Emotionally Focused Therapists in Montgomery County, PA

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Charles H Blonstein, PhD
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Flourtown, PA 19031
"EMOTIONALLY FOCUSED COUPLES THERAPY" is an evidence-based treatment supported by 3 decades of research; it reflects advances in adult romantic bonding, development of secure relationships, and neuroscience.
I specialize in helping couples and individuals develop "connection" in their marriages and relationships. To illustrate, your partner seems "distant" lately- so you seek reassurance. Instead of providing comfort, he or she "pulls away" in anticipation of triggering an argument. In turn, your insecurity grows yet bigger. Over time, the more one mate seeks "closeness," the more the other "distances." Partners become "stuck" in painful "circles" such as "Pursue-Withdraw." Both are hurt by each others "criticism" or "coldness"- and unintentionally trigger their mates' invisible "raw spots." Even if identified, "vulnerabilities" are difficult to discuss constructively without a "translator" (therapist).
"EMOTIONALLY FOCUSED COUPLES THERAPY" is an evidence-based treatment supported by 3 decades of research; it reflects advances in adult romantic bonding, development of secure relationships, and neuroscience.
I specialize in helping couples and individuals develop "connection" in their marriages and relationships. To illustrate, your partner seems "distant" lately- so you seek reassurance. Instead of providing comfort, he or she "pulls away" in anticipation of triggering an argument. In turn, your insecurity grows yet bigger. Over time, the more one mate seeks "closeness," the more the other "distances." Partners become "stuck" in painful "circles" such as "Pursue-Withdraw." Both are hurt by each others "criticism" or "coldness"- and unintentionally trigger their mates' invisible "raw spots." Even if identified, "vulnerabilities" are difficult to discuss constructively without a "translator" (therapist).
(215) 970-2897 x8 View (215) 970-2897 x8
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Beth Waks
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
My work has been devoted to helping people work through relationship issues. Often clients enter therapy feeling lonely, depressed, or anxious. I hope to help clients feel comfortable with therapy and to begin to learn more about their early experiences, which may have led to negative thoughts and/or difficulty in relationships. I utilize EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples) to help clients understand how their underlying feelings may result in behaviors which contribute to unsatisfying relationships. My ultimate goal is to help clients change negative patterns and find more comfort and closeness in their lives.
My work has been devoted to helping people work through relationship issues. Often clients enter therapy feeling lonely, depressed, or anxious. I hope to help clients feel comfortable with therapy and to begin to learn more about their early experiences, which may have led to negative thoughts and/or difficulty in relationships. I utilize EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples) to help clients understand how their underlying feelings may result in behaviors which contribute to unsatisfying relationships. My ultimate goal is to help clients change negative patterns and find more comfort and closeness in their lives.
(610) 915-8893 View (610) 915-8893
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Shannon Reilly
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Ambler, PA 19002
I have worked in a variety of inpatient and outpatient settings across various age ranges, developmental, and life stages. I have worked with anxiety disorders, mood disorders, personality disorders, victims of trauma, substance abuse, co-occurring substance abuse/mental health diagnoses, relational conflict, bereavement, and other behavioral diagnosis. I use therapeutic modalities, including Narrative therapy, Emotionally focused Therapy, CBT, Person Centered Therapy, systemic therapy, mindfulness and trauma focused techniques. I use an eclectic approach in effort to enable my clients to be their authentic and deepest self.
I have worked in a variety of inpatient and outpatient settings across various age ranges, developmental, and life stages. I have worked with anxiety disorders, mood disorders, personality disorders, victims of trauma, substance abuse, co-occurring substance abuse/mental health diagnoses, relational conflict, bereavement, and other behavioral diagnosis. I use therapeutic modalities, including Narrative therapy, Emotionally focused Therapy, CBT, Person Centered Therapy, systemic therapy, mindfulness and trauma focused techniques. I use an eclectic approach in effort to enable my clients to be their authentic and deepest self.
(215) 709-9282 View (215) 709-9282
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Lesa Drake
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
I use EFT, Cognitive- Behavior Therapy, EMDR, Mindfulness and several other modalities to assist in the healing process.
If you are here, you are ready to heal. Depression and anxiety have made you question your worth. Childhood trauma has made you believe you are not lovable. Your familial and romantic relationships expose the emotional storms you weather that move you to put up walls to keep out pain. You and your partner are constantly fighting, and you no longer feel like a couple. I can help. As a Certified Natural Health Professional, I also assist in teaching others how food choices, herbs, exercise and thoughts influence overall mood.
I use EFT, Cognitive- Behavior Therapy, EMDR, Mindfulness and several other modalities to assist in the healing process.
If you are here, you are ready to heal. Depression and anxiety have made you question your worth. Childhood trauma has made you believe you are not lovable. Your familial and romantic relationships expose the emotional storms you weather that move you to put up walls to keep out pain. You and your partner are constantly fighting, and you no longer feel like a couple. I can help. As a Certified Natural Health Professional, I also assist in teaching others how food choices, herbs, exercise and thoughts influence overall mood.
(484) 214-2535 View (484) 214-2535
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Bri Kern
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abington, PA 19001
Bri is a somatic practitioner providing therapy for adults, specifically those experiencing anxiety/panic, depression, and trauma related issues. The main intervention she uses is NET (Neuro Emotional Technique), along with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), while incorporating mindfulness-based practices. NET is a brief intervention that relieves stress to shift interfering and stuck emotions, reduces intensity of upsetting memories, addresses fears, anxieties and numbness, and helps build self-awareness, contentment, and confidence in the process. (For more information, visit www.mindbodyheartcounseling.com)
Bri is a somatic practitioner providing therapy for adults, specifically those experiencing anxiety/panic, depression, and trauma related issues. The main intervention she uses is NET (Neuro Emotional Technique), along with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), while incorporating mindfulness-based practices. NET is a brief intervention that relieves stress to shift interfering and stuck emotions, reduces intensity of upsetting memories, addresses fears, anxieties and numbness, and helps build self-awareness, contentment, and confidence in the process. (For more information, visit www.mindbodyheartcounseling.com)
(267) 356-4409 View (267) 356-4409
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Daniel Bauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd
Verified Verified
Bala Cynwyd, PA 19004
Why go to therapy? We all want to feel accepted, understood, and loved. I help individuals, couples, and families achieve those goals. I also specialize in teens and young adults struggling with a variety of psychological issues. I utilize a holistic approach that sees everything as being part of a bigger system, and careful thought is given to how different parts of the system affect our lives. Using an integrative approach that incorporates attachment theory, EFT, and CBT, I work with clients to resolve struggles from their past and their present in order to heal and take ownership of their lives.
Why go to therapy? We all want to feel accepted, understood, and loved. I help individuals, couples, and families achieve those goals. I also specialize in teens and young adults struggling with a variety of psychological issues. I utilize a holistic approach that sees everything as being part of a bigger system, and careful thought is given to how different parts of the system affect our lives. Using an integrative approach that incorporates attachment theory, EFT, and CBT, I work with clients to resolve struggles from their past and their present in order to heal and take ownership of their lives.
(347) 801-2955 View (347) 801-2955
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Rebecca McDermott
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Erdenheim, PA 19038
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, an evidence-based approach to support and create lasting change for couples.
You have spent years now wishing that things would be different. Your hope that things would get better once you were done school, the kids were older, you/they got the job, but nothing feels different. You are stuck in cycle, that during it's peak shakes you to your core and makes you question everything. When things feel calmer, you are holding your breath waiting for it to start again. You want to break free of this cycle. You want joy, laughter, love and connection! You already have the answers to make this a reality, maybe you just need a guide.
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, an evidence-based approach to support and create lasting change for couples.
You have spent years now wishing that things would be different. Your hope that things would get better once you were done school, the kids were older, you/they got the job, but nothing feels different. You are stuck in cycle, that during it's peak shakes you to your core and makes you question everything. When things feel calmer, you are holding your breath waiting for it to start again. You want to break free of this cycle. You want joy, laughter, love and connection! You already have the answers to make this a reality, maybe you just need a guide.
(484) 851-9291 View (484) 851-9291
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Nicolle Marie Tagert
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I offer a safe and secure place to learn coping skills, explore feelings or heal childhood wounds especially through my training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and EMDR.
Being human means that life is going to be difficult sometimes. We may need to explore different avenues for change. Current struggles may be due to a major life transition like a job loss, becoming a parent, experiencing empty nest, a death in the family, or a new relationship, or they may be due to current unhealthy dynamics in existing relationships. Sometimes unresolved trauma is at play. Sometimes we just get "stuck in a rut" and can't seem to make any positive changes that would enable us to go in a different direction. Depression and anxiety can be our body's way of telling us that it is time for change.
I offer a safe and secure place to learn coping skills, explore feelings or heal childhood wounds especially through my training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and EMDR.
Being human means that life is going to be difficult sometimes. We may need to explore different avenues for change. Current struggles may be due to a major life transition like a job loss, becoming a parent, experiencing empty nest, a death in the family, or a new relationship, or they may be due to current unhealthy dynamics in existing relationships. Sometimes unresolved trauma is at play. Sometimes we just get "stuck in a rut" and can't seem to make any positive changes that would enable us to go in a different direction. Depression and anxiety can be our body's way of telling us that it is time for change.
(267) 903-7116 View (267) 903-7116
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Ernest R Flores
PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ambler, PA 19002
I have extensive experience counseling married couples through a number of problems such as infidelity, conflict resolution, blended families, impact of early childhood trauma, and other issues. I integrate modern psychological techniques and therapies with Biblical values and concepts. Psychological techniques such as Solutions Focused Brief Therapy, Family Systems, Emotionally Focused, and Trauma Therapy are highly compatible with Biblical teaching. Couples are affirmed in their Biblical beliefs and encouraged to integrate them with modern psychological understandings.
I have extensive experience counseling married couples through a number of problems such as infidelity, conflict resolution, blended families, impact of early childhood trauma, and other issues. I integrate modern psychological techniques and therapies with Biblical values and concepts. Psychological techniques such as Solutions Focused Brief Therapy, Family Systems, Emotionally Focused, and Trauma Therapy are highly compatible with Biblical teaching. Couples are affirmed in their Biblical beliefs and encouraged to integrate them with modern psychological understandings.
(267) 481-7964 View (267) 481-7964
Julia Weimer
Pre-Licensed Professional, BA, MS
Verified Verified
Flourtown, PA 19031
Julia uses Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy/Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) and Play Therapy modalities.
Julia is a Pre-Licensed Professional Counselor and a Play Therapist. She provides individual counseling for children ages three to twelve, using creative and expressive modalities. She specializes in working with children who have experienced trauma and those with ADHD or behavioral issues. Julia’s goal is to provide a safe and positive environment for growth within children and their families.
Julia uses Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy/Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) and Play Therapy modalities.
Julia is a Pre-Licensed Professional Counselor and a Play Therapist. She provides individual counseling for children ages three to twelve, using creative and expressive modalities. She specializes in working with children who have experienced trauma and those with ADHD or behavioral issues. Julia’s goal is to provide a safe and positive environment for growth within children and their families.
(215) 709-7365 View (215) 709-7365
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Valen Brozey
Marriage & Family Therapist, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Huntingdon Valley, PA 19006  (Online Only)
Treatment Modalities: Emotional Focus Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Ecosystemic Structural Family Therapy (ESFT), Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), and Attachment Based Family Therapy (ABFT).
If you are seeking a clinician who is solution oriented, look no further! I have been in the field for nearly 20 years working with individuals and families. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in relationships, anxiety, depression and anger management. My style is collaborative, with a focus on: Finding and highlighting your personal strengths, creating clear goals which have identified items that determine accomplishment, building up your skills to sustain long term success and reinforcing growth while encouraging continued development.
Treatment Modalities: Emotional Focus Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Ecosystemic Structural Family Therapy (ESFT), Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), and Attachment Based Family Therapy (ABFT).
If you are seeking a clinician who is solution oriented, look no further! I have been in the field for nearly 20 years working with individuals and families. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in relationships, anxiety, depression and anger management. My style is collaborative, with a focus on: Finding and highlighting your personal strengths, creating clear goals which have identified items that determine accomplishment, building up your skills to sustain long term success and reinforcing growth while encouraging continued development.
(267) 361-1723 View (267) 361-1723
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Catherine Kaplan, Ph.D., LLC
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lansdale, PA 19446
Are you ready to make a change but not sure how to do it on your own? Whether your relationship is struggling or you are suffering with depressed mood, anxiety, stress, an eating disorder, or ADHD, together, we can develop and implement a plan to help you cope more effectively, feel better, and enjoy your relationships. With a primary focus on Cognitive-Behavioral (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I actively help clients to define problems, develop realistic solutions, and improve their relationships and self-esteem. I work with adults and adolescents in individual and couples therapy. Together, we can create results.
Are you ready to make a change but not sure how to do it on your own? Whether your relationship is struggling or you are suffering with depressed mood, anxiety, stress, an eating disorder, or ADHD, together, we can develop and implement a plan to help you cope more effectively, feel better, and enjoy your relationships. With a primary focus on Cognitive-Behavioral (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I actively help clients to define problems, develop realistic solutions, and improve their relationships and self-esteem. I work with adults and adolescents in individual and couples therapy. Together, we can create results.
(215) 267-3666 View (215) 267-3666
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Thomas J Dwyer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Hatboro, PA 19040  (Online Only)
I primarily utilize principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and Psychodynamic therapy.
I specialize in working with men who struggle with self-esteem, ADHD, motivation issues, social anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and parenting. Some common goals I help clients achieve are to improve interpersonal skills, feel more confident, reduce self-doubt, set goals more effectively, be more action oriented, empathize with others, better understand and communicate their emotional experience, and to learn to love and accept themselves.
I primarily utilize principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and Psychodynamic therapy.
I specialize in working with men who struggle with self-esteem, ADHD, motivation issues, social anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and parenting. Some common goals I help clients achieve are to improve interpersonal skills, feel more confident, reduce self-doubt, set goals more effectively, be more action oriented, empathize with others, better understand and communicate their emotional experience, and to learn to love and accept themselves.
(215) 598-6366 View (215) 598-6366
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Leyla Richards
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Royersford, PA 19468
I work with individuals and couples, using Internal Family Systems ("parts work") and Emotionally Focused Therapy, and lots of humor and real-world considerations.
My ideal client isn't defined by part of their identity as much as it is their circumstances. I consider a lot of social conditioning when working with my individual clients, especially with men's issues and women's issues. I work with couples who may be discussing separation or who are navigating parenthood and new life stages. My goal is always to help my clients access their vulnerability, which is where our most helpful tools hang out, so they can experience pleasant changes outside of the office.
I work with individuals and couples, using Internal Family Systems ("parts work") and Emotionally Focused Therapy, and lots of humor and real-world considerations.
My ideal client isn't defined by part of their identity as much as it is their circumstances. I consider a lot of social conditioning when working with my individual clients, especially with men's issues and women's issues. I work with couples who may be discussing separation or who are navigating parenthood and new life stages. My goal is always to help my clients access their vulnerability, which is where our most helpful tools hang out, so they can experience pleasant changes outside of the office.
(484) 673-6223 View (484) 673-6223
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Nicholas Harris
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Haverford, PA 19041
I have received training at The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and am receiving training at EMDR Consulting.
Often, we lose sight of the unique strengths each one of us possesses. Losing touch with ourselves makes it difficult to navigate depression, anxiety, trauma, or the everyday pressures that lie outside of our control. I believe that we grow toward and heal within connection. I employ an attachment-based approach when exploring the difficulties we experience as humans, as attachment greatly influences how we connect, express our needs, and show up in the world. Whether you are an individual or couple/relationship seeking a new way of being, our time together will be centered around your goals, your needs and your values.
I have received training at The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and am receiving training at EMDR Consulting.
Often, we lose sight of the unique strengths each one of us possesses. Losing touch with ourselves makes it difficult to navigate depression, anxiety, trauma, or the everyday pressures that lie outside of our control. I believe that we grow toward and heal within connection. I employ an attachment-based approach when exploring the difficulties we experience as humans, as attachment greatly influences how we connect, express our needs, and show up in the world. Whether you are an individual or couple/relationship seeking a new way of being, our time together will be centered around your goals, your needs and your values.
(610) 726-0855 View (610) 726-0855
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Council for Relationships
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, CST, AAMFT-A, Supervi
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Blue Bell, PA 19422
Lucy S. Raizman, MSW, LCSW. LMFT, is a licensed Clinical Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT-certified Sex Therapist for the Council for Relationships, a well-respected not-for-profit counseling organization that offers expertise in individual and couple relationship and intimacy issues and offers a sliding fee scale. I am a therapist with more than 20+ years of experience working with individuals and couples in the suburban offices of Blue Bell, Pa. Montgomery County outside Philadelphia, Pa.
Lucy S. Raizman, MSW, LCSW. LMFT, is a licensed Clinical Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT-certified Sex Therapist for the Council for Relationships, a well-respected not-for-profit counseling organization that offers expertise in individual and couple relationship and intimacy issues and offers a sliding fee scale. I am a therapist with more than 20+ years of experience working with individuals and couples in the suburban offices of Blue Bell, Pa. Montgomery County outside Philadelphia, Pa.
(267) 999-9977 x7039 View (267) 999-9977 x7039
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Mary McGloughlin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Collegeville, PA 19426
I have a Masters Degree in Art Therapy, and specialize in Attachment-Based Family Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Play Therapy, Trauma Informed Art Therapy, and Compassionate Self Care.
Welcome! I am an Art Therapist, Play Therapist, and Licensed Professional Counselor that specializes in work with children, adolescents, college students, parents, and families. I provide a safe space to release difficult emotions, look carefully at conflict, and provide tools to enhance family connection and inner wisdom. I use both verbal and non-verbal approaches, because sometimes we don't have the words to express what we are going through and need another way to tell the story.
I have a Masters Degree in Art Therapy, and specialize in Attachment-Based Family Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Play Therapy, Trauma Informed Art Therapy, and Compassionate Self Care.
Welcome! I am an Art Therapist, Play Therapist, and Licensed Professional Counselor that specializes in work with children, adolescents, college students, parents, and families. I provide a safe space to release difficult emotions, look carefully at conflict, and provide tools to enhance family connection and inner wisdom. I use both verbal and non-verbal approaches, because sometimes we don't have the words to express what we are going through and need another way to tell the story.
(215) 515-4535 View (215) 515-4535
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Bernie Epstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Rydal, PA 19046  (Online Only)
In my work, I utilize a number of approaches, including EMDR, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP), Attachment-Based Family Therapy (ABFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Trauma-informed Stabilization Treatment (TIST), and Ecosystemic Family Therapy.
If we often struggle to connect with ourselves and with others, then how can we feel safe, how can we make sense of what's happening inside, how can we make sense of what's happening between us and others? I help people find meaningful ways to effectively communicate and connect with themselves and each other, make sense of their experiences and relationships, and ultimately, find a path toward healing. I believe in the innate drive of every person to move toward health. With acceptance, curiosity, and compassion, I help people slow down, attune to that drive, and support them in moving with it.
In my work, I utilize a number of approaches, including EMDR, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP), Attachment-Based Family Therapy (ABFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Trauma-informed Stabilization Treatment (TIST), and Ecosystemic Family Therapy.
If we often struggle to connect with ourselves and with others, then how can we feel safe, how can we make sense of what's happening inside, how can we make sense of what's happening between us and others? I help people find meaningful ways to effectively communicate and connect with themselves and each other, make sense of their experiences and relationships, and ultimately, find a path toward healing. I believe in the innate drive of every person to move toward health. With acceptance, curiosity, and compassion, I help people slow down, attune to that drive, and support them in moving with it.
(215) 774-6301 View (215) 774-6301
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Frantz Allan Jean-Baptiste
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MFT, TF-CBT, AAMFT
Verified Verified
Harleysville, PA 19438  (Online Only)
I am well versed in many evidence-based therapy modalities such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), structural family therapy, and emotion-focused therapy (EFT) to work with individuals, couples, and families struggling with anger, depression, anxiety, and relationship issues.
Feeling lost, confused, stuck in repetitive patterns that often time leave you with more questions, doubts, and uncertainties? Most of us called it "Life". As a marriage and family therapist, I help clients to reframe these negative experiences into life-altering opportunities where growth, healing, and resiliency can occur. Through co-discovery, we will pursue the awareness and mindset necessary for authentic living. Everyone possesses the innate capability to be happy and form long-lasting, healthy relationships. I assist in fostering the tools necessary for such.
I am well versed in many evidence-based therapy modalities such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), structural family therapy, and emotion-focused therapy (EFT) to work with individuals, couples, and families struggling with anger, depression, anxiety, and relationship issues.
Feeling lost, confused, stuck in repetitive patterns that often time leave you with more questions, doubts, and uncertainties? Most of us called it "Life". As a marriage and family therapist, I help clients to reframe these negative experiences into life-altering opportunities where growth, healing, and resiliency can occur. Through co-discovery, we will pursue the awareness and mindset necessary for authentic living. Everyone possesses the innate capability to be happy and form long-lasting, healthy relationships. I assist in fostering the tools necessary for such.
(215) 709-9193 View (215) 709-9193
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Kala Lilani
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
I work with children, adolescents, adults, seniors, couples/families utilizing CBT, EFT, Psychodynamic Theory and other modalities.
People are confronted with challenges at various times in their life cycle. Despite their best efforts, they may feel stuck, have relational difficulties and experience feelings of confusion, sadness, anxiety, depression, isolation, alienation, anger or other unpleasant emotions.
I work with children, adolescents, adults, seniors, couples/families utilizing CBT, EFT, Psychodynamic Theory and other modalities.
People are confronted with challenges at various times in their life cycle. Despite their best efforts, they may feel stuck, have relational difficulties and experience feelings of confusion, sadness, anxiety, depression, isolation, alienation, anger or other unpleasant emotions.
(484) 324-6786 View (484) 324-6786

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.