Photo of Carol D Pauls, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Carol D Pauls
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
I incorporate the use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness-based, Psychodynamic, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and EMDR.
Therapy is a wonderful first step on your journey of discovery about yourself and your relationships. Therapy can be life changing. I am a hands-on active therapist who is not afraid to roll up my sleeves and get to work. I will seek to give you real, concrete takeaways in order to help jumpstart meaningful change. Whether it is focusing on painful feelings, trauma, relationships, difficult life transitions, creative blocks, stress, or healing from challenging life experiences, my goal is to help you discover the obstacles that block positive growth while building on your strengths.
I incorporate the use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness-based, Psychodynamic, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and EMDR.
Therapy is a wonderful first step on your journey of discovery about yourself and your relationships. Therapy can be life changing. I am a hands-on active therapist who is not afraid to roll up my sleeves and get to work. I will seek to give you real, concrete takeaways in order to help jumpstart meaningful change. Whether it is focusing on painful feelings, trauma, relationships, difficult life transitions, creative blocks, stress, or healing from challenging life experiences, my goal is to help you discover the obstacles that block positive growth while building on your strengths.
(973) 434-5308 View (973) 434-5308
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Andrea Rawicz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I am an EFT-trained couples therapist (attachment-based emotionally focused therapy), EMDR-Certified, and completed an intensive internship in Structural Family Therapy.
I can, I'm capable, I have the capacity. My goal is to help you recognize these truths and use your strengths to improve your ability to cope with the difficulties you are going through. I view therapy as a collaborative process. Through our relationship, I will learn about your strengths and challenges and help bring you an awareness of both. We will also work on reducing symptoms of anxiety, depression or other roadblocks that are hurting your relationships or preventing you from achieving the things you aspire to. I'm interested in helping you challenge your negative assumptions and/or limitations about yourself.
I am an EFT-trained couples therapist (attachment-based emotionally focused therapy), EMDR-Certified, and completed an intensive internship in Structural Family Therapy.
I can, I'm capable, I have the capacity. My goal is to help you recognize these truths and use your strengths to improve your ability to cope with the difficulties you are going through. I view therapy as a collaborative process. Through our relationship, I will learn about your strengths and challenges and help bring you an awareness of both. We will also work on reducing symptoms of anxiety, depression or other roadblocks that are hurting your relationships or preventing you from achieving the things you aspire to. I'm interested in helping you challenge your negative assumptions and/or limitations about yourself.
(973) 287-3402 View (973) 287-3402
Photo of Sharon Rothbart, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Sharon Rothbart
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RN, MSW, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, and EMDR while I incorporate a multitude of therapy modalities to meet your needs.
I will assist you in identifying your strengths, and to help you flourish. I appreciate people's complexities, and will help you formulate the best way to move toward your goals. I have experience supporting clients with anxieties, panic, trauma, depression, isolation, divorce, relationship and career issues, and the grief associated with illness or loss. I am an avid LGBTQ supporter and have a deep commitment to human rights and exploring the gender spectrum as part of a healthy journey in life. I also help parents understand, support and accept children who are in the process of questioning their gender.
I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, and EMDR while I incorporate a multitude of therapy modalities to meet your needs.
I will assist you in identifying your strengths, and to help you flourish. I appreciate people's complexities, and will help you formulate the best way to move toward your goals. I have experience supporting clients with anxieties, panic, trauma, depression, isolation, divorce, relationship and career issues, and the grief associated with illness or loss. I am an avid LGBTQ supporter and have a deep commitment to human rights and exploring the gender spectrum as part of a healthy journey in life. I also help parents understand, support and accept children who are in the process of questioning their gender.
(973) 888-1125 View (973) 888-1125
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Stacia Thiel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW NJ, LCSW NY
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I work in a therapeutically collaborative way utilizing my experience in psychotherapy, structural family therapy and trauma therapy while integrating my work and training in: Hypnotherapy, EMDR, Mindfulness, CBT, EFT, Yogic Studies, and the Creative Arts.
Whether you seek individual, couples or family therapy I believe the challenges and struggles we face can be a doorway toward personal growth and the peace of mind that accompanies a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. I offer a client centered approach to treatment with a focus on client strengths and our innate ability as human beings to heal, connect and find wholeness. Whether you are looking for support with a current issue, wish to work through experiences of the past, or you are feeling stuck and seek more meaning and purpose, we will work together through an integrative approach to assist you in meeting your goals.
I work in a therapeutically collaborative way utilizing my experience in psychotherapy, structural family therapy and trauma therapy while integrating my work and training in: Hypnotherapy, EMDR, Mindfulness, CBT, EFT, Yogic Studies, and the Creative Arts.
Whether you seek individual, couples or family therapy I believe the challenges and struggles we face can be a doorway toward personal growth and the peace of mind that accompanies a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. I offer a client centered approach to treatment with a focus on client strengths and our innate ability as human beings to heal, connect and find wholeness. Whether you are looking for support with a current issue, wish to work through experiences of the past, or you are feeling stuck and seek more meaning and purpose, we will work together through an integrative approach to assist you in meeting your goals.
(973) 221-9026 View (973) 221-9026
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Robin S. Shimel, LCSW, Psychotherapy Svcs, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Incorporating a mindfulness based approach to Psychodynamic, Imago, EFT and CBT therapies enhances the effectiveness of the work.
With over 30 years of clinical experience, my enthusiasm for my work has only grown. I view my role as a facilitator, helping people discover individual strengths while becoming accepting and respectful of vulnerabilities. Learning healthy ways to survive major life crises and/or chronic conditions is also a focus. I teach effective communication skills to increase understanding and respect for differences while enhancing growth in connection. If asked about my greatest asset as a therapist, it is my ability to "listen," and to provide a safe place for exploration and resolution.
Incorporating a mindfulness based approach to Psychodynamic, Imago, EFT and CBT therapies enhances the effectiveness of the work.
With over 30 years of clinical experience, my enthusiasm for my work has only grown. I view my role as a facilitator, helping people discover individual strengths while becoming accepting and respectful of vulnerabilities. Learning healthy ways to survive major life crises and/or chronic conditions is also a focus. I teach effective communication skills to increase understanding and respect for differences while enhancing growth in connection. If asked about my greatest asset as a therapist, it is my ability to "listen," and to provide a safe place for exploration and resolution.
(973) 453-4637 View (973) 453-4637
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Mario Dartayet-Rodriguez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Dartayet-Rodriguez has trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Mario Dartayet- Rodriguez holds an M.S.W from New York University. He is a New York State Licensed Master Social Worker and a New Jersey Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Mr. Dartayet-Rodriguez is a Certified Sex Addictions Therapist (CSAT) and is graduate of the Eating Disorders, Compulsions and Addictions Program at the William Alanson White Institute.
Dartayet-Rodriguez has trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Mario Dartayet- Rodriguez holds an M.S.W from New York University. He is a New York State Licensed Master Social Worker and a New Jersey Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Mr. Dartayet-Rodriguez is a Certified Sex Addictions Therapist (CSAT) and is graduate of the Eating Disorders, Compulsions and Addictions Program at the William Alanson White Institute.
(973) 355-6293 View (973) 355-6293
Photo of Christine M. Onorati, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Christine M. Onorati
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Relationships define us in so many ways, especially our relationships with what I call "The Big Five:" with our romantic partner(s), with family, with friends, with work/money, and the most important, our relationship with ourselves. Through open and affirming talk therapy which incorporates humor and a relaxed approach, I can help you identify and understand the behaviors getting in the way of you living your best life and provide tools to help you navigate challenging relationships. ​Inclusivity is a priority, everyone is welcome.
Relationships define us in so many ways, especially our relationships with what I call "The Big Five:" with our romantic partner(s), with family, with friends, with work/money, and the most important, our relationship with ourselves. Through open and affirming talk therapy which incorporates humor and a relaxed approach, I can help you identify and understand the behaviors getting in the way of you living your best life and provide tools to help you navigate challenging relationships. ​Inclusivity is a priority, everyone is welcome.
(862) 500-1238 View (862) 500-1238
Photo of Eloiza Jorge, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Eloiza Jorge
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MA, LCSW, CPC
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I'm a culturally responsive therapist who aims to be compassionate open-hearted. Some problems I can help with are: feeling blue, imposter syndrome, stress, anger, boundaries, parenting, creative blocks, break ups, anxiety and grief.
Hi, I'm a culturally responsive therapist who aims to be compassionate open-hearted. Some problems I can help with are: feeling blue, imposter syndrome, stress, anger, boundaries, parenting, creative blocks, break ups, anxiety and grief.
(973) 657-5955 View (973) 657-5955
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Sally Pitanga
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
Old patterns holding you back? Stress and anxiety gripping you? Do you just want to feel happier? Suffering from grief; or dealing with remembered trauma from childhood such as physical or sexual abuse? Problems in your relationships, with a partner/your child?
Old patterns holding you back? Stress and anxiety gripping you? Do you just want to feel happier? Suffering from grief; or dealing with remembered trauma from childhood such as physical or sexual abuse? Problems in your relationships, with a partner/your child?
(973) 657-5636 View (973) 657-5636
Photo of Ron Wasser, Psychologist in 07042, NJ
Ron Wasser
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
It is not easy being a parent, partner, earner or individual in the fast paced, competitive world of northern NJ and NYC. We can feel anxious, depressed, uncertain or lost in how we think and feel about ourselves, our relationships, our families, and our professional lives. We can want to make healthy and effective changes, but sometimes that can be hard to do alone and we need a trusted other that has the expertise to help us untie the knots we are caught in. Many of my clients are successful, but struggle with certain issues, including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, parenting, and professional life challenges.
It is not easy being a parent, partner, earner or individual in the fast paced, competitive world of northern NJ and NYC. We can feel anxious, depressed, uncertain or lost in how we think and feel about ourselves, our relationships, our families, and our professional lives. We can want to make healthy and effective changes, but sometimes that can be hard to do alone and we need a trusted other that has the expertise to help us untie the knots we are caught in. Many of my clients are successful, but struggle with certain issues, including anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, parenting, and professional life challenges.
(973) 792-8113 View (973) 792-8113
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Stephanie Anne Bourgeois
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1997 and in private practice since 2012, I offer individual psychotherapy for adolescents and adults and also provide couples and family therapy. I offer traditional therapy as well as alternative holistic/somatic treatments such as body psychotherapy, EMDR and sandtray therapy. My work is deeply informed by a holistic mind/body/spirit approach to healing and well-being.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1997 and in private practice since 2012, I offer individual psychotherapy for adolescents and adults and also provide couples and family therapy. I offer traditional therapy as well as alternative holistic/somatic treatments such as body psychotherapy, EMDR and sandtray therapy. My work is deeply informed by a holistic mind/body/spirit approach to healing and well-being.
(973) 988-4317 View (973) 988-4317
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Stephanie Mora
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Taking the first step to enter therapy can be a difficult, yet rewarding and purposeful step. When seeking a therapist, it can be a time where you may be seeking support, understanding in navigating life transitions, or managing your mood. No matter, what you are looking for I am here to help. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, compassionate and nurturing environment. In therapy, we explore on how to empower and provide you the tools to achieve your goals at your own pace. My experience is with children, adolescents, adults, families, trauma and co-occurring disorders.
Taking the first step to enter therapy can be a difficult, yet rewarding and purposeful step. When seeking a therapist, it can be a time where you may be seeking support, understanding in navigating life transitions, or managing your mood. No matter, what you are looking for I am here to help. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, compassionate and nurturing environment. In therapy, we explore on how to empower and provide you the tools to achieve your goals at your own pace. My experience is with children, adolescents, adults, families, trauma and co-occurring disorders.
(201) 581-1356 View (201) 581-1356
Photo of Claudia Palma, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Claudia Palma
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Now accepting new clients! Life can be challenging but I am here to help guide you. Struggling with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life transitions, or trouble identifying feelings? My goal is to help my clients develop healthy coping skills for a myriad of life situations. I utilize a person centered approach while incorporating strength based and solution focused techniques. I am committed to creating a warm, non-judgmental, and safe space where my clients feel comfortable expressing themselves.
Now accepting new clients! Life can be challenging but I am here to help guide you. Struggling with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life transitions, or trouble identifying feelings? My goal is to help my clients develop healthy coping skills for a myriad of life situations. I utilize a person centered approach while incorporating strength based and solution focused techniques. I am committed to creating a warm, non-judgmental, and safe space where my clients feel comfortable expressing themselves.
(973) 846-9130 View (973) 846-9130
Photo of Bijal Patel, Marriage & Family Therapist in 07042, NJ
Bijal Patel
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
Are you looking to make a shift? I am licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working with individuals, couples, families, and groups. I believe therapy can be seen as a process of unpacking. Things often go unsaid, which can manifest into various effects on the body, such as anxiety. Although staying with your emotions can be difficult, it can often be the pathway to healing. My clinical experience has allowed me to gain a deeper understanding of the impact of our environment and relationships, as well as the positive shifts that can take place when offered supportive and validating resources.
Are you looking to make a shift? I am licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working with individuals, couples, families, and groups. I believe therapy can be seen as a process of unpacking. Things often go unsaid, which can manifest into various effects on the body, such as anxiety. Although staying with your emotions can be difficult, it can often be the pathway to healing. My clinical experience has allowed me to gain a deeper understanding of the impact of our environment and relationships, as well as the positive shifts that can take place when offered supportive and validating resources.
(856) 776-7265 View (856) 776-7265
Photo of Sy Mano Stepansky, Licensed Professional Counselor in 07042, NJ
Sy Mano Stepansky
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I have worked collaboratively and effectively with those individuals addressing their difficulties such as anxiety, depression, interpersonal issues, self-esteem, life transitions and trauma. While working together in a safe space, we will strive to reduce/eliminate negative thoughts and feelings. To achieve this outcome, I utilize a client-centered approach along with a CBT framework. Strengths are emphasized in therapy as an important asset to treatment success. Although individuals going through challenging times tend to seek out therapy, caregivers are often overlooked as those who could benefit from support themselves.
I have worked collaboratively and effectively with those individuals addressing their difficulties such as anxiety, depression, interpersonal issues, self-esteem, life transitions and trauma. While working together in a safe space, we will strive to reduce/eliminate negative thoughts and feelings. To achieve this outcome, I utilize a client-centered approach along with a CBT framework. Strengths are emphasized in therapy as an important asset to treatment success. Although individuals going through challenging times tend to seek out therapy, caregivers are often overlooked as those who could benefit from support themselves.
(862) 319-8205 View (862) 319-8205
Photo of Lionel Latouche, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Lionel Latouche
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Are you looking for support in navigating through the ups and downs of life? Are you searching for ways to better deal with stress and anxiety? Are you on the verge of making a major life change and need someone to walk alongside you? Together, we can meet your needs and help you get where you want to be. As we journey together, my clinical desire is for you to feel heard, safe and understood. In doing so, we will understand and unlock the hidden elements within you, empowering you to make the changes that best benefit your life!
Are you looking for support in navigating through the ups and downs of life? Are you searching for ways to better deal with stress and anxiety? Are you on the verge of making a major life change and need someone to walk alongside you? Together, we can meet your needs and help you get where you want to be. As we journey together, my clinical desire is for you to feel heard, safe and understood. In doing so, we will understand and unlock the hidden elements within you, empowering you to make the changes that best benefit your life!
(973) 935-3304 View (973) 935-3304
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Tessa A. Vining
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
About Me: I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LCADC), and an Accredited Clinical Supervisor in NJ with over 20 years of experience working with adolescents, young adults, families, and couples. My work over the years, particularly with people struggling with addiction, has demonstrated how physical and emotional trauma can affect our well-being and how a holistic approach can offer long-lasting healing and transformation.
About Me: I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Clinical Alcohol and Drug Counselor (LCADC), and an Accredited Clinical Supervisor in NJ with over 20 years of experience working with adolescents, young adults, families, and couples. My work over the years, particularly with people struggling with addiction, has demonstrated how physical and emotional trauma can affect our well-being and how a holistic approach can offer long-lasting healing and transformation.
(917) 512-5755 View (917) 512-5755
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Tri-Meta Counseling & Associates
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Tri-Meta proudly offers individual therapy, marital/couples' counseling, and family therapy. We believe that your story extends beyond the problems and issues you’re facing right now. We know how important it is to take your entire life experience and identity into account when helping you navigate through present struggles. We have worked to build a team of diverse, experienced, and dedicated therapists who are passionate about providing support to all individuals and communities. Each of our therapists has extensive training in systemic psychotherapy –
Tri-Meta proudly offers individual therapy, marital/couples' counseling, and family therapy. We believe that your story extends beyond the problems and issues you’re facing right now. We know how important it is to take your entire life experience and identity into account when helping you navigate through present struggles. We have worked to build a team of diverse, experienced, and dedicated therapists who are passionate about providing support to all individuals and communities. Each of our therapists has extensive training in systemic psychotherapy –
(973) 447-1493 View (973) 447-1493
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Ellen H. DeFilipps
Marriage & Family Therapist, Ellen DeFilipps, LMFT
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
Do you worry all the time? About money, work, your relationships, or the future? Or what other people think about you, or that you’re not good enough? It’s exhausting, isn’t it? I get it. We all worry, but some more than others. If that’s you, you’ve come to the right place. I’ve been a therapist for 19 years and specialize in helping people who have anxiety or who are going through something, sometimes several things at once, that they’re having difficulty handling.
Do you worry all the time? About money, work, your relationships, or the future? Or what other people think about you, or that you’re not good enough? It’s exhausting, isn’t it? I get it. We all worry, but some more than others. If that’s you, you’ve come to the right place. I’ve been a therapist for 19 years and specialize in helping people who have anxiety or who are going through something, sometimes several things at once, that they’re having difficulty handling.
(646) 681-4579 View (646) 681-4579
Photo of Stevette Heyliger, Licensed Professional Counselor in 07042, NJ
Stevette Heyliger
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
You’re stuck in a “negative pattern” with your partner. There’s been a breakdown in communication and you're often feeling misunderstood. You find yourself having the same old conflicts which never get resolved. No matter how you try explaining what you need and how you feel, your partner takes it the wrong way. You wonder: “does my partner care about me anymore?” You feel alone and disconnected and look to your partner for reassurance that you do matter. You've tried everything and nothing seems to help bring you closer together. And you don’t know how to talk to your partner about these concerns.
You’re stuck in a “negative pattern” with your partner. There’s been a breakdown in communication and you're often feeling misunderstood. You find yourself having the same old conflicts which never get resolved. No matter how you try explaining what you need and how you feel, your partner takes it the wrong way. You wonder: “does my partner care about me anymore?” You feel alone and disconnected and look to your partner for reassurance that you do matter. You've tried everything and nothing seems to help bring you closer together. And you don’t know how to talk to your partner about these concerns.
(973) 241-5306 View (973) 241-5306
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.