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Available both in-person and online
3873 Howe Street Oakland, CA 94611
It's 2 a.m. You're replaying something you said, or didn't say, or should have done differently. Someone, at some point, told you to be kind to yourself in moments like this. It never worked. Here's why. I don't believe shame is something to be rid of. I believe it's one of the most honest parts of a person, still keeping track of what went wrong and what never got asked for in the first place. Shame isn't a flaw to soften. It's a signal, and my work is helping people understand what it's protecting, what it's pointing at, what it's been trying to say all along, about what you actually want.
I work with people exhausted by over-giving, perfectionism, and people-pleasing, people who are high-achieving on the outside and self-critical on the inside. When you catch yourself thinking "maybe I'm being naive" or "maybe I care too much" or "maybe I should just let it go," that's not a flaw. That's information.
Choosing a therapist is a big decision, and I want you to feel confident. I offer a free 15-minute consultation to discuss your needs, answer questions, and see if we’re a good fit. Visit my website and click 'Free Consultation' to book your free 15-minute call.
Call or Emily Carlson now for a free 15 minute consultation - (510) 626-0823

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

3873 Howe Street

Oakland, CA 94611 map

(510) 626-0823
My website
I offer therapy sessions online for all California residents and in-person in Berkeley.
I specialize in Self Criticism, Indecision and Grief 
$225 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (510) 626-0823
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

3873 Howe Street

Oakland, CA 94611 map

(510) 626-0823
My website
I offer therapy sessions online for all California residents and in-person in Berkeley.
I specialize in Self Criticism, Indecision and Grief 
$225 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $225
  • Couple Sessions $375
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
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I do not accept health insurance but I do offer super bills for clients to submit on their own for reimbursements.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823
"
I do not accept health insurance but I do offer super bills for clients to submit on their own for reimbursements.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 163738 Emily Carlson
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 5 years
  • Attended California Institute for Integral Studies, MA, Clinical Psychology
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from University of San Francisco BA, Psychology
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I offer weekly Individual psychotherapy sessions. When working with teens, I offer individual sessions and parent sessions as needed.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823
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I offer weekly Individual psychotherapy sessions. When working with teens, I offer individual sessions and parent sessions as needed.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Self Criticism
  • Indecision
  • Grief

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Depression
  • Emotional Regulation
  • Family Conflict
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Do these Issues align with your needs? Visit my website and click 'Free Consultation' to book your free 15-minute call.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823
"
Do these Issues align with your needs? Visit my website and click 'Free Consultation' to book your free 15-minute call.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823

4 Endorsements

Kelsey Louderback
Kelsey Louderback
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
I had the pleasure of working with Emily. Time and again I learned new ways of thinking, expanded my knowledge of therapeutic concepts, and felt unbelievably supported while in her presence. I wholeheartedly recommend Emily as a therapist.
Daniela Sylvers Weise
Daniela Sylvers Weise
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Emily is a compassionate and insightful therapist who values the unique backgrounds of each of her clients. I have witnessed firsthand the positive impact she has had on the lives of her clients, helping them navigate challenges and develop coping skills.
Liz Cosentino
Liz Cosentino
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMA
I'm continually impressed by Emily's work-she's incredibly grounded, wise, and attuned. Her steady presence and deep compassion create a space where real healing and transformation can unfold.
Elisenda Asencio- Fulfilling Relationships
Elisenda Asencio- Fulfilling Relationships
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Emily is truly a gifted clinician. She is especially skilled at helping clients soften harsh self-judgement and reconnect with a more compassionate, grounded sense of self. I have deep trust in her clinical work and refer her without hesitation!

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Humanistic
  • Innate Drive Therapy
  • Integrative
  • Interpersonal
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centered
  • Transpersonal
  • Trauma Focused
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If you want to hear more about the way visit my website and click 'Contact Me' to book your free 15-minute consultation
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823
"
If you want to hear more about the way visit my website and click 'Contact Me' to book your free 15-minute consultation
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 626-0823

Location

Primary Location

3873 Howe Street

Oakland, CA 94611

(510) 626-0823
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I offer therapy sessions online for all California residents and in-person in Berkeley.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 626-0823
"
I offer therapy sessions online for all California residents and in-person in Berkeley.
Photo of Emily Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Emily Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 626-0823