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Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Eli Gifford

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Sebastopol, CA 95472
Let's Connect (707) 475-0621
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Life was never meant to be fair - just ask the wildness of nature. Life is filled with joy and sadness; love and grief. This is part of being human. How do we find purpose and meaning in life? We're born with a unique gift; we're wounded by life. Our core wound lies beside our unique gift, our purpose. Our responsibility is to give this gift to our family, friends, community. This underlies all of my work with you as we peel back the layers: what is it you bring to us? It lies beside your deepest pain, regret, what frightens you the most. Our work together is to change your relationship to that wound so you can give your gift.
I have been part of the mens’ movement for over 30 years as a participant, facilitator and co-facilitator. I co-founded a high school for At-Risk students, Mesa High School, teaching and mentoring for 25 years. My specialty is working with those in crisis whose lives and relationships no longer make sense. I am direct, authentic and care deeply.
My goal is to help you access that unique gift by helping you become psychologically flexible, by helping you change your relationship to your core wound so you can tolerate that pain/discomfort/fear. Avoiding your triggers isn’t healing. Healing happens when you’re triggered and yet able to move through the pain, the pattern, & the story: to a new meaning.
Call or Eli Gifford now for a free 15 minute consultation - (707) 475-0621

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Eli Gifford

Sebastopol, CA 95472

(707) 475-0621
I meet through Zoom or walks in the park. Currently, I am available on Tuesday
$85 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Welcome. I offer my support for those who feel their life has fallen apart, they are lost, rudderless, with life losing its meaning.
Eli Gifford
Let's Connect (707) 475-0621
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Eli Gifford

Sebastopol, CA 95472

(707) 475-0621
I meet through Zoom or walks in the park. Currently, I am available on Tuesday
$85 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Welcome. I offer my support for those who feel their life has fallen apart, they are lost, rudderless, with life losing its meaning.
Eli Gifford

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $85
  • Couple Sessions $125
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Venmo
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I do not take insurance and use Venmo for payment. My fees are on a sliding scale.
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
"
I do not take insurance and use Venmo for payment. My fees are on a sliding scale.
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 149941 Eli Gifford
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 7 years
  • Attended Sonoma State University, MFT, Graduated 2010
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Sonoma State University MA U.S. HISTORY / 1998
  • Degree/Diploma from Sonoma State University BA U.S. HISTORY / 1988
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Though I have been a therapist for 6 years, I have been exploring consciousness for 6 decades through spiritual practices & mens' psychology
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
"
Though I have been a therapist for 6 years, I have been exploring consciousness for 6 decades through spiritual practices & mens' psychology
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Crisis
  • Divorce
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
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There are no guarantees in therapy. The question is, are you willing to do the hard work of changing life patterns that have kept you safe, but are no longer working? "Where we stumble there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for." Joseph Campbell. I will be by your side supporting you; will you go there?
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
"
There are no guarantees in therapy. The question is, are you willing to do the hard work of changing life patterns that have kept you safe, but are no longer working? "Where we stumble there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for." Joseph Campbell. I will be by your side supporting you; will you go there?
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621

3 Endorsements

Kayla Ann Dale
Kayla Ann Dale
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Eli is such a thoughtful and deeply compassionate therapist. He has a unique ability to blend his warm presence with honesty and directness. He is never afraid to think outside of the box when needed. He has so much to offer any client he works with.
Elizabeth Sockolov
Elizabeth Sockolov
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Eli is a wonderful therapist who is particularly skilled with parts work. He is able to help people understand themselves in order to grow and change. His use of humor plus compassion is what sets him apart as a truly excellent therapist.
Thomas E Holden
Thomas E Holden
Marriage & Family TherapistMFT
Eli is a heartfelt therapist who can bring the wisdom, lived experience, and insights of an elder to his clients. He is an asset to our community of helpers.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Existential
  • Gestalt
  • Humanistic
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Jungian
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
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The modality I use will depend on what is happening in the room. What is needed? Is it compassion and empathy? Or is it, "No this is life, this is an initiatory experience. It is supposed to be hard and challenging. The only path to becoming wiser is through." My work with you is based on the challenges, struggles and paths I've experienced through life. It will not be from a textbook or lecture.
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
"
The modality I use will depend on what is happening in the room. What is needed? Is it compassion and empathy? Or is it, "No this is life, this is an initiatory experience. It is supposed to be hard and challenging. The only path to becoming wiser is through." My work with you is based on the challenges, struggles and paths I've experienced through life. It will not be from a textbook or lecture.
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621

Location

Primary Location

Eli Gifford

Sebastopol, CA 95472

(707) 475-0621

Nearby Areas

Counties

Zips

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I meet through Zoom or walks in the park. Currently, I am available on Tuesday
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (707) 475-0621
"
I meet through Zoom or walks in the park. Currently, I am available on Tuesday
Photo of Eli Gifford, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (707) 475-0621