Emotionally Focused Therapists in Nassau County, NY
Bassy Schwartz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
An emotionally focused approach will help us navigate the root causes behind the disconnect/conflict you are feeling with your loved ones or the distance you are feeling from your truest self.
Relationships are often the area of our lives where we struggle most. Our new age approach to working through the complexities of all kinds of relationships is key in helping our clients achieve long lasting and deep connections. Whether you are coming for individual work or couples work, together we will evolve from the obstacles you are facing which are preventing you from fostering and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships with the people in your life and with yourself.
An emotionally focused approach will help us navigate the root causes behind the disconnect/conflict you are feeling with your loved ones or the distance you are feeling from your truest self.
Relationships are often the area of our lives where we struggle most. Our new age approach to working through the complexities of all kinds of relationships is key in helping our clients achieve long lasting and deep connections. Whether you are coming for individual work or couples work, together we will evolve from the obstacles you are facing which are preventing you from fostering and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships with the people in your life and with yourself.
Tasnim Rashid
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Westbury, NY 11590 (Online Only)
For couples, I utilize a personalized approach, using principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy to help clients identify their negative patterns and establish trust.
Whether you're navigating life's challenges, seeking clarity, or pursuing personal development, I am here to accompany you on your journey towards greater mental well-being. Take the first step towards positive change today and embark on a path towards a happier, healthier you.I am dedicated to providing compassionate and personalized psychotherapy services tailored to meet your unique needs. With a foundation built on trust, empathy, and confidentiality, I offer a safe space for exploration and growth.
For couples, I utilize a personalized approach, using principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy to help clients identify their negative patterns and establish trust.
Whether you're navigating life's challenges, seeking clarity, or pursuing personal development, I am here to accompany you on your journey towards greater mental well-being. Take the first step towards positive change today and embark on a path towards a happier, healthier you.I am dedicated to providing compassionate and personalized psychotherapy services tailored to meet your unique needs. With a foundation built on trust, empathy, and confidentiality, I offer a safe space for exploration and growth.
Natalie R Gross
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lawrence, NY 11559
In addition, I utilize different modalities to suit the needs of my clients including CBT, DBT, IFS, EFT and EMDR.
My clients come to me with a history of family issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, marital and relationship conflicts. They want to learn coping skills to help them reduce anxiety and depression, improve interpersonal relationships, strengthen self-esteem, accept life situations, develop perspective, all while having compassion for themselves and others.
In addition, I utilize different modalities to suit the needs of my clients including CBT, DBT, IFS, EFT and EMDR.
My clients come to me with a history of family issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, low self-esteem, marital and relationship conflicts. They want to learn coping skills to help them reduce anxiety and depression, improve interpersonal relationships, strengthen self-esteem, accept life situations, develop perspective, all while having compassion for themselves and others.
Daniella Tiranno At Nassau Psychology Pc
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Rockville Centre, NY 11570 (Online Only)
She brings an eclectic approach to treatment and utilizes multiple theoretical orientations including DBT, CBT, EFT, ACT, Narrative, and Psychodynamic.
Book an appointment online via our website nassaupsychology.org! Daniella has been providing therapy to clients for six years. She graduated in 2017 from Stony Brook University with her master’s in Social Work and a specialization in helping individuals who have experienced various forms of trauma. She has experience working with people from all walks of life including children, adults, victims of domestic violence, and those suffering from serious mental illness. She has previously worked at outpatient facilities as well as non-profit agencies.
She brings an eclectic approach to treatment and utilizes multiple theoretical orientations including DBT, CBT, EFT, ACT, Narrative, and Psychodynamic.
Book an appointment online via our website nassaupsychology.org! Daniella has been providing therapy to clients for six years. She graduated in 2017 from Stony Brook University with her master’s in Social Work and a specialization in helping individuals who have experienced various forms of trauma. She has experience working with people from all walks of life including children, adults, victims of domestic violence, and those suffering from serious mental illness. She has previously worked at outpatient facilities as well as non-profit agencies.
Marisa T. Cohen
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Floral Park, NY 11001 (Online Only)
I am also a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator and have completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the EFT Externship.
Therapy offers a safe place for exploration and a greater depth of understanding of both yourself and your relationships. It is also an avenue to enhance social connections, and a way to set goals and chart a path to achieve them. I work with clients to address any obstacles they may be facing and in helping them to enact a plan to achieve their desired outcomes. This partnership is different from person to person, because it’s about identifying any stumbling blocks clients may be facing and working through them. I value approaching people from a place of curiosity, empathetic understanding, and use a collaborative approach.
I am also a certified Prepare Enrich facilitator and have completed Level 1 and Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the EFT Externship.
Therapy offers a safe place for exploration and a greater depth of understanding of both yourself and your relationships. It is also an avenue to enhance social connections, and a way to set goals and chart a path to achieve them. I work with clients to address any obstacles they may be facing and in helping them to enact a plan to achieve their desired outcomes. This partnership is different from person to person, because it’s about identifying any stumbling blocks clients may be facing and working through them. I value approaching people from a place of curiosity, empathetic understanding, and use a collaborative approach.
Janet Steiner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hewlett, NY 11557
Life can be stressful and challenging at times. Sometimes we need the guidance, empathy and support of a skilled therapist to help us through difficult times. I am a warm, dynamic and seasoned individual, family and couples therapist trained at the Ackerman Institute. My goal is to help my clients identify feelings, thoughts or behaviors which may affect their interpersonal relationships, self esteem or personal goals. I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples which helps identify negative patterns and creates greater trust, understanding and intimacy.
Life can be stressful and challenging at times. Sometimes we need the guidance, empathy and support of a skilled therapist to help us through difficult times. I am a warm, dynamic and seasoned individual, family and couples therapist trained at the Ackerman Institute. My goal is to help my clients identify feelings, thoughts or behaviors which may affect their interpersonal relationships, self esteem or personal goals. I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples which helps identify negative patterns and creates greater trust, understanding and intimacy.
Marlene L Levy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, DAAPM, CCBT
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
Private practice 30 + years.. Anxiety, Depression, pain management , weight issues and marriage and family issues. I use Clinical Hypnosis along with psychotherapy. CBT, EFT, are among the various treatments designed for each patient individually.. *Clinical hypnosis is used when appropriate producing the most positive treatment results! I look forward to helping you, as I have helped so many over the years. President of the New York Society of Clinical Hypnosis [NYSCH.ORG], Consultant: ASCH, Diplomate :DAAPM Diplomate The American Academy of Pain Management; CCBT-Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapist.
Private practice 30 + years.. Anxiety, Depression, pain management , weight issues and marriage and family issues. I use Clinical Hypnosis along with psychotherapy. CBT, EFT, are among the various treatments designed for each patient individually.. *Clinical hypnosis is used when appropriate producing the most positive treatment results! I look forward to helping you, as I have helped so many over the years. President of the New York Society of Clinical Hypnosis [NYSCH.ORG], Consultant: ASCH, Diplomate :DAAPM Diplomate The American Academy of Pain Management; CCBT-Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapist.
Masha (Maria) Leder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCATP, CIMHP
Verified Verified
Woodbury, NY 11797
I use a mix of modalities such as psychodynamic psychotherapy, behavioral therapy (CBT), art therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), NVC (Non-violent communication) and DBT.
I am here to give you a deeper sense of self and the tools to get where you wish to be. If you are in a dark place, on a life crossroads or grieving a loss of a loved one - please knock on my door and I will help you process your feelings and recognize your needs, after which we will start creating a new life for you! Together we will deal with depressed moods, anxiety (I will share an extensive anxiety tool box with you!) and stress. With me you will feel SEEN, gotten and cared for. You will feel empowered to go on, make life choices and handle everyday stress. You will feel supported. You can start creating new reality today!
I use a mix of modalities such as psychodynamic psychotherapy, behavioral therapy (CBT), art therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), NVC (Non-violent communication) and DBT.
I am here to give you a deeper sense of self and the tools to get where you wish to be. If you are in a dark place, on a life crossroads or grieving a loss of a loved one - please knock on my door and I will help you process your feelings and recognize your needs, after which we will start creating a new life for you! Together we will deal with depressed moods, anxiety (I will share an extensive anxiety tool box with you!) and stress. With me you will feel SEEN, gotten and cared for. You will feel empowered to go on, make life choices and handle everyday stress. You will feel supported. You can start creating new reality today!
Carline M Napolitano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, R, BCD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Syosset, NY 11791
Waitlist for new clients
Using emotionally focused treatment, I help people clarify needs, develop improved coping strategies and heal from conditions such as anxiety, depression, and chronic illness.
There is no need to face some of life's challenges alone. The mission of my practice is to offer individuals, couples and families, a safe place to explore all of life's possibilities.
Using emotionally focused treatment, I help people clarify needs, develop improved coping strategies and heal from conditions such as anxiety, depression, and chronic illness.
There is no need to face some of life's challenges alone. The mission of my practice is to offer individuals, couples and families, a safe place to explore all of life's possibilities.
Annmarie B Boyle
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Merrick, NY 11566 (Online Only)
I work with couples to overcome infidelity, persistent conflict, and other relationship issues. I work with individuals to challenge negative thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that create patterns that keep them stuck. My approach is emotionally focused and attachment-based, to help clients gain insight and resume positive progress in their lives. See my profile at helloalma.com/providers/annmarie-boyle/ and request a free 15-minute consultation. I accept many insurance plans. Visit me at helloalma.com and let change start today.
I work with couples to overcome infidelity, persistent conflict, and other relationship issues. I work with individuals to challenge negative thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that create patterns that keep them stuck. My approach is emotionally focused and attachment-based, to help clients gain insight and resume positive progress in their lives. See my profile at helloalma.com/providers/annmarie-boyle/ and request a free 15-minute consultation. I accept many insurance plans. Visit me at helloalma.com and let change start today.
David Mark
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
Given my certifications in the Gottman method and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) I am trained in helping couples build and rebuild friendship and intimacy, manage conflict better and create increased shared meaning. Research indicates that secure attachment and emotionally fulfilling relationships are integral components of mental and physical health, and that emotionally focused interventions have the power to establish and recreate supportive bonds among individuals. I am therefore dedicated to the understanding of individual health and dysfunction in the context of relationship with others and the enhancement of couple and family
Given my certifications in the Gottman method and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) I am trained in helping couples build and rebuild friendship and intimacy, manage conflict better and create increased shared meaning. Research indicates that secure attachment and emotionally fulfilling relationships are integral components of mental and physical health, and that emotionally focused interventions have the power to establish and recreate supportive bonds among individuals. I am therefore dedicated to the understanding of individual health and dysfunction in the context of relationship with others and the enhancement of couple and family
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
I use EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) which is a wonderful model of therapy.
Is your relationship not where it used to be? Or where you want it to be? Do you sometimes feel so disconnected and distant that you wonder how did we get to this place? Perhaps there has been a betrayal or deep hurt. Perhaps there has been a lot of stress or outside distractions and within all that you found yourselves alone and distant. Do you find yourselves rehashing the same arguments and not sure how to get out of this crazy making cycle? You want to feel connected again and strengthen your relationship. I can help you rediscover and build on the connection you once had. Actually, it can be stronger than what you once had.
I use EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) which is a wonderful model of therapy.
Is your relationship not where it used to be? Or where you want it to be? Do you sometimes feel so disconnected and distant that you wonder how did we get to this place? Perhaps there has been a betrayal or deep hurt. Perhaps there has been a lot of stress or outside distractions and within all that you found yourselves alone and distant. Do you find yourselves rehashing the same arguments and not sure how to get out of this crazy making cycle? You want to feel connected again and strengthen your relationship. I can help you rediscover and build on the connection you once had. Actually, it can be stronger than what you once had.
Yehuda Septimus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Lawrence, NY 11559
I’ve also had intensive training in EMDR, Sensorimotor, and Emotionally Focused therapies, and I have studied with world experts in the integration of these and other modalities to treat trauma and other complex life challenges.
Congratulations! You’ve made the courageous decision to search for something new. My approach to psychotherapy is experiential and relational. I believe that we hold within us everything we need for recovery and expansion and that a genuine and non-judgmental therapeutic relationship offers the context for healing, exploration, and growth. My clients describe feeling gotten and empowered by me. Psychotherapy with me is like traditional talking therapy. And also quite different. We won’t just talk about the bad experiences you’ve had. We’ll also cultivate new ones and help you consolidate the "new you" that will slowly emerge.
I’ve also had intensive training in EMDR, Sensorimotor, and Emotionally Focused therapies, and I have studied with world experts in the integration of these and other modalities to treat trauma and other complex life challenges.
Congratulations! You’ve made the courageous decision to search for something new. My approach to psychotherapy is experiential and relational. I believe that we hold within us everything we need for recovery and expansion and that a genuine and non-judgmental therapeutic relationship offers the context for healing, exploration, and growth. My clients describe feeling gotten and empowered by me. Psychotherapy with me is like traditional talking therapy. And also quite different. We won’t just talk about the bad experiences you’ve had. We’ll also cultivate new ones and help you consolidate the "new you" that will slowly emerge.
Zalman Nelson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050 (Online Only)
Hello, Looking for a therapist? That takes courage and you clearly have it. With over 14 years of experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in Addiction Counseling. I've worked globally, helping clients with ADHD, Adolescent, Adoption Issues, and more, using CBT, Emotionally Focused, and Mindfulness-based Therapies. I'm in-network with various insurances and excel in Couples Counseling, Depression, Divorce, and Drug related concerns. I'm adept at addressing Family Conflict, Highly Sensitive traits, and even offer support for fellow Therapists. Let's take this transformative journey together.
Hello, Looking for a therapist? That takes courage and you clearly have it. With over 14 years of experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in Addiction Counseling. I've worked globally, helping clients with ADHD, Adolescent, Adoption Issues, and more, using CBT, Emotionally Focused, and Mindfulness-based Therapies. I'm in-network with various insurances and excel in Couples Counseling, Depression, Divorce, and Drug related concerns. I'm adept at addressing Family Conflict, Highly Sensitive traits, and even offer support for fellow Therapists. Let's take this transformative journey together.
Crystal McCrorey
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
Floral Park, NY 11001 (Online Only)
I utilize the modalities of Solution Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, CBT, Gottman Couples Therapy, and EFT.
Hello There! I am Crystal, Marriage and Family Therapist- LP. I believe in the importance of creating a safe space for you to release and process. It is here that you will confront limiting beliefs and begin to create the new life that you want to live. I came to the field of therapy after beginning my own self healing journey and I believe that you have the power to create real and lasting change in your own life. In a session with me, you will experience a listening ear, empathy, warm smiles, as well as thought- provoking questions that will empower you to see past your past and current circumstances into a brighter future.
I utilize the modalities of Solution Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, CBT, Gottman Couples Therapy, and EFT.
Hello There! I am Crystal, Marriage and Family Therapist- LP. I believe in the importance of creating a safe space for you to release and process. It is here that you will confront limiting beliefs and begin to create the new life that you want to live. I came to the field of therapy after beginning my own self healing journey and I believe that you have the power to create real and lasting change in your own life. In a session with me, you will experience a listening ear, empathy, warm smiles, as well as thought- provoking questions that will empower you to see past your past and current circumstances into a brighter future.
Dvorah Levy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Couple therapy.
Our strongest reactions have roots in the past. We can't change difficult situations of the past but we can work together to understand how you have been impacted and work through challenges in the present. My goal is to work with you to uncover your true potential and innate healing. By applying complementary therapeutic approaches and techniques, in a warm and supportive environment, we will unearth long-standing behavior patterns and/or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing healthier relationships and a happier, more fulfilling life today.
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Couple therapy.
Our strongest reactions have roots in the past. We can't change difficult situations of the past but we can work together to understand how you have been impacted and work through challenges in the present. My goal is to work with you to uncover your true potential and innate healing. By applying complementary therapeutic approaches and techniques, in a warm and supportive environment, we will unearth long-standing behavior patterns and/or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing healthier relationships and a happier, more fulfilling life today.
Modern Therapy New York
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSW, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manhasset, NY 11030
I treat individual and couples issues, relationship and sexual concerns, anxiety, trauma, stress management, women's issues, and career uncertainty, Kirsten has been trained in CBT, EMDR and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
You deserve a life that feels good. We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns. Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that's not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and silence it until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how hurt we are.The more we aren't seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates.— It doesn't have to be this way.
I treat individual and couples issues, relationship and sexual concerns, anxiety, trauma, stress management, women's issues, and career uncertainty, Kirsten has been trained in CBT, EMDR and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
You deserve a life that feels good. We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns. Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that's not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and silence it until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how hurt we are.The more we aren't seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates.— It doesn't have to be this way.
Rachel Moheban-Wachtel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Manhasset, NY 11030
I am certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Imago Relationship Therapy.
If you and your partner are having the same fight over and over again, I specialize in helping couples stop their negative cycle and create healthier dynamics in their relationship. I am interactive with a box of tools and experience ready for people who are motivated to change their relationship. Whether you are tired of feeling stuck with your partner or having difficulty picking up the pieces from infidelity, I'm honored to begin your journey and helping you through the therapeutic process.
I am certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Imago Relationship Therapy.
If you and your partner are having the same fight over and over again, I specialize in helping couples stop their negative cycle and create healthier dynamics in their relationship. I am interactive with a box of tools and experience ready for people who are motivated to change their relationship. Whether you are tired of feeling stuck with your partner or having difficulty picking up the pieces from infidelity, I'm honored to begin your journey and helping you through the therapeutic process.
Heather Grey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAT, ATR-BC, ATCS
Verified Verified
Woodmere, NY 11598
Trained in IFS and EFT, I help individuals and couples heal and repair past emotional injuries that keep them stuck in frustrating patterns of interactions, and achieve intimacy in their relationships.
I view psychotherapy as a deeply personal process, one that is transformative. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help; finding the right therapist is crucial to your success. To achieve success, one must be supported by people they trust, find their life’s purpose, access suppressed passions, and appreciate the wisdom that can only be informed through past failures. Trust, respect, acceptance, mutuality, and empathy are foundational. My role is to assist you develop greater insight and self-awareness, feel heard, validated, and witnessed so that you can be your most authentic self.
Trained in IFS and EFT, I help individuals and couples heal and repair past emotional injuries that keep them stuck in frustrating patterns of interactions, and achieve intimacy in their relationships.
I view psychotherapy as a deeply personal process, one that is transformative. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help; finding the right therapist is crucial to your success. To achieve success, one must be supported by people they trust, find their life’s purpose, access suppressed passions, and appreciate the wisdom that can only be informed through past failures. Trust, respect, acceptance, mutuality, and empathy are foundational. My role is to assist you develop greater insight and self-awareness, feel heard, validated, and witnessed so that you can be your most authentic self.
Sari Kutch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Great Neck, NY 11024 (Online Only)
Using techniques from EFT, EMDR, FLASH, IFS, and Polyvagal Theory, I'll guide you to form a deeper understanding and self-partnership with your emotions.
You're trapped in a relentless cycle that stops you from engaging with the world. Unseen threats keep you tense. Some days, a fog of uncertainty, persistent buzzing, and internal chatter overwhelm you. On others, feelings of detachment render you invisible, even among loved ones, even to yourself. Confusion, self-doubt, and worthlessness weave narratives about yourself and the world that are hard to shake. Beneath is a yearning for clarity, connection, confidence, calm, and safety, likely the reason you are here. This emotional seesaw, a reaction to stress, leads to states often mislabeled as anxiety, depression, PTSD, or addiction.
Using techniques from EFT, EMDR, FLASH, IFS, and Polyvagal Theory, I'll guide you to form a deeper understanding and self-partnership with your emotions.
You're trapped in a relentless cycle that stops you from engaging with the world. Unseen threats keep you tense. Some days, a fog of uncertainty, persistent buzzing, and internal chatter overwhelm you. On others, feelings of detachment render you invisible, even among loved ones, even to yourself. Confusion, self-doubt, and worthlessness weave narratives about yourself and the world that are hard to shake. Beneath is a yearning for clarity, connection, confidence, calm, and safety, likely the reason you are here. This emotional seesaw, a reaction to stress, leads to states often mislabeled as anxiety, depression, PTSD, or addiction.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.