Emotionally Focused Therapists in Clay, NY

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Sara Poquette
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Clay, NY 13041  (Online Only)
My combined approach of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy is tailored to meet the unique needs of each client I work with. I welcome clients that are willing to make the changes needed to improve upon their mental health, making adjustments to improve their well-being and functionality.
My combined approach of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy is tailored to meet the unique needs of each client I work with. I welcome clients that are willing to make the changes needed to improve upon their mental health, making adjustments to improve their well-being and functionality.
(680) 208-3490 View (680) 208-3490
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Dr. Alex J Hinnebusch
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Clay, NY 13041
I aim to provide an authentic relationship experience to clients who are looking to address their mental health concerns and improve their quality of life. I strive to always be honest and genuine in my relationships with my clients, while encouraging those that I work with to enact the change in their lives that they are seeking. Treatment is personalized to each patient’s unique needs, drawing on my prior training and expertise in a variety of therapeutic orientations. I seek to provide a relationship in which you can learn more about yourself, and challenge previous assumptions and experiences.
I aim to provide an authentic relationship experience to clients who are looking to address their mental health concerns and improve their quality of life. I strive to always be honest and genuine in my relationships with my clients, while encouraging those that I work with to enact the change in their lives that they are seeking. Treatment is personalized to each patient’s unique needs, drawing on my prior training and expertise in a variety of therapeutic orientations. I seek to provide a relationship in which you can learn more about yourself, and challenge previous assumptions and experiences.
(680) 204-4382 View (680) 204-4382
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Nancy A Radecki
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Clay, NY 13041  (Online Only)
Find peace and balance in your world. Learn to understand your internal landscape and make sense of your external life. Gain clarity and guide your journey toward new directions. Creatively find your healing truth. I offer a collaborative, results driven, and wholistic approach to wellness. Improve self care and self love, emotional regulation, communication skills, and relationships. Proactive, proven, and interactive evidence based therapies practiced. Respectful, non-judgmental, confidential sessions. LGBTQ+ and alternative lifestyles welcomed. Over 25 years of experience. Teletherapy only. Visit: www.threeriverstherapylcsw.com.
Find peace and balance in your world. Learn to understand your internal landscape and make sense of your external life. Gain clarity and guide your journey toward new directions. Creatively find your healing truth. I offer a collaborative, results driven, and wholistic approach to wellness. Improve self care and self love, emotional regulation, communication skills, and relationships. Proactive, proven, and interactive evidence based therapies practiced. Respectful, non-judgmental, confidential sessions. LGBTQ+ and alternative lifestyles welcomed. Over 25 years of experience. Teletherapy only. Visit: www.threeriverstherapylcsw.com.
(315) 370-4348 View (315) 370-4348
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Wenling Riehle
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clay, NY 13041  (Online Only)
Welcome to Maitri Flow Counseling, where we believe that everyone deserves and desires Maitri, or loving kindness, in their lives. Through our collaborative counseling journey, our goal is to help you discover and nurture a sense of loving kindness and self-acceptance within yourself. Maitri encompasses the willingness to embrace each moment as it unfolds, allowing our experiences to be exactly as they are. Life, much like a river, can sometimes be turbulent. Together, we will learn to navigate the currents without resistance, using mindfulness and purpose to shape who you want to become and where you wish to go.
Welcome to Maitri Flow Counseling, where we believe that everyone deserves and desires Maitri, or loving kindness, in their lives. Through our collaborative counseling journey, our goal is to help you discover and nurture a sense of loving kindness and self-acceptance within yourself. Maitri encompasses the willingness to embrace each moment as it unfolds, allowing our experiences to be exactly as they are. Life, much like a river, can sometimes be turbulent. Together, we will learn to navigate the currents without resistance, using mindfulness and purpose to shape who you want to become and where you wish to go.
(315) 669-3565 View (315) 669-3565
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Yvonne Law-Stokes
Counselor, LMHC, NCC, CCPT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clay, NY 13041
Are you having a tough time organizing your thoughts and emotions as you face a new chapter in your life? Perhaps you are having conflicting thoughts, or are feeling stuck in some way. As your counselor, I will work with you in figuring out how to navigate overwhelming situations as well as fine tune your toolbox of resources, coping strategies, and supports. Together we can work toward deepening your sense of SELF and realigning you with the person you want to be in this world.
Are you having a tough time organizing your thoughts and emotions as you face a new chapter in your life? Perhaps you are having conflicting thoughts, or are feeling stuck in some way. As your counselor, I will work with you in figuring out how to navigate overwhelming situations as well as fine tune your toolbox of resources, coping strategies, and supports. Together we can work toward deepening your sense of SELF and realigning you with the person you want to be in this world.
(315) 888-4042 View (315) 888-4042

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Jennifer Wainman-Sauda
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified Verified
Baldwinsville, NY 13027
The Family Center offers unique therapies that are proven effective such as: family play therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS) approach, hand in hand parenting, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and child play therapy.
Welcome to The Family Center. We provide therapy services to individuals, couples, families, and children. We can help you work on any presenting problem such as anxiety, depression, anger, grief, or relationship conflict. We specialize in helping families who have children with ADHD, anxiety, behavioral, and Autism Spectrum Disorders including PDA (Pathological Demand Aviodance). We believe in helping you live fully; happy with yourself, and connected with your partner, child, and family. We currently have 10 skilled licensed therapists on staff.
The Family Center offers unique therapies that are proven effective such as: family play therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS) approach, hand in hand parenting, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and child play therapy.
Welcome to The Family Center. We provide therapy services to individuals, couples, families, and children. We can help you work on any presenting problem such as anxiety, depression, anger, grief, or relationship conflict. We specialize in helping families who have children with ADHD, anxiety, behavioral, and Autism Spectrum Disorders including PDA (Pathological Demand Aviodance). We believe in helping you live fully; happy with yourself, and connected with your partner, child, and family. We currently have 10 skilled licensed therapists on staff.
(315) 496-1357 View (315) 496-1357
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Bonnie Dekin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baldwinsville, NY 13027  (Online Only)
My specialties include certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Clinical Hypnosis.
Now accepting new clients! Welcome! Let's collaborate and discover new potential and new strategies for life. Whether you are having feelings of anxiety, sadness, fears and worries, couple or family relationship issues I am here to help. I have advanced training to help you and your partner heal and reconnect. In addition, I offer clinical Emotionally Focused Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy. I work from an integrative/systemic perspective while considering Attachment Theory as it relates to all aspects of being human. I consider your unique perspectives and culture as we work together to help you heal.
My specialties include certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Clinical Hypnosis.
Now accepting new clients! Welcome! Let's collaborate and discover new potential and new strategies for life. Whether you are having feelings of anxiety, sadness, fears and worries, couple or family relationship issues I am here to help. I have advanced training to help you and your partner heal and reconnect. In addition, I offer clinical Emotionally Focused Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy. I work from an integrative/systemic perspective while considering Attachment Theory as it relates to all aspects of being human. I consider your unique perspectives and culture as we work together to help you heal.
(315) 757-3580 View (315) 757-3580
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Anahata Mental Health Counseling, PLLC
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cicero, NY 13039
Waitlist for new clients
Gottman training and EFT for couples.
I love working with high performing and Motivated clients/couples with trauma who use therapy as an avenue for healing. I'm a holistic therapist that has a balance between being client centered and personally guiding the individual towards self. I enjoy helping clients explore relationship patterns that are no longer serving them. Working with children and adolescents, I include the entire family. I have experience with kids and teens. This work requires commitment and motivation to change current patterns of thought, emotion, and behavior. I believe accountability is paramount to change I provide a safe space.
Gottman training and EFT for couples.
I love working with high performing and Motivated clients/couples with trauma who use therapy as an avenue for healing. I'm a holistic therapist that has a balance between being client centered and personally guiding the individual towards self. I enjoy helping clients explore relationship patterns that are no longer serving them. Working with children and adolescents, I include the entire family. I have experience with kids and teens. This work requires commitment and motivation to change current patterns of thought, emotion, and behavior. I believe accountability is paramount to change I provide a safe space.
(315) 288-7087 View (315) 288-7087
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Dr. Jennifer Coppola
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13210  (Online Only)
I am an affirmative therapist who provides family, couple, and individual therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I work towards providing emotionally focused and culturally sensitive interventions. I have specialty training in supporting the LGBQ, transgender, and gender diverse/expansive communities. I also specialize in couples therapy, using my published theory of couples therapy but also tailoring my approach to be client driven. Through teletherapy I work with couples and families across New York State. I provide superbills for out of network benefits.
I am an affirmative therapist who provides family, couple, and individual therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I work towards providing emotionally focused and culturally sensitive interventions. I have specialty training in supporting the LGBQ, transgender, and gender diverse/expansive communities. I also specialize in couples therapy, using my published theory of couples therapy but also tailoring my approach to be client driven. Through teletherapy I work with couples and families across New York State. I provide superbills for out of network benefits.
(315) 366-4855 View (315) 366-4855
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Angelica Garcia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13206  (Online Only)
For both individual and couple's counseling, I offer Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, a Trauma-Informed approach, and empathy.
Our vision is to provide guidance, support, encouragement, and tools that will allow your own empowerment as you take active steps toward steady progress. We assist you with addressing mental health goals, including working toward recovery in improved health and wellness. At Together Therapy our goal is to be there for you every step of the way as you achieve healthy overall mental wellness.
For both individual and couple's counseling, I offer Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, a Trauma-Informed approach, and empathy.
Our vision is to provide guidance, support, encouragement, and tools that will allow your own empowerment as you take active steps toward steady progress. We assist you with addressing mental health goals, including working toward recovery in improved health and wellness. At Together Therapy our goal is to be there for you every step of the way as you achieve healthy overall mental wellness.
(315) 758-3407 View (315) 758-3407
Photo of Abby Nordquist, Marriage & Family Therapist in Clay, NY
Abby Nordquist
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13210
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and specialize in helping couples increase connection, communicate more deeply and effectively, and create a relationship that is full of intimacy, closeness, security, and joy.
A happy and secure marriage is wonderful, and can be tough to maintain. Keeping your relationship solid during a really difficult season in life is even harder. So many couples struggle to stay connected when they're going through something difficult: trying to have a baby, adjusting to parenthood, job changes, financial stressors, grief, or health issues. Other couples find themselves simply drifting apart: they're not sure when things changed, but one day they looked up and realized their communication sucks and they barely spend time together. And when this happens, so many couples don't know what to do or how to reconnect.
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and specialize in helping couples increase connection, communicate more deeply and effectively, and create a relationship that is full of intimacy, closeness, security, and joy.
A happy and secure marriage is wonderful, and can be tough to maintain. Keeping your relationship solid during a really difficult season in life is even harder. So many couples struggle to stay connected when they're going through something difficult: trying to have a baby, adjusting to parenthood, job changes, financial stressors, grief, or health issues. Other couples find themselves simply drifting apart: they're not sure when things changed, but one day they looked up and realized their communication sucks and they barely spend time together. And when this happens, so many couples don't know what to do or how to reconnect.
(315) 993-6173 View (315) 993-6173
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Jill Weldum
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CCPT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
East Syracuse, NY 13057
I will bring to our time the specialized training I have in EFT, Gottman methods, IFS and Discernment and over 25 years of couples therapy experience.
Is your relationship in trouble? Do you want to be better understood and better understand your partner, but don't know how? Have the ups and downs of life caused conflict or distance between you? Are the stresses of day to day life taking their toll on your family's relationship? Are you and/or your children going through divorce or loss? Everyone needs help sometimes- we are hard-wired to need connection. When we are feeling isolated or unseen, our day to day life feels emptier and our mental and physical health pay the price.
I will bring to our time the specialized training I have in EFT, Gottman methods, IFS and Discernment and over 25 years of couples therapy experience.
Is your relationship in trouble? Do you want to be better understood and better understand your partner, but don't know how? Have the ups and downs of life caused conflict or distance between you? Are the stresses of day to day life taking their toll on your family's relationship? Are you and/or your children going through divorce or loss? Everyone needs help sometimes- we are hard-wired to need connection. When we are feeling isolated or unseen, our day to day life feels emptier and our mental and physical health pay the price.
(315) 670-4379 View (315) 670-4379
Photo of Eunice Robey, Pre-Licensed Professional in Clay, NY
Eunice Robey
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13203  (Online Only)
We will often use therapeutic interventions such as CBT and EFT.
I focus on working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, or past traumas, as well as couples dealing with relationship challenges. I provide validation and support, coping strategies, and emotional regulation skills for individual therapy. I help my clients find symptom relief, improved functionality, increased resilience, and personal growth. I strive to help clients improve communication, restore trust, enhance emotional intimacy, and seek a healthy sexual relationship.
We will often use therapeutic interventions such as CBT and EFT.
I focus on working with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, or past traumas, as well as couples dealing with relationship challenges. I provide validation and support, coping strategies, and emotional regulation skills for individual therapy. I help my clients find symptom relief, improved functionality, increased resilience, and personal growth. I strive to help clients improve communication, restore trust, enhance emotional intimacy, and seek a healthy sexual relationship.
(315) 587-5128 View (315) 587-5128
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Brittany Manchester
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13201  (Online Only)
Have you been carrying a lot of emotions and experiences? I believe that therapy is the opportunity to talk freely without judgement, to someone who is ready to listen & help them unpack their struggles. I enjoy assisting individuals with women's mental health struggles, building skills and practice with mindfulness & meditation, amongst many other mental health symptoms. The courage and vulnerability to talk with someone new about your struggles such as being a new mom or struggling with body image and eating habits, should not go unseen. I honor your effort, and can't wait to start a conversation with you.
Have you been carrying a lot of emotions and experiences? I believe that therapy is the opportunity to talk freely without judgement, to someone who is ready to listen & help them unpack their struggles. I enjoy assisting individuals with women's mental health struggles, building skills and practice with mindfulness & meditation, amongst many other mental health symptoms. The courage and vulnerability to talk with someone new about your struggles such as being a new mom or struggling with body image and eating habits, should not go unseen. I honor your effort, and can't wait to start a conversation with you.
(716) 592-6859 View (716) 592-6859
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Sheila O'Donnell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13204  (Online Only)
Therapy can be a beneficial tool to help manage various challenges throughout the course of our lives. Learning skills to successfully overcome challenges and manage strong emotions is important for us all. Whether it be anxiety, depression, grief, or stress, the opportunity to have someone listen and help guide us through, is invaluable.
Therapy can be a beneficial tool to help manage various challenges throughout the course of our lives. Learning skills to successfully overcome challenges and manage strong emotions is important for us all. Whether it be anxiety, depression, grief, or stress, the opportunity to have someone listen and help guide us through, is invaluable.
(315) 915-2523 View (315) 915-2523
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Shelbe Danzey
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LPMFT, MA MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13212  (Online Only)
I provide a safe, confidential and culturally-affirming therapeutic space for you to explore various areas of your life without judgment. I am prepared with the needed tools to help you foster self-awareness and achieve emotional well-being. I am here to guide you through the process, offering a supportive space for you to heal and grow.
I provide a safe, confidential and culturally-affirming therapeutic space for you to explore various areas of your life without judgment. I am prepared with the needed tools to help you foster self-awareness and achieve emotional well-being. I am here to guide you through the process, offering a supportive space for you to heal and grow.
(518) 750-3414 View (518) 750-3414
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Cameron Hoellrich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13244  (Online Only)
I have experience in working with depression, anxiety, life transitions, and school stress. I spent more than two years working at Cornell's Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS), which provided me with deep knowledge of the ins and outs of their mental health system, along with the pressures that one can face at college in regard to competition, academic stress, and building social connection. Being from upstate NY, I also understand some of the isolative parts of the experience, and adjustment to the uniqueness of the region. I am grateful to have a chance to share this experience and apply it to the therapy space.
I have experience in working with depression, anxiety, life transitions, and school stress. I spent more than two years working at Cornell's Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS), which provided me with deep knowledge of the ins and outs of their mental health system, along with the pressures that one can face at college in regard to competition, academic stress, and building social connection. Being from upstate NY, I also understand some of the isolative parts of the experience, and adjustment to the uniqueness of the region. I am grateful to have a chance to share this experience and apply it to the therapy space.
(607) 357-8520 View (607) 357-8520
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Susan Hartman Brenizer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, NY
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13210
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Fellow, AAMFT with 40+ years experience. Special expertise in working with couples, and individual adults. Training in psychodynamic therapy, systems' and behavioral therapy. Extensive expertise: couples therapy, depression, grief, loss, trauma, abuse and affair recovery, and divorce recovery. Columnist for "Syracuse Post Standard" newspaper "Shrink Rap", 2007- 2014. Featured in PBS Documentary entitled "Pain Runs Deep: Relationship Violence". Interview on NPR, WCNY, and "Brides" Magazine, 2023 and 2024. Recently inducted into Marquis "Who's Who in America", March 2024.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Fellow, AAMFT with 40+ years experience. Special expertise in working with couples, and individual adults. Training in psychodynamic therapy, systems' and behavioral therapy. Extensive expertise: couples therapy, depression, grief, loss, trauma, abuse and affair recovery, and divorce recovery. Columnist for "Syracuse Post Standard" newspaper "Shrink Rap", 2007- 2014. Featured in PBS Documentary entitled "Pain Runs Deep: Relationship Violence". Interview on NPR, WCNY, and "Brides" Magazine, 2023 and 2024. Recently inducted into Marquis "Who's Who in America", March 2024.
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Lorna Boyer Chase
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13202
I strongly believe in the inherent wholeness of every individual. I work with individuals and couples who are seeking to reclaim their joy, sense of peace, creativity, greater health, and move towards the life that they envision. My clients include professionals, college students, and other therapists who want to work on concerns such as anxiety, depression, relationship discord, trauma and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, parenting issues, workplace difficulties, chronic illness, and loss. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, strength-focused, and integrative.
I strongly believe in the inherent wholeness of every individual. I work with individuals and couples who are seeking to reclaim their joy, sense of peace, creativity, greater health, and move towards the life that they envision. My clients include professionals, college students, and other therapists who want to work on concerns such as anxiety, depression, relationship discord, trauma and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, parenting issues, workplace difficulties, chronic illness, and loss. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, strength-focused, and integrative.
(315) 737-6746 View (315) 737-6746
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Mobile Counseling Of New York LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, R
Verified Verified
North Syracuse, NY 13212
Currently accepting new clients with immediate openings! We embrace the uniqueness of each individual. Our team of over 50 licensed therapists recognizes that there's no 'one-size-fits-all' in therapy. Every client brings distinct challenges, aspirations, and worldviews. Our focus? Tailoring our approach with the latest evidence-based practices. Key for us is a client's willingness to embark on a journey of change. Our diverse experience spans various demographics, ensuring a personalized experience. Proudly Veteran-owned, our practice is adept at addressing the needs of diverse groups and ages.
Currently accepting new clients with immediate openings! We embrace the uniqueness of each individual. Our team of over 50 licensed therapists recognizes that there's no 'one-size-fits-all' in therapy. Every client brings distinct challenges, aspirations, and worldviews. Our focus? Tailoring our approach with the latest evidence-based practices. Key for us is a client's willingness to embark on a journey of change. Our diverse experience spans various demographics, ensuring a personalized experience. Proudly Veteran-owned, our practice is adept at addressing the needs of diverse groups and ages.
(716) 271-0522 View (716) 271-0522

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.