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Stephen M. Stepanovich
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89120
I am an Emotionally Focused therapist as well as a DBT therapist working on mindfulness in individuals and children.
UPDATE 03/01/2023 I am accepting new clients,I specialize in working with couples, individuals, and families dealing with challenges and role changes. I would love to help you or at least point you in the right direction. Let me help you find peace and harmony in your life, my focus in therapy is to help my clients achieve their personal goals of growth and independence by establishing a plan of positive reinforcement and active therapy uniquely developed for each patient.
I am an Emotionally Focused therapist as well as a DBT therapist working on mindfulness in individuals and children.
UPDATE 03/01/2023 I am accepting new clients,I specialize in working with couples, individuals, and families dealing with challenges and role changes. I would love to help you or at least point you in the right direction. Let me help you find peace and harmony in your life, my focus in therapy is to help my clients achieve their personal goals of growth and independence by establishing a plan of positive reinforcement and active therapy uniquely developed for each patient.
(702) 803-3258 View (702) 803-3258
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Edmond Davis
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89144
My theory of focus is primarily Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), through my primary lens, EFT is a structural approach to couples work and negative communication patterns.
I believe individuals come to therapy with concerns that have become problematic to their lives. However we were raised, along the way, we picked up traits that grew along with us, and manifested themselves in our everyday living; traits, such as abandonment, mistrust, defectiveness, vulnerable to harm/illness, entitlement, unrelenting standards/hypercritical, and dependence. I believe these traits hide in plain sight. Individuals will come to therapy looking to relieve themselves of moments, or situations, only to find these traits, disguised as their concerns. It is up to our work together to find a way to overcome these traits.
My theory of focus is primarily Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), through my primary lens, EFT is a structural approach to couples work and negative communication patterns.
I believe individuals come to therapy with concerns that have become problematic to their lives. However we were raised, along the way, we picked up traits that grew along with us, and manifested themselves in our everyday living; traits, such as abandonment, mistrust, defectiveness, vulnerable to harm/illness, entitlement, unrelenting standards/hypercritical, and dependence. I believe these traits hide in plain sight. Individuals will come to therapy looking to relieve themselves of moments, or situations, only to find these traits, disguised as their concerns. It is up to our work together to find a way to overcome these traits.
(702) 919-7706 View (702) 919-7706
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Tyler Rich
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89145
I use emotionally focused therapy for couples to help couple repair and improve their relationship.
Romantic relationships are one of the hardest things that you will ever do in your life. Communication problems, arguing, bickering can lead you to have the same type of fight day after day. You both could be using attacking or harsh words in these moments of disconnection. This leads you to more hurt and pain. Learning how to work through any problem that exists in your relationship is hardworking but possible. Issues that you might have could be letting your partner down or not meeting their expectations, money issues, parenting disagreements, lack of sex, or even working through an affair.
I use emotionally focused therapy for couples to help couple repair and improve their relationship.
Romantic relationships are one of the hardest things that you will ever do in your life. Communication problems, arguing, bickering can lead you to have the same type of fight day after day. You both could be using attacking or harsh words in these moments of disconnection. This leads you to more hurt and pain. Learning how to work through any problem that exists in your relationship is hardworking but possible. Issues that you might have could be letting your partner down or not meeting their expectations, money issues, parenting disagreements, lack of sex, or even working through an affair.
(702) 960-1917 View (702) 960-1917
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Emily Halverson, Cardinal Pines Family Therapy LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89128
Hello! My name is Emily. I am a licensed couple, family and child therapist. I have a lot of toys and games in my office for my kiddo clients so I always get asked if I see adults too. Yes, I see people of all ages! My background is in human development and the ways in which attachment, traumas, and other significant life experiences shape how our automatic nervous systems respond to environmental triggers, brain structure, and behaviors at each different life cycle stage. Anxiety, anger, mood shifts, loneliness, loss, detachment, fear of trust, chronic illness, people with higher sensitivities- these are some of my top areas.
Hello! My name is Emily. I am a licensed couple, family and child therapist. I have a lot of toys and games in my office for my kiddo clients so I always get asked if I see adults too. Yes, I see people of all ages! My background is in human development and the ways in which attachment, traumas, and other significant life experiences shape how our automatic nervous systems respond to environmental triggers, brain structure, and behaviors at each different life cycle stage. Anxiety, anger, mood shifts, loneliness, loss, detachment, fear of trust, chronic illness, people with higher sensitivities- these are some of my top areas.
(725) 502-1525 View (725) 502-1525
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Faith Ind & Family Counseling -Heidi Hanusa LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89131
I work with a variety of clients from different genders, sexual orientations, races, religions, and cultures. Currently, I can not say I have an ideal client as each client is unique and has their own needs and areas of growth they would like to focus on. My strengths include my love for working with people and meeting clients where they are at on their journey to heal and grow.
I work with a variety of clients from different genders, sexual orientations, races, religions, and cultures. Currently, I can not say I have an ideal client as each client is unique and has their own needs and areas of growth they would like to focus on. My strengths include my love for working with people and meeting clients where they are at on their journey to heal and grow.
(702) 872-3258 View (702) 872-3258
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Miles Gordon
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89134
Therapy is something anyone can benefit from, and I'm here making it approachable, non-judgmental, and comfortable. I strive to work with individuals, couples, and families who want to heal, achieve their goals, and be given tools to encourage healthy bonding, communication, and strengthen relationships as a whole (friendships, romantic, family, and professional). Living in Las Vegas can be both exciting and challenging due to the unique opportunities provided here, and I offer a very down to earth approach in navigating life transitions that make navigating Sin City more enjoyable.
Therapy is something anyone can benefit from, and I'm here making it approachable, non-judgmental, and comfortable. I strive to work with individuals, couples, and families who want to heal, achieve their goals, and be given tools to encourage healthy bonding, communication, and strengthen relationships as a whole (friendships, romantic, family, and professional). Living in Las Vegas can be both exciting and challenging due to the unique opportunities provided here, and I offer a very down to earth approach in navigating life transitions that make navigating Sin City more enjoyable.
(702) 970-9881 View (702) 970-9881
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Dr. Moore's Tele-Therapy, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MFT-I, PsyD
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89107  (Online Only)
Dr. Moore's Tele-Therapy, LLC is dedicated to creating a positive, healthy atmosphere for all patients. An environment that promotes academic, career, personal and social development. Whatever your situation, no matter how desperate things might seem, no matter what has happened in your past--you can experience a better life. If something in your life is not how you want it to be, and you want to experience change, make an appointment now.
Dr. Moore's Tele-Therapy, LLC is dedicated to creating a positive, healthy atmosphere for all patients. An environment that promotes academic, career, personal and social development. Whatever your situation, no matter how desperate things might seem, no matter what has happened in your past--you can experience a better life. If something in your life is not how you want it to be, and you want to experience change, make an appointment now.
(702) 935-6316 View (702) 935-6316
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Dena R Johns
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89128
You may be feeling overwhelmed trying to find the right therapist, but it's an important step in healing. When it comes to therapeutic change, I believe the greatest contributing factor is the relationship between therapist and client. My practice is honest, genuine while being direct. I try to create a comfortable and caring atmosphere. I work with individuals, couples, and families to create new perspectives and insights to reach desired results. My specialties are relationship issues including infertility, postpartum issues, prenatal concerns, parenting, divorce, grief, loss, and trauma.
You may be feeling overwhelmed trying to find the right therapist, but it's an important step in healing. When it comes to therapeutic change, I believe the greatest contributing factor is the relationship between therapist and client. My practice is honest, genuine while being direct. I try to create a comfortable and caring atmosphere. I work with individuals, couples, and families to create new perspectives and insights to reach desired results. My specialties are relationship issues including infertility, postpartum issues, prenatal concerns, parenting, divorce, grief, loss, and trauma.
(702) 628-5192 View (702) 628-5192
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Evolving Minds Therapy (EMT) LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89122
Why EMT? We focus on the individual behind the diagnosis. EMT is a positive healthy place for not only our clients but also our providers! EMT focuses on providing personalized therapy to professionals, Individuals, and Couple's! EMT is a Therapist Owned and Operated Facility. All providers are kind, down-to-earth, and supportive. EMT believes everyone goes through tough times & everyone has Mental Health. Just like physical health! Get matched with the right male or female provider after a thorough assessment has been completed. Therapy can be one of the best choices you'll ever make!
Why EMT? We focus on the individual behind the diagnosis. EMT is a positive healthy place for not only our clients but also our providers! EMT focuses on providing personalized therapy to professionals, Individuals, and Couple's! EMT is a Therapist Owned and Operated Facility. All providers are kind, down-to-earth, and supportive. EMT believes everyone goes through tough times & everyone has Mental Health. Just like physical health! Get matched with the right male or female provider after a thorough assessment has been completed. Therapy can be one of the best choices you'll ever make!
(725) 999-9390 View (725) 999-9390
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Eden Pastor
Counselor, MA, ATR, TPC, LCPC
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89113  (Online Only)
I offer my expertise as a licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, clinical Art Therapist and Transpersonal Psychology Counselor to assist in the healing process to anyone who may be experiencing and suffering from various mental health issues such as relational problems, anxiety, depression, grief, loss, trauma, addiction, and life transitions. As a therapist, I adapt to you individually as a client, depending on your needs, and together we will create the best treatment plan to help you reach your goals. I believe strongly in applying a holistic perspective addressing your whole person not just the bits and pieces of you.
I offer my expertise as a licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, clinical Art Therapist and Transpersonal Psychology Counselor to assist in the healing process to anyone who may be experiencing and suffering from various mental health issues such as relational problems, anxiety, depression, grief, loss, trauma, addiction, and life transitions. As a therapist, I adapt to you individually as a client, depending on your needs, and together we will create the best treatment plan to help you reach your goals. I believe strongly in applying a holistic perspective addressing your whole person not just the bits and pieces of you.
(702) 830-7629 View (702) 830-7629
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Darya Shahbazy
LPC Intern, MA, NCC, LCPC-I
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89120
(Accepting New Clients) ——- (Offering Teletherapy) I provide therapy for individuals, couples, and families. We all experience struggles and hardships in life. You do not have to face life's challenges alone. I strive to provide a safe, empathic, nonjudgmental, and confidential atmosphere so that we can explore your concerns and overcome life’s challenges. I am certified in biofeedback and provide various modalities of treatment to meet your personal theraputic needs and development. I also have a strong understanding and training in multiculturalism and diversity consciousness.
(Accepting New Clients) ——- (Offering Teletherapy) I provide therapy for individuals, couples, and families. We all experience struggles and hardships in life. You do not have to face life's challenges alone. I strive to provide a safe, empathic, nonjudgmental, and confidential atmosphere so that we can explore your concerns and overcome life’s challenges. I am certified in biofeedback and provide various modalities of treatment to meet your personal theraputic needs and development. I also have a strong understanding and training in multiculturalism and diversity consciousness.
(702) 872-2349 View (702) 872-2349
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Alan Jager
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89145
Life can become overwhelming, making it difficult to maintain important roles or relationships. That the ways you’ve managed to this point seem to have lost their impact or have become a part of the problem. These situations may leave you feeling confused, directionless, or unmotivated. It can begin to feel as if you have no traction as your confidence in who you were recedes and is replaced with pressure to “just do or be this”. The difficulty to find a way to live life on your terms, to be who you want to be, can bring on feelings of hopelessness when facing things alone.
Life can become overwhelming, making it difficult to maintain important roles or relationships. That the ways you’ve managed to this point seem to have lost their impact or have become a part of the problem. These situations may leave you feeling confused, directionless, or unmotivated. It can begin to feel as if you have no traction as your confidence in who you were recedes and is replaced with pressure to “just do or be this”. The difficulty to find a way to live life on your terms, to be who you want to be, can bring on feelings of hopelessness when facing things alone.
(702) 978-8386 View (702) 978-8386
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Jaclyn Costello - Spiritual Counselor
Rev, MFA
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89129
Whether it's gaining spiritual insight and awareness, strengthening your personal relationships, healing from past trauma, or embodying authentic power, I'm here to help you create a life filled with depth, truth, meaning, love, expansiveness, and peace. I’m doing it for myself, breath by breath, and I’d love to help you arrive, too! I offer Spiritual Guidance Counseling, Couples Counseling, Shamanic Healing, Jungian Sandplay Therapy for Adults, Ayahuasca Integration Therapy, Hapé Ceremonies, Sound Healings, Yoga Nidra Meditations, and Empowerment Coaching.
Whether it's gaining spiritual insight and awareness, strengthening your personal relationships, healing from past trauma, or embodying authentic power, I'm here to help you create a life filled with depth, truth, meaning, love, expansiveness, and peace. I’m doing it for myself, breath by breath, and I’d love to help you arrive, too! I offer Spiritual Guidance Counseling, Couples Counseling, Shamanic Healing, Jungian Sandplay Therapy for Adults, Ayahuasca Integration Therapy, Hapé Ceremonies, Sound Healings, Yoga Nidra Meditations, and Empowerment Coaching.
(702) 619-6219 View (702) 619-6219
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Dr. Juan Garcia
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89135
With a Ph.D. credential, Dr. Garcia proudly provides a comprehensive counseling service that is sparse for this area. Dr. Garcia's training background is joined with a personable and compassionate demeanor that helps to serve the local community, which is ranked 44th in the country for Ph.D.-trained Psychotherapists (i.e., "Psychologists") per capita. Counseling services include Pre-Marital, Marriage, Couples, Individual, Family, Crisis, Sex Therapy, & Group Counseling.
With a Ph.D. credential, Dr. Garcia proudly provides a comprehensive counseling service that is sparse for this area. Dr. Garcia's training background is joined with a personable and compassionate demeanor that helps to serve the local community, which is ranked 44th in the country for Ph.D.-trained Psychotherapists (i.e., "Psychologists") per capita. Counseling services include Pre-Marital, Marriage, Couples, Individual, Family, Crisis, Sex Therapy, & Group Counseling.
(702) 291-8364 View (702) 291-8364
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Mark Anderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89128  (Online Only)
As a Marriage and Family Therapist I specialize in addressing couples' dynamics, marital complexities, trauma recovery, and EMDR therapy. With a flexible and nuanced approach tailored to the distinct needs of every individual and couple, I offer a nurturing environment for exploring vulnerabilities, fostering resilience, and cultivating enduring emotional bonds. Through compassionate guidance and evidence-based techniques, I empower couples to overcome challenges, restore trust, and rediscover profound intimacy, paving the way for transformative growth and lasting fulfillment.
As a Marriage and Family Therapist I specialize in addressing couples' dynamics, marital complexities, trauma recovery, and EMDR therapy. With a flexible and nuanced approach tailored to the distinct needs of every individual and couple, I offer a nurturing environment for exploring vulnerabilities, fostering resilience, and cultivating enduring emotional bonds. Through compassionate guidance and evidence-based techniques, I empower couples to overcome challenges, restore trust, and rediscover profound intimacy, paving the way for transformative growth and lasting fulfillment.
(702) 487-9211 View (702) 487-9211
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Juanita Nelson-Brown
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MA, MFTI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89117
I am particularly interested in clients that are open to cultivating the garden of their life. Our life can represent a garden; in any garden there are beautiful flowers and unfortunately there are thorns and thistles. My client must be willing to smell the aroma of the flowers as we travel through the thorns and thistles of the garden life also.
I am particularly interested in clients that are open to cultivating the garden of their life. Our life can represent a garden; in any garden there are beautiful flowers and unfortunately there are thorns and thistles. My client must be willing to smell the aroma of the flowers as we travel through the thorns and thistles of the garden life also.
(702) 475-8617 View (702) 475-8617
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Dr. Vicki D. Coleman
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, EdD, LCPC, CCMHC, MAC/DAC, SAP
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89117
TELEHEALTH OFFERED! WHY ARE YOU SO ANGRY? In the 21st century global economy, Anger is a major challenge! Although a valid emotion, unmonitored, it can lead to stress, inappropriate behavior, and violence. A former Tenured Professor at Purdue University in West Lafayette, IN, I earned a Doctorate in Psychology from Rutgers University, New Brunswick, NJ. Publications include books (Amazon Bestsellers), 9 chapters, and refereed journal articles. Anger is frequently the antecedent to a myriad of issues. My goal is to facilitate the identification of viable solutions. I have 6 Full Clinical Licenses in 5 States-CA, IL, IN, MI, & NV.
TELEHEALTH OFFERED! WHY ARE YOU SO ANGRY? In the 21st century global economy, Anger is a major challenge! Although a valid emotion, unmonitored, it can lead to stress, inappropriate behavior, and violence. A former Tenured Professor at Purdue University in West Lafayette, IN, I earned a Doctorate in Psychology from Rutgers University, New Brunswick, NJ. Publications include books (Amazon Bestsellers), 9 chapters, and refereed journal articles. Anger is frequently the antecedent to a myriad of issues. My goal is to facilitate the identification of viable solutions. I have 6 Full Clinical Licenses in 5 States-CA, IL, IN, MI, & NV.
(702) 830-7337 View (702) 830-7337
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Sabrina Noriega
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MA, MFT-I, CPC-I
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89146
Thank you for visiting my profile page at Psychology Today. I am now taking new clients for morning or evening appointments, in person or via telehealth. I am bilingual, Spanish speaking therapist who has experience with issues of anxiety, trauma, depression, ADHD, and Autism Spectrum Disorder along with other mental health disorders. I work with you based on your needs. I am compassionate and love helping others reach the healing they need to live a fulfilling life.
Thank you for visiting my profile page at Psychology Today. I am now taking new clients for morning or evening appointments, in person or via telehealth. I am bilingual, Spanish speaking therapist who has experience with issues of anxiety, trauma, depression, ADHD, and Autism Spectrum Disorder along with other mental health disorders. I work with you based on your needs. I am compassionate and love helping others reach the healing they need to live a fulfilling life.
(725) 208-5836 View (725) 208-5836
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Dr. Jeff J. Rocker
Counselor, PhD, NCC, CPC, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NV 89101
With 12 years of experience working with clients going through individual, relationship, and family issues, Celebrity Therapist Dr. Jeff Rocker has provided therapeutic services to clients nationwide. He is Licensed in 14 states and has served clients from all age groups. Over the years, Dr. Jeff has organized lectures and various events in the community, including excursions and retreats for couples to improve their communication and better understand each other. He has experience working with athletes in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. In addition, Dr. Jeff has also worked with clients in the Movie, Music, and Entertainment Industries.
With 12 years of experience working with clients going through individual, relationship, and family issues, Celebrity Therapist Dr. Jeff Rocker has provided therapeutic services to clients nationwide. He is Licensed in 14 states and has served clients from all age groups. Over the years, Dr. Jeff has organized lectures and various events in the community, including excursions and retreats for couples to improve their communication and better understand each other. He has experience working with athletes in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. In addition, Dr. Jeff has also worked with clients in the Movie, Music, and Entertainment Industries.
(702) 766-9087 View (702) 766-9087
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The Healing Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Vegas, NV 89121
At The Healing Center, we believe that life is a journey, with individual challenges and opportunities. Our counselors specialize in treating PTSD, depression, grief, loss, anxiety, panic, compulsive behaviors/ thoughts and much more. All of us need help along the way from different people around us. Our counselors are passionate about listening to you and assisting you on your journey to emotional health, personal growth and discovering your potential.
At The Healing Center, we believe that life is a journey, with individual challenges and opportunities. Our counselors specialize in treating PTSD, depression, grief, loss, anxiety, panic, compulsive behaviors/ thoughts and much more. All of us need help along the way from different people around us. Our counselors are passionate about listening to you and assisting you on your journey to emotional health, personal growth and discovering your potential.
(702) 930-3849 View (702) 930-3849

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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.