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Mary Tia Williams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21201  (Online Only)
Interventions include (but not limited to) CBT, DBT, EFT, Solution focused, Interdynamic Psychoanalytic psychotherapy, and Mindfulness.
Greetings! Welcome to my page. If you are here it means that you are on the path to being the best version of you. Have difficulty with relationships/communication skills? Do you feel misunderstood by others? Is it difficult to relax even when you are exhausted? Do you feel overwhelmed, lost, confused, or just unsure of yourself at times? Do you experience negative thoughts (or actions) that you find difficult expressing to others? Flashbacks of difficult memories? I am here to travel a path to wellness with you. Here you will find a safe, confidential, non-judgmental place to unpack.
Interventions include (but not limited to) CBT, DBT, EFT, Solution focused, Interdynamic Psychoanalytic psychotherapy, and Mindfulness.
Greetings! Welcome to my page. If you are here it means that you are on the path to being the best version of you. Have difficulty with relationships/communication skills? Do you feel misunderstood by others? Is it difficult to relax even when you are exhausted? Do you feel overwhelmed, lost, confused, or just unsure of yourself at times? Do you experience negative thoughts (or actions) that you find difficult expressing to others? Flashbacks of difficult memories? I am here to travel a path to wellness with you. Here you will find a safe, confidential, non-judgmental place to unpack.
(667) 222-2593 View (667) 222-2593
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Rob Rogers
Counselor, MA, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21212  (Online Only)
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I'm certified in Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, as well as the SYMBIS and Prepare/Enrich Couples Assessment.
Feeling stuck? Looking to strengthen the intimacy and communication within your relationship? Ready for pre-marital or marriage counseling? Have parenting issues become to overwhelming to know what to do next? Are you having difficulty setting boundaries with your parents or in-laws? It can be beneficial to meet with a professional who specializes in deepening relationships, expanding insight, is sincerely supportive while able to teach you helpful skills like effective communication and emotion management. Together we'll create a space where you'll learn a better way to connect with others and live out what you truly value.
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I'm certified in Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, as well as the SYMBIS and Prepare/Enrich Couples Assessment.
Feeling stuck? Looking to strengthen the intimacy and communication within your relationship? Ready for pre-marital or marriage counseling? Have parenting issues become to overwhelming to know what to do next? Are you having difficulty setting boundaries with your parents or in-laws? It can be beneficial to meet with a professional who specializes in deepening relationships, expanding insight, is sincerely supportive while able to teach you helpful skills like effective communication and emotion management. Together we'll create a space where you'll learn a better way to connect with others and live out what you truly value.
(443) 378-3562 View (443) 378-3562
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Jennifer J. Oh
Psychologist, PsyD, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21211  (Online Only)
Living with anxiety/OCD/ADHD, feeling as if living "between two worlds" by virtue of all of your intersecting identities, and feeling confused about why your past haunts you (and why your most important relationships are suffering) can culminate in helplessness and despair. By creating a non-judgmental, open, and relational space for both reflection and exploration, I can meet you as you are and help you forge and narrate a path that fits. I help you better understand why you experience yourself and the world as you do and identify how you can be more present and move forward with tools, skills, and greater agency in your life.
Living with anxiety/OCD/ADHD, feeling as if living "between two worlds" by virtue of all of your intersecting identities, and feeling confused about why your past haunts you (and why your most important relationships are suffering) can culminate in helplessness and despair. By creating a non-judgmental, open, and relational space for both reflection and exploration, I can meet you as you are and help you forge and narrate a path that fits. I help you better understand why you experience yourself and the world as you do and identify how you can be more present and move forward with tools, skills, and greater agency in your life.
(240) 868-6413 View (240) 868-6413
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Jared Serrano Louie
Counselor, LGPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21214  (Online Only)
I pull from a culturally competent, emotionally focused approach that is tailored to best fit my clients needs.
As a queer clinician my practice is rooted in understanding, affirming, and supporting the LGBTQIA+ community. Creating a safe space for you to explore your needs and goals is my priority. I specialize in work with individuals and couples/relational units. My clients are often struggling with attachment or communication challenges; wanting to improve their relationships. They may have had a recent loss, or are suffering from nagging symptoms of anxiety or depression. My approach is engaging and collaborative, I enjoy truly understanding where you currently are, and where you see yourself in the future.
I pull from a culturally competent, emotionally focused approach that is tailored to best fit my clients needs.
As a queer clinician my practice is rooted in understanding, affirming, and supporting the LGBTQIA+ community. Creating a safe space for you to explore your needs and goals is my priority. I specialize in work with individuals and couples/relational units. My clients are often struggling with attachment or communication challenges; wanting to improve their relationships. They may have had a recent loss, or are suffering from nagging symptoms of anxiety or depression. My approach is engaging and collaborative, I enjoy truly understanding where you currently are, and where you see yourself in the future.
(410) 888-0787 View (410) 888-0787
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Christine Briggs
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21218
My favorite techniques include Mindfulness, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy(ACT), Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), Meditation, Breathwork, Nutrition for mental health, and Mind-Body work.
Would you like personalized guidance in gaining Mindful Momentum towards your desires and realizing your greatest potential? Are you ready to show up for yourself by scheduling time to address your needs and engage in a path of healing and growth? I would be honored to hold space for you and guide you. YOU DESERVE to realize the best you and experience peace, joy, love, and freedom! I am a Holistic Mental Health Therapist and I like to treat all dimensions of my clients in order to achieve true sustainable balance, growth, and healing. Allow me to witness and guide your beautiful journey to peace of mind and your highest self.
My favorite techniques include Mindfulness, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy(ACT), Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), Meditation, Breathwork, Nutrition for mental health, and Mind-Body work.
Would you like personalized guidance in gaining Mindful Momentum towards your desires and realizing your greatest potential? Are you ready to show up for yourself by scheduling time to address your needs and engage in a path of healing and growth? I would be honored to hold space for you and guide you. YOU DESERVE to realize the best you and experience peace, joy, love, and freedom! I am a Holistic Mental Health Therapist and I like to treat all dimensions of my clients in order to achieve true sustainable balance, growth, and healing. Allow me to witness and guide your beautiful journey to peace of mind and your highest self.
(410) 376-8359 View (410) 376-8359
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Dr. Julia Heavner
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21224
Couples who begin therapy with me are often feeling distant, unfulfilled, or trying to heal from a breach of trust in the relationship. My specialization is to help clients (couples or individuals) learn how to create deeper bonds & improve communication in relationships. In my work with couples, I use Sue Johnson’s Attachment-Based Couples Therapy (EFT) as a guide for this work. I also use The Gottman Method (Level 2 trained) as needed. In my work with individuals, I believe I can be most helpful to those who suffer from relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, ADHD, bipolar disorder, and life adjustment issues.
Couples who begin therapy with me are often feeling distant, unfulfilled, or trying to heal from a breach of trust in the relationship. My specialization is to help clients (couples or individuals) learn how to create deeper bonds & improve communication in relationships. In my work with couples, I use Sue Johnson’s Attachment-Based Couples Therapy (EFT) as a guide for this work. I also use The Gottman Method (Level 2 trained) as needed. In my work with individuals, I believe I can be most helpful to those who suffer from relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, ADHD, bipolar disorder, and life adjustment issues.
(410) 936-6717 View (410) 936-6717
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Jeanne M Deignan-Kosmides Ms Ncc C-Iayt E-Ryt
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC, NCC , E-RYT, C-IAYT, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21209
I use many tools and techniques including Rogerian Client-led, EFT, CBT, Existential therapy and more.
I provide compassionate counseling when you are facing mental health challenges - transitions in your life, relationship issues, trauma, grief, personal growth, anxiety, depression and stress related issues. I use a variety of counseling methods & incorporate mindfulness & relaxation into my counseling sessions when appropriate. I hope to bring a broad, warm and unique quality of experience, knowledge and nurturing support to the counseling sessions. I am also a Kripalu senior level yoga teacher, Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapist and Reiki Master.
I use many tools and techniques including Rogerian Client-led, EFT, CBT, Existential therapy and more.
I provide compassionate counseling when you are facing mental health challenges - transitions in your life, relationship issues, trauma, grief, personal growth, anxiety, depression and stress related issues. I use a variety of counseling methods & incorporate mindfulness & relaxation into my counseling sessions when appropriate. I hope to bring a broad, warm and unique quality of experience, knowledge and nurturing support to the counseling sessions. I am also a Kripalu senior level yoga teacher, Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapist and Reiki Master.
(410) 587-0201 View (410) 587-0201
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Lyndsay Soeder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MSW, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21210
I use integrative and holistic approaches to support the mind-body-spirit connection, which include creative modalies, breathwork, somatic-sensory, guided imagery, mindfulness, and EFT.
We all face experiences that are often difficult, painful, and even traumatic. So many of us face these situations feeling alone, overwhelmed, ashamed, and vulnerable. I believe healing and transformation comes from within, by reconnecting with our inner wisdom, becoming more self-aware, and growing more in self-love and compassion. Pain and vulnerability can also teach us a lot about ourselves and be incredibly healing. If you are struggling with relationship problems, life transitions, depression, anxiety, past traumas, feel stuck, or grieving the loss of a loved one, I can help you face these challenges.
I use integrative and holistic approaches to support the mind-body-spirit connection, which include creative modalies, breathwork, somatic-sensory, guided imagery, mindfulness, and EFT.
We all face experiences that are often difficult, painful, and even traumatic. So many of us face these situations feeling alone, overwhelmed, ashamed, and vulnerable. I believe healing and transformation comes from within, by reconnecting with our inner wisdom, becoming more self-aware, and growing more in self-love and compassion. Pain and vulnerability can also teach us a lot about ourselves and be incredibly healing. If you are struggling with relationship problems, life transitions, depression, anxiety, past traumas, feel stuck, or grieving the loss of a loved one, I can help you face these challenges.
(707) 741-6065 View (707) 741-6065
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Mark Goldberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, CST
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21211
I am trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and I am a Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT).
Are you in a relationship but feel alone? Are you having problems with sex or intimacy? I help individuals and couples address relationship conflict and create meaningful and lasting connection. Are you dealing with separation or divorce and looking for help co-parenting? I also specialize in helping couples overcome challenges related to divorce, remarriage, and co-parenting.
I am trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and I am a Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT).
Are you in a relationship but feel alone? Are you having problems with sex or intimacy? I help individuals and couples address relationship conflict and create meaningful and lasting connection. Are you dealing with separation or divorce and looking for help co-parenting? I also specialize in helping couples overcome challenges related to divorce, remarriage, and co-parenting.
(443) 671-1146 View (443) 671-1146
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Kitt Klassen
Counselor, LGPC
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21218
Hi, I'm Kitt! I'm the owner of Defiant Therapy, LLC, a practice that offers an affirming space for clients to embrace "defiance" - a sense of trust in oneself that leads you to challenge expectations. I value creating relationships with clients that allow them to be free to discover their expansiveness, care for the parts of themself that need tenderness and fierce compassion, and get clear about the change they need and the acceptance they deserve. I work with individuals (adults and adolescents), relationships of two or more, and families who want and need this radical space.
Hi, I'm Kitt! I'm the owner of Defiant Therapy, LLC, a practice that offers an affirming space for clients to embrace "defiance" - a sense of trust in oneself that leads you to challenge expectations. I value creating relationships with clients that allow them to be free to discover their expansiveness, care for the parts of themself that need tenderness and fierce compassion, and get clear about the change they need and the acceptance they deserve. I work with individuals (adults and adolescents), relationships of two or more, and families who want and need this radical space.
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Abena Adoko Sando
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21229
I have been providing mental health services for children, adolescents, and adults with various mental health needs for over 12 years. I foster an environment that is sensitive to clients'/parents' needs. Clients are encouraged to openly express thoughts/feelings so that we can focus on setting goals, identifying feelings and patterns, developing healthy/positive attitudes and behaviors, and problem solving. I would be honored to work with you/your child/family to move away from distress and towards wellness and increased satisfaction and happiness!
I have been providing mental health services for children, adolescents, and adults with various mental health needs for over 12 years. I foster an environment that is sensitive to clients'/parents' needs. Clients are encouraged to openly express thoughts/feelings so that we can focus on setting goals, identifying feelings and patterns, developing healthy/positive attitudes and behaviors, and problem solving. I would be honored to work with you/your child/family to move away from distress and towards wellness and increased satisfaction and happiness!
(443) 233-0628 View (443) 233-0628
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Grace Brown
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21210
I specialize in working with people of all ages who are struggling with anxiety, OCD, and trauma. In addition to this, I specialize in working with people of all ages who are questioning their gender or sexual orientation. Through gender affirming care, I hope to validate and empower you to feel comfortable being your truest self. As a therapist, I tailor my practice and treatment approach to each individual and family, while working to meet my clients where they are. I believe that providing a safe and welcoming space for my clients is essential to the therapeutic process, and promotes emotional growth and change.
I specialize in working with people of all ages who are struggling with anxiety, OCD, and trauma. In addition to this, I specialize in working with people of all ages who are questioning their gender or sexual orientation. Through gender affirming care, I hope to validate and empower you to feel comfortable being your truest self. As a therapist, I tailor my practice and treatment approach to each individual and family, while working to meet my clients where they are. I believe that providing a safe and welcoming space for my clients is essential to the therapeutic process, and promotes emotional growth and change.
(443) 232-1698 View (443) 232-1698
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Kelly Keys
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21230
Waitlist for new clients
Are you and/or your child open to the challenging and vulnerable, but beautiful journey that is exploring/bettering overall mental health? If so, you've come to the -not-so- perfect place! I most enjoy working with clients who can appreciate humor and straight-forwardness, as I often approach the therapeutic relationship with authenticity and acceptance as well as the mindset of embracing imperfection. I specialize in individual and family therapy focusing on ADHD, anxiety, depression, stress/trauma for individuals under the age of 30 :)
Are you and/or your child open to the challenging and vulnerable, but beautiful journey that is exploring/bettering overall mental health? If so, you've come to the -not-so- perfect place! I most enjoy working with clients who can appreciate humor and straight-forwardness, as I often approach the therapeutic relationship with authenticity and acceptance as well as the mindset of embracing imperfection. I specialize in individual and family therapy focusing on ADHD, anxiety, depression, stress/trauma for individuals under the age of 30 :)
(443) 972-5862 View (443) 972-5862
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Bailey I. Taylor
Counselor, MS, LGPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21230
Hi there! Still searching through endless therapist profiles? I get it - finding the right fit can be quite a journey! I'm passionate about helping teens and young adults navigate anxiety, ADHD, trauma, and overall life transitions. No expectations for masking or perfectionism here; you've landed in a warm and authentic space to make your healing a collaborative and positive experience. Using a creative blend of evidence-based approaches, therapy with me is personalized to ensure you feel supported, empowered, and heard.
Hi there! Still searching through endless therapist profiles? I get it - finding the right fit can be quite a journey! I'm passionate about helping teens and young adults navigate anxiety, ADHD, trauma, and overall life transitions. No expectations for masking or perfectionism here; you've landed in a warm and authentic space to make your healing a collaborative and positive experience. Using a creative blend of evidence-based approaches, therapy with me is personalized to ensure you feel supported, empowered, and heard.
(410) 970-3724 View (410) 970-3724
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Sheena N Green
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MEd, LCPC
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21212  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Depressed? Anxious? Relationship issues? Anger? Are you feeling overwhelmed and frustrated with daily life? Do you feel that no one truly understands how you are feeling? Do you keep making the same mistakes over and over again? Is life chaotic and you feel that it's out of control? Nothing is in order and you do not know where to start. Do you just need one day of peace? Are you looking for balance in life, self love, acceptance and personal growth?
Depressed? Anxious? Relationship issues? Anger? Are you feeling overwhelmed and frustrated with daily life? Do you feel that no one truly understands how you are feeling? Do you keep making the same mistakes over and over again? Is life chaotic and you feel that it's out of control? Nothing is in order and you do not know where to start. Do you just need one day of peace? Are you looking for balance in life, self love, acceptance and personal growth?
(443) 219-2999 View (443) 219-2999
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Danielle Gleber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21211
Stress, loneliness, problems with bullying or social media usage, problems in relationships, identity questions ...Life can be too much sometimes! When it feels overwhelming, call in others to be on your team. If you're okay with some dry humor and real talk, we'll probably be a good fit to work together. Whether you're 11 or 111, I have some tricks up my sleeve to help you. There's no shame in admitting when things have gotten beyond what you can handle on your own. It happens to all of us at some point! And you don't have to stay there. There's relief and peace waiting for you.
Stress, loneliness, problems with bullying or social media usage, problems in relationships, identity questions ...Life can be too much sometimes! When it feels overwhelming, call in others to be on your team. If you're okay with some dry humor and real talk, we'll probably be a good fit to work together. Whether you're 11 or 111, I have some tricks up my sleeve to help you. There's no shame in admitting when things have gotten beyond what you can handle on your own. It happens to all of us at some point! And you don't have to stay there. There's relief and peace waiting for you.
(410) 220-4086 View (410) 220-4086
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Megan Hartings
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21211
Please note that I have limited availability for new telehealth clients. My work with individuals addresses emotional regulation, relational difficulties, anxiety management, life transitions, and self-esteem. Additionally, I have received specialized training to work with individuals who are planning a pregnancy, have experienced a miscarriage, are currently pregnant, or are in their postpartum period. My work with parents of young children aims to address stress management, respond to specific behavioral concerns, increase effective communication, and improve the parent-child dynamic.
Please note that I have limited availability for new telehealth clients. My work with individuals addresses emotional regulation, relational difficulties, anxiety management, life transitions, and self-esteem. Additionally, I have received specialized training to work with individuals who are planning a pregnancy, have experienced a miscarriage, are currently pregnant, or are in their postpartum period. My work with parents of young children aims to address stress management, respond to specific behavioral concerns, increase effective communication, and improve the parent-child dynamic.
(410) 609-9740 View (410) 609-9740
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Paulette S Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21218  (Online Only)
Welcome! Many individuals seek the support of therapy at some point in their lives. The assistance of a skilled and caring therapist can have many benefits. While these benefits may vary, just beginning the process can help ease some of the isolation we all can feel. My mission is to assist my clients with recognizing their innate strengths and build resilience through the use of integrated therapeutic approaches, which include but are not limited to cognitive behavioral therapy, psychoanalysis, goal-oriented therapy and trauma-informed care.
Welcome! Many individuals seek the support of therapy at some point in their lives. The assistance of a skilled and caring therapist can have many benefits. While these benefits may vary, just beginning the process can help ease some of the isolation we all can feel. My mission is to assist my clients with recognizing their innate strengths and build resilience through the use of integrated therapeutic approaches, which include but are not limited to cognitive behavioral therapy, psychoanalysis, goal-oriented therapy and trauma-informed care.
(301) 888-5637 View (301) 888-5637
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Sara Murry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baltimore, MD 21214  (Online Only)
Do you want to learn to manage difficult emotions, build a better life, and increase your self-acceptance? I will create a safe and affirming space to collaborate with you on your journey of self-discovery, explore your deeper issues, and move towards thriving in your well being. As a therapist I am thoughtful, warm, and communicative. I genuinely see the best in people while holding a judgement-free space to explore needs, work through challenges, and accomplish goals.
Do you want to learn to manage difficult emotions, build a better life, and increase your self-acceptance? I will create a safe and affirming space to collaborate with you on your journey of self-discovery, explore your deeper issues, and move towards thriving in your well being. As a therapist I am thoughtful, warm, and communicative. I genuinely see the best in people while holding a judgement-free space to explore needs, work through challenges, and accomplish goals.
(443) 648-9760 View (443) 648-9760
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OHV-Mental Health Clinic
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Baltimore, MD 21215
I work with patients that need mental health and drug addiction challenges in the area of psychotherapy needs.
I work with patients that need mental health and drug addiction challenges in the area of psychotherapy needs.
(410) 267-4208 View (410) 267-4208
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.