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Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor

Elaine Bender

Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74105
(918) 228-0896
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Feeling anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? Do uncontrollable thoughts or emotions keep you from being happy and present in the moment, or cause you to act out in ways you don't like? I help teens, young adults, and adults find relief from the issues that impact their health, relationships, and self-esteem. My experience in trauma-informed and behavioral therapies enable me to help individuals successfully overcome the challenges they face. Together in session, we will establish boundaries, explore unhelpful thinking patterns, recognize triggers, and learn to be more present in your everyday life.
I will listen to and support you, and at times, challenge the unhelpful thoughts and beliefs that are no longer serving you. Together we will navigate the issues that are preventing you from experiencing wholeness, and work to build a life worth living.
I understand how challenging it is to make sustainable changes in our lives. It is my honor to walk alongside clients in their journeys toward emotional and relational health and wholeness. Sound like a good fit? I encourage you to reach out to me to connect!
Call or Elaine Bender now for a free 15 minute consultation - (918) 228-0896

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Tulsa, OK 74105

(918) 228-0896
Book with me now by clicking on my website! I currently offer therapy in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Click for a brief video introduction.
Elaine Bender
Let's Connect (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Tulsa, OK 74105

(918) 228-0896
Book with me now by clicking on my website! I currently offer therapy in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Relationship Issues and Anxiety 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Click for a brief video introduction.
Elaine Bender

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $125
  • Pay by American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • Out of Network
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Have insurance, but not in network? I can provide a superbill for my out-of-network clients, and I partner with Mentaya to help out-of-network clients get up to 80 percent reimbursed for therapy. Please reach out with any questions! I'm happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
"
Have insurance, but not in network? I can provide a superbill for my out-of-network clients, and I partner with Mentaya to help out-of-network clients get up to 80 percent reimbursed for therapy. Please reach out with any questions! I'm happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Oklahoma / 10971 Elaine Bender
  • Certificate from National Board for Certified Counselors 2022
  • Degree/Diploma from Oral Roberts University Master of Business Association in Organizational Leadership
  • Attended Oklahoma State University, Master of Science in Counseling
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I am nationally certified by the NBCC. I have received certification in trauma-informed therapy and am extensively trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
"
I am nationally certified by the NBCC. I have received certification in trauma-informed therapy and am extensively trained in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
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Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
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I work with clients who may be struggling with pain internally and in their relationships. During our initial sessions, we will identify your most important issues and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them. Many of my clients feel better able to cope within a few sessions, and experience sustained improvement in their mental/emotional lives and relationships thereafter.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
"
I work with clients who may be struggling with pain internally and in their relationships. During our initial sessions, we will identify your most important issues and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them. Many of my clients feel better able to cope within a few sessions, and experience sustained improvement in their mental/emotional lives and relationships thereafter.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
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Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC

3 Endorsements

Cassie Holmes
Cassie Holmes
Licensed Professional Counselor, MHR, LPC
Elaine is a compassionate and knowledgeable therapist. Her experience working with individuals with complex trauma has given her the foundation to be able to expertly treat any condition. She is a true gem that I would entrust any one I love with!
Jordan Gustin
Jordan Gustin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Elaine is a wonderful therapist who is cares deeply for her clients. She is organized and prepared for every session. She carefully considers each individual's needs to be able to walk alongside them in their journey to a more fulfilling, whole life.
Alissa Scharf
Alissa Scharf
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Elaine is kind and compassionate. She has a warm spirit, allowing her clients to be themselves.

Client Focus

Age

Teen , 
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Christian

Age

Teen , 
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Christian Counseling
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Trauma Focused
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I often use Dialectical Behavior Therapy in my practice. In your first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and decide the most appropriate ways to help you make progress toward your goals. With DBT, you will learn skills to feel more in control over your thoughts and emotions, get through painful experiences, be present in the moment, and improve your relationships.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
"
I often use Dialectical Behavior Therapy in my practice. In your first session, we'll explore what brought you to therapy and decide the most appropriate ways to help you make progress toward your goals. With DBT, you will learn skills to feel more in control over your thoughts and emotions, get through painful experiences, be present in the moment, and improve your relationships.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC

Location

Primary Location

Tulsa, OK 74105

(918) 228-0896

Email me

My website

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

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Book with me now by clicking on my website! I currently offer therapy in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma.
Call for a free consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
"
Book with me now by clicking on my website! I currently offer therapy in Tulsa and throughout Oklahoma.
Call for a free consultation now - (918) 228-0896
Photo of Elaine Bender, MS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Elaine Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC