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Charlie Ruff
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95112
My name is Charlie Ruff (She, her). I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (38646) who sees individuals and couples via Telehealth. People often experience anxiety and depression regarding their relationships. I particularly enjoy helping my clients talk to themselves and their partners about their concerns in ways that help them de-escalate and create a secure bond. My approach with both individuals and couples is Emotionally Focused Therapy, an evidenced-based therapy for couples as evaluated by Division 12 of the American Psychological Association according to 1998 guidelines.
My name is Charlie Ruff (She, her). I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (38646) who sees individuals and couples via Telehealth. People often experience anxiety and depression regarding their relationships. I particularly enjoy helping my clients talk to themselves and their partners about their concerns in ways that help them de-escalate and create a secure bond. My approach with both individuals and couples is Emotionally Focused Therapy, an evidenced-based therapy for couples as evaluated by Division 12 of the American Psychological Association according to 1998 guidelines.
(707) 394-0220 View (707) 394-0220
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Numbiya Aziz
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95112
Most men will experience some form of impotence in their lifetime, and the likelihood of developing symptoms increases with age and declining health. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a number of factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, and clogged arteries due to heart problems, or old age. In normal, healthy men, erections are activated by arousal, which activates pleasure centers in the brain. The brain sends messages down the spinal column, ending in the penile arteries. Pressure/shockwave treatments supports athletic sports injuries that can also contribute to inflammation restricting blood flow in the body.
Most men will experience some form of impotence in their lifetime, and the likelihood of developing symptoms increases with age and declining health. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a number of factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, and clogged arteries due to heart problems, or old age. In normal, healthy men, erections are activated by arousal, which activates pleasure centers in the brain. The brain sends messages down the spinal column, ending in the penile arteries. Pressure/shockwave treatments supports athletic sports injuries that can also contribute to inflammation restricting blood flow in the body.
(408) 418-2148 View (408) 418-2148
Photo of Henry Joseph Cordova, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 95112, CA
Henry Joseph Cordova
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95112
Hi there, I'm Henry Joseph, a licensed clinical social worker. I like working with individuals who are dealing with stress, anxiety, and depression. I also like working with individuals who are dealing with relationship, family, and job stress, as well as life transitions and stressful decisions. I have a background in mindfulness meditation and other mindfulness-based relaxation techniques. I look to emphasize and tap into your strengths to improve the overall quality of life. I strive to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and empathetic space that allows you to share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns freely.
Hi there, I'm Henry Joseph, a licensed clinical social worker. I like working with individuals who are dealing with stress, anxiety, and depression. I also like working with individuals who are dealing with relationship, family, and job stress, as well as life transitions and stressful decisions. I have a background in mindfulness meditation and other mindfulness-based relaxation techniques. I look to emphasize and tap into your strengths to improve the overall quality of life. I strive to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and empathetic space that allows you to share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns freely.
(530) 460-4848 View (530) 460-4848
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Joyce Davis
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95112
Hello, my name is Joyce Davis and I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California with 8 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with coping with substance use addiction, depression, and anxiety. Additionally, I have worked with clients with co-occurring disorders, that have struggled with substance abuse and mental health issues. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts, feelings, and various topics can be shared without fear of judgment. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change.
Hello, my name is Joyce Davis and I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California with 8 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with coping with substance use addiction, depression, and anxiety. Additionally, I have worked with clients with co-occurring disorders, that have struggled with substance abuse and mental health issues. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts, feelings, and various topics can be shared without fear of judgment. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change.
(559) 823-6011 View (559) 823-6011

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.