Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Sebastopol, CA 95472
Let's Connect (707) 475-0621

Life was never meant to be fair - just ask the wildness of nature. Life is filled with joy and sadness; love and grief. This is part of being human. How do we find purpose and meaning in life? We're born with a unique gift; we're wounded by life. Our core wound lies beside our unique gift, our purpose. Our responsibility is to give this gift to our family, friends, community. This underlies all of my work with you as we peel back the layers: what is it you bring to us? It lies beside your deepest pain, regret, what frightens you the most. Our work together is to change your relationship to that wound so you can give your gift.
I have been part of the mens’ movement for over 30 years as a participant, facilitator and co-facilitator. I co-founded a high school for At-Risk students, Mesa High School, teaching and mentoring for 25 years. My specialty is working with those in crisis whose lives and relationships no longer make sense. I am direct, authentic and care deeply.
My goal is to help you access that unique gift by helping you become psychologically flexible, by helping you change your relationship to your core wound so you can tolerate that pain/discomfort/fear. Avoiding your triggers isn’t healing. Healing happens when you’re triggered and yet able to move through the pain, the pattern, & the story: to a new meaning.
Call or Email Eli Gifford now for a free 15 minute consultation - (707) 475-0621
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $85
- Couple Sessions $125
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
Venmo
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 149941 Eli Gifford
- In Practice for 7 years
- Attended Sonoma State University, MFT, Graduated 2010
- Degree/Diploma from Sonoma State University MA U.S. HISTORY / 1998
- Degree/Diploma from Sonoma State University BA U.S. HISTORY / 1988
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
Specialties and Expertise
Expertise
- Crisis
- Divorce
- Life Coaching
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Relationship Issues
- School Issues
- Self Esteem
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621
3 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Existential
- Gestalt
- Humanistic
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Jungian
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
Eli Gifford
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 475-0621