Emotionally Focused Therapists in Durham, CT

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Heather Boardman
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Durham, CT 06422
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My specialty is helping clients identify how unhealed issues from the past may be affecting your present day life. My training in systemic family therapy, 18 years of experience working with clients in child and family agencies, the judicial system and private practice grounds my therapeutic approach when working with clients. I am also a certified Life Coach having been trained in an intensive methodology based on a foundation of deep personal reflection and growth.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My specialty is helping clients identify how unhealed issues from the past may be affecting your present day life. My training in systemic family therapy, 18 years of experience working with clients in child and family agencies, the judicial system and private practice grounds my therapeutic approach when working with clients. I am also a certified Life Coach having been trained in an intensive methodology based on a foundation of deep personal reflection and growth.
(860) 744-5365 View (860) 744-5365
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Akiva Schmookler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, CT 06422
I am now accepting new patients with expanded office hours. I am passionate about helping people move forward in their lives and from feeling stuck to being more aware of what is holding them back. I provide my clients with the tools to move forward and to face their fears and lack of belief in themselves. I use a non-judgmental space, allowing you to share concerns, set up goals and to find solutions. Are you feeling that you are not the person that you really can be? Are you anxious? Feeling limited? Are you unable to move past disappointing events or relationships? You no longer need to struggle alone.
I am now accepting new patients with expanded office hours. I am passionate about helping people move forward in their lives and from feeling stuck to being more aware of what is holding them back. I provide my clients with the tools to move forward and to face their fears and lack of belief in themselves. I use a non-judgmental space, allowing you to share concerns, set up goals and to find solutions. Are you feeling that you are not the person that you really can be? Are you anxious? Feeling limited? Are you unable to move past disappointing events or relationships? You no longer need to struggle alone.
(475) 234-2546 View (475) 234-2546
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Liz Talbot
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, CGP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, CT 06422  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of motherhood? Maybe you're grieving the loss of a loved one or a relationship, or struggling to move forward from the weight of trauma, depression and anxiety symptoms. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Professional and owner of Whole Wellness Counseling, LLC. I specialize in working with mothers of young children with training in Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders; pregnancy loss; those struggling with PTSD, and am trained in Grief and Loss. In our sessions together, I will meet you with compassion and grace using evidence-based techniques with a laid-back approach.
Feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of motherhood? Maybe you're grieving the loss of a loved one or a relationship, or struggling to move forward from the weight of trauma, depression and anxiety symptoms. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Professional and owner of Whole Wellness Counseling, LLC. I specialize in working with mothers of young children with training in Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders; pregnancy loss; those struggling with PTSD, and am trained in Grief and Loss. In our sessions together, I will meet you with compassion and grace using evidence-based techniques with a laid-back approach.
(203) 989-4613 View (203) 989-4613

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Heather Agid
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457
Are you looking for a supportive space to process your thoughts, emotions, and experiences without judgement? Are you carrying around the weight of stress, trauma or worry all day? Whether you're looking for structured trauma treatment such as EMDR, anxiety and depression management through CBT or emotionally focused talk therapy for everyday challenges, your needs will be prioritized in sessions. Together, we will work on creating a plan that feels comfortable and effective at helping you feel better so you can get back to your life. I offer in person and virtual appointments depending on your preference.
Are you looking for a supportive space to process your thoughts, emotions, and experiences without judgement? Are you carrying around the weight of stress, trauma or worry all day? Whether you're looking for structured trauma treatment such as EMDR, anxiety and depression management through CBT or emotionally focused talk therapy for everyday challenges, your needs will be prioritized in sessions. Together, we will work on creating a plan that feels comfortable and effective at helping you feel better so you can get back to your life. I offer in person and virtual appointments depending on your preference.
(860) 590-8217 View (860) 590-8217
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Christina Lake
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR, EFT
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
Hi. I enjoy helping people recover from PTSD, losses depression and anxiety. I also enjoy helping couples restore balance in their relationships. Twenty-five years experience in counseling includes training in EMDR, EFT, Drug and Alcohol Counseling and couples therapy. Also trained in teaching of relaxation, meditation and mindfulness techniques as well as spiritual psychology.
Hi. I enjoy helping people recover from PTSD, losses depression and anxiety. I also enjoy helping couples restore balance in their relationships. Twenty-five years experience in counseling includes training in EMDR, EFT, Drug and Alcohol Counseling and couples therapy. Also trained in teaching of relaxation, meditation and mindfulness techniques as well as spiritual psychology.
(203) 439-5464 View (203) 439-5464
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Maureen McCann
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Guilford, CT 06437  (Online Only)
l continue to love working with couples and base my therapy on the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
I welcome Individuals and couples in my practice. Clients seeking therapy may be experiencing anxiety, depression and grief, Others may be wanting to develop strategies to help balance the demands of relationships, parenting, work, life cycle transitions, and finding time to look after their own needs. In seeking therapy, they wish to gain greater clarity and understanding of their issues and themselves.
l continue to love working with couples and base my therapy on the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
I welcome Individuals and couples in my practice. Clients seeking therapy may be experiencing anxiety, depression and grief, Others may be wanting to develop strategies to help balance the demands of relationships, parenting, work, life cycle transitions, and finding time to look after their own needs. In seeking therapy, they wish to gain greater clarity and understanding of their issues and themselves.
(860) 615-9949 View (860) 615-9949
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Wellness Within, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457  (Online Only)
Are you ready to explore the functions of your behavior and discover healthy ways to effect change? Our approach when working together will be to not only identify and process adverse experiences but to explore how they impact your dreams. My approach with clients is always from a strengths perspective as I believe that people are inherently resilient and already have a variety of tools in their personal toolbox. A strong therapeutic alliance is critical to the development of skills to facilitate change. I consider it a tremendous privilege to work with clients and help be an agent of change as you navigate all of life's challenges.
Are you ready to explore the functions of your behavior and discover healthy ways to effect change? Our approach when working together will be to not only identify and process adverse experiences but to explore how they impact your dreams. My approach with clients is always from a strengths perspective as I believe that people are inherently resilient and already have a variety of tools in their personal toolbox. A strong therapeutic alliance is critical to the development of skills to facilitate change. I consider it a tremendous privilege to work with clients and help be an agent of change as you navigate all of life's challenges.
(860) 512-7181 View (860) 512-7181
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Christina Kalogeris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
Christina is a bilingual (Greek-English) Licensed Clinical Social Worker with experience working with adults. Christina obtained her Bachelor’s degree in social work from Southern Connecticut State University and her Master’s degree in social work from New York University. Christina has experience working in residential, substance use and behavioral health outpatient centers. Christina specializes in working with adults in individual therapy who are struggling with anxiety, depression, bipolar, trauma, adjusting to life changes, substance abuse as well as relationship problems.
Christina is a bilingual (Greek-English) Licensed Clinical Social Worker with experience working with adults. Christina obtained her Bachelor’s degree in social work from Southern Connecticut State University and her Master’s degree in social work from New York University. Christina has experience working in residential, substance use and behavioral health outpatient centers. Christina specializes in working with adults in individual therapy who are struggling with anxiety, depression, bipolar, trauma, adjusting to life changes, substance abuse as well as relationship problems.
(860) 962-4644 View (860) 962-4644
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Amber Reyna
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSSA
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457  (Online Only)
My goal during sessions is to help support you in an unbiased, non-judgmental, open-minded environment, where you are validated, listened to, and better understood. I ask clarifying questions to help create a mental image of your experiences from an empathic approach. We will work together to explore perspectives and develop additional coping strategies, building upon areas of strength.
My goal during sessions is to help support you in an unbiased, non-judgmental, open-minded environment, where you are validated, listened to, and better understood. I ask clarifying questions to help create a mental image of your experiences from an empathic approach. We will work together to explore perspectives and develop additional coping strategies, building upon areas of strength.
(860) 864-4819 View (860) 864-4819
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Assured Peaceful Solutions Counseling, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
DaJavon Davis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience working with a variety of age groups from diverse environments. He has worked with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples in various settings including outpatient, residential treatment facilities, and in-home services. DaJavon strongly believes that therapy is a way to help people explore and develop new ways to experience life. DaJavon is client focused and believes in working collaboratively with clients.
DaJavon Davis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with experience working with a variety of age groups from diverse environments. He has worked with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples in various settings including outpatient, residential treatment facilities, and in-home services. DaJavon strongly believes that therapy is a way to help people explore and develop new ways to experience life. DaJavon is client focused and believes in working collaboratively with clients.
(860) 881-3090 View (860) 881-3090
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Alex Klein, MS, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, LCSW
Verified Verified
Guilford, CT 06437
As a licensed clinical therapist and masters level recreational specialist, my expertise in psychotherapy has been built over the course of two decades working with adolescents, adults, and families. Whether supporting adolescents as they undergo a difficult life transition or mediating conflict among adults and families, my services are designed to help individuals navigate the complexities that often come with an array of emotions and challenging life situations.
As a licensed clinical therapist and masters level recreational specialist, my expertise in psychotherapy has been built over the course of two decades working with adolescents, adults, and families. Whether supporting adolescents as they undergo a difficult life transition or mediating conflict among adults and families, my services are designed to help individuals navigate the complexities that often come with an array of emotions and challenging life situations.
(203) 275-0145 View (203) 275-0145
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Nancy Diane Varga
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LADC
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
Waitlist for new clients
I am a licensed clinical social worker. I specialize in helping clients who are dealing with issues related to an oncology diagnosis, palliative care caregivers and or/chronic illness and grief and loss. I also have expertise in chemical dependence treatment and am a licensed alcohol and drug counselor.
I am a licensed clinical social worker. I specialize in helping clients who are dealing with issues related to an oncology diagnosis, palliative care caregivers and or/chronic illness and grief and loss. I also have expertise in chemical dependence treatment and am a licensed alcohol and drug counselor.
(860) 698-0977 View (860) 698-0977
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Elli Levy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LADC, EMDR
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
Elli is an LPC ( License Professional Counselor) and LADC (license drug and alcohol counselor, an MSW ( Master Social Work) ) and an EMDR specialist, who treats patients with anxiety, depression, trauma-related issues, PTSD, addictions and other life stressors which hinder full participation in a joyful, satisfying life. Everyone has obstacles and challenges which get in the way of realizing their full potential and happiness. Elli is able to use his vast experience and various therapeutic modalities to help you address these issues and be free to live the life you envision.
Elli is an LPC ( License Professional Counselor) and LADC (license drug and alcohol counselor, an MSW ( Master Social Work) ) and an EMDR specialist, who treats patients with anxiety, depression, trauma-related issues, PTSD, addictions and other life stressors which hinder full participation in a joyful, satisfying life. Everyone has obstacles and challenges which get in the way of realizing their full potential and happiness. Elli is able to use his vast experience and various therapeutic modalities to help you address these issues and be free to live the life you envision.
(860) 855-7923 View (860) 855-7923
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Suzanne Sutch
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457
**CURRENTLY TAKING NEW CLIENTS** Welcome, I want to thank you for considering me to be a part of your journey. Finding the right therapist is imperative to treatment and I believe that the therapeutic process is a collaborative one. With that, I strive to create strong connections with my clients in a safe, open and judgment free environment. I have been working in the counseling field since 2005 after earning my Bachelors Degree in Human Services and earning my Masters Degree from Saint Joseph College in Community Counseling.
**CURRENTLY TAKING NEW CLIENTS** Welcome, I want to thank you for considering me to be a part of your journey. Finding the right therapist is imperative to treatment and I believe that the therapeutic process is a collaborative one. With that, I strive to create strong connections with my clients in a safe, open and judgment free environment. I have been working in the counseling field since 2005 after earning my Bachelors Degree in Human Services and earning my Masters Degree from Saint Joseph College in Community Counseling.
(860) 398-5903 View (860) 398-5903
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Carolyn Noonan Sowa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
Carolyn is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults and the elderly in a variety of settings including hospitals, assisted living facilities, residential centers, mobile crisis, private practice and community based mental health centers. Carolyn specializes in the treatment of anxiety, depression, trauma, relational issues, aging, adjustment related issues, bereavement and loss. She uses a person centered, strength based and goal-oriented approach in her therapy practice.
Carolyn is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults and the elderly in a variety of settings including hospitals, assisted living facilities, residential centers, mobile crisis, private practice and community based mental health centers. Carolyn specializes in the treatment of anxiety, depression, trauma, relational issues, aging, adjustment related issues, bereavement and loss. She uses a person centered, strength based and goal-oriented approach in her therapy practice.
(860) 935-6061 View (860) 935-6061
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Lauri Weber
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, LADC, MFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457
Addiction is one of the most serious epidemics of our time. I specialize in treating individuals and families who are struggling with the pain of loving someone who suffers with the disease of addiction. For every person struggling with addiction, there are family members and friends affected, and they also face many challenges. Addiction, the resulting trauma and interpersonal conflicts can manifest in depression, anxiety and anger. With support, professional guidance and empathy, those grappling with these challenges can find the strength, hope and determination to create change and find new meaning in their lives.
Addiction is one of the most serious epidemics of our time. I specialize in treating individuals and families who are struggling with the pain of loving someone who suffers with the disease of addiction. For every person struggling with addiction, there are family members and friends affected, and they also face many challenges. Addiction, the resulting trauma and interpersonal conflicts can manifest in depression, anxiety and anger. With support, professional guidance and empathy, those grappling with these challenges can find the strength, hope and determination to create change and find new meaning in their lives.
(860) 901-1645 View (860) 901-1645
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Joanne Tan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Killingworth, CT 06419
Sometimes you feel like a failure. No matter what you do, nothing works and you just don't know what to do anymore. Perhaps you are feeling very alone; yet putting up that façade so people have no idea what you are going through. When we are feeling so stuck, hopeless, or alone, it is really difficult to know what to do differently and it is hard to know how to reach out for help. You have taken the first courageous step in making a change by coming here. What if I told you that there is hope? We will explore what is meaningful to you and help you recover joy. We will cry, laugh, and work on your strengths.
Sometimes you feel like a failure. No matter what you do, nothing works and you just don't know what to do anymore. Perhaps you are feeling very alone; yet putting up that façade so people have no idea what you are going through. When we are feeling so stuck, hopeless, or alone, it is really difficult to know what to do differently and it is hard to know how to reach out for help. You have taken the first courageous step in making a change by coming here. What if I told you that there is hope? We will explore what is meaningful to you and help you recover joy. We will cry, laugh, and work on your strengths.
(860) 909-8632 View (860) 909-8632
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Sean Macauley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
Relationships can be difficult - AND profoundly rewarding. My years of professional and personal experience allow me to support you in negotiating transitions, milestones, traumas and losses. I specialize in helping you balance the needs of the family with the demands of the workplace and/or schooling. My goal is to partner with you to shift your struggle as a perceived burden to struggle as an opportunity for growth. I want to empower you to love yourself and your life again and show you how much influence you have on your emotional choices. My practice is strength based with a firm emphasis on the therapist/client relationship.
Relationships can be difficult - AND profoundly rewarding. My years of professional and personal experience allow me to support you in negotiating transitions, milestones, traumas and losses. I specialize in helping you balance the needs of the family with the demands of the workplace and/or schooling. My goal is to partner with you to shift your struggle as a perceived burden to struggle as an opportunity for growth. I want to empower you to love yourself and your life again and show you how much influence you have on your emotional choices. My practice is strength based with a firm emphasis on the therapist/client relationship.
(860) 809-5694 View (860) 809-5694
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Brenda I Adams
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MM, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, CT 06457
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, my strengths are working with couples, individuals, families, military personnel and business professionals. I am successful treating clients who are adjusting to life transitions, work related stress, anxiety and depression. My approach to psychotherapy is a collaborative holistic wellness model which highlights and builds on the clients' strengths. My philosophy is simple, I listen to what my clients are saying and then together we come up with therapeutic goals that lead to solutions. I use my education, clinical training and life experience to help clients solve very complex problems.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, my strengths are working with couples, individuals, families, military personnel and business professionals. I am successful treating clients who are adjusting to life transitions, work related stress, anxiety and depression. My approach to psychotherapy is a collaborative holistic wellness model which highlights and builds on the clients' strengths. My philosophy is simple, I listen to what my clients are saying and then together we come up with therapeutic goals that lead to solutions. I use my education, clinical training and life experience to help clients solve very complex problems.
(860) 513-2325 x1 View (860) 513-2325 x1
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Gretchen L Berke
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Middletown, CT 06457
From a sex-positive framework, I guide, collaborate and walk with my clients toward satisfying, better connected relationships and improved sexual functioning. My integrative approach combines psycho-sexual education with cognitive-behavioral techniques to address obstacles that stand in the way of achieving good health, healing and happiness. My holistic model is embracive and all-inclusive ensuring that your voice is heard and validated. I enjoy working with all genders, orientations and relationship statuses.
From a sex-positive framework, I guide, collaborate and walk with my clients toward satisfying, better connected relationships and improved sexual functioning. My integrative approach combines psycho-sexual education with cognitive-behavioral techniques to address obstacles that stand in the way of achieving good health, healing and happiness. My holistic model is embracive and all-inclusive ensuring that your voice is heard and validated. I enjoy working with all genders, orientations and relationship statuses.
(860) 785-2014 View (860) 785-2014

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.