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Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC

Elaine Bender

Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
4 Endorsed
2417 East 53rd Street, Tulsa, OK 74105
Let's Connect (918) 228-0896
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Do overwhelming thoughts and emotions keep you from being happy and present in the moment, or cause you to act out in ways you don't like? I help teens and young adults find relief from the issues that impact their health, relationships, and self-esteem. My experience in trauma-informed therapies enable me to help individuals successfully overcome the challenges they face. Together in session, we will establish boundaries, explore thinking patterns, recognize triggers, and learn to be present in your life.
I will listen to and support you, and at times, challenge the unhelpful thoughts and beliefs that are no longer serving you. Together we will navigate the issues that are preventing you from experiencing wholeness, and work to build a life worth living.
I understand how challenging it is to make sustainable changes in our lives. It is my honor to walk alongside clients in their journeys toward emotional and relational health and wholeness. Sound like a good fit? I encourage you to reach out to me to connect!
Call or Elaine Bender now for a free 15 minute consultation - (918) 228-0896

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

2417 East 53rd Street

Tulsa, OK 74105 map

(918) 228-0896
Book with me on my site! I offer therapy in-person in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma via video. I currently have daytime openings before 5pm.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Click for a brief video introduction.
Elaine Bender
Let's Connect (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

2417 East 53rd Street

Tulsa, OK 74105 map

(918) 228-0896
Book with me on my site! I offer therapy in-person in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma via video. I currently have daytime openings before 5pm.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Click for a brief video introduction.
Elaine Bender

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $125
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Health Choice
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • Out of Network
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Have insurance, but not in network? I can provide a superbill for my out-of-network clients, and I partner with Mentaya to help out-of-network clients get up to 80 percent reimbursed for therapy. Please reach out with any questions! I'm happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
"
Have insurance, but not in network? I can provide a superbill for my out-of-network clients, and I partner with Mentaya to help out-of-network clients get up to 80 percent reimbursed for therapy. Please reach out with any questions! I'm happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Oklahoma / 10971 Elaine Bender
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Oklahoma State University, Master of Science in Counseling
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from National Board for Certified Counselors 2022
  • Degree/Diploma from Oral Roberts University Master of Business Association in Organizational Leadership
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I am nationally certified by the NBCC. I have received certification in trauma-informed therapy and am extensively trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
"
I am nationally certified by the NBCC. I have received certification in trauma-informed therapy and am extensively trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Self-Harming
  • Stress
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I work with clients who may be struggling with pain internally and in their relationships. During our initial sessions, we will identify your most important issues and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them. Many of my clients feel better able to cope within a few sessions, and experience sustained improvement in their mental/emotional lives and relationships thereafter.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
"
I work with clients who may be struggling with pain internally and in their relationships. During our initial sessions, we will identify your most important issues and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them. Many of my clients feel better able to cope within a few sessions, and experience sustained improvement in their mental/emotional lives and relationships thereafter.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896

4 Endorsements

Madison Brooks
Madison Brooks
Licensed Professional CounselorMSLPC
Elaine is an incredibly well-rounded therapist. She offers warmth, connection and tangible skill building to create a life worth living. I have worked closely with Elaine and have seen first hand how helpful she is to clients from many walks of life.
Jordan Gustin
Jordan Gustin
Licensed Professional CounselorMALPC-SIMH-EERS
Elaine is a wonderful therapist who cares deeply for her clients. She is organized and prepared for every session. She carefully considers each individual's needs to be able to walk alongside them in their journey to a more fulfilling, whole life.
Lauren Torkleson
Lauren Torkleson
Licensed Professional CounselorMSLPC-S
Elaine is a warm and compassionate therapist that cares deeply for her clients. Elaine is well organized and thoughtfully prepares for each session to meet her client's needs.
Alissa Scharf
Alissa Scharf
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Elaine is kind and compassionate. She has a warm spirit, allowing her clients to be themselves.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Christian

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Christian Counseling
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Trauma Focused
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I often use Dialectical Behavior Therapy in my practice. In your first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and decide the most appropriate ways to help you make progress toward your goals. With DBT, you will learn skills to feel more in control over your thoughts and emotions, get through painful experiences, be present in the moment, and improve your relationships.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
"
I often use Dialectical Behavior Therapy in my practice. In your first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and decide the most appropriate ways to help you make progress toward your goals. With DBT, you will learn skills to feel more in control over your thoughts and emotions, get through painful experiences, be present in the moment, and improve your relationships.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896

Groups

Location

Primary Location

2417 East 53rd Street

Tulsa, OK 74105

(918) 228-0896
"
Book with me on my site! I offer therapy in-person in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma via video. I currently have daytime openings before 5pm.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call for a free consultation now - (918) 228-0896
"
Book with me on my site! I offer therapy in-person in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma via video. I currently have daytime openings before 5pm.
Photo of Elaine Bender, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Call for a free consultation now - (918) 228-0896