Dylan Bandy
Counselor, LMCHA (they, them)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Seattle, WA 98108
Let's Connect (206) 593-2989

I work with couples, triads, and individuals (18+) and I specialize in complex trauma and relationship issues.
Often with clients, we talk about unprocessed grief, patterns of behavior that may not be working anymore, discerning what care looks like and how to ask for it, and how values and actions might be better aligned.
In relationship counseling, I help people learn conflict de-escalation skills, to communicate with each other so you each feel heard and understood, and to negotiate relational agreements. I am specialized in queer non-monogamous relationship counseling.
With me, therapy moves at your pace and is guided by your needs and goals. My approach is Somatic, Liberatory, and Attachment based. This could mean increasing emotional awareness or expression, understanding your impact on others, examining patterns of behavior, building community resources, and/or coping within oppressive systems.
It is my honor to serve queer, trans, poly, kinky, and neurodivergent community. <3
Client agency is very important to me as a practitioner. I take an anti-carceral approach to mental healthcare, where informed consent is key to trust building. I'm happy to talk more about how I practice this in a free consultation.
Call or Email Dylan Bandy now for a free 15 minute consultation - (206) 593-2989
Let's Connect (206) 593-2989

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Couple Sessions $175
Payment Methods
American Express, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Dylan Bandy
Counselor, LMCHA
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Washington / MC61540775 Dylan Bandy
- Attended Antioch University Seattle, Clinical Mental Health Counseling
Education and Years In Practice
Dylan Bandy
Counselor, LMCHA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 593-2989
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Anxiety
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Trauma and PTSD
Expertise
- ADHD
- Autism
- Bisexual
- Body Image
- Chronic Illness
- Chronic Pain
- Coping Skills
- COVID Conscious
- Depression
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Mixed Orientation Couples
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex Therapy
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Stress
- Transgender
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Immuno-disorders ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Immuno-disorders ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Emotionally Focused
- Gottman Method
- Humanistic
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Liberation Psychology
- Multicultural
- Person-Centered
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
Dylan Bandy
Counselor, LMCHA
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (206) 593-2989