Photo of Deborah Kozlowski, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Deborah Kozlowski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CMNCS
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
At SafeSpace, we have experience with adults, adolescents, couples & families with parenting concerns, stress/anxiety, work/life balance, separation/divorce & family blending, caretaking, disordered eating, addictions, depression, self care issues & more.
Whether or not this is your first time seeking out counseling, finding a therapist who "fits" can be a daunting experience. SafeSpace therapists understand that it can be difficult to ask for help. We all, however, need support and guidance sometimes. Our clients often give the feedback that they feel accepted and secure in our warm, welcoming and intimate setting. We are experienced clinicians who are nonjudgmental, approachable, good listeners, supportive, but also give helpful feedback. Clients frequently say they feel a 'connection,' and can easily open up with even their most private concerns.
At SafeSpace, we have experience with adults, adolescents, couples & families with parenting concerns, stress/anxiety, work/life balance, separation/divorce & family blending, caretaking, disordered eating, addictions, depression, self care issues & more.
Whether or not this is your first time seeking out counseling, finding a therapist who "fits" can be a daunting experience. SafeSpace therapists understand that it can be difficult to ask for help. We all, however, need support and guidance sometimes. Our clients often give the feedback that they feel accepted and secure in our warm, welcoming and intimate setting. We are experienced clinicians who are nonjudgmental, approachable, good listeners, supportive, but also give helpful feedback. Clients frequently say they feel a 'connection,' and can easily open up with even their most private concerns.
(630) 366-0182 View (630) 366-0182
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Dr. Laura L Bokar
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, LCPC, LMFT, ACS
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
Laura is complemented by over thirty-five therapists at the Institute who specialize in addictions, ADHD, anxiety, bi-poplar, children/adolescent, eating disorders, depression, divorce, family, grief & loss, life transitions, marriage/couples, panic disorder, stress & anger management, trauma, /PTSD, women/men issues, testing and many more concerns.
Dr. Laura Bokar is the CEO/President of Fox Valley Institute for Growth and Wellness and has been an individual, marital/couple and family therapist for almost three decades. Her approach is tailored to the client's need. She is an open, non-threatening therapist with a sense of humor. Dr. Laura is a LMFT, LCPC and an Approved Clinical Supervisor. She is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). She is also certified in Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Critical Incident Response, Prepare/Enrich Pre-Marital Assessment, Primary Care Behavioral Health, and DBT.
Laura is complemented by over thirty-five therapists at the Institute who specialize in addictions, ADHD, anxiety, bi-poplar, children/adolescent, eating disorders, depression, divorce, family, grief & loss, life transitions, marriage/couples, panic disorder, stress & anger management, trauma, /PTSD, women/men issues, testing and many more concerns.
Dr. Laura Bokar is the CEO/President of Fox Valley Institute for Growth and Wellness and has been an individual, marital/couple and family therapist for almost three decades. Her approach is tailored to the client's need. She is an open, non-threatening therapist with a sense of humor. Dr. Laura is a LMFT, LCPC and an Approved Clinical Supervisor. She is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). She is also certified in Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT), Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Critical Incident Response, Prepare/Enrich Pre-Marital Assessment, Primary Care Behavioral Health, and DBT.
(331) 256-2073 View (331) 256-2073
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Kate Hoffower
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Yorkville, IL 60560
Whether it's "big T Trauma" or "little t trauma", no one's life is perfect. From a difficult breakup to family conflict, relationship concerns, the loss of a loved one, a global pandemic, or surviving any number of difficult experiences, the world is going to test you. I will meet you where you are and together we will create a map to help you move forward. I draw from CBT, ACT, Motivational Interviewing, Strengths-Based, Solution-Focused and Existential theories and practices.
Whether it's "big T Trauma" or "little t trauma", no one's life is perfect. From a difficult breakup to family conflict, relationship concerns, the loss of a loved one, a global pandemic, or surviving any number of difficult experiences, the world is going to test you. I will meet you where you are and together we will create a map to help you move forward. I draw from CBT, ACT, Motivational Interviewing, Strengths-Based, Solution-Focused and Existential theories and practices.
(847) 649-6398 View (847) 649-6398
Photo of Lisa Bertellotti, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Lisa Bertellotti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
I believe that every individual is on their own unique journey. At times we may get caught up in life’s challenges, transitions, or struggles and need assistance in getting back to a state of optimal health and well-being. With a blend of traditional and holistic approaches, I empower clients with the tools and skills needed to continue on their current path or help them find the strength and courage to create a new one. As a Certified Integrative Mental Health Medicine Provider, I also can perform comprehensive well being assessments and health plans at the client's request.
I believe that every individual is on their own unique journey. At times we may get caught up in life’s challenges, transitions, or struggles and need assistance in getting back to a state of optimal health and well-being. With a blend of traditional and holistic approaches, I empower clients with the tools and skills needed to continue on their current path or help them find the strength and courage to create a new one. As a Certified Integrative Mental Health Medicine Provider, I also can perform comprehensive well being assessments and health plans at the client's request.
(331) 241-6822 View (331) 241-6822
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Diane Brasfield
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MAEL, PEL
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
I believe in the power of one’s strengths, and my focus is on helping my client find theirs. What is holding you back? I have developed a rich and diverse skill set through my experience as a school social worker. I believe in collaboration and creating a warm, inviting environment. I am committed to my client’s well-being. I practice solution-focused and strengths-based approaches in addressing various challenges such as stress, anxiety, anger, depression and adjustment disorders as well as school related issues.
I believe in the power of one’s strengths, and my focus is on helping my client find theirs. What is holding you back? I have developed a rich and diverse skill set through my experience as a school social worker. I believe in collaboration and creating a warm, inviting environment. I am committed to my client’s well-being. I practice solution-focused and strengths-based approaches in addressing various challenges such as stress, anxiety, anger, depression and adjustment disorders as well as school related issues.
(331) 253-4431 View (331) 253-4431
Photo of Kandee Love, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Kendall County, IL
Kandee Love
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
It can often be a challenge to find a counselor to connect with, to feel comfortable sharing your experiences with and that seem to "get you". We also often want someone that cannot only understand and empathize but also to challenge behaviors/beliefs in a way that help create introspective thought, growth and change. I endeavor to join you on your journey, exploring what you seek, while also embracing the idea that sometimes you just need the ability to share safely and authentically in a supportive environment.
It can often be a challenge to find a counselor to connect with, to feel comfortable sharing your experiences with and that seem to "get you". We also often want someone that cannot only understand and empathize but also to challenge behaviors/beliefs in a way that help create introspective thought, growth and change. I endeavor to join you on your journey, exploring what you seek, while also embracing the idea that sometimes you just need the ability to share safely and authentically in a supportive environment.
(331) 204-1749 View (331) 204-1749
Photo of Barbara Bulow Ovesen, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Barbara Bulow Ovesen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
Do you often doubt or criticize yourself? If so, you are not alone. Many people experience negative thoughts, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma (past or present), or a multitude of other challenges that can make life seem like a daily struggle. Therapy can ease the struggle and help make room in your life for joy. Like everyone, you need acceptance, support, and a safe space where you can be your authentic self (even if you are uncertain who that is). Within that space, we will partner together to help you use your strengths and live your values more fully, empowering you to heal and grow.
Do you often doubt or criticize yourself? If so, you are not alone. Many people experience negative thoughts, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma (past or present), or a multitude of other challenges that can make life seem like a daily struggle. Therapy can ease the struggle and help make room in your life for joy. Like everyone, you need acceptance, support, and a safe space where you can be your authentic self (even if you are uncertain who that is). Within that space, we will partner together to help you use your strengths and live your values more fully, empowering you to heal and grow.
(331) 258-5952 View (331) 258-5952
Photo of Amy Gillette, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kendall County, IL
Amy Gillette
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
I enjoy working with clients who openly discuss their struggles and frustrations, who accept collaboration, and who are also willing to consider the possibility of change.
I enjoy working with clients who openly discuss their struggles and frustrations, who accept collaboration, and who are also willing to consider the possibility of change.
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Shannon Pociecha
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Yorkville, IL 60560
Each client has their own unique story and my job is to adjust to what the client needs utilizing an integrated approach of evidenced based practices. I gravitate toward strength based treatment. For younger clients this tends to include a behavioral plan and parent coaching to transfer skills across environments. Individual therapy, for all ages, may include: behavior modification, social skills training, CBT or DBT pending the individuals level of cognitive functioning and identified goals. The idea is to build upon already existing strengths and promote adaptive behaviors to improve overall functioning.
Each client has their own unique story and my job is to adjust to what the client needs utilizing an integrated approach of evidenced based practices. I gravitate toward strength based treatment. For younger clients this tends to include a behavioral plan and parent coaching to transfer skills across environments. Individual therapy, for all ages, may include: behavior modification, social skills training, CBT or DBT pending the individuals level of cognitive functioning and identified goals. The idea is to build upon already existing strengths and promote adaptive behaviors to improve overall functioning.
(815) 406-6057 View (815) 406-6057
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Julia Malone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP). Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP) It is important for me to make you feel welcomed and safe. Life has many challenges whether they are past or present that can feel overwhelming to deal with. I use a direct and client-centered approach with clients, I believe in challenge and working towards change. Each person is unique and deserves to be valued.
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP). Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP) It is important for me to make you feel welcomed and safe. Life has many challenges whether they are past or present that can feel overwhelming to deal with. I use a direct and client-centered approach with clients, I believe in challenge and working towards change. Each person is unique and deserves to be valued.
(331) 207-9338 View (331) 207-9338
Photo of Katie Kemmerling (She Her), Marriage & Family Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Katie Kemmerling (She Her)
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
Psychotherapy is about growth, expansion, and evolution, in addition to healing from painful experiences. Seeking support through psychotherapy as a strength. My aim and purpose as your therapist is to cultivate a collaborative therapeutic alliance meant to empower, foster self-compassion, and promote and motivate change. My enthusiastic and relaxed style encourages clients to address concerns with freedom and non judgement.
Psychotherapy is about growth, expansion, and evolution, in addition to healing from painful experiences. Seeking support through psychotherapy as a strength. My aim and purpose as your therapist is to cultivate a collaborative therapeutic alliance meant to empower, foster self-compassion, and promote and motivate change. My enthusiastic and relaxed style encourages clients to address concerns with freedom and non judgement.
(630) 608-4555 View (630) 608-4555
Photo of Fio Millon, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kendall County, IL
Fio Millon
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
It feels hopeless. It is intimidating. It may even feel insurmountable. It is the pain of life, and it is real. But, what if I told you it is not hopeless? That you hold the key to making things better. Seeking help can feel equally daunting, but it is the first step of breaking through the negative cloud of despair. I meet my clients where they are in their life’s journey and I consider myself a “fellow traveler.” I join them it that journey to help them gain insight, to provide perspective, and to collaborate and determine the best course of treatment to regain the direction of their destination.
It feels hopeless. It is intimidating. It may even feel insurmountable. It is the pain of life, and it is real. But, what if I told you it is not hopeless? That you hold the key to making things better. Seeking help can feel equally daunting, but it is the first step of breaking through the negative cloud of despair. I meet my clients where they are in their life’s journey and I consider myself a “fellow traveler.” I join them it that journey to help them gain insight, to provide perspective, and to collaborate and determine the best course of treatment to regain the direction of their destination.
(630) 474-6828 View (630) 474-6828
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Mary Ann Griffith
Counselor, MAC, LCPC
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
People don't just want to be listened to, they want to know you "get it", so that you can really help them. When an individual feels "gotten" a connection will form and a nonjudgmental environment is created. I believe in individualizing treatment to each client's needs. I help individuals and couples address various types of issues like symptoms of anxiety, depression, and relational conflict I specialize in Mood disorders, PTSD and Family and Marital conflict.
People don't just want to be listened to, they want to know you "get it", so that you can really help them. When an individual feels "gotten" a connection will form and a nonjudgmental environment is created. I believe in individualizing treatment to each client's needs. I help individuals and couples address various types of issues like symptoms of anxiety, depression, and relational conflict I specialize in Mood disorders, PTSD and Family and Marital conflict.
(331) 207-3033 View (331) 207-3033
Photo of Althea Olson, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Althea Olson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
You are the focus! With over 30 years of experience as a seasoned clinician, I recognize the uniqueness of each person who walks through my door. As the client, you guide the pace of treatment, and together as a team, we identify the steps to enhance your quality of life. Whether you seek short-term sessions or a more extended journey, I'm here to help you create the life you desire and navigate challenges, be it a life transition, a relationship issue, or a lifelong wound. Let's work together on this journey.
You are the focus! With over 30 years of experience as a seasoned clinician, I recognize the uniqueness of each person who walks through my door. As the client, you guide the pace of treatment, and together as a team, we identify the steps to enhance your quality of life. Whether you seek short-term sessions or a more extended journey, I'm here to help you create the life you desire and navigate challenges, be it a life transition, a relationship issue, or a lifelong wound. Let's work together on this journey.
(815) 661-2951 View (815) 661-2951
Photo of Mike Wasilewski, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Mike Wasilewski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
Embracing a therapeutic philosophy centered on collaboration, I strive to foster an atmosphere of acceptance, compassion, and kindness. Drawing on nearly three decades of diverse experience in social work/mental health care, law enforcement, and psychotherapy, I approach complex issues with a curious and creative touch to examine old patterns of thought and behavior to find straightforward solutions clients can readily incorporate into their lives. I recognize the vital importance of helping clients cultivate a positive perspective, embracing work/life balance, trauma recovery, and maintenance of healthy relationships.
Embracing a therapeutic philosophy centered on collaboration, I strive to foster an atmosphere of acceptance, compassion, and kindness. Drawing on nearly three decades of diverse experience in social work/mental health care, law enforcement, and psychotherapy, I approach complex issues with a curious and creative touch to examine old patterns of thought and behavior to find straightforward solutions clients can readily incorporate into their lives. I recognize the vital importance of helping clients cultivate a positive perspective, embracing work/life balance, trauma recovery, and maintenance of healthy relationships.
(630) 473-3508 View (630) 473-3508
Photo of Leslie Pruyn, LCPC, Counselor in Kendall County, IL
Leslie Pruyn, LCPC
Counselor, MA, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Oswego, IL 60543
Do you have chronic stress that makes you feel like your life isn't as enjoyable as it could be? Are there unpleasant life events that still affect you, even after years of trying to resolve your feelings? Don't give up! You can learn effective skills that will allow you to move back to balance from any stress level. I am here to listen, understand and work with you to identify and address your concerns. I will support you in your efforts to create the fulfilling, joyful life you deserve!
Do you have chronic stress that makes you feel like your life isn't as enjoyable as it could be? Are there unpleasant life events that still affect you, even after years of trying to resolve your feelings? Don't give up! You can learn effective skills that will allow you to move back to balance from any stress level. I am here to listen, understand and work with you to identify and address your concerns. I will support you in your efforts to create the fulfilling, joyful life you deserve!
(630) 812-0046 View (630) 812-0046
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Philip A Kirk
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
Are your feelings of sadness and anxiety preventing you from enjoying life? Are you struggling with relationship difficulties or life transitions? Do you feel stuck? Do you desire closeness and greater intimacy with your partner/spouse? Do you want to improve your communications? You are not alone. Seeking therapy is the 1st step toward achieving a more satisfying life and/or relief from suffering. The decision to seek therapy can be difficult but helpful when we are overwhelmed by life experiences and unhappy with relationships in our lives. Treatment is confidential. My office is located in a private, safe & comfortable setting.
Are your feelings of sadness and anxiety preventing you from enjoying life? Are you struggling with relationship difficulties or life transitions? Do you feel stuck? Do you desire closeness and greater intimacy with your partner/spouse? Do you want to improve your communications? You are not alone. Seeking therapy is the 1st step toward achieving a more satisfying life and/or relief from suffering. The decision to seek therapy can be difficult but helpful when we are overwhelmed by life experiences and unhappy with relationships in our lives. Treatment is confidential. My office is located in a private, safe & comfortable setting.
(815) 261-1617 View (815) 261-1617
Photo of Debbie Levinson, M.S. L.M.F.T., Marriage & Family Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Debbie Levinson, M.S. L.M.F.T.
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543  (Online Only)
Hello. I am Debbie Levinson and I am 100% telehealth. "We have communication issues", " "I don't know whether I should stay?" "Can our relationship survive after an affair?" There is so much invested: children, family, mutual friends, religion, culture, and finances. I hear the fear, anxiety and worry in these questions. This is your life, and you are coming for answers, guidance and hope. I do not take this lightly. I sincerely want to help give you the skills and education to improve your struggle. I will work along you to bring health to your relationship(s). You want to feel safe, heard and respected.
Hello. I am Debbie Levinson and I am 100% telehealth. "We have communication issues", " "I don't know whether I should stay?" "Can our relationship survive after an affair?" There is so much invested: children, family, mutual friends, religion, culture, and finances. I hear the fear, anxiety and worry in these questions. This is your life, and you are coming for answers, guidance and hope. I do not take this lightly. I sincerely want to help give you the skills and education to improve your struggle. I will work along you to bring health to your relationship(s). You want to feel safe, heard and respected.
(630) 796-4647 View (630) 796-4647
Photo of Heather Stanley, Counselor in Kendall County, IL
Heather Stanley
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oswego, IL 60543
Are you simply tired of feeling undervalued, unseen, unheard or uncomfortable? Are you struggling to find ways to build confidence and get unstuck? Maybe there is no one to honestly confide in about how you truly feel, because outwardly, you are a high-achiever and put together? You feel torn about spending time working on yourself, but you’ll do anything for others, even if it puts you out? It’s time to learn how this cycle began so we can rewire the anxious brain and create healthier and more fulfilling ways to live life! You will learn boundaries and how to set them to make yourself a priority, maybe for the first time ever!
Are you simply tired of feeling undervalued, unseen, unheard or uncomfortable? Are you struggling to find ways to build confidence and get unstuck? Maybe there is no one to honestly confide in about how you truly feel, because outwardly, you are a high-achiever and put together? You feel torn about spending time working on yourself, but you’ll do anything for others, even if it puts you out? It’s time to learn how this cycle began so we can rewire the anxious brain and create healthier and more fulfilling ways to live life! You will learn boundaries and how to set them to make yourself a priority, maybe for the first time ever!
(779) 209-1911 View (779) 209-1911
Photo of Jaclyn Harwey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kendall County, IL
Jaclyn Harwey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montgomery, IL 60538
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker in both Illinois and Florida (telehealth only). I obtained my Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Aurora University in 2006 and my Masters Degree in Clinical Social Work from Aurora University in 2010. I have been working in the field since 2006 in various settings including community mental health centers, residential/group homes, homeless shelters, and hospitals. I specializes in depression, anxiety, mood disorders, relationship issues, parenting difficulties, crisis intervention, and LGBT issues. I work with clients across the life span in both outpatient and inpatient settings.
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker in both Illinois and Florida (telehealth only). I obtained my Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Aurora University in 2006 and my Masters Degree in Clinical Social Work from Aurora University in 2010. I have been working in the field since 2006 in various settings including community mental health centers, residential/group homes, homeless shelters, and hospitals. I specializes in depression, anxiety, mood disorders, relationship issues, parenting difficulties, crisis intervention, and LGBT issues. I work with clients across the life span in both outpatient and inpatient settings.
(630) 523-9348 View (630) 523-9348

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Divorce Therapists

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.