Elayne Smith, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (she, her)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
8 Endorsed
12751 Marblestone Dr, Suite 200, Woodbridge, VA 22192
Let's Connect (703) 996-4475

I work with people who long for deeper, more reciprocal relationships, a life that actually fits, and a way of being that doesn’t require so much effort to maintain. You know how to hold it all together. You show up, take care of others, work hard, and keep moving, regardless of what you need. Externally, all looks well, but internally, you feel stuck in patterns that leave you feeling drained, unseen, weighed down by pain, burned out, or always chasing. I specialize in working with high-performers, perfectionists, people pleasers, or anxious attachers who seek greater satisfaction, connection, peace, and balance in their life.
Together, we explore the hidden architecture of your identity — the beliefs, roles, unmet needs, hurts, and relational blueprints you developed to survive, succeed, protect, and feel valued. You may have learned to get what you need by overfunctioning and now notice these earlier adaptations are limiting connection, vitality, rest, and your sense of worth.
We explore how life and relationships have shaped your nervous system, emotions, boundaries, and map for connection. If you’re ready for therapy that is deep, human, and transformative, going beneath symptom relief to the roots of your struggles, I’d be honored to work with you. You deserve a satisfying life, connected relationships, and authentic self-worth
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $325
Payment Methods
American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of network provider only
- Out of Network
Elayne Smith, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 996-4475
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Virginia / 0717001367 Elayne Smithwb
- In Practice for 24 years
- Attended University of Southern Mississippi, MS Marriage and Family Therapy
- Certificate from Intergenerational Healing, Attachment-based Leadership, Self-of-the Therapist, Financial Therapy
- Certificate from Emotionally Focused Couples, Individual and Family Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Somatic Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist: Elayne Smithwb
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Elayne Smith, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 996-4475
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Life Transitions
- Self Esteem
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Adoption
- Anxiety
- Career Counseling
- Chronic Illness
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- First Responders
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Peer Relationships
- Sex Therapy
- Sexual Abuse
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
- Veterans
- Women's Issues
Elayne Smith, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 996-4475
8 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Group
Communities
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied
Ethnicity
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Group
Communities
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied
Ethnicity
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Attachment-Based Leadership, Self-of-the-Therapist
- Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
- Culturally Sensitive
- Emotionally Focused
- Existential
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Intergenerational Cycle Breaking Financial Therapy
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Elayne Smith, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (703) 996-4475
Location
Primary Location
Founder, Center for Connection, Healing & Change
12751 Marblestone Dr
Suite 200
Woodbridge, VA 22192
(703) 996-4475Email us
Additional Location
Center for Connection, Healing & Change
Manassas, VA 20110
(703) 878-3290Nearby Areas
Elayne Smith, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (703) 996-4475