Emotionally Focused Therapists in Swansboro, NC

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Katie Drexler
Counselor, LCMHCA, NCC, PLLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Swansboro, NC 28584
How did that make you feel? I have heard that this is all that was asked during a counseling session. Although your feelings are meaningful and very valid, my approach will be supportive and goal oriented to make you feel heard and make progress towards a positive change in your life. We all have problems, thoughts, feelings, or experiences that can impact our well-being. I know first-hand how to find ways to cope or work through those. I will be here to support you and find the appropriate interventions or therapies for your specific journeys. I will use different techniques (CBT, DBT, etc) to help meet your goals.
How did that make you feel? I have heard that this is all that was asked during a counseling session. Although your feelings are meaningful and very valid, my approach will be supportive and goal oriented to make you feel heard and make progress towards a positive change in your life. We all have problems, thoughts, feelings, or experiences that can impact our well-being. I know first-hand how to find ways to cope or work through those. I will be here to support you and find the appropriate interventions or therapies for your specific journeys. I will use different techniques (CBT, DBT, etc) to help meet your goals.
(252) 418-8443 View (252) 418-8443
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David Knappenberger
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Swansboro, NC 28584  (Online Only)
Seeing clients through the Psychology Today Telehealth portal allows me to assist clients throughout NC. I work with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, adjustment disorders, anger issues, PTSD and Asperger's disorder. I work with couples to improve their communications & the overall quality of their relationships. I assist couples whose relationships have suffered from infidelity. I also help families deal with the challenges of divorce, step family formation, and parent/teenager conflicts. I have experienced divorce, remarriage, and step family issues, thus I understand the emotional impact of these life changes.
Seeing clients through the Psychology Today Telehealth portal allows me to assist clients throughout NC. I work with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, adjustment disorders, anger issues, PTSD and Asperger's disorder. I work with couples to improve their communications & the overall quality of their relationships. I assist couples whose relationships have suffered from infidelity. I also help families deal with the challenges of divorce, step family formation, and parent/teenager conflicts. I have experienced divorce, remarriage, and step family issues, thus I understand the emotional impact of these life changes.
(910) 817-4395 View (910) 817-4395
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Tracy Berryhill
Counselor, MFT, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Swansboro, NC 28584
Are you struggling with anxiety? Depression? Family or marital issues? Just having a hard time getting through your day to day? We've all been there and I want to help you create and implement positive goals in your life to get you going in the right direction.
Are you struggling with anxiety? Depression? Family or marital issues? Just having a hard time getting through your day to day? We've all been there and I want to help you create and implement positive goals in your life to get you going in the right direction.
(252) 616-0503 View (252) 616-0503
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Chrissy's Empowering Counseling Services, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Swansboro, NC 28584
Now accepting new clients! Whether you are having a bad day or just need someone to talk to, finding the right therapist can be extremely difficult. Please take the time to take advantage of my 15 minute free consultation. During this consultation, we can take time to discuss and highlight the areas of concern and decide if we are a good fit to work together in order to gain the maximum benefit from your therapy. I take the time to actively listen so that education and empowerment can be used to assist in solving many of life’s challenges.
Now accepting new clients! Whether you are having a bad day or just need someone to talk to, finding the right therapist can be extremely difficult. Please take the time to take advantage of my 15 minute free consultation. During this consultation, we can take time to discuss and highlight the areas of concern and decide if we are a good fit to work together in order to gain the maximum benefit from your therapy. I take the time to actively listen so that education and empowerment can be used to assist in solving many of life’s challenges.
(910) 541-9052 View (910) 541-9052
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Tabitha G Velotti
Counselor, LCMHC-A
Verified Verified
Swansboro, NC 28584
Tabitha Velotti is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate (LCMHCa) with extensive experience providing mental health services to active duty service members and their families. She is passionate about helping individuals and families achieve mental wellness and build healthy relationships.
Tabitha Velotti is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate (LCMHCa) with extensive experience providing mental health services to active duty service members and their families. She is passionate about helping individuals and families achieve mental wellness and build healthy relationships.
(252) 888-6454 View (252) 888-6454
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Compassion Counseling Center ENC, PC
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, DMin, MAEd, LCMHCS, NBCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Swansboro, NC 28584
I have worked as a therapist for 23 years in various settings and have been licensed since 2006. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor/Supervisor, I have provided family, couple and individual counseling for adults. I am EMDR trained. I address parenting skills, marital issues, trauma, mood disorders, behavior disorders, thought disorders, career concerns, and spiritual concerns. As a professional Christian counselor, I believe that the Lord has the power to heal marriages, families, and individuals using Jesus as our example of how to live life and find perfect peace.
I have worked as a therapist for 23 years in various settings and have been licensed since 2006. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor/Supervisor, I have provided family, couple and individual counseling for adults. I am EMDR trained. I address parenting skills, marital issues, trauma, mood disorders, behavior disorders, thought disorders, career concerns, and spiritual concerns. As a professional Christian counselor, I believe that the Lord has the power to heal marriages, families, and individuals using Jesus as our example of how to live life and find perfect peace.
(252) 648-7175 View (252) 648-7175
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Noella N. S Dowers
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, CHAD, LCMHC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Swansboro, NC 28584
Counseling for children, adolescents, adults, & couples. Professional, confidential support for Children, Adolescents and Adults, Families and Couples. If you are struggling with relationship challenges, depression, anxiety, parenting, issues at work or difficulty figuring out where you fit in. Does your child have behavior challenges? socialization struggles? Are you experiencing loss of a loved one or a broken relationship? Past traumatic event making life seem unbearable therapy provides you someone who will listen, offer guidance, and offer support as you learn new coping strategies and gain insight.
Counseling for children, adolescents, adults, & couples. Professional, confidential support for Children, Adolescents and Adults, Families and Couples. If you are struggling with relationship challenges, depression, anxiety, parenting, issues at work or difficulty figuring out where you fit in. Does your child have behavior challenges? socialization struggles? Are you experiencing loss of a loved one or a broken relationship? Past traumatic event making life seem unbearable therapy provides you someone who will listen, offer guidance, and offer support as you learn new coping strategies and gain insight.
(910) 543-3483 View (910) 543-3483
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Lisa Colella
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWA
Verified Verified
Swansboro, NC 28584
Sometimes we have difficulty turning life's lemons into lemonade. You could probably manage a bag of lemons but what happens when you're given a truck load? I imagine you'd reach out for help. Using therapy is a similar concept. Having difficulty turning life events into manageable situations. Especially when we're overwhelming negative thoughts, deep emotions, or traumatic experiences feel impossible to navigate. Feeling stuck is bound to happen when finances, relationship issues, disabilities, or caring for ourselves/others are added to our daily responsibilities, feeling stuck is bound to happen and it happens to all of us...
Sometimes we have difficulty turning life's lemons into lemonade. You could probably manage a bag of lemons but what happens when you're given a truck load? I imagine you'd reach out for help. Using therapy is a similar concept. Having difficulty turning life events into manageable situations. Especially when we're overwhelming negative thoughts, deep emotions, or traumatic experiences feel impossible to navigate. Feeling stuck is bound to happen when finances, relationship issues, disabilities, or caring for ourselves/others are added to our daily responsibilities, feeling stuck is bound to happen and it happens to all of us...
(910) 541-5593 View (910) 541-5593
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Kim Morris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Swansboro, NC 28584
REEL therapy for REAL change. Would you like to transform the way you respond to life’s stress? Learn tactics that help you show up as the best REAL version of yourself at home and at work? It’s my mission to create a therapeutic space where you will leave feeling heard, understood, and empowered to take charge of your health, mental well-being, and achieve your goals. Let’s strengthen your capacity to manage stress, symptoms, or trauma that may be holding you back from pursuing a life that aligns with your REAL value, your core values.
REEL therapy for REAL change. Would you like to transform the way you respond to life’s stress? Learn tactics that help you show up as the best REAL version of yourself at home and at work? It’s my mission to create a therapeutic space where you will leave feeling heard, understood, and empowered to take charge of your health, mental well-being, and achieve your goals. Let’s strengthen your capacity to manage stress, symptoms, or trauma that may be holding you back from pursuing a life that aligns with your REAL value, your core values.
(252) 253-6105 View (252) 253-6105
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Kathleen Ellers
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHCS, NCC
Verified Verified
Swansboro, NC 28584
Not accepting new clients
Often chronic stress and unresolved trauma can be barriers to feeling successful at school, work, relationships and life in general. My training and experience includes working with children, adolescents and adults in the areas of trauma, life transitions, depression/anxiety and personal growth. I can help you and/or your child navigate through the stress, the difficult behaviors, and anxiety and come out on the other side feeling more calm, confident and focused on your life's purpose.
Often chronic stress and unresolved trauma can be barriers to feeling successful at school, work, relationships and life in general. My training and experience includes working with children, adolescents and adults in the areas of trauma, life transitions, depression/anxiety and personal growth. I can help you and/or your child navigate through the stress, the difficult behaviors, and anxiety and come out on the other side feeling more calm, confident and focused on your life's purpose.
(252) 313-9092 View (252) 313-9092

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Melissa Davis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Hubert, NC 28539  (Online Only)
Therapy should feel like a conversation between two people filled with some laughter, tears and comfort. What can you expect from me as your therapist? I am very laid back, open and honest. I am accessible to my clients in between sessions should a situation arise. I like to have a good time while also addressing your goals and believe that there are working sessions and venting sessions. Therapy is a great opportunity to get a new perspective, to increase self-esteem and to feel more confident in the decisions we are making and reframing those automatic negative thoughts.
Therapy should feel like a conversation between two people filled with some laughter, tears and comfort. What can you expect from me as your therapist? I am very laid back, open and honest. I am accessible to my clients in between sessions should a situation arise. I like to have a good time while also addressing your goals and believe that there are working sessions and venting sessions. Therapy is a great opportunity to get a new perspective, to increase self-esteem and to feel more confident in the decisions we are making and reframing those automatic negative thoughts.
(908) 910-8994 View (908) 910-8994
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Sagestone PLLC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LPCA, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Emerald Isle, NC 28594
At Sagestone, we respect and acknowledge the vital aspects of your life and take a "whole you" approach. We use empathy, compassion, and curiosity to better understand you and your needs. We listen. We share our experience, "know how", and provide thought-provoking, substantive, and practical process. We provide support that fosters safety, curiosity, and growth. We meet you where you are, in the here and now, allowing you to experience grounded vulnerability, presence, and acceptance, as you expand your way of being to embody inner peace, balance, and empowerment.
At Sagestone, we respect and acknowledge the vital aspects of your life and take a "whole you" approach. We use empathy, compassion, and curiosity to better understand you and your needs. We listen. We share our experience, "know how", and provide thought-provoking, substantive, and practical process. We provide support that fosters safety, curiosity, and growth. We meet you where you are, in the here and now, allowing you to experience grounded vulnerability, presence, and acceptance, as you expand your way of being to embody inner peace, balance, and empowerment.
(252) 674-1971 View (252) 674-1971
Mary Folger Summerlin
Counselor, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Cape Carteret, NC 28584
I enjoy working with individuals from a variety of backgrounds and with a wide array of presenting difficulties. I am person-centered and assist individuals with working towards their own personal goals. I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups to assist with the achievement of these goals. While I feel comfortable addressing any issue, I am always willing to refer to another provider if needed.
I enjoy working with individuals from a variety of backgrounds and with a wide array of presenting difficulties. I am person-centered and assist individuals with working towards their own personal goals. I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups to assist with the achievement of these goals. While I feel comfortable addressing any issue, I am always willing to refer to another provider if needed.
(252) 297-6201 View (252) 297-6201
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Hermeisha R. Green
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hubert, NC 28539  (Online Only)
If you find yourself frequently wrestling with feelings of inadequacy, coming back to the same negative core belief that "I am not good enough," feeling unmanageable emotional distress, and/or ongoing conflicts in relationships, then I am here to help. I help you get to the root of the conflict and distress, while increasing your awareness and confidence that will help you experience the relief you’ve been longing for.
If you find yourself frequently wrestling with feelings of inadequacy, coming back to the same negative core belief that "I am not good enough," feeling unmanageable emotional distress, and/or ongoing conflicts in relationships, then I am here to help. I help you get to the root of the conflict and distress, while increasing your awareness and confidence that will help you experience the relief you’ve been longing for.
(855) 777-0939 View (855) 777-0939
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Colleen M. Kenny
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Waitlist for new clients
*waitlist only* I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I am also an Integrated Therapist, which means I draw from traditional (evidence-based), nontraditional (i.e. somatic, psychobiology) and nonphysical (spiritual, not religious, nonmaterial) approaches as part of the counseling session. I work with adults, couples, and families facing various challenges. My approach is strengths-based, focused on what's right with you and will support you to reinforce the bridge between logic--"what I should do" and heart--"what I want to do".
*waitlist only* I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I am also an Integrated Therapist, which means I draw from traditional (evidence-based), nontraditional (i.e. somatic, psychobiology) and nonphysical (spiritual, not religious, nonmaterial) approaches as part of the counseling session. I work with adults, couples, and families facing various challenges. My approach is strengths-based, focused on what's right with you and will support you to reinforce the bridge between logic--"what I should do" and heart--"what I want to do".
(252) 499-0683 View (252) 499-0683

Online Therapists

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Latosha Jones
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
Through effective EFT techniques, I help clients navigate and express their emotions connected to trauma, fostering stronger connections with others and a path toward inner peace.
Hi there! I'm passionate about helping adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, "empty nest syndrome" and other mid-life difficulties. My specialization lies in guiding individuals through these tough transitions, while providing support for the unique challenges they face.
Through effective EFT techniques, I help clients navigate and express their emotions connected to trauma, fostering stronger connections with others and a path toward inner peace.
Hi there! I'm passionate about helping adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, "empty nest syndrome" and other mid-life difficulties. My specialization lies in guiding individuals through these tough transitions, while providing support for the unique challenges they face.
(910) 613-4370 View (910) 613-4370
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Marie Francis
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCAS, NCC, DCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Jacksonville, NC 28546  (Online Only)
Relationship Counseling: I offer a Solution-Focused, Emotionally Focused (EFT) and Narrative therapy approaches in most cases for relationship counseling.
"Once upon a time..." is the beginning of many stories If you are seeking therapy, you have a story to tell. Perhaps your story is filtered through the lens of depression, anxiety, trauma or substance dependence. I will listen, and remain attentive to, and curious about the intricacies of your story. I will provide an atmosphere of safety without judgment so that enlightenment, healing and growth can take place. I use Solution-Focused approach to therapy and Motivational Interviewing techniques in my work with couples, families and individuals to help enhance and maintain rewarding relationships and manage life transitions.
Relationship Counseling: I offer a Solution-Focused, Emotionally Focused (EFT) and Narrative therapy approaches in most cases for relationship counseling.
"Once upon a time..." is the beginning of many stories If you are seeking therapy, you have a story to tell. Perhaps your story is filtered through the lens of depression, anxiety, trauma or substance dependence. I will listen, and remain attentive to, and curious about the intricacies of your story. I will provide an atmosphere of safety without judgment so that enlightenment, healing and growth can take place. I use Solution-Focused approach to therapy and Motivational Interviewing techniques in my work with couples, families and individuals to help enhance and maintain rewarding relationships and manage life transitions.
(910) 202-6110 View (910) 202-6110
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Nadia Josephine Crossno-Rodriguez
Counselor, MEd, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28412
I work and pull primarily from the following theoretical frameworks: CBT, choice theory, existential theory, DBT, SFT, and EFT.
Accepting new clients! Are you having trouble facing life's daily struggles at times? Do you feel stuck and/or that you would benefit from some external support? Life can be very difficult to navigate, but it is important to understand that you are not alone. I provide a safe, validating environment for all populations to address each individual's needs and goals. By teaming up with my clients, we identify techniques and tools that work for their unique needs, while also engaging in self-reflection that leads to self-growth in all aspects on one's life.
I work and pull primarily from the following theoretical frameworks: CBT, choice theory, existential theory, DBT, SFT, and EFT.
Accepting new clients! Are you having trouble facing life's daily struggles at times? Do you feel stuck and/or that you would benefit from some external support? Life can be very difficult to navigate, but it is important to understand that you are not alone. I provide a safe, validating environment for all populations to address each individual's needs and goals. By teaming up with my clients, we identify techniques and tools that work for their unique needs, while also engaging in self-reflection that leads to self-growth in all aspects on one's life.
(919) 822-9068 View (919) 822-9068
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Ellen Lee Dudley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, CRC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
I utilize the following modalities: AIT, Transactional Analysis, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman method, CBT, Hypnotherapy and Gestalt.
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. Our experiences in life although similar are still very individual and unique to each of us. It is normal to experience anxiety, fear, anger and sorrow however; when these emotions are extreme they can prevent us from being fully alive, spontaneous and joyful. It is during these times we may need assistance to better understand ourselves and make necessary changes. I commonly treat individuals and couples with anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship difficulties that successfully resolve the issues causing these symptoms.
I utilize the following modalities: AIT, Transactional Analysis, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman method, CBT, Hypnotherapy and Gestalt.
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. Our experiences in life although similar are still very individual and unique to each of us. It is normal to experience anxiety, fear, anger and sorrow however; when these emotions are extreme they can prevent us from being fully alive, spontaneous and joyful. It is during these times we may need assistance to better understand ourselves and make necessary changes. I commonly treat individuals and couples with anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship difficulties that successfully resolve the issues causing these symptoms.
(910) 212-4679 View (910) 212-4679
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Nicole Rice
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
I believe is an eclectic approach utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Zones of Regulation and other trauma informed techniques.
I believe that all people have the ability to heal, grow and strive for their best selves, during any stressor or stage of life. Starting therapy whether its for the first time or the seventh time can come with a multitude of emotions. I strive to create an open and safe environment where we can explore those emotions and life stressors. I believe in a collaborative approach where you are the expert of your life and I am a guide to help seek insight and develop tools to allow for the growth, change and healing that you seek.
I believe is an eclectic approach utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Zones of Regulation and other trauma informed techniques.
I believe that all people have the ability to heal, grow and strive for their best selves, during any stressor or stage of life. Starting therapy whether its for the first time or the seventh time can come with a multitude of emotions. I strive to create an open and safe environment where we can explore those emotions and life stressors. I believe in a collaborative approach where you are the expert of your life and I am a guide to help seek insight and develop tools to allow for the growth, change and healing that you seek.
(910) 708-9927 x102 View (910) 708-9927 x102

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.