Emotionally Focused Therapists in Ventura, CA

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Jenean Cervantes
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93003
Do you find it difficult to articulate how you're feeling but know that something feels like it's missing? Are you having difficulty accessing your passion or connection to life? The meaningful connection you are seeking may in fact be with parts of yourself. Many of us are secretly wrestling with inner complexities and feeling alone in the process, yet we do not have to be. My goal is to partner with you in a deeper relationship with yourself that results in a deeper presence to your life, an awareness of patterns that may no longer be serving you and forming relationships where you are being seen and loved for your authentic self.
Do you find it difficult to articulate how you're feeling but know that something feels like it's missing? Are you having difficulty accessing your passion or connection to life? The meaningful connection you are seeking may in fact be with parts of yourself. Many of us are secretly wrestling with inner complexities and feeling alone in the process, yet we do not have to be. My goal is to partner with you in a deeper relationship with yourself that results in a deeper presence to your life, an awareness of patterns that may no longer be serving you and forming relationships where you are being seen and loved for your authentic self.
(805) 977-5534 View (805) 977-5534
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Nydia Lorraine Mendez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001
Hi there, I’m Nydia! I focus on working with adult women struggling with anxiety and relationship distress. I use a compassionate approach providing a safe space where clients can experience the healing powers of grace, empathy, and validation. I believe all behavior makes sense in the larger context of emotions and attachment needs. My approach uses a combination of Emotionally Focused Therapy and Attachment Theory to understand the unmet needs our emotions try to communicate, identify relational patterns we get stuck in, and then use this information to empower clients to find new ways to get previously unmet need satisfied.
Hi there, I’m Nydia! I focus on working with adult women struggling with anxiety and relationship distress. I use a compassionate approach providing a safe space where clients can experience the healing powers of grace, empathy, and validation. I believe all behavior makes sense in the larger context of emotions and attachment needs. My approach uses a combination of Emotionally Focused Therapy and Attachment Theory to understand the unmet needs our emotions try to communicate, identify relational patterns we get stuck in, and then use this information to empower clients to find new ways to get previously unmet need satisfied.
(805) 856-6856 View (805) 856-6856
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Dianne Nicholas
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93004
I am trained in EMDR (trauma treatment), Theraplay (attachment-trauma child therapy) DDP (attachment Family Therapy), EFT (emotionally focused couples therapy) DBT (dialectic behavior therapy) and TFCBT (trauma-focused CBT).
Life's challenges today are increasing levels of trauma, anxiety, depression, dramatic mood shifts and lowering self-esteem. I can offer a safe, sensitive, compassionate, relationship based solution. Together we will explore the impact of painful thoughts and emotions enabling us to develop a basis for clear insight and set the stage for hopeful growth and transformation.
I am trained in EMDR (trauma treatment), Theraplay (attachment-trauma child therapy) DDP (attachment Family Therapy), EFT (emotionally focused couples therapy) DBT (dialectic behavior therapy) and TFCBT (trauma-focused CBT).
Life's challenges today are increasing levels of trauma, anxiety, depression, dramatic mood shifts and lowering self-esteem. I can offer a safe, sensitive, compassionate, relationship based solution. Together we will explore the impact of painful thoughts and emotions enabling us to develop a basis for clear insight and set the stage for hopeful growth and transformation.
(805) 874-5084 View (805) 874-5084
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Jenean Cervantes
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT, CPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93003
Do you find it difficult to articulate how you're feeling but know that something feels like it's missing? Are you having difficulty accessing your passion or connection to life? The meaningful connection you are seeking may in fact be with parts of yourself. Many of us are secretly wrestling with inner complexities and feeling alone in the process, yet we do not have to be. My goal is to partner with you in a deeper relationship with yourself that results in a deeper presence to your life, an awareness of patterns that may no longer be serving you and forming relationships where you are being seen and loved for your authentic self.
Do you find it difficult to articulate how you're feeling but know that something feels like it's missing? Are you having difficulty accessing your passion or connection to life? The meaningful connection you are seeking may in fact be with parts of yourself. Many of us are secretly wrestling with inner complexities and feeling alone in the process, yet we do not have to be. My goal is to partner with you in a deeper relationship with yourself that results in a deeper presence to your life, an awareness of patterns that may no longer be serving you and forming relationships where you are being seen and loved for your authentic self.
(805) 823-2470 View (805) 823-2470
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Shira Mehrnia
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93003  (Online Only)
My treatment approach includes an eclectic blend of mindfulness, depth psychology, EMDR, dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) and emotionally focused therapy (EFT).
My goal is to help my clients expand their capacity for trust and intimacy in relationships and improve their overall quality of life. I help people struggling with depression, anxiety, low self esteem, relationship issues and women suffering from prepartum and postpartum depression. I have extensive experience in the treatment of eating disorders and body image issues.
My treatment approach includes an eclectic blend of mindfulness, depth psychology, EMDR, dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) and emotionally focused therapy (EFT).
My goal is to help my clients expand their capacity for trust and intimacy in relationships and improve their overall quality of life. I help people struggling with depression, anxiety, low self esteem, relationship issues and women suffering from prepartum and postpartum depression. I have extensive experience in the treatment of eating disorders and body image issues.
(805) 954-9633 View (805) 954-9633
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Cloda Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93003
I am versed in Behavior Analysis, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Psycho-educational Techniques, Psychodynamic Therapy, Imago Therapy, Schema Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Brief Solution Therapy.
Greetings and welcome to Path Mental Health. My name is Dr. Jones. I am a clinical and school psychologist and counselor. I have over 25 years of experience working with children and families. I am licensed as a social worker and professional counselor in the state of California. I have worked with clients on relationships, individual issues, and career counseling. I specialize in relationship issues, past trauma, grieving, anxiety, and depression. Life can be stressful, and at times, we all need someone to talk with and help sort things out. My approach is to utilize a toolbox of interventions warmly and compassionately.
I am versed in Behavior Analysis, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Psycho-educational Techniques, Psychodynamic Therapy, Imago Therapy, Schema Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Brief Solution Therapy.
Greetings and welcome to Path Mental Health. My name is Dr. Jones. I am a clinical and school psychologist and counselor. I have over 25 years of experience working with children and families. I am licensed as a social worker and professional counselor in the state of California. I have worked with clients on relationships, individual issues, and career counseling. I specialize in relationship issues, past trauma, grieving, anxiety, and depression. Life can be stressful, and at times, we all need someone to talk with and help sort things out. My approach is to utilize a toolbox of interventions warmly and compassionately.
(831) 400-5714 View (831) 400-5714
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Russell A Collins
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93001
I am an Emotionally Focused Therapist, and this is the work I do.
Conflict is a part of every vital relationship. If you are suffering in your relationship, it’s not because you have differences. In most cases, it’s because the way couples automatically protect themselves from being hurt - with silence, defensiveness or harsh words – builds walls between them, in an escalating cycle of frustration and misunderstanding. When even your best efforts at reconnecting just seem to exacerbate your mutual feelings of disconnection, it may be time to shine a healing light on these interactions and the hurt places that fuel them. This is the path of Emotionally Focused Therapy.
I am an Emotionally Focused Therapist, and this is the work I do.
Conflict is a part of every vital relationship. If you are suffering in your relationship, it’s not because you have differences. In most cases, it’s because the way couples automatically protect themselves from being hurt - with silence, defensiveness or harsh words – builds walls between them, in an escalating cycle of frustration and misunderstanding. When even your best efforts at reconnecting just seem to exacerbate your mutual feelings of disconnection, it may be time to shine a healing light on these interactions and the hurt places that fuel them. This is the path of Emotionally Focused Therapy.
(805) 693-4109 View (805) 693-4109
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Couples Therapy Institute
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93001
Trained in trauma, resilience, and attachment theory: CBT, EFT, somatic, transpersonal, family systems therapy.
Do you want to be happier, more satisfied, or feel better? As a therapist with over 25 years experience, I have supported clients in healing through change and personal growth. I offer a safe, confidential environment to explore emotional patterns that may be preventing clients from living up to their fullest potential. CERTIFIED FIRST RESPONDER COUNSELOR-Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM). CERTIFIED GOTTMAN COUPLES THERAPIST. Experienced Rover Therapist at the Art & Science of Love Workshops facilitated by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. COMPREHENSIVE COUPLES ASSESSMENTS - ONLINE THERAPY AVAILABLE.
Trained in trauma, resilience, and attachment theory: CBT, EFT, somatic, transpersonal, family systems therapy.
Do you want to be happier, more satisfied, or feel better? As a therapist with over 25 years experience, I have supported clients in healing through change and personal growth. I offer a safe, confidential environment to explore emotional patterns that may be preventing clients from living up to their fullest potential. CERTIFIED FIRST RESPONDER COUNSELOR-Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM). CERTIFIED GOTTMAN COUPLES THERAPIST. Experienced Rover Therapist at the Art & Science of Love Workshops facilitated by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. COMPREHENSIVE COUPLES ASSESSMENTS - ONLINE THERAPY AVAILABLE.
(805) 883-6199 View (805) 883-6199
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Dr. Rachel Chistyakov
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93003
My approach to therapy focuses on healing, connection, and emotional insight to allow individuals, couples, and families to reach their goals and improve their lives. We will work together to tailor your treatment so that whatever may be affecting you can be worked through in a safe, comfortable space. I utilize different treatment modalities like EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy and TRM to bring you the best treatment for your personalized needs. Some of my specialty areas include grief & loss, PTSD, couples and family therapy, depression, and anxiety.
My approach to therapy focuses on healing, connection, and emotional insight to allow individuals, couples, and families to reach their goals and improve their lives. We will work together to tailor your treatment so that whatever may be affecting you can be worked through in a safe, comfortable space. I utilize different treatment modalities like EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy and TRM to bring you the best treatment for your personalized needs. Some of my specialty areas include grief & loss, PTSD, couples and family therapy, depression, and anxiety.
(747) 999-8610 View (747) 999-8610
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Matthew Levy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001
I have training in emotionally focused therapy which is I use to assist couples and individuals understand how their early childhood attachments might be affecting they way they communicate, not only with their romantic partner, but in all areas of their lives.
Many people go to therapy because they want better. That is my main objective for all my clients no matter what their present situation might be. Whether this involves your relationship, your anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, addictions or gender difficulties, counseling can provide a virtual road map towards your better, or maybe even, best version of yourself. In taking the time to search this site, you've already taken the first step towards that very outcome. I provide a safe, comfortable, confidential environment in which I assist my clients work towards the goal of better, stronger, and of course, healthier.
I have training in emotionally focused therapy which is I use to assist couples and individuals understand how their early childhood attachments might be affecting they way they communicate, not only with their romantic partner, but in all areas of their lives.
Many people go to therapy because they want better. That is my main objective for all my clients no matter what their present situation might be. Whether this involves your relationship, your anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, addictions or gender difficulties, counseling can provide a virtual road map towards your better, or maybe even, best version of yourself. In taking the time to search this site, you've already taken the first step towards that very outcome. I provide a safe, comfortable, confidential environment in which I assist my clients work towards the goal of better, stronger, and of course, healthier.
(818) 491-3205 View (818) 491-3205
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Anisha Patel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93004  (Online Only)
Some of the therapy approaches include EMDR, CBT, EFT tapping.
Are you struggling with overcoming depression, anxiety, and/or PTSD due to trauma? For nearly 20 years I have worked with individuals to heal from various traumatic experiences. I look to create an empowering space for all the adults and teens I work with including tailoring therapy approaches to meet the specific needs of the individual.
Some of the therapy approaches include EMDR, CBT, EFT tapping.
Are you struggling with overcoming depression, anxiety, and/or PTSD due to trauma? For nearly 20 years I have worked with individuals to heal from various traumatic experiences. I look to create an empowering space for all the adults and teens I work with including tailoring therapy approaches to meet the specific needs of the individual.
(805) 623-0993 View (805) 623-0993
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CA Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
Ventura, CA 93001
Life can be challenging, but you don't have to just 'tough it out'. If you are having a hard time and need some support, please reach out. You don't have to wait to start therapy. We know that it can be hard to make that phone call or send that email. We welcome each client with a genuine, down-to-Earth, and collaborative approach to therapy.
Life can be challenging, but you don't have to just 'tough it out'. If you are having a hard time and need some support, please reach out. You don't have to wait to start therapy. We know that it can be hard to make that phone call or send that email. We welcome each client with a genuine, down-to-Earth, and collaborative approach to therapy.
(805) 360-5462 View (805) 360-5462
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John J Dowling Lmft
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCHt
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001
I work with a diverse population of clients providing individual, group, couples, and family therapy to those struggling with alcoholism, drug addiction, eating disorders as well as mood and anxiety disorders. I have extensive experience working in both inpatient settings and in my private practice. In my work I am compassionate, engaged, attentive, playful, fierce, challenging, non-judgmental, and tender. I am a client centered, humanistic, depth psychologist, which means that therapy is focused on clients and their issues. I believe in authenticity, genuineness, and unconditional positive regard. Together we work to address multiple areas of client's life.
I work with a diverse population of clients providing individual, group, couples, and family therapy to those struggling with alcoholism, drug addiction, eating disorders as well as mood and anxiety disorders. I have extensive experience working in both inpatient settings and in my private practice. In my work I am compassionate, engaged, attentive, playful, fierce, challenging, non-judgmental, and tender. I am a client centered, humanistic, depth psychologist, which means that therapy is focused on clients and their issues. I believe in authenticity, genuineness, and unconditional positive regard. Together we work to address multiple areas of client's life.
(805) 633-6626 View (805) 633-6626
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Lorena Ferrari
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001
Have you ever wondered which experiences in your life have the most influence over the way that you feel? I specialize in helping you find these answers through relationships. Your relationship with yourself, partner and family. Together we can tailor a treatment to focus on your strengths and areas of needed support. I utilize a specialized modality called EMDR that can help us gain insight about yourself, your past experiences that have shaped who you are today, and work through the healing process together. My goal is to provide support and a safe place to let your guard down thus enriching your relationships.
Have you ever wondered which experiences in your life have the most influence over the way that you feel? I specialize in helping you find these answers through relationships. Your relationship with yourself, partner and family. Together we can tailor a treatment to focus on your strengths and areas of needed support. I utilize a specialized modality called EMDR that can help us gain insight about yourself, your past experiences that have shaped who you are today, and work through the healing process together. My goal is to provide support and a safe place to let your guard down thus enriching your relationships.
(805) 429-6518 View (805) 429-6518
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Lala Tagiyeva
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001  (Online Only)
What if you could equip yourself with a toolset that will inform your path going forward? Let's examine what brought you to this moment, your struggles and strengths, and focus on developing effective strategies in helping you grow into an empowered state!
What if you could equip yourself with a toolset that will inform your path going forward? Let's examine what brought you to this moment, your struggles and strengths, and focus on developing effective strategies in helping you grow into an empowered state!
(424) 361-1037 View (424) 361-1037
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Clyde Blair
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001
Your Life Matters. We are all here to experience more joy, success, and fulfillment in life. Whether you have an emotional issue such as depression or anxiety, an addiction, or a problem with your relationship, I can help you work through your challenges and create positive changes in your life. My clients' greatest successes have come from being supported in finding the answers to their problems and building new skills and actions to move forward. As a licensed Therapist I've helped people find positive solutions to their problems, issues, and challenges for over 25 years. I can help you too. Reach out and get some support today!
Your Life Matters. We are all here to experience more joy, success, and fulfillment in life. Whether you have an emotional issue such as depression or anxiety, an addiction, or a problem with your relationship, I can help you work through your challenges and create positive changes in your life. My clients' greatest successes have come from being supported in finding the answers to their problems and building new skills and actions to move forward. As a licensed Therapist I've helped people find positive solutions to their problems, issues, and challenges for over 25 years. I can help you too. Reach out and get some support today!
(805) 350-7998 View (805) 350-7998
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Julia Youn
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93003
Oftentimes, how we have learned to get by in life is by doing what has worked, until it doesn't. This results in feeling overwhelmed, stressed, burnt out, frustrated. Our jobs are not exciting anymore, we fight with our loved ones, and sometimes we stop enjoying the things that have inspired us. My hope is that together we can get past unhelpful patterns, learn new skills, and gain new insight.
Oftentimes, how we have learned to get by in life is by doing what has worked, until it doesn't. This results in feeling overwhelmed, stressed, burnt out, frustrated. Our jobs are not exciting anymore, we fight with our loved ones, and sometimes we stop enjoying the things that have inspired us. My hope is that together we can get past unhelpful patterns, learn new skills, and gain new insight.
(805) 623-7211 View (805) 623-7211
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John Casey Friedeck
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93004  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, my name is John, and I care about you. You matter. You are a wonderful person no matter what your past is and what struggles you are facing today. No matter who I am working with through their specific life struggles, I have a profound propensity to develop compassionate and empathic bonds with those I have been lucky enough to companion through the inevitable pitfalls of our imperfect worlds. I am here for YOU.
Hello, my name is John, and I care about you. You matter. You are a wonderful person no matter what your past is and what struggles you are facing today. No matter who I am working with through their specific life struggles, I have a profound propensity to develop compassionate and empathic bonds with those I have been lucky enough to companion through the inevitable pitfalls of our imperfect worlds. I am here for YOU.
(805) 209-0332 View (805) 209-0332
Maple Counseling Center of Ventura
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93003
Welcome to Maple Counseling Center created to provide quality care for the Medi-cal, Carelon, Gold Coast and uninsured client. We have a staff of 20 incredibly talented trainees, associates and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, who are ready to assist you in creating the life you want! They have varied backgrounds and all share a passion to work hard for their clients. Located in Ventura, right off the Victoria exit. In person or Telehealth appointments available. We are adding registered associates to ease the wait time to be seen.
Welcome to Maple Counseling Center created to provide quality care for the Medi-cal, Carelon, Gold Coast and uninsured client. We have a staff of 20 incredibly talented trainees, associates and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, who are ready to assist you in creating the life you want! They have varied backgrounds and all share a passion to work hard for their clients. Located in Ventura, right off the Victoria exit. In person or Telehealth appointments available. We are adding registered associates to ease the wait time to be seen.
(805) 666-1264 View (805) 666-1264
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Kathleen F. Streeter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, , LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ventura, CA 93001
Are you feeling stuck or anxious? Do you doubt your self-worth, even though other people say you are smart, creative and capable? You may have tried to figure out on your own what you are doing wrong, but this has left you feeling lonely, even in your closest relationships. Some issues are too difficult to confront alone - past trauma, broken connections, life transitions, and painful loss. Together, we will work through the things that are holding you back. No two people are alike, so I will collaborate with you to define your unique treatment goals. Let’s start improving your life and relationships today!
Are you feeling stuck or anxious? Do you doubt your self-worth, even though other people say you are smart, creative and capable? You may have tried to figure out on your own what you are doing wrong, but this has left you feeling lonely, even in your closest relationships. Some issues are too difficult to confront alone - past trauma, broken connections, life transitions, and painful loss. Together, we will work through the things that are holding you back. No two people are alike, so I will collaborate with you to define your unique treatment goals. Let’s start improving your life and relationships today!
(805) 421-4568 View (805) 421-4568
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.