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Mansfield Center, CT 06250
I work with LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent adults, including people who struggle with trauma, anxiety, perfectionism, and questions about identity. If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you are and who you want to be, you’re not alone. The pressure to get everything “right” can quietly take over your life, without help. After therapy, clients are able to make decisions with confidence, organize their thoughts without overwhelm, and reduce the trauma symptoms that leaves them feeling stuck. Imagine a safe, judgement-free affirming space where you can explore your identity and live more authentically. Start therapy virtually today.
Therapy can be a space to slow down, drop the mask, and begin making sense of your internal world with curiosity, care, and intention rather than judgment or pressure to perform. You will not be asked to explain or justify who you are here. I offer Brainspotting, a gentle body-based therapy for PTSD and talk therapy using a feminist and queer theory lens.
Welcome! I offer virtual individual, group and couples therapy for adults navigating identity and anxiety across Connecticut with evening slots available. Therapy doesn’t have to feel clinical or cold! Let’s create a space where you can finally just be you. If something here resonates, I invite you to reach out for a FREE 15-minute consultation today.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Sparks Between Us LLC

Mansfield Center, CT 06250

(860) 650-1960
My website
I support highly motivated adults with anxiety, neurodivergence, and complex relationship dynamics, such as polyamory and lgbt partnerships.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Emma Costa, LMFTA offers virtual therapy to CT adults for anxiety, identity exploration, and healing through Brainspotting or talk therapy.
Emma Costa
Let's Connect (860) 650-1960
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Sparks Between Us LLC

Mansfield Center, CT 06250

(860) 650-1960
My website
I support highly motivated adults with anxiety, neurodivergence, and complex relationship dynamics, such as polyamory and lgbt partnerships.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Emma Costa, LMFTA offers virtual therapy to CT adults for anxiety, identity exploration, and healing through Brainspotting or talk therapy.
Emma Costa

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
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I accept Aetna insurance and private pay clients. I offer a FREE consultation to see if we're a good fit and provide sliding scale options from $100-150 for 50minutes.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960
"
I accept Aetna insurance and private pay clients. I offer a FREE consultation to see if we're a good fit and provide sliding scale options from $100-150 for 50minutes.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of Connecticut / 3621 Supervised by Gabrielle Wynschenk (Connecticut / 2698) Emma Lynn Costa
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Central Connecticut State University, Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Lisa Larson Pacific Brainspotting Trainings Brainspotting Phase 1 and Phase 2 / 2025
  • Certificate from The Gottman Insitute Clinical Foundations Level 1 and Level 2 / 2024
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I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate (LMFT-A) virtually serving adult Connecticut residents. I have a Master's of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Bachelor of Arts in Women and Gender Studies. I hold additional training in Brainspotting and Gottman Couples Therapy.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960
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I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate (LMFT-A) virtually serving adult Connecticut residents. I have a Master's of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Bachelor of Arts in Women and Gender Studies. I hold additional training in Brainspotting and Gottman Couples Therapy.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • LGBTQ+
  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Autism
  • Bisexual
  • Chronic Illness
  • Chronic Pain
  • Divorce
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Racial Identity
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Spirituality
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I support LGBTQIA2S individuals and relationships in navigating neurodivergence, identity, intimacy, and connection. My work centers people exploring sexuality, gender, and nontraditional relationship structures, as well as those striving to create relationships that feel authentic and affirming. I also work with young adults who are coping with anxiety and the pressures of navigating adulthood.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960
"
I support LGBTQIA2S individuals and relationships in navigating neurodivergence, identity, intimacy, and connection. My work centers people exploring sexuality, gender, and nontraditional relationship structures, as well as those striving to create relationships that feel authentic and affirming. I also work with young adults who are coping with anxiety and the pressures of navigating adulthood.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960

2 Endorsements

Olivia Robinson
Olivia Robinson
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateLMFTA
Emma is a highly skilled and dedicated therapist with a strong passion for inclusivity, relationships, and the LGBTQ population. She excels at creating a safe and welcoming space for individuals, couples, and families of all identities.
Leish L Robles
Leish L Robles
Licensed Professional CounselorLPCNCCPMH-C
Emma brings depth of knowledge and genuine curiosity to everything she does, especially in her work around LGBTQIA2S+ inclusion and advocacy. She's not only incredibly smart and creative, but also witty, caring, and deeply driven to make a difference.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Religion

Secular and Non-Religious

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Religion

Secular and Non-Religious

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Brainspotting
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Trauma Focused
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I offer Brainspotting, a gentle body-focused trauma approach for those living with PTSD. I offer talk therapy that is trauma-informed and social justice oriented. Techniques include Emotionally Focused Therapy, IFS, Gottman, and Queer/Feminist integration. Clients leave sessions with tools for self-compassion and tools for building authentic relationships.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960
"
I offer Brainspotting, a gentle body-focused trauma approach for those living with PTSD. I offer talk therapy that is trauma-informed and social justice oriented. Techniques include Emotionally Focused Therapy, IFS, Gottman, and Queer/Feminist integration. Clients leave sessions with tools for self-compassion and tools for building authentic relationships.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (860) 650-1960

Groups


Location

Primary Location

Sparks Between Us LLC

Mansfield Center, CT 06250

(860) 650-1960
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I support highly motivated adults with anxiety, neurodivergence, and complex relationship dynamics, such as polyamory and lgbt partnerships.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call for a free consultation now - (860) 650-1960
"
I support highly motivated adults with anxiety, neurodivergence, and complex relationship dynamics, such as polyamory and lgbt partnerships.
Photo of Emma Costa, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Emma Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT, LMFT-A
Call for a free consultation now - (860) 650-1960