaborative relationship offering a nonjudgmental, supportive environment for growth and change. I am dedicated to creating a safe therapeutic space to explore vulnerability and discover and ignite client strengths, while expanding self-compassion, connectedness, resiliency, and self-awareness. With empathy and encouragement, I will meet you where you are and guide treatment unique to your individual needs and goals. I use an integrative, evidence-based approach to create positive change, incorporating CBT, DBT, mindfulness, shame-resilience theory, and solution-focused therapy.
(737) 530-9213 View (737) 530-9213
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Libby Banks
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCDC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
As an autistic person, my treatment is embedded in a philosophy of affirming care that respects neurodiversity and differences. I have an affinity for providing services to LGBTQ+ teens. I work collaboratively to figure out each individual's goals and treatment needs. My clients have often felt misunderstood, unseen, marginalized, or have struggled with substance abuse. In our work together, I seek to provide clients with an experience of repair: if I don't understand, I will clarify and try harder. If I mess up, I will apologize. And I will always do my best to see the person sitting in front of me.
As an autistic person, my treatment is embedded in a philosophy of affirming care that respects neurodiversity and differences. I have an affinity for providing services to LGBTQ+ teens. I work collaboratively to figure out each individual's goals and treatment needs. My clients have often felt misunderstood, unseen, marginalized, or have struggled with substance abuse. In our work together, I seek to provide clients with an experience of repair: if I don't understand, I will clarify and try harder. If I mess up, I will apologize. And I will always do my best to see the person sitting in front of me.
(512) 559-1577 View (512) 559-1577
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Flourish Mental Health
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Through my years as mental health clinician, I have learned that change is not possible in isolation. It would be my privilege to assist in your change/growth process. I offer an eclectic approach to psychotherapy with an extensive background in the treatment of trauma.  My training in Trauma Focused-Cognitive Behavioral therapy and Dr. Bruce Perry's work The Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics has enabled me to specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, PTSD, ADHD and many other diagnosis.
Through my years as mental health clinician, I have learned that change is not possible in isolation. It would be my privilege to assist in your change/growth process. I offer an eclectic approach to psychotherapy with an extensive background in the treatment of trauma.  My training in Trauma Focused-Cognitive Behavioral therapy and Dr. Bruce Perry's work The Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics has enabled me to specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, PTSD, ADHD and many other diagnosis.
(713) 766-6279 View (713) 766-6279
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Ileana Catarina Hinojosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MLA, MAC, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201
Mission Statement: My goal is to support the transition and transformation of the individual in the process of becoming the best version of the self that one can be. Therapy allows you to have a safe place to process issues that can cause discomfort, become distressing, and disrupt your life. Some issues might be overwhelming and too difficult to confront alone. Therapy can help provide the support you need to process uncomfortable feelings and thoughts in a safe and compassionate environment. The goal of therapy is focused on promoting your inner well-being.
Mission Statement: My goal is to support the transition and transformation of the individual in the process of becoming the best version of the self that one can be. Therapy allows you to have a safe place to process issues that can cause discomfort, become distressing, and disrupt your life. Some issues might be overwhelming and too difficult to confront alone. Therapy can help provide the support you need to process uncomfortable feelings and thoughts in a safe and compassionate environment. The goal of therapy is focused on promoting your inner well-being.
(512) 270-6455 View (512) 270-6455
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Tessa Knickerbocker
Licensed Professional Counselor, Tessa K, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
We all have a story that impacts who we are today. Part of your journey to discovery and healing is telling that story. I provide a safe, caring, and non-judgmental environment for my clients to share, explore, and process life's events on their path to growth and healing. No two people are alike and the work we do will reflect that. My approach is a collaborative process that will help guide you, move you forward, and identify obstacles that are keeping you from creating genuine, lasting change. My view of the therapeutic relationship is not limited to just the client but is a holistic picture of the entire family system.
We all have a story that impacts who we are today. Part of your journey to discovery and healing is telling that story. I provide a safe, caring, and non-judgmental environment for my clients to share, explore, and process life's events on their path to growth and healing. No two people are alike and the work we do will reflect that. My approach is a collaborative process that will help guide you, move you forward, and identify obstacles that are keeping you from creating genuine, lasting change. My view of the therapeutic relationship is not limited to just the client but is a holistic picture of the entire family system.
(214) 367-6543 View (214) 367-6543
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Brianna Vazquez
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, LPC-A, ATR-P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Keystone, San Antonio, TX 78201  (Online Only)
Hi there! I am an LPC-A and provisionally credentialed Art Therapist. I am Hispanic and bilingual in English and Spanish. As a therapist, I believe in meeting my clients where they are to establish a good therapeutic relationship in which we can begin to work and grow. Therapy is a safe space for us to work through the challenges of everyday life, as well as deeply rooted issues. Using respect, empathy, humor, and creativity, change can really begin in your life. As an art therapist, I strongly believe in using art wherever possible, as art is our universal language where we can achieve mutual understanding and self-discovery.
Hi there! I am an LPC-A and provisionally credentialed Art Therapist. I am Hispanic and bilingual in English and Spanish. As a therapist, I believe in meeting my clients where they are to establish a good therapeutic relationship in which we can begin to work and grow. Therapy is a safe space for us to work through the challenges of everyday life, as well as deeply rooted issues. Using respect, empathy, humor, and creativity, change can really begin in your life. As an art therapist, I strongly believe in using art wherever possible, as art is our universal language where we can achieve mutual understanding and self-discovery.
(817) 241-3322 View (817) 241-3322

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.